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Open Question: Forbidden love problems? and more... Open Question: Forbidden love problems?Asked earlier but not many responses. Im 18 and in college and an honor srudent. Over the summer i started dating one of my managers at work, who is 23. We started out sneaking around cause we didnt know if we wanted anything serious, plus the age thing. They met him at the end of July but didnt know I had spent the night at his house. My college weekends I spent at his house and we visted home because my parents are only 35 min away, he lives 15 away from my school. They found out and flipped and kicked me out. They came around eventually but still didnt like him. We had a great time and i truly love him, but my parents dont like him, etc. Also, he didnt finish college. He said he was strating in the spring at my school, but now its pushed back to next fall. I just feel like he will never go back and that will be his whole life. I broke up with him over the weekend cause my family gave him another chance and he didnt make things right with them. I love him and loved being with him but deep down i knew it wouldnt work out. By the time in 23 i better have a great job. Am i right for breaking up with him? It really hurts right now but im pretty sure it was the right thing right? Also, it is wrong to still be physical together right? He said that i can use him as a booty call whenver but then said he was joking cause i got upsset. I dont think I could do it and not still be attached. Open Question: help me in choosing a guy?my boyfriend and i have been together for about 6 months and we've had no problems. but my best friend ( a guy) recently told me that he's in love with me. this pissed me off so much cuz i liked him before i started dating my boyfriend. i dont think i have as strong feelings for him anymore but im trying to remember if i loved him then more than i love my boyfriend now. thing is, im 17 and im a senior this year. my boyfriend is 19 and in college and so is the other guy, who's 21. neither one is around much but the 21 year old says that when he graduates next year, if i start dating him, he'll follow me wherever i go to school. im not exactly sure what my next move should be. Open Question: Why is he affectionately/sexually needy?He wants to kiss all the time and very slowly, he wants to keep grabbing my ass and tits in public or private.... Im utterly bored with the constant exaggeration of him being all over me. He gets more and more about it and I spend less and less time with him because of it. Yet he complains that he wants lots of Spontaneity and yet Spontaneity is whats borinng me. For once i just want to be simple but he wants to act like a porn star of sorts. What can I do to get him off my case? And dont say its because he is totally into me, because come on.. its been 10 years.. I think he has a serious sexual problem. I use to have a good sexual energy but his exaggerations is truly killing my want for sexual appeal. What can we do about it and how can i talk to him without him getting all bent out of shape about it? Category Family & Relationships > Singles & Dating Open Question: I don't want a new relationship, I want my ex...like I can't visualise myself in a new one?Because my ex was my first relationship and it went for quite a while then that's really the only relationship I've got to go off. I can see myself dating other people and I've had a couple of guys since my ex and I broke up 3 months ago but I want to wait for a new relationship until I'm sure I'm ready (may be a while). The problem is, while I can see myself dating and all that, I can't imagine being in something long term with somebody else because 1) I can't imagine them putting up with me and my quirks 2) I can't imagine having better in-jokes and cute phrases with somebody else So I really can't see it, and it makes me depressed. I'm sure most people put up with quirks and people are more tolerant than I give them credit for, and I know all relationships have their cute phrases and honestly I invented most of them so it'll probably happen again...but that's my logical mind and the rest of me just wants to sit down and cry and cry for my ex back. BTW I am NOT going to get back with him so don't suggest that. I've only spoken to him once in the last month via email and I'm trying to keep up no contact. It's definitely over. Open Question: My parents are always taking my pay check money.. help?I just got a job and I got my first 2 pay checks.. 