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Open Question: Dating after divorce, Can you help me figure out my problem? and more... Open Question: Dating after divorce, Can you help me figure out my problem?i have been divorced for 3 years. my now ex husband up and left when i was 7 months pregnant, so i have a 3 year old and some serious trust issues. i recently just started dating and i have only been seeing this guy for a week and a half and he he calls 3 times a day and wants to see me a lot but it is just to fast. he is treating this like a full blown relationship so i am kinda freaking out. some days i want to spend time with him other days i want to shut him off completely and run for the hills. He has told me he wants to get married and have kids and honestly i dont want that, not now anyway. He is a good catch but to me he comes of as needy. That is how my ex was. so everyday i change my mind about the situation. I am stressed and sometimes sick from it and i can not get my thoughts straight as the right thing to do. what is my problem? am i terrified? do i just not need a man? or what should i do. i dont mind being alone but i dont want to throw away a potentially good match. Open Question: which boy should i pick????????have a problem, I like my best friend and my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months and my best friend told me he liked me a while back. He didn't know we were dating at that time, so it wasn't like he was trying to ruin our relationship. We had another talk and we both confessed we really like each other. But he needs his space and he can't be my best friend because he says it hurts too much to always think about me with another guy. I don't know which guy to choose they're both really different? My boyfriend I only knew a little bit before we started dating. He comes off as a bit of a jerk to others but in a way I find that attractive. He is the jealous type and a bit clingy but I know he cares so much for me. He buys me a lot of things but sometimes he verbally abuses me and calls me names but then he makes up for it. I know he's a sweet person inside. We've been through a lot of **** together but we always manage to pull through. My girl friends love him because he can be a charmer. All my guy friends hate him though because he can be a big jerk, but he makes me feel special because he's sweet to me. My best friend I have known for two years and he understands me better than anyone else possibly could. He's been there for me in every situation and spontaneously does things to brighten my day. I have always had a huge crush on him. He's the sweet and quirky kind. He's a nerd at heart but everyone loves him because he's cool at the same time. He genuinely cares about people and I can talk to him about everything. He's always been there even when I'm a complete ***** to him. I think I just feel that my best friend deserves better than me, and my boyfriend and I have been through a lot of stuff together. Open Question: Should I just give up on him/move on or keep trying?Okay so there's this guy, i'm 16 he's 18. We used to chill in groups alot, and i started to develop a crush on him. He got my number from my friend. Neither him nor i are much "texters" so we don't text that much. During the summer, we went on a "date" to the drive-in together, but i don't even think of it as a date really, because we're friends and nothing happened (no kiss). We would also go to starbucks just to chill. A few weeks after that, we partied together and crashed on the same bed. We made out a bit but that's it. A few weeks after that, my parents were gone and i threw a party at my house, invited him, got drunk and we ended up sleeping in the same bed and making out again, but i told him to stop because i didn't want anything more to happen (he's really experienced and i didn't want it to lead to sex because im still a virgin). When i see him at school its jokes, and he's always saying how we should hang out. He's just really unreliable, he ditches alot and just doesn't call me back all the time. It gets me soo angry. But then sometimes he's SUCH a sweetheart, and i can't get enough of him. I've been thinking about him alot, just reminising through the old times and i miss him. I feel like i want him more than i've ever wanted anyone. The only problem is whenever i make plans, it feels like he's always ditching, especially recently. It hurts alot, and i don't even feel like trying anymore cause i feel rejected and it sucks. But i miss him sooo much what do i do? without seeming desperate.. oh and before we hooked up the first time apparently he was talking to my friend and was asking her how to impress a girl.. and she asked him who and apparently it sounded like me. She told him to sing me a song, and the next day he did.. but both times we hooked up we were both drunk and i had to stop it because i didnt want it to get out of control. so he might have felt rejected a little i guess.. Open Question: goodnesss gracious help me.?ok, um TOTAL TEENAGE DRAMA HERRRE! iv just gone 13, and i think i may be pregenet. thats great, but the problem is i dont know who the father is. there is three possible fathers. my ex lover (whom i dated for three days) or my current lover (who i got with two days ago) orr this guy i thought was hot at my annual family barbuque.. we did it in the flower bed behind the garage.. help! Open Question: Which boy should I choose???????have a problem, I like my best friend and my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months and my best friend told me he liked me a while back. He didn't know we were dating at that time, so it wasn't like he was trying to ruin our relationship. We had another talk and we both confessed we really like each other. But he needs his space and he can't be my best friend because he says it hurts too much to always think about me with another guy. I don't know which guy to choose they're both really different? My boyfriend I only knew a little bit before we started dating. He is a bit of a jerk but in a way I find that attractive. He is the jealous type and a bit clingy but I know he cares so much for me. He buys me a lot of things but sometimes he verbally abuses me and calls me names but then he makes up for it. I know he's a sweet person inside. We've been through a lot of **** together but we always manage to pull through. All my