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Open Question: Help with my "relationship"...Please!? and more... Open Question: Help with my "relationship"...Please!?Well...I've been with a girl named Aimee for a little over 2 months. Things were totally fine then about 3 weeks ago or so things started to get weird. When we are together, everything is totally fine but when we are away from each other it's just really weird. I try to text her and I usually get limited responses such as "lol" or "idk" and sometimes none at all. I've been depressed lately because of this since the first time we dated, this is why we broke up. School ended and summer began and she was working 50+ hours a week and had no time to hang out with me or much less talk to me on the phone or text or anything. And when she was actually off work, she wanted to relax at home and do absolutely nothing or go to her sisters house. So we broke up. And it all started with her barely talking to me and I dont want that to happen again. So back to where I was going...I have talked to a couple of my friends about this and they say I should talk to my girlfriend about it. I kinda don't want to because just my luck she will break up with me again and I don't want that to happen. There are times when I feel like I need to talk to her about it since she IS my girlfriend after all, but i'm afraid to call her or text her because I think she won't care enough to listen to me. And i HATE that I feel this way since she is my girlfriend and I should want to go to her for when I'm having problems. So like...does anyone know what I can do? I really don't want things to get messed up between her and I. I've only known her since the beginning of April and it was like love at first sight. I didnt know her before, but we were both in choir and got on the bus on the way to San Antonio, Texas for spring break choir trip. And i sat by her and I instantly was like in love with her after talking to her for a little bit and i still am. So what can I do to help fix this and try and change things? She means the world to me... Thanks if you actually took the time to read that long rant thing... Open Question: I Need Help In My Relationship Please.?I've been dating a guy for 10 months. And I really can't see myself with out him. But he annoys me. So much...and he doesn't kiss me much or touch me...it's like hes scared. or nervous. Idk. and when he comes to my house, its awkward. I think it's because my mom and dad are there and I feel like I can't do anything with him. If ya know what i mean ;) so we don't 'things'. and when I'm at his house, his twin brother and lil sisters are always there. But anyway, I feel like me and him are falling apart in our relationship. Cuz I do kinda have a crush on someone else. But I think I really love my boyfriend. And I'm scared because what if I let him go and he was the one? Should I stay with him and maybe things will get better? Or move on? Because I'm only 14 and maybe when I'm 16 me and him could drive and do things alone?? Because I really thought he was the one. I love him. Don't get me wrong..but he won't do 'things' with me. How do I make it comfortable and not so awkward? I wanna kiss him sometimes...but idk how...I mean I know how to kiss. I just don't know when the right time is and I'm not sure if he wants it.... Please help me with all my little problems. Haha. Open Question: Can you drop charges for domestic abuse if it is the state who made the arrest?I called the police on my husdand recently. Mainly our problem is lack of communication. He just gets so emotionally and verbally abusive that we can't talk. I just wanted them to separate us or the night as they have bofore. I told them I didn't want him arrested. The officer said he noticed one of my cheeks was red so he must have been violent and that it was out of my hands. They made the decision to take him into custody. I want to work on things and do to marriage counseling to try to save our marriage. There is a court date set which I have to appear. Any suggestions on how this may be dropped if we are taking the proper steps to save our marriage through counseling? Open Question: How do I know if this a spam?Im dating a guy who lives in like Nigeria and he wants to meet me. The problem is well he has like no money so i have to get the money of course. We are in a serious relationship and im afraid of getting ripped off. So how do I know if he isnt spamming me? Open Question: doctor..ahh career help?okay so at first i wanted to be a pediatrician but i want to have a family and spend time with them and it's a really sacrificing job! then i wanted to be a dermatologist but same thing as pediatrician! Then am like HEY be a doctor god damn it ! It's not as much years and your going to have little babies popping out of your vajay JAY and it's not as much work as pediatrician and dermatologist! But here is the problem am not the brighest in chemistry or math! Which are the two main subjects required to study any medical carreer! So yes my two best subjects in school are English & American History which am taking AP! ahh this is so counfusing! I wouldn't want to be a lawyer and i reallly like the whole