89 dollars was the first and the 2nd was $181. I got this job for my own money instead of constantly asking my parents for 10 dollars to go here and their. They take my money because I need to save it and I get $35 of it. This isn't even most of the problem, it's whenever I spend my money on something they question me on what I spent it on. They say "maybe if you took a girl out on a date and spent money on things like that rather than food we'd give you more of your money." and the half of my life that they don't know about is using that money just to see my bf. Yes I'm gay, but they don't need to know that. He's 40 minutes away in PA and I'm in NJ and it's tough for me to go their, he has to constantly come down here. I need my money to get gas so my parents don't question why the gas is down, also for the toll bridge, also for his christmas gift coming up. They don't know I'm gay, but it would help so much if I can get my money that I earned.. any suggestions? Open Question: What on God's green earth does age have to do with relationships?i asked before but no answers. Ok first of all when i was only 15, i was talking to this guy named ''James'' but he was 20. But nothing at all happend between us we just talked on the phone and that was it. My brother was 17 at the time and the other one was 20 so both of them and my mother had a problem and was saying he was too old for me but i think it's because of his age. Because i'm a virgin and very inexperienced with guys and they were being so mean saying things like '' He's too d*** old for you, and he knows what he's doing he just trying to get in your jeans''. But age has nothing to do with who you should or should not be dating but only the personality that matters and the way he carries his self. Open Question: Boy problems,please help!!!!!!?Okay so there's this guy at my school who i really like,and we have been flirting and everything for a while. From one of my friends I found out that he had a girlfriend. On that same day i refused to talk to him because i thought it was so shady,that he had a girlfriend this whole time while we were flirting and making it known that we like each other. I then told his best friend why i was mad at him,and his best friend ended up telling him. After his friend told him,he came up to me and told me he really liked me and hes sorry and that hes having second thoughts about his girlfriend and that he might break up with her so we can maybe date,but their still together and i get so annoyed and mad when i see them together. He doesnt even make an effort to talk to me when he's around his girlfriend ,but when were alone he tries to kiss me and all this stuff.I almost feel like the sidechick,basically the thing he uses to occupy him when his girlfriend isnt around What should i do in a situation like this,should i talk to him about it? and if so what should i say. What do you guys thing about the situation itself? I also know im wrong for flirting with a guy that has a girlfriend Open Question: Me and my girlfriend got into our first fight since like 3 month. !?okay first of all i want to start off with im seventeen and ive been dating my girlfriend of sixteen for about one and a half months, but were sort of going out now for about two years. its really confusing but well what was im some what of an artist and im not going to say im bad because i think i have some talent. She asked me to draw a picture of her and the first one didnt turn out so well and we both thought it didnt look like her, so i tried again. this time i didnt draw the face on either because im not so good at drawing faces so i just left them out. this time both of them turned out pretty good and she loved the first one but then on the second one, i put her in a angle that i didnt draw so well so it turned out on the paper that she didnt look like it. i tried my best but i couldnt get it so i just left it the way it was. she didnt like it and asked me if thats the way i think of her. i told her no not at all because in the paper she said she looked really fat, which in actual life she isnt fat at all and i just drew it wrong. so what she did was starting a day or two after she saw the picture she started a diet and started to go down to the weight room. i told her she looked perfect and there was no reason for her to work out and diet. she disagreed. okay when i told her that it hurt me that she did that because i tried my best and she didnt accept that, she said that my picture had nothing to with the diet and the excercise, now she has always thought she was fat but now only recently has she actually started to act on the way she looks. she got mad at me that i thought it was because of the paper and she said that she started to do it because she wanted to. i said okay well i have no problem with you working out but just work out for the right reasons. we had a public fight and i thought she was really rude about it. now my question is how can i fix this because i dont want us to end. and did she actual start working out because of the mistake on the paper. please any info or help on this. please sorry so long by the way; Open Question: Transfer to be closer to boyfriend or stay the whole year?my boyfriend and i have been dating for four years. This year I left for college because I felt thats what I needed to do. Now, as the semester is coming to an end, I have the choice to leave the school and transfer to one closer to home and the one he attends or to stay the whole year and