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Open Question: i didn't finish my Rabies Vaccination, is that bad? and more... Open Question: i didn't finish my Rabies Vaccination, is that bad?i didnt take my last two injections of my rabies vaccination because i didnt have insurance at the time and i couldnt afford the administrations. let alone the very pricey substance. i was wondering if the problem could remain dormant in my system for awhile and then come back at a later date. i dont think i had rabies in the first place but i had some serious bruising and scratches, i just wanted to be safe because the dr. told me that the only way you could know for sure is after its too late and the disease starts eating away at your brain. and it, quite frankly, scared the sh!t out of me. should i be worried? it was a few months ago, so do you think im clean by now??? thanks. Open Question: Thoughts............?I grew up getting picked on a lot for being overweight. I recently lost a good bit of it. I am, as my name implies, a pretty shy guy. I have a decent sized circle of male friends, no girls who I know beyond a very basic level. I have asked two girls to dance, ever, when I was thirteen and sixteen.The first said no and the second said yes than conspicuously "disappeared". Obviously, I've never asked a girl on a date. I'm almost 18 and still haven't asked another girl. My best friend tells me that I should come partying with him to loosen up. I have never been comfortable at parties, because I can't dance and I always end up finding myself being alone a lot. I've never been much of a sports guy, I'm by no means a wimp (5"11 and 220lbs<--again, not fat) and I'm not effeminate or artsy. My problem is, I feel like I've already missed out on so many of the experiences that I should have had, there is no way to catch up. I always feel sort of akward when I'm talking to the girls I know. It is amazing to me the kind of guys that girls I know seem to like, and It kills me that these guys who are half as smart as me and are complete jerks by comparison have found somebody, while I've already spent my entire childhood and teenage years alone, and will most likely continue to be. Open Question: Should I stay with this guy?I've met this guy on match.com last month and then went on several dates together. He's a really nice 24-year-old guy that have his life together (going to school, works for the government, etc). He and I have started to like each other a lot over the past month.... and we have slept together recently. The problem is that he and his ex are still living together. They were together for 6 years until recently, she have cheated on him. He broke it off with her and recently, she kept finding ways to beg him to stay with her (such as crying a lot, threatening to hurt herself if he have left her, etc). They have a 4-year-old child together. Earlier, I talked to him on the phone and he told me that he didn't know what to do... he said that he still loves her a lot as a person even though he is hurt by what she did to him. I asked him if he still wants to move out of that condo (where he is living with her... the ex owns the condo) and move on with his life... and he said that he does want that. He feels that I deserve someone better than him and so on. He can't move out of the condo ASAP because his friend is planning to move out of his parents' house by the end of January and they were planning to be roommates together. I told him not to let his ex manipulate him like that... not to let her walk all over him. And he agrees with me. My problem is that I'm afraid that he might get back together with his ex... based on how things are going over there (even though he and I still like each other a lot). What should I do? Should I stay with him? Please help... Thanks. By the way, I'm 25. Open Question: What is this girl's problem?So I've liked this girl for about a year now. Last year we went out and after we hung out a week later, a female friend of mine suggested that I give her a flower for Valentines day. So I did, she thought it was sweet but after a week I asked her out again she said that she wasn't interested in a date but would really like to be my friend. So we hung out a couple more times and sometimes she'd want me to hang out with her late at night with her friends but I was confused and I just got rejected so I wanted to limit contact with her. This would go on for a while and she got mad when she saw me dancing with other girls at a party. She tried to get my attention more when I had a girlfriend last semester. This semester I didn't really want to talk to her anymore because she said she wanted to hangout with me over the summer but she left me hanging. So I'm at the bookstore and she comes up behind me (I saw her outside the store but walked by) and poked me. She seemed real nervous and couldn't even get her words right and before I could ask her how her summer went she said she had to go. So later I asked her out to coffee and we went out, she was laughing at all my jokes and whatever, she even asked me if I thought she was cute, and now I'm really confused because she rejected me last semester and would always have this approach and ignore attitude with me. Later that night we attended the same party and she kept coming up to me trying to get my attention and she was really flirting with me. All my friends thought she liked me and I thought maybe she changed her mind. So after the party I asked her to go out with me again she said sure. I waited a few days and made the call, she ignored. So I waited an hour and texted her about when she'd like to go out, still she ignored. So like, a long while later I texted her and told her I won't ask anymore. She gave me an attitude and I told her well I was just trying to set things up and she was ignoring me so it seemed a bit rude. She gave me a bit of a harshness and I told her you know what, it seems you just like the attention I give you, and that this isn't really a friendship or anything of that matter, she flipped out and blamed me, and so I deleted her number and deleted her from facebook. She saw me again a few weeks later and looked at me all pissed. I didn't say a word. She's confusing me, what did she want and what did I do wrong? Open Question: What should I do about this problem?I've met this guy on match.com last month and then went on several dates together. He's a really nice 24-year-old guy that have his life together (going to school, works for the government, etc). He and I have started to like each other a lot over the past month.... and we have slept together recently. The problem is that he and his ex are still living together. They were together for 6 years until recently, she have cheated on him. He broke it off with her and recently, she kept finding ways to beg him to stay with her (such as crying a lot, threatening to hurt herself if he have left her, etc). They have a 4-year-old child together. Earlier, I talked to him on the phone and he told me that he didn't know what to do... he said that he still loves her a lot as a person even though he is hurt by what she did to him. I asked him if he still wants to move out of that condo (where he is living with her... the ex owns the condo) and move on with his life... and he said that he does want that. He feels that I deserve someone better than him and so on. He can't move out of the condo ASAP because his friend is planning to move out of his parents' house by the end of January and they were planning to be roommates together. I told him not to let his ex manipulate him like that... not to let her walk all over him. And he agrees with me. My problem is that I'm afraid that he might get back together with his ex... based on how things are going over there (even though he and I still like each other a lot). What should I do? Please help... Thanks. Open Question: When does talking go from polite chatting to flirting/ leading on?I have a problem communicating with people. What i intend to be just sincere and polite they take to be flirting. I am a teenager, but i guess because i am polite a lot of older men (like 30 to 40 years old) seem to be attracted to me and think i am also 30 years old. I don't go out of my way to be nice to people. in fact i'm pretty unsocial. but at my job if a customer speaks to me i am required to speak friendly back. A 30 year old guy will come in and say "Hi how are you today?" and i will smile and say "Fine thanks how are you?" and the next thing i know he's asking me if i would like to go on a date! Where did i cross the line from business polite to flirting?? this has happened several times! More Recent Articles
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