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Open Question: Am I being very very shallow? and more...

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Open Question: Am I being very very shallow? and more...

Open Question: Am I being very very shallow?

I met a guy that Im really into he sings for a living in casinos and is workin on his record deal in cali, He doesnt have much money but gets paid for the entertainment he does, we like each other but it seems that he is really use to girls doing whatever he wants, he even said hes not use to women saying no to him, I am especially interested because hes has a relationship with God and the bible and understands my spiritual beliefs and what Im doing spiritually, the problem is as a women i like to be wined and dined but he doesnt seem to have the money right now to do that for me, and its all im use to when i date someone, so this is a different type of relationship for me because im gettin all of the opposite of what im use to and nothing but the teachings of the bible and him being a gentleman towards me from him, when we do go out it just seems like i'm always coming out of money when im with him, something im not use to...am i being shallow for debating whether i wanna date him or not help please!

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Open Question: okay got relationship problems somebody help please?

okay well me and my ex girlfriend broke up september 5th (anniversary day) and she has dated to guys and all ended in failure i love her and still do well she called me wednesday all of a sudden wanting to hangout so i got to hangout with her for to hours and talk we parked in a alley way haha i know but we didn't do anything but kiss but ill get to that later. okay so she told me out of all her exes i was the best kisser and i treated her the best and so we kissed for like a hour and a half and she told me she wanted to date two more guys and then she would ask me back out cause she dosn't want to get with me and because she likes two guys might cheat. so i just told her okay but i'm very impatient haha so is there a way that i can like persuade her to hurry up i guess or should i wait. And i want you guys to state your opinion.

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Open Question: Does my ex still have feelings for me?

My ex and I have been broken up for about 3 months now. We got into a huge argument the week he broke up with me but then we started being friends a few days later. Ever since then we have been friends and we haven't had any issues. So, I moved on and dated his friend. Before we started going out, I asked my ex if he had a problem with it and he said "No, It's fine" and smiled. Then after me and his friend broke up, he acted as if he didn't care. And now I like his so-called cousin and he got really mad at me. And just a few days ago he got mad at me for going out with his friend and liking his cousin. I talked to all my friends about it and they are all convinced he still likes me and yesterday he asked me to go to the movies but I refused. Does he still like me or is it a misunderstanding. I still kind of like him but I never make it obvious.

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Open Question: What do you think? What do I make of all this?

My husband has this long term female friendship. She is a church person who claims being 'saved' by jesus. I never bothered with it since I hardly heard about/from her. I asked him why he would not talk about her like the rest of his males friends. He told me he avoided mentioning her because of past problems with her and his ex-GFs. They had a past in which he wanted to date her but she refused. When her BF broke up with her she wanted to reconsider, but he was the one who refused this time, thinking she was using him. She seemed to be the one looking for him with the excuse of needing her computer fixed or similar shenenigans, however he always responds. We were never introduced while I was introduced to all his friends and family. Some years back he was hurt because she did not want to be his friend anymore. He told me she said they were not the same and he was not religious enough for her and blah blah blah. I thought, a friend is a friend, and considering the years they' ve been friends the religious factor should not matter. Later, not long afterwards I found out he missed work to go to her aunt's funeral after she rejected him. I asked him why would he do such a thing AFTER being kicked in the *** and he stated she was always there for him so he still consider her a friend. We were finally introduced because I showed up at one of his other friend's BD party. She acted really weird, looking at him like he owed her something. I could see she was shocked and surprised I was even there. Recently, he tells me he was going to have dinner with her and ask me , btw, if I wanted to come along. I said no. He returns from the dinner saying it was great they have a lot of revelations and answered questions and so on. I didnt get it what they had to talk about that is so pressing and I asked him what was the big deal. He got irritated and so did I. I asked him if she had a BF, he said no, or if she was getting married and he said she is about to. By further asking questions her 'fiancee' is a married dude. I asked him: How is she about to get married? Then he denied saying it. We had a discussion about it a day later, he tells me she is his beloved friend and he wants her in his life. Next, he tells me she was coming over to bring her computer to our house. I was cordial and led them

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Open Question: girl problems please help?

i really love a girl from my church. she doesn't go to my school so i only see her about once a week. she has been dating a guy for 6 months but we are best friends. i plan to tell her once they brake up because i'm sure she is the perfect girl for me. can anyone help me to give her clues and maybe open her eyes to me too? i need to know how to get her to notice that i want to be more than just best friends. i dont want to flirt too much to make it weird so any suggestions on flirting too? like, what to do or say? we text and myspace all the time. i don't want to make it weird and flirt too much with her

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Open Question: i cant get him off my mind help !?

i value your excellent advice please help theres a new guy been at my job a week-he was with me for 3 days working and ive come out of a bad relationship 7 months ago but ive been coming home and havent been able to get this guy off my mind when we were together we spoke so comfortably etc. im off for a week and we've spoke but hes been distant-hes telling me how everyone likes him -which is great although a few close friends who have worked with him say hes cocky. heres the problems he split with his wife august after 10 years and hes already casually dating a girl within a day of her giving him her number. im trying to keep out of it all because im not an idiot but cant get him off my mind-what shall i do ?

