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Open Question: How to get my Gf back? HELP!? and more... Open Question: How to get my Gf back? HELP!?I been dating this wonderful girl for 1.5 years, Aug 2nd is our anniversary. She and I never fought at all during our entire relationship until about 3 months ago. She found it hard to come to me with problems she was having so I was unaware of anything wrong. 5 months ago about July time, she said she started to feel like she didn't want to be with me, but thought it was just a phase. Well she let it build until we went back to college and a month in she had a talk with me and said she would leave me if I didn't change my ways. I have anger issues, and I am really negative sometimes. Over the past 1.5 years, she never gave clues she didn't like my attitude and she suppressed it, if I was aware I would have changed my ways, because I love her. Anyways, a month passes and she broke up with me through a text message...lame. And I immediately assumed there was another guy, or her ex bf who goes to a far off school. She recently started talking to him a lot, and she told me it was because he was her only good friend from child hood, and she likes being good friends with him, so i shrugged it off. She immediately assured me that there were no other guys in her life, that she was depressed and stressed and she felt our relationship put strain on her already stressful life. Remember I had no idea this was coming, her and I a day before were having fun laughing and kissing and joking around like normal, and then BAM she breaks up with me. 2 weeks have gone by since that day she broke up with me, and we have talked a lot, About everything that caused this and she said it was cause she needs time to love herself and learn to run her own life before she can continue with me. Its pretty selfish how she would do that. Now that she went to Bahamas for Thanksgiving, had time to relax and rest, and think, she still is weird. She is talking to me more than normal, and as if nothing ever happened, and she told me she thinks about it all the time. So I am planning a dinner and to rent the movie UP, which she badly wants to see, and she said she was excited to have fun with me and relax..I want to show her I can change and have fun, and relax with her and make her feel good. I have played the waiting card before with this other girl, and it hurt me bad. But after a 1.5 years with her I really know that I love her, I am entering my life, graduating this year and want her by my side. If any of you understand the way I feel about this girl please give input as to what i should do? This is kind of embarrassing cause I normally don't need to do this, but I am at a loss for solutions. Open Question: The guy who i like is 8 days younger...problem?I have a crush on this guy, we go to the same college, and i first met him when his school came to play football at mine. I started liking him ever since (it was when we were 15 or 16). Now we are both 18, and he is in some of my classes and he remembers me pretty well. I think he likes me because he appears as if he enjoys being around me and talk to me, so i guess he legitimately likes me (or does he? what do you think?). But i found out that he is 8 days younger than i am. My birthday is January 7, while his is January 15. My friends dont mind it since the age itself (at least id like to think so) doesnt really matter in a relationship, but im simply worried about my parents' thoughts. I mean, i know that i shouldnt ask their permission on whether i should or shouldnt date someone, but they're still my parents. And i also don't wanna look like a Pedophile, if you know what i mean :) Should we go out or should i find somebody else? Any ideas or suggestions on whether what should i do? I realize it may sound stupid, i really do) Open Question: Guys .....Should I tell him about her? They both like each other. Please help.?I signed up on this free-online dating website. I was hoping to find someone special but I haven't after about a month or so. Problem is, I kinda resemble a good friend of mine. I put a picture up and this guy emailed me. Turns out this guy is the guy my friend has been bonkers over for the past year. I think he likes her too b/c he isn't shy to hold and maintain eye contact among other things. I'm tempted to hook them up, should I? I don't want to be obvious but these two seem ideal for each other. Both are single. How do I approach this so that no one is rejected? Open Question: IB Knowers!!! "INTERACTIVE ORAL" issue, please help!!?Hi, I have my interactive oral scheduled for the 14th december, only problem is, I will be out of the country, leaving earlier for holidays as I did not find cheaper flights for any other date. I will talk to my teacher about this tomorrow, but I'm scared - what does missing my Int. Oral mean? I will be able to do it after the holidays since i HAVE to do it right? Does the teacher have the right to refuse another chance? Please only answer if you're an IB student/know the IB rules.. Thank you :S I just read somewhere that the best out of 3 Interactive Orals is chosen - I have already done one, so that means i definitely get to do one more right? Open Question: I'm depressed and can't move out?I'm 20 years old and living at home. I really want to move out, but financially I can't afford it. My parents have been very gracious and generous because they still allow me to live at home while I'm going