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Open Question: Good looking guy can't get Women? and more...

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Open Question: Good looking guy can't get Women? and more...

Open Question: Good looking guy can't get Women?

I'm single and told I'm very good looking. Some examples the lady who cuts my hair tells me I look like Robert Downey and I'm very GQ looking. I have heard from several other people I look like Robert Downey. My ex girlfriend when we were together told me I'm to good looking for her and she feels uncomfortable when other women see us and think " wow this guy could do so much better" another Woman I dated before this told me I could get any Woman I wanted..Guys at my job ask me why a great looking guy like myself is single. I'm not rich, I have a middle of the road paying job, I work good hours 8am-4pm with every weekend off benefits, insurance everyone likes me there. I'm 35 years old and look like I'm 26 years old, people don't believe I'm 35.. I'm 5ft10, I have a good body, really nice dark hair styled nice, I'm told my eyes are dreamy, have nice lips.. I'm single obviously, no kids, I have a really big heart, honest, faithful, original nobody else is like me, I have always felt I was different, I'm deep and I daydream alot. And I know for a fact I'm very funny I have always been a funny guy.... Ok my confidence is lacking... I had a hard life was overweight got messed with picked on growing up.. Now I'm looking good...Of course I still don't have confidence do you blame me? Ok my problem is I'm looking for women on myspace I have done this in the past here and there.. it's getting harder, I have wrote over 250 girls in past month and they talk for a little bit seem interested and they just stop talking to me..I even had some tell me I'm hot, I haven't did anything for me them to stop talking me.. It's like im living in a dream here, I know I'm good enough I just can't figure out what I'm doing wrong.. And of course I can get the women I don't want if I try.. Some could say I'm to picky, I don't think so my looks are good enough for about anybody and some of the girls are attractive that I go for but my looks are up to par with most of them and better than alot of them. I see the same girls ex boyfriend on there profile page and think his pic isn't anything special...????? It's not all about looks I actually think the person inside of me is more attractive than whats on the outside of me or at least equal. One Women told me I'm beautiful on the inside as well as outside (and no im not dating her, she is only a friend) but why should I settle for someone I'm not attracted to when I'm good looking and a great person on the inside? What am I doing wrong???? please some help would be fantastic.....

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Open Question: Sticky relationship problem. read other emails and dunno what to do now with what I read....?

I have been dating my girlfriend for 6 months. I was in love with her for years before and it was obvious to everyone etc. Anyways, another friend of mine (a girl) gave me her facebook password to show me something I couldnt see otherwise, but I have used it to go into her account since. I read her inbox messages and found a recent one talking to another friend who was a girl how my girlfriend is a rich, spoiled B**** and how she has banned me from hanging out with them and how she is so fake and how I deserve so much better. Question is: Do I tell my girlfriend about this? She hates privacy intrusions and would find it extremely weird I went into this girls facebook, but keeping it from her, only to tell her later could be bad as well. Also, if I tell her, I wouldnt be able to hang out with these girlfs as friends again. I mean, I cant be overly mad because they are the type of girls that B**** about everyone and that is what they do and it was intent to be private. (I think, unless it was a trap) My girlfriend, for the record, is not really controlling. Its just convenient to hang out with her all the time and I love hanging with just her and she doesn't see her other friends that much either and if anything, Im more controlling, not letting her hang with guys ever.

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Open Question: What should i do for my boyfriend/fiance for christmas?

He's gothish/punkish and we've been dating nine months when christmas comes around. I am not sure what to do for him. He wants gages, but the problem is, I don't have any money. I'm seventeen, and do not have a job... Therefore no money. I want to make it something cute, or sweet because that's how I feel about him. I want to surprise him too. If anyone could help me out, that would be great.

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Open Question: windows 7 audio not working?

I upgraded from windows xp to windows 7 and now I can't get my sound to work. I think its the problem with the driver (might be out of date). Its either the "Conexant 2388x MPEG Encoder (Dual Input)" the "Conexant 23380 Video Capture (Blackbird NTSC Dual-Input)" or the "High Definition Audio Device." Ive tryed to update the drivers in the device manager but it either "encounters a problem" or it as "already up to date." Are there any solutions? I know theres a program (costs around $29) that is called Driver Detective and updates all your drivers. It said I had about 15 drivers out of date. Would using that software to updating the drivers make the sound work, or will it be the same thing as manually doing it in the windows device manager (which I already tryed)?

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Open Question: question about college application?

so last year (senior year of high school) i forgot to apply for universities. this year (first year in community college), i am applying to 4 different schools i am applying as graduating high school senior with college credit because i had all the requirements to get into a university but i just i didnt apply in the college information part of the application, it is asking me the dates i attended college and how many units i completed. the problem is i am still in community college and i haven't completed any units do i put that i attended college from 08/2009 to 06/2010 and completed 0 units or do i put how many units i plan to complete? so

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Open Question: I'm atheist, he's Christian. Opinions/advice?

