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Open Question: How do you get through to an independent, stubborn woman? and more... Open Question: How do you get through to an independent, stubborn woman?I have a friend who is dating a guy who, I believe, treats her horribly. The man has told me and other friends of ours jokes, or insults IMO, about how loose she is when having sex. She seems to have no problem with it, but has told me she addresses it with him in private. I would accept that except he continues to do this. He also says how he would like to buy her a ring to ask her to marry him, but he can't afford it right now. She says she brings it up every now and then to mess with him, but has seen recently that it hurts his feelings so she has stopped. The trouble is he has no money for the ring that he supposedly wants (he's divorced with a kid, so does have some significant bills), but he has been able to save up for a fancy new grill, is planning on soon getting a new large screen LCD tv, etc. Now it is possible he is not paying for this as she paid for their entire vacation this year equaling several thousand dollars (she is a single mom with the father out of the picture since the kid was young and abusive when he was). She just bought a lot for Christmas presents from both of them, but paid it all herself. She makes excuses all the time saying he pays for her a lot when they go out, but dinner out and a movie at home usually will come to less than $50 when it is a very nice restaurant in our area (no where near a major city). I have told her he told me he never plans on giving her this ring either, but she just says I always get my way and can change his mind. She is so independent that it is hard for her to ask for any help, which is why I always pay for stuff when were out when I have extra money, just so she can save some more. She is also outrageously stubborn. She will stick with something and do it over and over again until it is correct. How could I convince her this guy is horrible for her, that she deserves someone better? I tried once before and all I got from her was it thrown back at me as though I wanted her to leave him so I could be with her. Open Question: Please help me. how do i get my mom to let me hang out with my guy friends?I'm arabic and my culture is really weird. im not allowed to date until im 21-22. I have guy friends i would like to hang out with.but my parents wont let me. I would like to go to their house or they come to the mall or watch a movie..you know just normal hanging out..they probably think is going to something bad like rape me or something,.idk.. He doesn't even care where we hang out. im in 9th grade now i knew him in 8th grade. i know pretty well and i trust him..what should I do? She told me she trust me but not the guys. but still idk what her problem is Open Question: why aren't boys attracted?ok well im not going to lie i have a bit of a boy problem. i havnt dated sinc the fifth grade and every time im close to getting some one ad were right there on there verge of dating, he says he doesnt like me anymore i'm not that ugly i dont think im athletic i play tennis and basketball and cheer is theresomething wrong with me ??? Open Question: I like my best friend, but i'm scared to say anything?I've been having problems during the last 3-4 months, and one person has always been there to help me. He is truly my best friend. I don't know what I would do without him. He has just been there for me whenever I needed him. Over this time I have developed strong feelings for him though... I want to say something, but in a way i don't. I'm just afraid of rejection and the fact he may find it weird to be friends with me... I'm okay with just being friends....because i don't want him out of my life. We're very open to each other on most things. We know about each others pasts, and things about our families (like things you just don't want people to know). Lately though he came to me with a problem. He told me I was the only person he felt comfortable helping him with it. He told me that he still liked his exgirlfriend, even though he hated her (which i pretty much took as a rejection to me)....but then a few days ago he brought it up and said that just didn't know.....he said the only reason he feels that way was because he feels he did her wrong but would never be with her again. Then again he stated he hated her. I just don't know though. To me it seems like he does like me.... We've been mistaken as dating, and then for most of the rest of the day he tries to avoid me, but at the end he'll call. I don't know what I should do though. Suggestions? Open Question: How do you let a co-worker know you're a lesbian if he wants to date you?I'm having a problem, a co-worker keeps asking me out and calling me and I have already told him I am not interested in being more than friends. I was talking to a friend at work and he over heard that I go out on my nights off and he invited himself. He is a lot older than I am and i don't know how to tell him I'm a lesbian because I like having him as a friend. I am also single which makes it harder to make him understand that I'm not lying to him... What should I do? Thanks for the help and the place my fiends and I are going is a gay bar and he doesn't know its a gay bar, but I'm going to tell him and if he still shows up hopefully he will get the hint. Open Question: I don't know how to slow down with my boyfriend?My boyfriend and I have been best friends for four years. We know eachother better than we know ourselves, and we've been dating for almost four months, and I know I'm with a good guy. We're both sophomores in high school right now, and I'm waiting till I'm out of high school to have sex. I'm still a virgin and I plan on keeping it that way for a while, whereas my boyfriend was with someone before me and they were very sexually active, and I know pretty much all about it because, like I said, we're best friends :3 I've been in a relationship with one other guy before, but my current boyfriend is the first guy I've been with that I trust completely and I've done everything with (he was my first kiss, and then..everything else that follows after kissing..) We were taking things slowly at the beginning of our relationship, but things have gotten pretty crazy and we're already at third base (I've gone down on him, he hasn't done it on me yet because I don't know if I'm ready for him to do that yet or not..)