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Open Question: Am I wrong because I refuse to date a single woman with a child? and more... Open Question: Am I wrong because I refuse to date a single woman with a child?I once dated a woman with a child but I became the baby sitter to her son (and he is very spoiled BTW) just so she could go out and shop, surf the net, talk to friends, etc. while I'm at home to watch a two year old who hits, screams, cries (you name it, he did it). This went on for a year. If you're wondering why I dated her, she didn't tell me she had a kid until 3 months later but we were very emotionally attached at that point. After that, it went into a nose dive (I'm talking full engine speed straight vertical). Now when I talk to a single woman and she discloses the fact she has a child, I tell her I'm not interested. It hurts them I know, but I'm not out to hurt anyone, I just want to be honest so both of us don't waste our time. My question is, do I have some sort of problem because I won't date women with children? Please no bashing. This is an honest question and I'm looking for honest answers, not insults. Open Question: more of a vent spree but if u have advice i LOVE to take it.?so i think i love one of my close guy friends. The problem tho is i dont know wich way i love him. i dont know if its as more than a friend or just as a friend. ive never felt this kind of love before. i mean majority of the time i like him as more than a friend but there are a few times were were we are talking just as friends and i like it that way. But ive never met anyone more perfect for me in my life and i know that probly sounds rediculause for me to say when im barely 17. I know tho that i am a lot more mature mentaly than most people my age or in my grade Im just confused on how i want him in my life. I like everything about him for exactly as he is now. yet i cant picture us kissing..... i know theoreticly were in the same league but i feel as if i would be the luckiest person on the planet if i had him.... and that he is so much better than myself. I guess idk sometimes i do want him as a boyfriend.... maybe a lot of the time but im afraid he doesnt like me tha same way or something. we had a thing over the summer but some things got screwed up because of our friends trying to rush us into something........ and were close friends [or somewhat there] so i cant read his signals as to what i mean to him. and i dont get to see him as much because we go to diff schools[ hes 2 school years ahead and going to collage next yar but only one year in age dif.] i kno more time together i would fall for him. i just dont know what to do and i feel like nows not the right time to say something to him. however he wants a gfand i afraid he will ffind one and i wont be able to be his first kiss. but im in no state to date. im extramemly depressed[due to several reasons] and i have literaly no self esteam or confidence and i feel so ugly. i feel as if i would never be enough for him and that i wouldnt look good enough for him or he would get bored with me and want to move on. i dont have any close friends i can talk about this too. i have no friends at my school i feel like a complete loser.... my grades are slipping......... im losing interest in everything and i want to [ick myself up but ive lost all motivation...... i dont know what to do. i want help but im so lost and confused........ does anyone have any adice.???? or anything theyde like to share with me. Open Question: I need major advice on a guy situation. Please help?okay this might be lengthy but i need major advice and the last question i put up didnt get any answers. Anyways, I met this guy through a friend at a party. To make a long story short, we ended up hooking up that night (please no mean comments). The next day we talked and hung out again, and now two months later we're still together. But theres a couple small problems. 1) We are exclusive to each other (we're not hooking up with anyone else and are loyal to each other) but he doesn't want to be boyfriend girlfriend yet. He says hes not ready for a relationship but that he does care about me and just needs time. Is there something he's hiding from me? and 2) he used to be engaged and his fiance left him for another man. This took place probably only 3 weeks before me and him met. I know he is still in love with her and i'm trying to help him get over her but its obviously taking time. Do you think its possible for us to be in a healthy relationship ever? Should I just give us time or is there no use in waiting. Any help is extremely appreciated. PS....we act like we're boyfriend girlfriend and he says we're together just not 100% yet. But if you saw us you would think we're boyfriend girlfriend. we go out on dates, hangout, talk daily, have met each others families, etc.... Open Question: I am stressed out over a guy and really need some advice!!!!?Okay! So I will try to keep this really short but I would really like some good advice on what I should do! Alrighty!So....It all started at a party! I was talking to my friends and then this guy who I liked came over and asked me to our school dance! I was confused at first because he already had a date but he told me that he talked to her and told her he did not want to go with her anymore because he wanted to go with me! So we texted every day and we talked at parties and stuff until the dance. He asked me before the dance if I was serious about us