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Open Question: 12 year old, and 18 year old..? and more...

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Open Question: 12 year old, and 18 year old..? and more...

Open Question: 12 year old, and 18 year old..?

My friend, whom is 12, told me she thought this guy was cute. He's 18. She didn't want to date him or anything, she just thought he was cute. She talked to him on Myspace and Facebook, sometimes texting. He would sometimes say innapropriate things to her, but she kinda ignored it. Last night he gave her a ride home from church (they go to the same one) and he pulled on the side of her rode and touched her and a few other things. She says they were close to having sex until her grandpa walked outside and they stopped... I'm really concerned about this. My friend doesnt want me to tell but I feel like I should I know everybody on here is going to say to tell..i know thats probably the right thing but my friend doesnt want me to even bring it up. I dont wanna get either of them in trouble I just want him to stop, because I know this will turn into her getting pregnant if it continues. How do I tell her to not talk to him? They are kinda like friends now so I know she wont stop chatting with the guy. And I dont wanna ask the guy to stop either because i dont want him trying anything on ME next... I have no clue what to do, i never thought I'd have this problem at the age of 12. Help, please..

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Open Question: I am so lost. Love my boyfriend.. falling in love with my best friend?

Oh, and my best friend is dating Collin's best friend, who is also my best friend.. si that makes things awkward when we have problems... So, i'm going to make this as short and sweet as possible. Me and Brandon, my best friend, used to like each other last year, but we never dated. We had a 'thing' for about three months, but I kept pushing him away. A trait I hate about myself, but can't help. Anyways, all summer we kept in touch, still into each other. Now this year, we both finally got over each other and I'm glad to say we're still extremely close. I started dating Collin, and we're great together. I do love him, but a lot of the time it feels more friendly. We've only been dating for a month though, and I care about him so much. I don't ever want to hurt him. But with Brandon, we've been helping each other through emotional crisises, and it's made me realize how much he truly cares for me. I'm not sure, but I think I'm falling in lvoe with him, which is NOT okay. He's told me before that he'll always love me, but he doesn't want to make things weird between us. He's been taking a liking to one of my friends and it kills me, especially since it's the one thing I can't talk about with him .. Sorry for the length. But does anyone have any advice? This is tearing me apart. I can't hurt Collin. I can't. But I don't know how I can get over Brandon without losing him as a friend..

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Open Question: How do scientist and engineers retrieve information?

There are millions and millions of literature in science, mathematics, and engineering that could be used to solve problem. However, in college, these students only learn about some of the concepts, and nobody could learn them all. But what if the information was necessary? How would you find and use information, especially the more up to date information?

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Open Question: Should I date this guy? I need some help with the decision.?

I am a seperated mother of two. I was at work the other day when this guy came up to me and started talking to me, as we talked I found out htat he was 18 and still in high school. I found him very attractive until i found out that he was still a student, still found him attractive but very hesitant... I explained my situation and told him about my children, he is fine with all that. The problem is should i feel ok talking to someone that is 18? I did end up giving him my number and we have talked several times on the telephone since then. He says that he wants me to be his "girl" wants me in his life. I am not sure that this is a good move since the man that i seperated from was 10 years my senior. I am going to be 10 years this guys senior if we do go through with this reltationship. What do i do? How do i approach this and is this morally right. I am ok with it in myself, i am just worried what others would say and yes, the high school thing does bother me quiet a bit, he still has another year left. He thinks that i see him as a boy and not a man. How would you act and come on people tell me what you would do when presented with this situation

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Open Question: TWO BOYS!?! need advice!?

