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Saturday, November 28, 2009

Open Question: I am in this situation with this girl, really need help from girls! please!? and more...

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Open Question: I am in this situation with this girl, really need help from girls! please!? and more...

Open Question: I am in this situation with this girl, really need help from girls! please!?

So I got this girls number at a party, we fixed up a date and I had to reschedule because I had to travel. I apologized and then I set up another time. she agreed ! During the week we chatted on FB . Now during the week, she was having problems with her roommate and she was going to move out etc... we joked about it. Fast forward to saturday when we had the dinner date, she cancels a couple of hours before saying "Dont hate me but I had a huge blowout with this roomie and have to cancel since she left the house" Usually I would never go out with a girl who cancels like two hours before the date but I really like this girl , what should I do?

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Open Question: I asked out a good friend , rejection followed, but it's complex. Read the description for question (long)?

Alright so I've been friends with this girl for almost a year. Over time we've gotten really close. For about a month now I've begun to see her as more than a friend. It was her birthday a few days ago, and when i gave her her present, she hugged me. This is kinda odd because she expressly says that she doesn't hug anybody. I, in my naive little world, took this as a good sign. For about a week I've been summoning the courage to ask her out and coming up with a plan. I was talking to her at the end of school, planning on asking her then. I was walking her to her parent's car, but there was no break in the conversation to ask. I really wanted to go out with her soon b/c I'm busy the next few weekends and wanted to date her before the semester ends. So, in a rushed attempt to save myself, I called her about 20 minutes later and asked her if she wanted to go see a movie. She said she couldn't because she had a lot of things to do this weekend. So I got home, freaking out because I may have not only ruined my chances of dating this girl, but also may have ruined our friendship. I got to thinking that the way I asked the question and the way she responded could have meant that she thought I was asking her to come to the movie as a group activity (we're part of a larger circle of friends). But today I found out from a reliable internet community source that she has some kind of a situation to deal with, and that she plans to ignore it and see how things work out. Obviously the situation is me and I have no clue how to deal with it. if she's ignoring and hoping for an answer to come from somewhere else it then it means that it's up to me to solve the problem, which I have no idea how to do. I don't want things to be wierd, but she's already told at least one of her friendsd, mabye more, and I'm really freaking out. Thank you to anyone who has the patience to read through the above mess of words that is the shitstorm of my social life. Also, thank you to anyone who responds with a helpful answer. Anything would help at this point. I need to know what I'm supposed to do by monday. Thanks again :)

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Open Question: Dating? (10 POINTS TO BEST ANSWER)?

I've been seeing this boy, we see each other at least once a week (either on a night out or he'll stay at mine/i'll stay at his), and text most nights etc.etc. BUT he still won't take me out on a proper date. He's made it quite obvious that he doesn't want me with other guys and that he likes me, so I don't understand the problem? When chatting the other night I told him that I was not giving him anything sex wise unless he properly took me out as it seems a bit booty call style and he apologised and said he would take me out soon. HOWEVER, without sounding to psycho, he still hasn't managed to find the time to take me out. Little background information: I am not plain ugly and it's not an issue of being seen together in public. He gets along with my friends and I get along with his. He has said he likes me a lot on more than one occasion. So what should I do.. I don't want to keep hassling because I've brought it up more than once. Please don't say just leave it cause I really like him! Just want some alternative options? s Forgot to say- the only reason I want to sort all this out is because I see him as prime boyfriend material!

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