and I told him that I was but I really did not want to get together until after the dance just because I wanted to get to know him more and I am really conscious about who I date and he knew that and he was cool with it! Then the dance came, we went, and we had a great time! We talked for a month after and he never asked me out! I do not know if I should have told him I was ready to date?? He also told me he did not want to push me into anything to early. So then one night about 1 month after the dance we were talking and he told me he really liked me but he did not want to push me into anything. I was like okay and I like you too, and we just talked for a while and I thought everything was cool and he would ask me out soon! But then the very next night he text me and he was like we need to talk about something. I thought it was just something he wanted to talk about because we talked about our problems all the time with each other. But out of no where he was like I think we would be better off as friends. I was really disappointed but I was okay with it because obviously that is what he wanted and I wanted what was best for him. And by the way I never felt the way about anyone like I felt for him. So I have been stressing out but I told everyone I was okay with it because I did not want him to feel guilty when I really am upset. We are still friends but things are kinda weird when he is around. What do you think I need to do?? Just any advice will work!! Please help me out!!! Open Question: My sudden lost in interest of boys.. im confused, help!?Okay so i've had my fair share in boyfriends. Now, heres the thing. I would like them for a long time BEFORE, but recently now that m a little older, im not as boycrazy.Now, whenever i have a boyfriend we either break up or i just stop liking them after two weeks. and i HATE how im like this. Its so annoying because i've had a crush on this boy for like almost a year. But i think if we start dating, i'll lose interest in like, a week. Then i'll think "maybe i just dont like boys" but then again, i've been in a love before with a guy. Whats the problem? Nope, in stil a virgin and i plan on it until marriage. Open Question: I think I'm being emotionally abused. Please help!?Okay. I'm confused. I started dating this guy, let's call him Brian, about 2 years ago. I'm not sure if I'm in a controlling relationship or not, and I need help. Brian can be very nice and loving at times. However, I've noticed that my self esteem seems to be getting chipped away at since I've been dating him. So, here are some specific things that he has said to me. He and I are both musicians, and one time in the car, he said to me that I'm not a real musician like he is, I'm simply a music student. Mind you, I've attended top music colleges and I've sang with community groups. He's said, "I know you're not very scholarly" although I graduated from college *** laude with 4 honors tassels. He's complained about my make-up, he's complained about my shoes, and he's complained about the people I chose to be friends with and even called one of my best friends "white trash." He's very arrogant and always thinks that he is so smart and more talented than other people. Every time, however, that I call him on his comments or object to what he says, he turns it around on me somehow. Here's an example of how he behaves: at Thanksgiving, we went to his cousin's house. After dinner, Brian, Brian's cousin, and myself, all sat down on the couch. Brian wanted to watch a comedy. I took the remote and put on "The Wedding Singer." Two minutes later, Brian said to me, "What kind of wanna-be art piece of low-grade garbage is this?" I said, Brain, it's "The Wedding Singer with Adam Sandler, and I thought you liked Adam Sandler." He responded that he thought I put on some bad sit-com. When I asked Brian why he had to be so arrogant in the first place, he said, "See, here we go. More problems. You're always causing problems. I don't take back what I said. Now, you're the one being critical about me and what I say." Anyway, that's just a small example of one little thing that happened with Brian, but I thought it was a good example because it shows how every little thing gets turned around on me. My friends tell me that he plays mind-controlling games and that my self-confidence seems to get progressively worse the more I stay with him. Every time I bring this stuff up with Brian, he says that I'm the one with the problems and that I suffer from low self-esteem. I don't know. I feel like I'm going nuts. Then, he'll turn around and tell me how much he loves me and how I'm so lucky to have him because he's so honest and loving. Every time I try to break up with him, we end up back together because I feel like I need him somehow. Am I being nit-picky? Am I the one at fault here? Please tell me what you think. Oh, and another reason I'm confused is that when I googled "signs of abusive relationships," "signs of controlling relationships," etc., he didn't seem to satisfy a lot of the classic descriptions and indicators. Also, he actually doesn't lie (ever) and doesn't hit me or anything like that. Open Question: Need transportation for my date?Background: ok. My girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 6 months. I cannot drive. For a while for our dates, we've been meeting at places. And we've sometimes gone to dinner, and walked to the movie theater nearby. Worked out great. We're 16 years old. Question: I want to give