! I don't regret doing anything with him, but I feel like after barely four months of dating and then us having to wait another two-three years to have sex is kind of pushing it, because where do you go when you get tired of third base? I don't want to end up having sex in high school because I want to avoid drama and rumors and stuff and my boyfriend agrees with me. But the problem is we both like making eachother feel good and giving eachother pleasure and I don't find giving a b***job or h***job a chore, and I actually like doing it, so when I do it, I do it not only because he wants me to, but because I truly want to do it, too. And since we're both teenagers, we have all those raging hormones and we get turned on by eachother so easily and stuff and it makes you act on desire and impulse. Like, I'll be at his house and we'll be watching a movie and kissing on his couch, and he'll get a ***** and then it gets really hard to not ask him to take me right on his couch. Then I'll come home from hanging out with him and I'll be happy about what we did, I don't ever feel regret or guilt but I'm just relieved that I DIDN'T ask him to take me on his couch. And we've talked about going slower, but it always fails in the long run. I'm kind of unsure of what to do. I want to go slower, but I'm pretty sure we won't be able to keep to going slower. And I'm very determined to sticking to my decision to have sex after high school. But I don't know how to talk to him about going slower, because I like where we're at now. But like, I wish it was easier to listen to what my heart says instead of listening to the horny little devil on my shoulder when I'm with my boyfriend. And I feel like a skank putting this on Yahoo! Answers, but I really want some advice or anything to help me in this situation. P.S. My boyfriend respects me and I respect him, he knows I have morals, and he wouldn't rush me with anything. He always asks me if I'm ready to move forward because he's done things that I haven't done and we wants to make sure I'm ready, and we have a healthy relationship that's based purely off of trust and communication among those other important components, so my boyfriend isn't one of those a**hole guys that's only after sex :P Open Question: Embarrased of my ex-girlfriend, what do I do?I went out with this girl who wasn't that great looking, she was pretty cool and had a pretty rough life. At first I thought I liked her but then i realized it was just sympathy so after a good month I broke up with her, the problem is that when I was with her I had sex. Shes really wierd, getting a bunch of weird haircuts and she thinks shes a hippy or something, she posts it all over myspace. The thing is I don't want her to tell anyone about our sexual relationship because to tell you the truth im embarrassedd and I regret ever going out with her. Not trying to be cocky but im a pretty good looking guy and usually date better looking girls.. What can I do? Open Question: This girl likes me, BUT DOESNT WANNA HANG OUT?by not wanting to hang out i mean she keeps saying she's booked for the week... even tho we're dating Okay imma just keep this short and simple. she really likes me. we talked all weekend from thursday to saturday and all that.... lol we really connect and all that other stuff. She had so many guys flirting with her so she told them she goes with me now and bla bla. now my problem is even though we just started datin on thursday. she cant make time for me? I asked her if she wants to chill next weekend and she said alot of people invited her over last weekend so shes pretty booked.... I mean... im not gonna go into details but she likes me alot. But she cant make time for me? Whats up with that Open Question: I reeelllyy like him! What do I do?I like a guy a lot. He likes me too but he won't go out with me yet. We're on the wrestling team together and I met him there. But I'm the only girl on the team and he doesn't want us to have to break up because of people making fun of us. We talk a lot and he's perfect! We both like playing man hunt, we both like wrestling, we both talk a lot, we both get exited over stupid things, we both love out siblings, and a LOT more. I like him a lot and he likes me a lot too but, he's afraid of messing our relationship up. How can I go out with him and get over these obstacles? Should we date and not tell anyone? We're going rollerskating next weekend and we see each other everyday so there's no problems there but, I really don't know what to do at this point.. I just want to be with him. Open Question: I have been dating a great man for the past few months. Problem is my father is upset that I am dating.?I am 45 and moved in with my father 5 years ago after my mother died. He is a great dad but has been sulky, giving me the silent treatment and very upset with me on this point. I am very upset as this all seems silly at this point. But I hate to upset him but I hate to miss the rest of my life to keep him happy. Stuck in the middle here. Advice? Open Question: I'm always scared my boyfriend is going to break up with me.?This is our second time dating, I had this same problem the first time. I am constantly, presumably irrationally, afraid he's going to break up with me. Almost always. Sometimes I have a reason (no matter how logical) to back it up, sometimes I have no reason but I still feel this way. I don't know that I really have any reason to worry. Right now it feels like I do, sometimes it just feels like I do. What do I do? More Recent Articles
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