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Open Question: I have a pretty serious boy problem. I need seem advice.? and more...

Open Question: I have a pretty serious boy problem. I need seem advice.?

I'm 16. I know i'm young. I've never really liked anyone before. I've only had two boyfriends. I'm really picky on who I date. I met this guy about two weeks before summer started and I completely fell for him the first time I spoke to him. There was just something about him. I fell hard. I had never met anyone like him before in my life. The problem is he does drugs and drinks alcohol. He's not a virgin and he has/had a lot of best friends with 'benefits'. Were the same age. We've been talking and hanging out a lot since we met. A few days ago, he told me he hadn't felt this way about someone in a long time. He's only dated one girl before and it lasted a year. He's been single for a long time. Yesterday he asked me to be his girlfriend. He told me he stopped all his best friends with benefits and what not. I just feel like to keep him I would have to do 'stuff' with him. Since he's so used to having sex, I don't know if he could restrain or whatever. He also does drugs and drinks a lot, but I can look past that... *i posted this question in another section, but this is my favorite one so i decided to repost i'm still a virgin and really don't want to lose it. you just don't have any idea how much i like this guy...

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Open Question: I really like this guy, but here's the problem... (I really need some help. This is serious)?

I'm 16. I know i'm young. I've never really liked anyone before. I've only had two boyfriends. I'm really picky on who I date. I met this guy about two weeks before summer started and I completely fell for him the first time I spoke to him. There was just something about him. I fell hard. I had never met anyone like him before in my life. The problem is he does drugs and drinks alcohol. He's not a virgin and he has/had a lot of best friends with 'benefits'. Were the same age. We've been talking and hanging out a lot since we met. A few days ago, he told me he hadn't felt this way about someone in a long time. He's only dated one girl before and it lasted a year. He's been single for a long time. Yesterday he asked me to be his girlfriend. He told me he stopped all his best friends with benefits and what not. I just feel like to keep him I would have to do 'stuff' with him. Since he's so used to having sex, I don't know if he could restrain or whatever. He also does drugs and drinks a lot, but I can look past that...

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Open Question: would this mean I'm pregnant?

I'm having a little confusion. & I have a problem with getting my hopes up. so, someone help me. (: please okay, I had my last mestrual cycle on the 14th of Nov. & the next menstrual cycle is suppose to be on the 12th of dec. and therefore my ovulation date was suppose to be on the 27th. today.& I've been having sex alot this month. & for some weird reason I bleed for one whole day. which was weird. And it was heavy bleeding. But I had sex tonight. so, would I be pregnant? or should I just wait for my next cycle & ovulation date? help! & I do know that I should get a pregnancy test. I'm just asking for opinions on if I'm preggers or not :D thanks.

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Open Question: Should I hang on or let go forever?

Well i need a little relationship advice. I won't get into too many details but I'm 28 she's 27, we almost 2 years ago. The day after the two of us met i found out my mom had brain cancer. It was obviously difficult from the start, to make it more difficult she lived 300 miles away from me. Some time passed and my mother had a surgery and seemed to be getting better. My gf and I were getting along great and about 4 months after we had met I moved away from the area I spent 27 years of my life to be with her. Everything was wonderful, I had no problem finding a job, we got along great and seemed to be making a wonderful life together. We had lived together for about 6 months when my mom started going down hill again. I was going to go home then but my dad told me i needed to live my life also. I decided to stay and soon thereafter the guilt started to set in. Don't get me wrong there were some amazing memories after that and I even put money down on an engagement ring for her but for the most part It snowballed into a depression and I lost myself. I didn't enjoy the things I used to enjoy and my relationship started going downhill from there. I was extremely irritable and would make my gf feel bad about some of the dumbest things. Finally it got to the point where she couldn't take it any longer and decided to end things. When it ended we both thought it was a mistake to end and talked often and I drove down to visit a couple times. Since I have been back my mother has drastically gone down hill again and has been given less than 3 months. I try to give my ex updates but now she is just assuming I am lying to her about my moms condition and resents just about everything about me. Now I found out she started dating somebody only a couple weeks after I had left. That has crushed me, we have been apart for a while now and she is still the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. I know I need to concentrate my time on my family issues right now but I just cant keep her out of my head. She is the love of my life and I don't want to lose her forever. I know I'm leaving quite a few details out, mainly making myself look like the bad guy, neither one of us were perfect but my heart is still with her. Any advice as confusing as this message may be would be appreciated. Thank You for your time.

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Open Question: Lots of boys, too many decisions. I need help.?