I asked this question in a different section, and everyone commented on the religious aspect, so I figured I'd ask you folks. He's a Chrisitan, and while he's not a religious fundamentalist, he still consideres religion to be an important life aspect, and attends religious services somewhat regularly. I'm a tolerant atheist, and have no problem with it, but I'm afraid that if/when he finds out I'm an atheist he'll decide I'm not girlfriend material and I'll get hurt yet again. I had a similar situation with a Christian guy last year, so you can understand my caution. What should I do? Are we too different for this to work out? Should I go after this guy? Or do I suppress my feelings for him and make it seem I'm not interested to avoid the hurt that probably coming my way? Also, I've been told I need to date other athiests, people with a similar outlook on life. While I agree, I live in a small college town, with a majority of white middle class christians. I have met maybe 3 atheists since coming to school. Not much choice there. Quick comments: Its not like I plan on marrying this guy. I don't go into every relationship thinking I'm gonna marry them. And I've already said that dating an atheist is basically out of the picture. There are very few. If I plan on only dating atheists, I'm pretty much fucked. I'm an attractive, smart girl. I'm not gonna let that go to waste while I'm young. AH! We are NOT dating yet! We are supposed to hang out this weekend. I am simply asking if I should let him know there is a mutual interest (as in I like him back) and get into this relationship. I am not some crazy hunter preying on innocent Christian boys! Geeze!

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Open Question: Can I sue the wife of a husband whom I have a judgment against?

About a year ago, we bought units and hired someone to install central air for the newly purchased homes. We were to pay half at the start of the job, and the other half upon completion. We have worked with this guy before, as he had done excellent work on our previous home a couple of years ago and were happy with the results. Upon starting the job, we paid the half we agreed upon (for clarification, all of this took place in Los Angeles, CA). He asked us to make the check payable to his wife, as she handles all the finances of his business, to which we happily did. Then he showed up, brought all his tools. He made 3 holes in my ceiling and took off. He abandoned the job site (Even all his tools). We contacted the wife and learned that has fallen into a bit of a drug problem and she herself doesn't seem him for weeks at a time. When asked to return the money, she became a bit hostile and said that the money (that was made out to her by us) was money that he (her husband) owed her and she is not responsible for any of his dealings. (Despite the fact that the note on the check said "For AC installation" which she signed and cashed). She pointed out that her name is not on the original contract we made out, and as a result cannot be held liable for her husbands actions. His wife has quick claimed him off every piece of property they own. We successfully sued him (he never showed up on his court date), but fear that we will never be able to collect as an assets investigator told us that we are pretty much out of luck on this one. Has anyone ever been in this type of situation? How likely is it that she can successfully claim this defense and win the case? As I understood it, aren't the wife and husband seen as one in the eyes of the court? Aren't the dealings of the husband the same as a wife (and vise-versa)? Can she really play this card and walk away with our money? Seems a bit unfair, but I do know that it's a strong possibility. Any thoughts/advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

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Open Question: my brother and his friend got in trouble with the law, because they are codefedent their not allowed to talk?

but the problem is that im dating his friend. my brother name is on my phone contract when i call people his name come up. is it a problem if i still call my boyfriend on my cell. or is the goverment or the cops are going to be checking their calls to see if they talk to each other. they might think that their talking but im actualy the one calling. can i put them in more trouble by calling my boyfriend or should i use another phone?

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Open Question: Should I give my girlfriend a promise ring?

So ive known my girlfriend since 3rd grade,we got back in touch back in march and we are juniors in high school now,we just made us an official couple in Nov. but we have been dating for 9 months. I live in San Jose and she lives in Sacramento,we see once a month,if that,but we talk every minute of every day,we trust and love each other a lot and its been going great for us. I'm crazy about her and i just want to show her how much i care about her.Now christmas is coming up but i'm spending new years with her,and i'm thinking about getting her a promise ring,problem is i don't know if it's too soon. So my questions are: 1)is it too soon? 2)how much are they? 3)how do i figure out her ring size because i don't see her and i have no idea what it could be?

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Open Question: IMPORTANT! dating problem! you must help pronto?

Ok, My friend is totally into this girl, theve bin out and she jsut broke up with him but there was no rel reason behind it. he needs to get her back, they make such a good couple and i still thinks she likes him. NEED TIPS NOW! seriouss. WHAT CAN HE DO TO GET HER BACK?

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Open Question: Can i date this girl?

One of my good friends who I have known for awhile has started taking interest in me. I like her a lot but the problem is shes only 15, a sophomore in high school, while I'm 19 and a freshman in college. I'm pretty sure my parents disapprove of dating that young but I really want too. Plus I don't know what my friends will think. Any advice?

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Open Question: Tube Increaser Problem! Please help.?

Ok. my tube increaser is not working right. I think the problem may be this: when i click "get views" for my video, in the "views" space it says "comments: 17" and in the comments section it says "Favorited: 7 times" and the space for favorites is left blank. I have the up to date proxy list from tubeincreaser.com, and i know how all that works and everything. When i click get views, all it does is sit there at "views completed: 0" and the green bar just goes across slowly. So what is the problem?

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Open Question: How can I tell my Parents(muslim) that i love aboy that is catholic?

I'm a muslim girl and he is Catholic. And we have been dating for 6 years now. And my parents don't know anything about that. I would like to tell them. I can't even think of going with an other guy...I really love him a lot. And I don't wanna lose him. I wish i can be with him and have no problems with my parents. i just need to find a way to tell my mom first but i'm scared. I don't know what will be her reaction. I don't wanna hurt my parents. Please Help!

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