well there are these two boys i TALK TO (not ready for a relationship yet, just dating) i like both of them a lot, and i can't choose who, it got to the point where i was actually writing pro's and con's about both of them, didn't work. guy #1 (james)- he is very sweet, and my friends that go to school with him say hes so sweet, and different and treated girls good, and its good to hear that from a girls point of view, when most boys are pigs. but anyways, i have been talking to him for about two and a half months, now. we have grown pretty close to each other. but then i found out that he was talking to another girl too, even though he had no obligation to me, he was talking to me like he did. he lied about it, but it got to the point where he was caught, and he had to explain to both of us. we actully stopped talking for a few days, and he started talking to me just like he did before. i told him i would give him time to decide what he wanted to do, still didn't. but i have feelings for him, and i can see us being together one day. i really like him. guy #2 (will)- me and will go to the same school, which makes it much easier to see him and talk to him, we have study hall together, and as soon as i walked in, i noticed he was starting at me. and always looking at me, i immediately knew he liked me or something, im pretty good at picking that up. i didn't really like him much at first but then i really started to. my friend had knew i liked him, and i sorta wanted her to hint it to him, we had talked on myspace for about two weeks, then he asked me for my number. we talked for a long time, the same way me and the other guy talk, like talk talk.will is extremely nice to me, and has never been mean. he says the cutest things, and every time his name pops up on my phone, i immediately smile. i really like will, and he said he likes me too. but with him, the problem, is, he wants everything to be secret like, he cant do anything in public, and his conversations are always sex related. but still, i like both of these guys very much. btw, their both sixteen, i am fifteen, i don't date any younger than me, and i like to date a year or two older. can anyone help me out, and most are gonna say go for the nicer one! but has anyone ever been in a situation, where, even though the risk is high, you still want him, and your willing to take it? i just dont know who to stop talking to, cause i have to. please help! boys too! btw. please just dont say guy #1 or guy #2 explain why, because you not explaining it doesnt help me make my decision.

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Open Question: What is ur secret in getting a high SAT scores? I want serious answers?

I am studying SAT from Kaplan and Barron's.... I have like 3 books SAT preparation and sometimes I dont trust them but I read everything. The problem is that 5 Dec. is the last date for taking SAT that will be considered by universities which means that I wont be able to take it and apply this year and I never ever took SAT before what can I do to improve myself more, because I really want to get 2400 out of 2400 ha I want that so so bad, but at the same time I feel like I am fighting for a lots battle I want to know this secret ingredient that make someone get a very high score guaranteed

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Open Question: Help Needed Fast!!!!!?

kay, so about 2 months ago now, this guy in my class told me he liked me and I liked him too. We met up that night and kissed and talked a bit. He wanted to go furthur but I made it clear I did not do that on a first date. However, the problem was that he had liked this other girl in the year below for some time and so I told him he had a desicion to make as he was not stringing me along while he decided who he wanted. He decided he wanted her and about a week later they were going out. We agreed to remain friends and I told him that I was really happy that he told me truthfully his feelings and that he did not string me along. They have now broken up and although we said we would remain friends we haven't properly spoken since. At school we smile at each other when we pass, but nothing else. I am still interested in him. Should I talk to him? Do you think he was just stringing me along while he made up his mind? He did seem really sweet. His exact words were I am really sorry but I just love ------ too much. We are both 15 btw. My question is basically what should I do? Should I start talking to him again? Should I forget about him?

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Open Question: how to secretly date?

My boyfriends parents absolutely hate me. The only reason they have is because they don't like me being his first girlfriend. I'm a good student, good morals, and i'm definitely not a perve. What's the problem??. His mom is psycho and if she finds out we're dating he'll get in a ton of trouble. He is totally fine with it because he likes me, but I don't want to get him in trouble over this. We can't act like we're dating in school because it will get around really fast and his sister is in band with us. It's so hard not to act like I love him in public, but at the same time I don't want to lose him. Are there any suggestions on how to date publicly without being called a couple? We've lasted this long, but I still worry about us getting caught.

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Open Question: online dating - what do you think?

i'm 22 1/2 years old, single, and i take my Christian faith seriously. i'm not trying to be conceited, but i have never had any trouble getting girls. i live 1.5ish hours away from 2 huge networking areas (DC area and Richmond, i'm in Stafford, which is in the middle of both). the problem is though, i don't want to drive to these areas bc they're so far away. i would like to meet a nice Christian girl, and was thinking of checking out online dating..but i feel so weird doing it! since graduating i haven't been meeting as many girls my age (as expected), and would like to start dating..what do you think about online dating at 22, considering my current situation? again, i'm not trying to be conceited, i'm just trying to state the details that will help you to best answer this question. thank you!

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Open Question: Ladies, If You Want Your Husbands To Stop Cheating, Why Not Consult His Girlfriend/s?

I know, I know ... most of women believe the girlfriend or the mistress to be the problem to why their husbands cheat. But instead of hating the woman he chose to cheat on you with - why not get pointers from her on how you can keep your man in your own bed and out of hers. The two married men I date talk to me (from time to time) regarding their wives intelligence, appearance and how they keep their households. Ladies in order to keep your husbands (or win them back) ask yourselves: am I intelligent enough for my husband? Does my appearance display to him that I am still the beautiful woman he married? Is our household in tact or do I allow him to come home to a filthy home? I encourage you to consult his mistress or girlfriend. She may be able to help you with such things.

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