to school but my mom and I constantly fight. I HATE IT. She's very controlling and she has to know what I'm doing every freaking minute of the day. I understand that it's respectful to check in and do what she asks, but from time to time I like to stay out later than 12am with my friends. I am a good daughter; however, my mom constantly degrades me and treats me like I'm 15. I have a job and I'm a full time student, but if I move out I have to pay rent, health insurance, car insurance, my phone, etc. and I'm working 10 hours a week at minimum wage which is not enough funds to cover all of the bills. It's like she's forcing me to be dependent on her. She gets mad when I hang out with the guy I'm dating "for too many days in a row" because I shouldn't "be spending that much time with him." and she also says little things that are just not necessary. Even my younger sisters have said that she personally picks on me. I'm really depressed and feel that things could be better if I could just move out and get away. I'm not blaming my depression on her, but she really contributes to the problem. She's unhappy with her marriage, she's unemployed and she's miserable. We have a lot of sick family members and I know she has a lot going on, but I'm so sick of hearing it from her. What can I do to make living at home less of an issue? I'm stuck here and I'm miserable. Leti before you start pointing fingers I have applied for a second job. THERE ARE NO JOBS IN MY AREA BECAUSE OF THE ECONOMY. No one is hiring. I can't get any hours at work. It's really not my fault because I am being proactive. So stop being so rude. Open Question: What to do with a girl who has abandonment issues when you care for them?I dated this girl for a few months after I was friends with her for a while. Her father left when she was a baby and was never around, and she was engaged to a guy that was physically and verbally abusive to her. He put her in the hospital and she now has a restraining order against him, yet he doesn't quite seem to get the hint and she is still dealing with that after two years. Things between us were fantastic until one day she just turned it off like she flipped a switch. I later find out that she has a history of this with guys that she has dated and even her friends. As soon as she finds herself close to others she has a freak out. Now it has been a few months since we have broken up and we still talk to each other and hang out. She has opened up to me a lot in this time and has told me her story about what has happened in her life, that she has a tendency of freaking out, that she feels like she made a mistake, and that she does not want to date anyone until she figures her problems out. I really clicked with her and care for her very much and it kills me to see her in pain. I understand that we may never get back together and that is fine with me. I would rather see her happy. I don't feel as though I am wasting my time because if that what it takes to help her even to be some one else, her happiness is what concerns me. Now with that novel being said. What the hell do I do. I am there for her, I listen, I talk and try to take her mind off of it. I do try to lightly push her to talk every now and then because I know that if she keeps it bottled up she will never be happy. It is really a delicate subject with her and I just dont know what to do any more. I dont want to walk away either because of things that we said during our relationship, and mostly I dont want to add to her abandoment issues because of those said things. Love is knowing when to let go, I just dont want to do it prematurely and add to her misery. Any thoughs or advice or words of encouragement would be great because my hair is naturally falling out and I cant afford to pull any more of it out on my own. Thanks Open Question: XBOX 360 warranty expired 1 year before the MFR date. (brand new xbox 360 from gamestop, bought this year)?ok, so i bought a 360 during the end of the summer, and the first thing i did was register it, later i decided to check up on my warranty because i was curious (system did not break...yet) so anyways i go on their site and it says that my warranty started 7/30/2009 8:00:00 PM, and expired 2/2/2008 7:00:00 PM!!! HOW IS THIS POSSIBLE?! and to make things a little bit more clear, on the back of the xbox 360 it says that the MFR date is 2009-06-19!!! so how could the warranty have expired before the MFR date??? please help. i have contacted xbox and they are currently reviewing my case (its been about 5 days now) and i was just wondering if any of you have any suggestions i can tell them just in case they start to ask difficult question and so on, the only problem is i lost or threw away the receipt...well anyways if you have any answers PLEASE tell me them and help. thanks for your time. I FOUND THE RECEIPT!!! its from this year '09. so everything should be ok! Open Question: please help im quite depress with myself!HELP?im19,and i dont think i have experience being teenager..during high school,all my friends,go to the movie,party and stuff and i have to work to support my family(my dad has no job for 4 years,im the youngest and the only boy in the family)(i work as an extra in television shows)..now im in college,i feel like i miss a chapter of my life,like i dont get to enjoy all that... ( i over work and i end up lose alot of friends)(my routine BACK THAN is work,study..and no social life,till now,i just feel awkward around bunch of friends,im not shy,but feel strange) 1) HOW TO MAKE UP THE CHAPTER OF MY LIFE,IM SCARED THAT I MIGHT TURN OUT UNINTERESTING. 