her my great Christmas gift at a fancy restaurant. Money is no issue but I want to spend more time than just one and a half to two hours together. Problem is we have no transportation to go anywhere else :/ What do we do??? taxi? (dont say bus, please) we live in new Orleans so no subway. please help Real Answers Only Thanks Open Question: Why Is My Body Like This?Hello there! I have a few problems and questions about my body, and I am hoping that you guys can give me some advice. I am 15 in March, but I was born 3 months earlier than my due date. Because of this, I have lots of really obvious veins in most places around my body, e.g arms. They are really blue/green, and it's really embarassing because people notice, and I feel like a freak. This isn't to gain pity, I am just wondering whether there is a way I can make the veins less prominent! I would be fine with them if I wasn't so paranoid about how delicate and fragile they make me look. Another thing is, I never put on any weight. I always presume this to be fast metabolism, but I have recently found out that even though I eat a lot and appear to not be gaining any weight, that my arteries are gaining the fat? This worries me, and recently I have lost quite a bit of weight. I am not the type of girl who worries about how much I weigh, I actually like it when I put on weight. Do you guys have any advice about this? One last thing, okay guys. I have quite a petite figure, and am quite slim, until you look at my butt/thighs/legs. Whenever I exercise, these areas do not get toned or get any smaller - they just stay the same! I have recently realised that I really do have large legs and a butt, and it's quite embarassing. I am SO sorry to sound like just another complaining teenager, but hard as it is to believe, I am not. My body has quite a few flaws in addition to those listed, and I am currently trying to accept them and get on with life. I was just hoping that perhaps you guys could give me some advice. Many thanks, all answers appreciated! Shelby x Open Question: When will we hang out again?I have been dating a guy for a few weeks and we get along well, we've gone on road trips, we've talked, kissed, i've stayed the night, etc. Anyways, the last time I saw him was Tuesday (its Sunday) and I havent talked to him either except when I wrote on his fbook wall (which doesnt count, plus, he didnt reply). I know its been busy with Thanksgiving and all, and now he's got a paper to work on today.. but I think he's interested because we've tenatively planned future dates. The only problem is that he's totally the opposite of clingy, meaning he doesnt ever really talk to me except when we're hanging out. He's just that type of guy. ANy tips for me? do i have to wait for him to invite me to hang out before I can invite him, seeing as I've been initiating most of the events? Open Question: A problem has been detected and windows has been shut down to prevent damage to your computer...?A blue screen keeps popping up on my laptop saying: A problem has been detected and windows has been shut down to prevent damage to your computer. DRIVER_IRQL_NOT_LESS_OR_EQUAL If this is the first time you've seen this stop error screen, restart your computer. If this screen appears again, follow these steps: Check to make sure any new hardware or software is properly installed. If this is a new installation, ask your hardware or software manufacturer for any windows updates you might need. If problems continue, disable or remove any newly installed hardware of software. Disable BIOS memory options such as caching or shadowing. If you need to use safe mode to remove or disable components, restart your computer, press F8 to select advanced startup options, and then select safe mode. Technical Information STOP: 0X000000D1 (0X00000004, 0X00000002, 0X00000000, 0XF7C77332) NETR 33X.SYS - address F7C77332 base at F7C67000, Date stamp 3fa09ee9 ____________________________- I have NO IDEA what this is but it has popped up SEVERAL times and I don't have the money to get my computer checked out right now. Anyone have any ideas what this is? or how I can FIX whatever it is? By the way, I am computor illerate so please go easy on me when trying to explain lol. Open Question: would it be okay for a 17 yr old and a 20 yr old to date if he is in the army?one if my bestfirends is 17 and she is talking to a 20 yr old guy that is in the army. they live in texas. would it be okay if they dated? im kinda worried they might get in trouble. but i was also thinking that if they dont have sex that there shouldnt be a problem. thanks! Open Question: Is he interested still?I have been dating a guy for a few weeks and we get along well, we've gone on road trips, we've talked, kissed, i've stayed the night, etc. Anyways, the last time I saw him was Tuesday (its Sunday) and I havent talked to him either except when I wrote on his fbook wall (which doesnt count, plus, he didnt reply). I know its been busy with Thanksgiving and all, and now he's got a paper to work on today.. but I think he's interested because we've tenatively planned future dates. The only problem is that he's totally the opposite of clingy, meaning he doesnt ever really talk to me except when we're hanging out. He's just that type of guy. ANy tips for me? do i have to wait for him to invite me to hang out before I can invite him, seeing as I've been initiating most of the events? More Recent Articles
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