guy friends hate him though because he can be a big jerk, but he makes me feel special because he's sweet to me. My best friend I have known for two years and he understands me better than anyone else possibly could. He's been there for me in every situation and spontaneously does things to brighten my day. I have always had a huge crush on him. He's the sweet and quirky kind. He's a nerd at heart but everyone loves him because he's cool at the same time. He genuinely cares about people and I can talk to him about everything. He's always been there even when I'm a complete ***** to him. I think I just feel that my best friend deserves better than me, and my boyfriend and I have been through a lot of stuff together. Open Question: Ladies Married/Divorced I need an honest Opinion??? HELP PLEASE!!!?I have been separated for about a month. I have been dating (going out with friends) My wife left me I did not want this. I have not messed around with any women, I intend to respect my marriage to the very end. I still Love my wife very much, we have talked since the Separation I have brought up Counseling but she refuses? Here is my question Is me dating friends Bad? Should I move on? Since I was the one that attended Marriage Counseling, couples retreat all that can be done to save a marriage? I did all of this by myself, she never went with me. She was to proud to admit she had a problem or to embarrassed? Now I am a 26 yr old Entrepreneur own my own business all that good stuff. I always Gave my wife the attention She deserved. My marriage was my priorty. She had it all with me. Security, Love, & family. Now she Lives with her BF. I was never Unfaithful! still not! I know why she left. But Isnt that what women want? WTF! Please help Open Question: Which boy should I choose? I'm split into pieces over this?I have a problem, I like my best friend and my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months and my best friend told me he liked me a while back. He didn't know we were dating at that time, so it wasn't like he was trying to ruin our relationship. We had another talk and we both confessed we really like each other. But he needs his space and he can't be my best friend because he says it hurts too much to always think about me with another guy. I don't know which guy to choose they're both really different? My boyfriend I only knew a little bit before we started dating. He is a bit of a jerk but in a way I find that attractive. He is the jealous type and a bit clingy but I know he cares so much for me. He buys me a lot of things but sometimes he verbally abuses me and calls me names but then he makes up for it. I know he's a sweet person inside. We've been through a lot of shit together but we always manage to pull through. All my guy friends hate him though because he can be a big jerk, but he makes me feel special because he's sweet to me. My best friend I have known for two years and he understands me better than anyone else possibly could. He's been there for me in every situation and spontaneously does things to brighten my day. I have always had a huge crush on him. He's the sweet and quirky kind. He's a nerd at heart but everyone loves him because he's cool at the same time. He genuinely cares about people and I can talk to him about everything. He's always been there even when I'm a complete bitch to him. I think I just feel that my best friend deserves better than me, and my boyfriend and I have been through a lot of stuff together. Open Question: please help, im having problems with my boyfriend. dont skip me :(?today was my boyfriends birthday. he wanted to hangout with his girlfriend and all his friends, so i find out his one friend wants to bring his own girlfriend along, (no one has ever met her) my cousin use to date the guy and one day we looked at his new girlfriends pics, she is prettier than me and has huge boobs! so i didnt want her around my boyfriend because i thought that he would be attrated to her so she end up coming anyway, when i get to my boyfriends house she is sitting on his couch so i go up in his room and freak out so we start arguing i slap him he hits me back and he yells at me saying "if you say some **** ill hit you with my belt" so i said "**** you dont touch me" he hit me like 5 times in my legs and butt with the belt. ive never felt so much pain in my life. i start crying he is screaming at me saying **** you stop fake crying it didnt hurt you little ***** suck it up. so i stop crying and we leave to go out. we get on the train he says oh who will i sit with today? oh yeah the little pig (talking about me) so i got mad and satby myself. he trys to talk to me and i ignore him. he went to sit with his frineds i look over at him he is staring at his friends girl so i freak out and he curses me out and twist my wrist. we get off the train i sit and dont wanna go anywhere he walks up and finally gets me. i push him away because im so upset. i start to leave and my sisters come with me, i go to get my **** from him and he is talking to his friends girl and i freak out and about to kill him he runs from me screaming someone help get this crazy ***** i dont know her! ahh! so im super pissed than he leaves me.. for his friends even though his friend(a guy) tried fighting me and my bf said to him oh dude you can hit her i wont hurt you she deserves it i start crying and walk away he leaves with all his friends laughing and pointing at me. i broke up with him now he wont speak to me. how can i make this better? i have tust issues and jealousy issues for reasons i wont say and he knows that. what can i do to get him back? i ruined his birthday and our relationship. someone help please i feel like im dying and i cant stop crying or cutting myself. T_T if i leave he will kill me, his friend that was going to fight me said he is going to kill me. and my boyfriend always tells me if i leave he will get ravenge. so if i leave either him and his friend will kill me. if i stay he wont kill me and im hoping he wont let his guy friend hurt me. Open Question: How do you not get hurt when you are friends with the girl you're trying to get over?Her and I could rarely see eachother because of complicated reasons, and we've been doing this for 8 months. There were real feelings involved, and because of school and no time to see or talk to eachother, time separates people especially when she could talk to