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Open Question: He's 15 and wants a relationship with me (I'm 19). What should I do? and more...

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Open Question: He's 15 and wants a relationship with me (I'm 19). What should I do? and more...

Open Question: He's 15 and wants a relationship with me (I'm 19). What should I do?

He's really sweet and if it wasn't for the age I would have no problem at all being in a relationship with him. He's not the typical 15 year old and agrees that a physical relationship is out of the question until we're both much older. I told him that after he's out of high school we could probably date but I feel so bad. Should I let what society deems "unacceptable" determine whether or not to pursue a relationship with him? As long as the relationship doesn't break any laws, is it okay? Any advice would be helpful.

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Open Question: he's 25, i'm 15...but considering the circumstances - is this wrong?

i am a 15 year old girl and am only attracted to men who are alot older then myself - usually between the ages of around 25 and 45+. I have no idea why it is that i can't muster any attraction to anyone below these ages, believe me i've tried everything to try and see the appeal in dating someone my age but i find it near impossible to not look at them as little boys! apart from the obvious, my problem is that i am incredibly mature and don't look my age (i'm often mistaken for being 19, 20, 21...) and recieve alot of attention from older men due to this. Usually i wouldn't take any notice of this attention, but recently i've found myself becoming increasingly attracted to this guy who works locally to me. i see him alot and we talk often and get on great - but he's 25 and has emplied on a few occasions that he likes me. he does know how old i am and i'm pretty sure it puts him off a great deal, but the more that we see each other the less of a problem age becomes and i know he feels guilty but i don't know what to do - i really, really like him! i'm not scared of anything happening between us, we're only human after all and give it a couple of months and i'm over the age of consent, it's just what people may think about him and myself that bothers me. I've talked to some of my friends about it and they're pretty much in agreement that he'd be aa paedo if he tried anything - but how can he be paedophillic when nothing about me in mind or body resembles that of a child? He's a great guy and i can't stop thinking about him...what should i do?!

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Open Question: I need help with my boyfriend problem.. this is making me really upset :(?

Today, I called my boyfriend.. he never picked up but he called me the next time, and i picked up.. wondering why he wasn't saying anything.. then he asks "oh did you call me?".. when he called me the second time.. I then asked him "oh, where are you?" because I wanted to know what he was doing.. so he told me he was at his house.. and I get a little upset asking " so then why did u tell me not to come over then?".. because he usually lets me come over.. he responds to me " I didn't feel like it!".. So I get mad and say " well i'm going to give you something".. now he thinks I broke up with him, and I didn't.. he won't even get it in his head I didn't break up with him. I got upset over that, because he would always go out of his way to see me, but lately.. he's been spending less time with me.. One day he was supposed to meet me, and then he brings his lady friend with him.. and only stays 8 minutes with me saying " i am spending time with you" when he was sending me on the next bus to go home.. I could of done my homework already.. he also never asks me on dates anymore, its a daily routine of me going to his house, getting sandwiches from the deli, me leaving at 5pm, then I go home, and do it again next saturday or sunday.. and I'm getting sick and tired of this.. I try to talk to him.. but he keeps hanging up on me, or saying "bye" when he picks up.. then hangs up.. what should I do to fix this?

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Open Question: Knowing he's the one after one meeting.?

A few months ago I met this guy and we started to talk about a month or so ago. The first time that I talked to him I thought wow he is it. (I knew a little bit about him before this meeting.) Ever since then I cannot stop thinking of a future with him. The problem is we are not dating. It's strange to me and I think very nonsensical. At times I think yea it could happen then yea but it's irrational. Is this sensible or ridiculous thinking and feeling?

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Open Question: Please help, we are from two different worlds?

I met this guy at a mutual friend's birthday party. He was very nice to me and walked me back home. The next day I found out from all of our friends in common that he thinks I am very pretty and would like to get to know me better. This guy and I shortly after began talking every other day on the phone for two hours or so... He is so amazingly goodlooking and is one of the nicest guys I know. We will be having our first date soon (to go to the movies and stuff). One time he also said that attractive girls fall under three categories (cute, beautiful, and hott) and that I was all three. It sounds so good to be true, but the problem is we are from two different worlds. Even though we share many common viewpoints in life, we are the total opposite in every way. Also, he lives two hours away from me... What should I do to make us more compatible, also do you think that he genuinely likes me?

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Open Question: boy problem (boys and girls can answer) help me please!!!!!?

i have been friends with this guy since june 3 i think and he said he liked me and i told him i likeed him 2 and then a month after that he told me he loved me and i told him i loved him to but then i got my fone took away and were both in band and we had band camp and one of my friends asked him out and he said that he was in love wtih me so he wouldnt date her. when we started school he showed no signs of liking me but one of my friends keeps asking me if he likes me and if he would date me and he said yes to both but hes not showing any signs to me her does a bunch of perverted thinks to me and wont let me leave his side but her does that to all of his friends and idk whats happening ive never really had any kind of boy experience do u think he likes me what do u think i should do

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