helping out people thing! But idk what other careers are good for me that require my amazing english and history skills haha! Lets just put it this way i have a good memory for dates and such! HELP ANY CAREER IDEAS ADVICE?? Open Question: My Mother-in-Law and I seem to get along well for the most part but then she calls my hubby and disrespects me?My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years now. We have 2 kids and just recently reconciled what looked to be a dead end road (YEAH We worked It OUT!) and since then we have been getting along better than ever. Uniting ourselfs in a deeper level than we've ever had before. Well my mother in law has these spurts when she doesn't agree with my parenting and she doesn't agree with my passion for singing. (I've done it professionally for over 10 years now, but no longer working for companies now, I write and sing praise and worship for a local church) Well every time she has these spurts she calls my husbands cell and literally has yelling fests saying VERY disrespectful things about me and complaining that I trapped him and have him on a tight leash (which is funny since we normally put her family invites first and my family gets the second shifts) but I'm getting very sick and tired of her acting kind to my face and then attacking my character behind my back because I don't have a "1930's Housewife" mindset. She is very judgmental and hasn't truely accepted me since I started dating her son and I'm not a rude person but I know how to argue without raising my voice and without attacking someones character which I guess might make her feel inadequate near me..But Honestly I really want Her and I to get along peacefully as One Family. I don't dislike her I think that she is a very devoted mother who will do anything for her family but she doesn't like outsiders. My husband is having a really hard time feeling like he's in the middle and defending me.. And I am a very secure person who isn't affraid to stand up and say If you have a Problem with me Say It to my face... but I'm told that It's not my place..But to me It's her Problems with me that she can't accept and I want to put this crap past us (whatever it is) What do you think is the best way to handle this situation without bringing her down and letting her feel We ARE on the same team?? Open Question: i need help with a recent breakup?ok first ill say sorry its so long me and my boyfriend were dating almost 8 months we were doing ok. we even lived together at his dads everything was fine intil he decided to go drink thur,fri,sat,sun,mon,tues,wed,thurs, then that weekened to without talking to me bacause he needed guy time which is fine to go drink with the guys for a night or what ever then i found out there was other girls there but i believe he didnt do anything with them i was just upset that i wasnt allowed to be there with him becuz he wanted guy time and i was like what theres girls there why cant i just come over to spend time with you later that day out of anger i broke up with him thinking he could call and we'd worked everything out but that didnt happen later that night i tried to kill myself(not just because of that. i alot of stuff and at the time i just needed him but he was to busy with friends. i also have sever depression) i called him and told him that i was sorry and what happened while i was in icu he was yelling at me after spending a couple days in icu i went to a mental hospital to make sure i wouldnt try it again ect i called him when i got there because he texxt me saying HE WAS SORRY AND LOVES ME i called and we both cried and said sorry and we want to be together ect. the rest of the time i was there i would call him total of about 40-50 times but he wouldnt answer or would say im busy with friends finally i got out and we talked and again we were crying saying we loved each other but right now we both had other problems that we had to work out and its best to take things slow i was ok with that as long as he was still in my life.. he text me the next day and said im the one that fucked up and i have to fix it but everytime i try to call him he ignored me cuz of friends we ment after school one day and had sex(i no wrong but i thought it would make everything right for us) he told me after wards that he didnt forgive me that just meens he will talk to me now.. i was hurt and i calle dhim and asked if we could talk and hes like dont expect that well be talking now.. i got aholed of his dad and we were talking and he is like its because he is stuck up his friends ass and they dont like you because my boyfriend(kolin) loved me and spend to much time with me and not them and thats why they are trying to keep us from getting back together and they tried to break up us.... everyone told me dont text him he will realize he loves u and will call you but its hard i just want to talk and spend time with him he just needs time to think but i keep telling him iam sorry but its done and over what i did was stupid but theres nothing i can do now to fix it but i do love him and i need him!! what should i do. thanks by the way we are both 18 More Recent Articles |
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