her ex and another guy who liked her. Anyways I know what she and I had sounded like a joke because we didnt see eachother often, but I've hung out with her 3 times. We usesd to be the last people we'd talk to before we sleep, and we'd spend hours on the phone till the battery died. Nothing really went wrong where I should remove her from my life, and it would be a waste if I did so we stayed friends. Her and I dont want to lose eachother at all, because nothing wrong happened things were just complicated. The problem is, is that as I remain her friend and we talk about our lives, I get jealous like any guy who loves a girl would. But I just suck it up and continue to support her. I didnt have a nice thanksgiving because I miss her alot, and cuz her ex's parents would invite her to all these expensive dinners, and shit. I'd see her tell him to get out of her life, and then several weeks later he's back in. There's really nothing I can do. Is it still healthy to remain her best friend? I've been on a few dates since we made it official that her and I would be friends, but I just dont like any of the girls i've dated since. I know what I want and I want the girl I got to know for 8 months! It's so sad because I cant even say I love her because we havent been physically together longer than we have through communication means. I guess I do love her. What should I do? This is killing me. Am I supposed to just deal with it and torture myself as i watch her go to her chistmas ball and her prom with someone other than me? Oh yeah i'm a freshman in college and she's a junior in highschool. Open Question: Question about Socom U.S. Navy SEALs FireTeam Bravo 2.?Hello, I play the game Socom ftb2 for the psp. I play online, and recently got banned...probably by a hacker. So, I was banned for a day. I am NOT a hacker, so I can't unban myself. My problem is, that I waited a day, then tried to go back online. When it said the user aggrement thingy, i accepted. After, It said that you are hereby banned from socom online until . Thats all it said. no date, no time, NOTHING!! it said "banned from socom online until ." Could you tell me how to get unbanned? It makes no sense...thank u Open Question: Are these the top ten signs you're a Fundamentalist Christian?10 - You vigorously deny the existence of thousands of gods claimed by other religions, but feel outraged when someone denies the existence of yours. 9 - You feel insulted and "dehumanized" when scientists say that people evolved from other life forms, but you have no problem with the Biblical claim that we were created from dirt. 8 - You laugh at polytheists, but you have no problem believing in a Triune God. 7 - Your face turns purple when you hear of the "atrocities" attributed to Allah, but you don't even flinch when hearing about how God/Jehovah slaughtered all the babies of Egypt in "Exodus" and ordered the elimination of entire ethnic groups in "Joshua" including women, children, and trees! 6 - You laugh at Hindu beliefs that deify humans, and Greek claims about gods sleeping with women, but you have no problem believing that the Holy Spirit impregnated Mary, who then gave birth to a man-god who got killed, came back to life and then ascended into the sky. 5 - You are willing to spend your life looking for little loopholes in the scientifically established age of Earth (few billion years), but you find nothing wrong with believing dates recorded by Bronze Age tribesmen sitting in their tents and guessing that Earth is a few generations old. 4 - You believe that the entire population of this planet with the exception of those who share your beliefs -- though excluding those in all rival sects - will spend Eternity in an infinite Hell of Suffering. And yet consider your religion the most "tolerant" and "loving." 3 - While modern science, history, geology, biology, and physics have failed to convince you otherwise, some idiot rolling around on the floor speaking in "tongues" may be all the evidence you need to "prove" Christianity. 2 - You define 0.01% as a "high success rate" when it comes to answered prayers. You consider that to be evidence that prayer works. And you think that the remaining 99.99% FAILURE was simply the will of God. 1 - You actually know a lot less than many atheists and agnostics do about the Bible, Christianity, and church history - but still call yourself a Christian. Open Question: My boyfriend still talks to his ex girlfriends parents..?He was with her 2 or 3 years like 6 years ago and he tells me they had a lot of problems and thats why they broke up. Me and him starting dating in June and he was still hanging out with her. She would be over the house, she would cook for him and bring him food, they would be on the phone right in front of me and always texting. In the beginning i didn't mind it too much because we just started dating but after a while it started really bothering me, i found "sexy" pictures of her on his computer as well. he has a 2 year old daughter and she would go over and play with her. but it would be him, the ex, and the daughter all the time. He is not with his daughters mom anymore. The ex is not the mom. He took his daughter to a kids amusement park one time and he told me he was taking her and like a month later i was looking at his pictures from that day and i asked him who took all the pictures and he said the ex did and he never told me until i asked. now my main question is about this: he stopped talking to the ex in like august, even thought she asked him to come to dinner with her and her mom on his birthday in september. he didn't go, and he doesn't talk to her anymore, but he has her parents and her sisters phone number in his phone, and he still talks to them. i have no idea if they meet up, im afraid to ask because i really am not okay with this. but i definately know that they talk on the phone and i'm sure that the ex comes up in their conversation, and im also sure that he hasn't told them he has a new girlfriend or anything. i need advice because he thinks im overreacting, but this is how i feel. Open Question: Pretty Ladies..Can you date a guy and not be attracted to him physically?This guy is so nice to me he is all I expect in a guy emotional etc.. he even respects I have a daughter. But the problem is I am not attracted to him. What to do? More Recent Articles |
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