then possibly transfer. I have no idea what to do. I tired to make a pros and cons but i couldn't do it. I know all of you are going to throw the whole "don't leave school for a guy blah blah blah" and maybe you're right, but i can still get the same education at this school. The only problem is, is that I'll have to live with my parents. I really, really don't know what to do. I love him. But I don't want to screw myself over.. Im not going to drop out or anything. I am 100 percent sure I'll get a degree so don't say anything about be being an idiot for dropping out or something. Please help I don't know what to do. Open Question: What Skateboard size should i buy?im trying to buy a skateboard, because i have this 5 year old skateboard, im pretty sure is out of date knowing element makes helium decks that are light, and i was wondering what size should i get, i wear a size 9.5(U.S. DC shoes) and i street skate, can anyone help me out? price isn't a problem. Please and Thank you :) Open Question: this situation is trickyyy and i need an answer!! :D?so i like my next door neighbor, we usually text a lot and hang out sometimes. actually im pretty much totally completely whipped over him. This weekend i hung out with him and his guy friends and my girl friends and he held me and held my hand and told me i was cute, and over texting its like were dating... But the only problem is he likes this WHORE who's always smashed and she leads him on like crazy. His friends all know about me, i guess he's told them, but when he gets absorbed in getting her to date him, he stops talking to me... But it seems like he likes me? Im so confused. I want him to like me....and i usually text him so i dont wanna text him for a while and see if he talks to me. what do i dooo? Thanks in advance<3 Open Question: GUYS: plz help i have problems lol?ok so thiers this guy and i dated him but we broke up. he found a new girl and now i think he still likes me like 1 minute hes touching me playing "tag" (immature i kno) and saying that i looked nice or something then the next minute he is ending a convo cause he is with his girlfriend Open Question: advice and tips for my child custody problem?Need big time help and tips for gaining sole custody of my daughter? (BE NICE OR DONT ANSWER PLEASE) ----- i know i made a mistake i don't need to hear it from others... I left my ex 8 months ago... i was visiting my sisters and was going to be gone for two weeks i came home on the arranged day and there was a couple with a baby living at my home ( have never met either of them nor herd of them ever) i also found drugs in my baby's room( the couple was staying there) and in me and my ex's room he had allowed them to smoke it the house which was a no no and they had trashed it i moved out that day( said he wasn't going to stop using them). ( we had dated 4 years we have a 19 month old daughter together). I left him in may and my family went on a vacation we picked a place where his grandfather lives so he could vacation with us vist with his daughter ( he had seen her a few times before vacation) and maybe work on getting back together......he had called every night to talk to both of us untill vacation was done.. he has not been to see her since and calls sporadically days / weeks apart to talk. Now his plan is to bring his family to vist in Februaryy? his brother is a child molester has been convicted for it his mother has just had her youngest child taken from her two months ago for drug charges and just got out of jail. his other brother had drugs / violent abuse records..... BAD FAMILY... I know .... anyways he wants me to let him take her to a motel for a night sharing a room with these people (I DONT THINK SO) .. we were never married his name is on the birth certificate though .. he isnt the person i thought he was i thought he wasnt like his family I WAS WRONG i dont want him to have unsupervised vists ever i would perferr for him to just leave us alone I DO NOT WANT CHILD SUPPORT FROM HIM i dont know what to do..........I know that he can take her if he can get her .... i am calling legal aid monday to find out more but is there anything you can think of that i can or should do to help my cause i would appreciatee it....personal experiences would be great if you have had them or know people that have please help......... he also dosnt call often and has even moved to another town and is calling from a friends phone and has not gave me adress will this help me any? this is not about me being selfish at all ....... it is about what is best for my daughter ( sorry it is so long thought it was pretty relevantt info. Additional Details and still uses drugs he skiped out of the town we were living in oweing like 1000+ in rent and like 700 in Bills.......... and he hasnt asked if she has needed anything or offered any help at all and when he calls it is more on a whim than anything his calls are also days or weeks between..... More Recent Articles
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