2)WHAT SHOULD I DO,IM IN COLLEGE AND I FEEL MY LIFE IS STILL THE SAME(like in high school)3) IM AFRAID TO DATE ANYONE,BECAUSE THE GIRL MIGHT THINK IM A BORING PERSON? 4)IM JUST FEEL STRANGE WHEN IM WITH HIGH SCHOOL "FRIENDS",but not with my college mates..(is because i always hate them,(selfish,ignorant,judgmental,materialistic..etc) they dont know what is life)HOW TO OVERCOME THIS FEELING? the problem thing is im a guy,and is embarrassing for guy who has no experience in high school,like i have no story to tell.. the reason i post this question is because,that day a bunch of my college friends,talked about their high school stuff,and it hit me! Open Question: Is it important to have an expiry date on every tablet or capsule?The expiry date is that point in time when a pharmaceutical product is no longer within acceptable specifications for potency and stability. We observe some serious problem on printing of expiry date on tablet Or capsule. There is only one time print of expiry date on tablet or capsule stripe. Taking of tablet or capsule after expiry date can lead to adverse drug reaction. There are also some evidences of that e.g. tetracycline According to patients they got confusion for identifying the strip after opening six to seven tablets or capsules in the strip in multi drug regimen. To avoid these adverse drug reactions and increasing patient convenience there should be brand name and expiry date on each and every tablet or capsule All we know that lots of tablet or capsule stripes remaining at our home without expiry date or brand name ,people may throw out that stripes or swallowed and become victim. Open Question: What should I do about my boyfriend's mom?My boyfriend's mother seems to really dislike me. When we first started dating, she kept comparing me to my bf's ex-girlfriend, who I am friends with. I am nothing like her however. So, we talked about it and I told her that I was different and everything seemed fine. Then, my bf's sister started telling his mom everything that I said but always managed to make it sound different than when I said it. Then, my bf went to his mom because she started calling me by the nickname that he calls me. He didn't like it, but she thought that I was the one who had a problem with it. Yesterday, they had Thanksgiving dinner at their house and my bf invited me. She called us for dinner and I was teasing my bf to hurry up cuz i was scared of making his mom mad. His sister heard me and told her mom after I left that i was scared of her. So, this morning at church, his mom avoided and ignored me. I called my bf about an hour ago to break up with him because i am tired of trying to make his mom like me. He said that he would talk to her and he just texted me back that his mom doesn't dislike me and that she wants to get together and talk. I don't understand this woman!!!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!! Open Question: I have been with this guy for a year now. Hes 44 and Im 43. We have not even been remotely intimate.?He has kissed me...romantic kissed...twice. If one of us stays over the others place ...he turns his back to me right away. In the begining..he claimed it was me..and that he had a mental block with me. I am considered very attractive and people assume Im alot younger than I am. I am 120 lbs...clean....I dont get it. Now he claims its him and he has to go to the doctor. I asked when he was going then he yelled at me saying..hes going..but when hes ready to go. Then he said he wanted to wait untill his insurance kicked in. That wont be for a few more months. I have been more than patient. Its been over a year now. I feel lonely. I hate feeling this way and now im losing interest. I love him deeply but I feel like hes my gay friend now...or something like that. Now when he hugs me I feel like I want to pull away. We went away over the summer for 5 days...nothing. I wore my nicest things...just in case. We went out the other night and got trashed. He was supposed to stay over but ran out like a bat out of hell at 3 am after eating leftovers. I have known him for 20 years. We were together but split because he wanted to date and was going through something. He dated skanks...druggies...drunks....town whores...and over the last 4 years has come back more than once. He would change his mind and want freedom again shortly after. This has been a year..solid...happy...everything is good but that. I cant get any answers anywhere and I feel alone and confused and like there is something terribly wrong with me. I have never encountered this. He has been telling me for a few years even when he was dating other people, that he has no interest in sex anymore, and that the guys he talks to say its normal for a man of his age. He used to be a horndog when we were together. He was addicted to porn big time and that caused problems. I dont know what to do any more. I feel trapped in a relationship that is nothing more than a friendship locking me into a non dating others status. What could be wrong? He is not affectionate....wont kiss me....has not even touched my boob...nothing. I was celibate for a year and a half because I was single..and now Im not...but I am...and Im forced into celibacy. What is wrong..with me...with him...with us? More Recent Articles
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