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Open Question: A girl's safety could be at risk? and more...

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Open Question: A girl's safety could be at risk? and more...

Open Question: A girl's safety could be at risk?

So I've been a dating girl who lives next door in my apartment complex for 2 months now. When we first met, it was obvious she liked me a lot. Although I knew she liked more than I liked her, I thought she was interesting so I gave her chance and we started dating. it wasn't before long that she started to say things that really started freaking me out. Such as: "I've never been with a guy as great as you." (When we've been apart for 2 days) "God, I miss you so much, you have no idea." "You're the greatest thing that ever happened to me. I was so depressed until I met you." The other day she woke up bawling, and she said it was because she dreamed I broke up with her. I feel like she's way too attached to me now, and I didn't want this to happen. I don't want anything serious and she loves me way more than I love her. She's a nice girl and everything and I still find her intriguing (which has kept me along so far), I just don't want anything really serious right now. My biggest problem is, if I break up with her, I don't know what she'll do. She was so sad when I met her, and she's been so happy lately. She's had bouts of depression in her life, and I don't want to completely break her heart. If she did something like commit suicide, I would be so devastated. Please help me, I feel like I'm in a hole I can't get out of right now.

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Open Question: How to help my boyfriend with his insecurities?

Ive been dating my boyfriend for about 5-6 months now and he's really showing off his insecurities. He has a problem with being clingy right now and by that i mean ill stay a week with him and then come home and he calls me like 7-10 and when i talk to him...he's always like i miss you so much. I really like him...i just need my space sometimes like every other human. I mean sometimes i just need a moment or a few hours to just center and clear my thoughts. How do i help him so that i can have my space and not feel guilty about it?

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Open Question: Should I let her do her own thing ...or be a "baby" ..or ruin the surprise?!?!?!?

So my gf & i have been dating for almost 2 yrs now. Her bday is coming up next week. All of our mutual friends are meeting up for drinks on thursday night( her actual bday). friday is another mutual freinds bday also ...so thats where we'll be. so i recieve a text from her today saying "any other plans for my bday weekend besides thursday & friday?" I reply "nope" thats it. My intention was/is to surprise her on saturday w some her & i time alone. do something real romantic for us. so she texts me back saying "well ive decided to leave to santa barbra for the weekend." im thinking ...what the? I reply "really ...ok" (keep in mind that this just happened & its 3am here ...so she fell asleep while we were texting) i have not recieved a reply. Also the reason why i am not invited to this trip is because her family doesnt like me. So thats out of the question She will call me tomarrow morning ...like usual. SO MANY QUESTIONS IN MY HEAD LIKE... So now, is it ok for me to feel a little disconsidered cuz shes taking off w out me on her bday weekend? I have no problem w her going to SB w her cousins ...really i dont? But i also dont wanna ruin the surprise i have for her by telling her to stay, & my reasons... Am i being selfish by wanting her to stay? Will she think that i dont want her to go ..if i bring any of this up? if i tell her how i feel ..shes one to feel obligated to stay ...not cuz she wants but cuz she has to? i dont want that. i truely just want her to have fun.

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Open Question: Problems with my twin...?

Well my live is like some soap... I have a brother,we are twins.We are same visually,but we are so different. He is rebel,heartbreaker,and i am just a good guy. He have very beutyful girlfriend,i was always in love with her.But my brother want more action,like a dating with other girls.One month and half ago he pleased me to take his place,so actually he's girlfriend is mine,and she doesn't know that.She is really in love with me,i mean with him,but now she says that i'm verry changed,and she love my new style,and she said that she love me more than ever...Now,my brother want to take his place,so now i'm alone again...I'm very sad...I love her,but i don't want to have a problems with my brother...What should i do?

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Open Question: my boyfrand is moving...?

in january...we have been dating for 2 months and i feel were really right for each other..but the distance is the only problem...i mean its not that far butits far enough.. and i am supost to be movie out of state in march..what would u think the best thing to do is? he said he wants to stay together but it would be very hard..whats the best thing to do?

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