Ok so maybe I'm just not seeing this clearly because I'm in the middle of it all, so maybe someone can help me see it all a little clearer. So I was together *not dating, this guy for 2 months and we went to homecoming together, and everything up to that point was good. He didn't say he wanted or didn't want a girlfriend but when I asked him about us going out he didnt say much. We told ppl we were just friends that really lilke eachother. etc etc. and I only made out with him bc. I said I wouldnt do anything more if there wasnt the commitment there, etc. But on homecoming he took advantage of me and I let him bc. he was drunk and high and I dont do that stuff so it was just terrible. I havent talked to him once since homecoming night. Right after we'll call him 'A', there was 'B' and he helped me even before homecoming w/ all my problems with A and he was just a really good friend. Well then after homecoming I started to hang out with B more and we started a thing. And we were together for 3 wks but no one really knew about it. We made out and hung out a lot and such, but then he ended it saying he wasn't going to ask me out and didnt want to take advantage of me and make me upset. I was upset over the whole thing but it really wasnt that big of a deal. Then B decided what he said was stupid and kept txting me and while I was trying to end things with B, behold C comes along. C and I hung out a couple times and txtd for over 3 wks then we made out once. He still had another thing he was trying to end w/ another girl and decides hes not ready for a realtionship but wanted me to be single and wait for him to get ovr what he had to get ovr so we could eventually be together. I really like him, but idk if im going to be able to do that. All of a sudden to make this all more complicated D comes along and starts flirting with me. He had a thing w/ my best friend for 3 months and she said she treated him like a bf but in the end he chickened out and ran away not wanting to date her but she nvr rly told me any of this until it was ovr and there weren't many details involved so I'm sketchy about the whole thing. So in the end I hate A, which is ok i guess, still kind of like B and C, but think starting something with D could be good and idk they're all soooooooooo different. A is a drug addict. B is a country boy C is soccer player and D is a musical guy so basically they're spread as far apart as possible and different in their own ways which I like and it makes it hard to compare tho. They all have wanted or want or have some committment issues so it's not like there is much to compare there. and idk what to do. I'm done thinking about all this and just want to be in a realtionship and not worry about all this drama. btw im a junior in highschool.

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Open Question: is it wrong for a 18 year old to like a 15 year old?

im an 18 year old guy about to be 19. im a freshmen in college. i love going to church god is the head of my life. im highly educated and have high morals and values. i have alot of respect for women, i look at it like this if you dont have respect for ladys, you really dont have any respect for the person that put you on this earth your mom. i hate ignorant guys that just go out with girls for sex and disrespect them thats one of my biggest pet peeves. but getting back to what i was asking. im 18 about to be 19 in february shes 15 and wont be 16 until april. i really like this girl alot and she likes me too. but some people are telling me its wrong to try to get with her. im a christain and we both go to the same church i believe that you shouldnt have sex until your married. so thats not a problem. and i dont want to date her to take advantage of her. alot of people think just because im older then her they automatically assume i want to go out with her just to have sex with her, or take adavantage of her. no thats not why i just really like the girl. is this wrong be truthful. if it is i wont date her.

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Open Question: Is it easy to find a good joke that cracks you up?

Growing Up With Dad At... Four years old
My daddy can do anything. Five years old
My daddy knows a whole lot. Six years old
My dad is smarter than your dad. Eight years old
My dad doesn't know exactly everything. Ten years old
In the olden days, when my dad grew up, things were sure different. Twelve years old
Oh, well, naturally, Dad doesn't know anything about that. He is too old to remember his childhood. Fourteen years old
Don't pay any attention to my dad. He is so old-fashioned. Twenty-one years old
Him? My Lord, he's hopelessly out of date. Twenty-five years old
Dad knows about it, but then he should, because he has been around so long. Thirty years old
Maybe we should ask Dad what he thinks. After all, he's had a lot of experience. Thirty-five years old
I'm not doing a single thing until I talk to Dad. Forty years old
I wonder how Dad would have handled it. He was so wise. Fifty years old
I'd give anything if Dad were here now so I could talk this over with him. Too bad I didn't appreciate how smart he was. I could have learned a lot from him. ==== Cruise Control Dad had a habit of naming the cruise control on our cars. We were used to hearing my father proclaim, "Take it, TED," as he flipped on the cruise control during long trips in our station wagon. Recently, on a trip we took out of state, as soon as we got on the highway my dad leaned back and said, "I think I'll let Tom drive for a while." "Tom who?" I asked. My mother quickly answered: "Tom Cruise, of course. ==== Dressing For The Wedding It was a couple of days before a big wedding and there was a problem. The bride had found out that the young stepmother of the groom, who was a snobby person, had bought the exact same dress to wear to the wedding as the mother of the bride. The bride's mother assured her daughter that there was nothing to worry about because she would buy another dress to wear to the ceremony. "But mother," asked the bride, "What will you do with the dress that you've already bought?" "Well," said her mother with a smirk on her face, "I'll just wear it to the rehearsal dinner." ===== Give me the cleverest response about these jokes and the 10 pts are yours. Please be nice. If you like my jokes please give me a star. Thanks

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