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Open Question: Help .. I think i am going into depression !!? and more... Open Question: Help .. I think i am going into depression !!?I am a 32 year old Indian male living in London UK. I live alone here. Have moved here 2 yrs ago. I am educated and work for a good organisation. I do not have any friends here. All my attempts to make people to like me have failed. I have always given my best to every relationship in life .. being a son, brother or a friend .. never kept anything for myself always cared for others. I never got any attention from from parents or my siblings who always hogged all attention, but i still love them, but them dont seem to. All my friendships have failed, I was always there for my friends .. but there was no one for me. No one ever guided me for anything in my life. Still I tried to create a decent life for myself. I never had any money when i was growing up .. never asked my parents for any allowance ... did not have fancy clothes .. never went on a date .. no girl or woman was ever interested in me. I am not bad looking .. I do not have any communication problems .. I do not have problem with my accent as i can commuicate well with my collegues here in the UK. I thought I would be starting a new life here in UK .. but everything is same as it was back home. People here dont care for me. All my attempts to be social and be a part of teh community have failed. I am alone all the time. It appears that all my efforts of making a life despite my past have been unsucessful. I some times think that even if i am dead no one will be effected. Growing up I always thought postive .. thought that one day i will be accepted in this world .. that was one of the main reasons for leaving home .. but I have lost all hope now .. I dont know what to do !! I know there will be many people making fun of me after reading this .. saying i am loser in life .. but i am looking for the answer .. why am i being treated like this ? are there other like me ? I dont know what else to do !! I am not positive about life any more .. Open Question: what to do with S-I-L problems? i m frustrated now.?i am dating this guy since quite some time now. we are deep into it. everything is hunky dory between us but the problem here is his sister. she will bitch about me to his mum. tho his mum is very nice a person, mothers tend to believe their daughters more. she would want to copy me all the time. she pretends to care a rats ass about me, but i know she keeps a check on me BIGTIME, be it what i talk, what i say, what am i wearing, how am i sitting, even my fb profile. she loves to correct me publicly. would never give up on an argument. she will argue till you have given up. she wants to prove herself right all the time. she will pretend to love me in front of her parents, but ignore me totally in their absence. so this makes her parents feel that she is being very nice to me inspite of my rude behaviour towards her. she will literally cry to her parents if i am rude to her, but in turn she tries hard to put me down publicly.... she would love to go to my favorite places and claim it to be her favorites. this defn cant be coincidence. she is 3 years younger to me and smallest in the family, but she tries to be MIL to me. she will try to pull everyones attention by taking her seat at the center of the table. i know she is very insecured and attention seeking, but my problem is that i m not a patient person. nor can i pretend. i hate her and its evident on my face. plz help on how tolerate her irritating behavior. Open Question: I dont understand this?Lately ive decided i actually want to try and have a relationship with someone, but the problem is ive been more of a "fling" person. I dont know why, so i cant point it out to myself. I always just have "flings" i like someone they like me, it lasts for a couple months and its over, but it was never a real relationship. I broke up with my ex boyfriend because i just got bored....2 weeks into it..... I dont understand why im like this , I do want a relationship but i cant seem to hold one up. My bestfriend is the complete opposit, everytime she likes a guy she manages to date them.. why is thisssss? Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....?I have been dating my current boyfriend for 7 months now. At the beginning of the relationship we had a long conversation on jealousy, and he expressed to me that he's never felt that emotion towards any of his previous girlfriends because he feels that it leads to irrational behaviour and can consequently harm the relationship. I completely agreed with him on that part but he continued to say that he wouldn't even care if his exes slept with other people as long as it made them happy. When he first told me this I thought that it must have just been a way of protecting himself from his previously slutty girlfriends and unhealthy relationships by convincing himself "he didn't care". I thought that as time went by and our realtionship grew stronger, that he might feel differently towards me and maybe show some emotion when it came to feelings of jelousy. But he's repeatedly expressed to me that he doesn't care if i were to see other guys or even if I were to have sexual relations with them because love has nothing to do with lust. I told him that his way of thinking concerend me because I'd certainly have a problem if he were to cheat on me and he assured me that he only wants my happiness and that he'd never do anything to hurt me. I just don't know what to think...I don't find it normal for a person not to care at all about their partner's relations with the opposite sex. I'm not saying for him to be a jealous nutjob but I just feel like his not caring about this kind of stuff is another way of saying that what's between us is not serious. I see it as human nature to be just a bit jealous because of the natural fear of losing someone you really care about...I don't know, is it just me?? What do you think? Open Question: =problem with computer game graphics?hello i currently have a new nvidia gtx295 and a copy of windows 7 ultimate 64 i have updated all of the drivers for the graphics card and windows is up to date so on to the problem when i play any video game on my pc ie assassins creed paradise city racing anything when i look at a particularly white area say the sun for example or a bright reflection anything that is white relay i can see the white turning pink its looks tike the color is tearing or the computer isn't able to display that color now this only happens with white no other color so i am stumped so if you can help me out that would be awesome and much appreciated i have googled this and couldn't find anything and i know that my monitor isn't a factor because i tested it on another computer its a view sonic vx2433 wm Open Question: bisexual with girl problems? :(?well only 3 people know I'm bi, I don't want people finding out because my family would hate me and there's already a rumor that I am which is making people feel uncomfortable around me :( I like a girl, her name is Misty, (she's bi too and I think she's more into girls) and I've been dreaming about her nonstop. We talked on myspace IM once and I came really close to telling her the truth, but I didn't. I'm scared she'll expose me for what I am. She said that if I was bi, she'd date me. She's really cute and nice. Do I just admire her from a distance, or take my shot even if it means I can get found out for who I truly am? Keep in mind that my family will absolutely hate my guts and I will probably have to resort to running away if the truth does come out (long story on why I'd run away, don't ask please). Would it be wrong of me to flirt with her even if I insisted that I was straight.? I really like her. And I have a lot of sexual fantasies about eating her out and making out with her and stuff. We both attened high school. O.o.... so what do i do.. i dont love her yet i only have strong feelings for her and we go to high school so she knows my brother and i dont want rumors..eh hem...the truth..i mean, to get out!!! :( Open Question: I need help on a sex question?Im going to be 18 in Feb. and my boyfriend just turned 16. we started dating when i was 16 and he was 14 so its not like we just got together. his parents like me and my parents like him, so thats not a problem. and when we have sex were safe. So what i was wondering is it illegal to have sex with him after i turn 18? Open Question: my son doesn't get along with my boyfriend?im posting this here cause there are more people my age (20) and may understand this better so a couple days ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years to be with a man i had dated awhile back ago ( i dated him for months while i as visiting family back home in russia) a friend convinced me to break up with my ex due to some abuse i have been through with him. the thing is my son has known my ex ever since he was a baby ( my ex is not the dad) and he is heart broken because he hasn't seen him in days and he isn't accepting of my boyfriend now. i just don't know what to tell him. i donut know how to explain this whole thing to him. some advice would be appreciated i don't mind giving visitation rights to my ex if it will make my son happy and another thing i want to make clear is that this is ONE man. ive dated one man for 3 years the only man my son has ever known to be in my life and now that we are over im dating someone else so id appreciate the people who think my son is going to grow up with commitment problems to please not reply i need advice on what to tell me son thank you in advance my son is 3 and ive dated sasha (the new bf) before. we dated for 6 months about a year ago during some down time between me and my ex. 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