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Open Question: How can i update my pc graphics or video hardware?

ok so i don't really know if this is the problem but downloaded Left 4 dead 2 on my pc through steam. Right before i launched it a msg came up saying my video hardware or graphics thingy is out of date. so when i play the game the gameplay isn't fast how it should be it is always lagging. PLease help i am tired of playing slow games.

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Open Question: Friend problem need advice?

My dating this gurl for 3 months at first it was cool but now he barley see her talk to her or nothing she talk to all her ex's but don't want him talking to his he don't so he thinking about dumping her so wat can i do to help him with his gf

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Open Question: I need some advice... Can someone please help me out?

On Thanksgiving night this year, I started a relationship with a guy I really like. He feels the same way, and we are both extremely happy. The problem is, my friend. My friend and I have been extremely close for the past 8 or so years. She knows everything about me, and I know everything about her. They guy in question happened to go with her to homecoming. They, however, went as friends. And she never dated him, nothing ever happened, and she doesn't even like him. It has been a while since that happened, and she is just friends with him. I know him, but I go to a different school then the two of them. After we started going out however, she has gotten upset. She isn't upset at me though- she is glad we are happy! But she is refusing to speak to him, and when she does she is rather rude. He feels bad that our relationship could hurt her, but when I told her I can break up with him if she wants, I will. Even though I really like him, I can't let her get hurt. She won't let me! Anytime I hang out with her, she says something along the lines of "Why aren't you talking to your boyfriend". Or some other cheap shot. At the moment she isn't in a relationship, but she has been in one a few times. (Note that during these times I was not dating anyone, and she was) What should I do? I really like him, and he really likes me. But she is just having a hissy fit. :( (Tell me if you need more details, I just don't know what else I should add on here)

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Open Question: Oh blah, what in the world should I do?

I told this guy that I'm really good friends with that I love him as a friend, and maybe a little more than that. And it turns out that he feels the same way about me. Only one problem. He's 18 and I'm 14. He said that he wants us to wait four years before we start dating, when I'm 18. But I'm worried that in four yeas it will be too weird for us to date, because we will be such great friends. I really like him. What should I do?

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Open Question: I need advice. Ive got boy problems!?

School just started in August, And I'm a freshman in High school. Ive known this kid named Alec, whose a junior at the same High school i go to, and have kinda been friends with him since I was in 7th grade because he used to date my friend Katie whose currently a Sophomore. Anyways, Alec and I have been talking lately. We've hung out once and he kissed me. I told Alec that i didn't want a relationship right now and I was just indecisive about "us." I don't want a relationship right now because I'm a freshman in high school and I don't want a committed relationship. I'm always nervous because Alec is a Junior and wants a serious relationship and I'm just not good with commitment because it honestly scares me. Long story short, I told Alec I still wanted to be friends with him. He always gets mad at me though, because he thinks I lead him on which i honestly don't try to. Sometimes I like Alec a lot, and sometimes I don't like him and I just want to be friends with him. and that's it. He's perfect though, everything about him. My best friend even tells me that he's perfect for me. But little things like my nervousness, commitment, and sometimes liking him and sometimes not like him are holding me back.. What should i do?

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Open Question: Im 17 he is 27, what shall I do?

I'm a 17 year old guy (just turned), and I really really love this guy only problem is he is 27!!! Okay here is the story. Basically I'm bisexual and i've never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, Iv had crushes here n there but never dated anyone. So then I was hanging around with my mates one day and I meet this guy at this event he starts talking to me etc quite an interetsing guy but I wasn't really attracted to him. Later on my when we leave my mate tells me that guy liked me and he gave that guy my number. I was like 'oh no' - but didn't really mind. So later on he rings me and talks about general stuff. Next day we meet at the same event again, we keeping meeting at this event for about a week and random phone calls here n there. Then one day I remeber I was thinking about him all day and was looking forward to meeting him, I realised I was really attracted to him now. We meet again at the event and I realise how much I like him, when we left my friend so to me you couldn't stop smiling when u were with him u change so much when ur around him u really light up. Next time we meet at the cinema with this guy and his mates, then we got alone for a couple of mins (I deliberately weny back with him to his car, then i kissed him - he pushed me away) He said that he really liked me and said anyguy who been soooo lucky to be with me but because of the age gap he can't. Then later on in the week he rings me and asks me if i am upset I said I am and he said meet up so we did and then we talked I felt sooo much better so I tried kisiing him again, he pushed me off again, i was upset then he said okay one kiss so we kissed for quite long, I really enjoyed it (my first kiss). But he said that this was it and he is going to delete me of his phone and we can' talk because it isn't right. He has dleted me but I still have his number, I feel so depressed without him, shall I ring him? dont know what to do? I know this is wrong, but I like him sooooo much. and I am so sexually attracted to him, feel like losing my viriginity to him he turns me on a lot too. Would this be illegal cause even if we did have sex I wouldn't tell noone. WHAT SHALL I DO?

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