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Open Question: I have a problem, I think I'm Addicted to porn.? and more... Open Question: I have a problem, I think I'm Addicted to porn.?I'm Only 15 and I think I might be addicted to porn. Around school I have this rep as "That insane pervert girl". I spend most of my internet time locked in my room either searching for, watching/reading, or playing (Like dating sim games) porn. It's gotten that at almost any given point it's all I think about. I really really need help. Open Question: What guy should I choose?Ok thanks for reading. I'm in a huge conflict right now. I've been dating this guy now for 3 1/2 years. I'm 18, he's 21. We have been through a lot of ups and downs. Within the last year he developed a drinking problem. We used to drink casually and almost every weekend. We had a lot of fun but then we began fighting when we drank together. He would get really mean and now he drinks by himself and lies to me about it. Not to mention, he has no goals for himself. He's gotten fired from EVERY job he's ever had, he's late all the time, lies, and drops out of the classes that his parents are paying for. He has been treating me very badly within the last year. He brings me down and makes my self esteem low. I do need to mention the good things keeping me in the relationship. He's charming and funny (when he wants to be.) He makes me laugh... In the last month, I've met a guy and have been hanging out with him for the last 3 weeks. He's an ex marine and treats me very nicely. He has his one place (unlike my boyfriend who still lives at home.) Anyway, we are really into each other and I find myself thinking about him a lot and comparing them. We have sooo much in common and he makes me sooo happy. He knows I have a boyfriend but he wants me to break up with him. Keep in mind, I have never done this to my current boyfriend before. Guys have been interested but I never let it get this far. I don't know what to do. I find myself feeling guilty but then my boyfriend will begin the verbal abuse and it will just push me back in this guy's arms once again. Telling my boyfriend is out of the question. I love him but I don't see a future with him unless he changes. Now I don't know if I see a future with this new guy either but he and I have a really strong connection. I should also mention that my current boyfriend is extremely immature and refuses to talk to me about jobs, money, college. He simply lacks motivation. To be blunt, he's a loser. This new guy is very mature. Hes not into drama unlike my current boyfriend who starts fights with me everyday. I should also mention that I'm very attached emotionally to my current boyfriend. I've given up a lot of friends and relationships for this relationship. He was also my first EVERYTHING. I don't know if that was relevant but I want you to be able to grasp the entire story. To me somebody who doesn't even try at anything they do is a loser. I didn't mean it to sound mean. Open Question: GUY PROBLEM. PLEASE HELP. What should I do?Well. Im going to make this short. This guy that ive liked since 7th grade (im in 10th now). And we've dated twice. Well he asked me if I liked him still him, and and I said yes. He said he had been thinking about me a lot. and stuff like that. But then two days later, he had a girlfriend! What should I do? :/ Open Question: How do I deal with a boyfriends ex's without coming off as rude?So I've only talked about this to one friend but I though I could get better advice here as there are more than one opinion. Here's the deal. My boyfriend is still friends with some of his ex's AND they all go to our college. That's not what I am having a problem with. His last ex girlfriend was an acquaintance of mine 3 years ago. After a while she just stooped talking to me and we lost touch. My boyfriend and I started dating 2-3 months ago. It's been great and he's given me no reason to think he is a bad guy. He's always attending to my needs,taking me out,showing people he loves me IN PUBLIC at school so I know he's not embarrassed of me. Taken me to meet his best friends from high school and they liked me as well. The thing is his last ex GF's guy friend tried to add me as a friend on facebook. But only did so AFTER my boyfriend listed me as his girlfriend. This friend of hers and I do not get along yet he was trying to add me. After I rejected him, a month later SHE requested me as a friend. So to be nice I asked her why and she said she JUST realized who I was. And didn't know my last name(even though I'm on her myspace with my entire REAL NAME). She SAID congrats to our relationship but she still refuses to talk to me at school or other wise. It really just seems like she wants to see the things I say to my BF and see what I DO on my facebook. She's only commented once asking me how my day was. But she only asked because my BF kissed me and she saw it. Again I say, he doesn't care who sees that he loves me but some how I think she may be jealous. She's the one who broke up with him after all. She didn't want him and now she is being very sneaky. What can I tell her or do to deal with this? Open Question: Hes just not that into me?I met a guy out in London and we got on great that night. He came to visit twice where i live(2hrs from London) and both times I was really tierd from work ect and i just felt nervous and not really comfortable(+ i had my hair cut shorter which i hate). Even though I Had kissed him the night I met him we didnt kiss properly on any of the 2 dates. So he said he would contact last wk to sort something out again....well he didnt. so I txed him on the friday...he said it was nice to hear from me and then I asked 'Was he thinking of coming back down to see me' and I got no reply or messages from him since. So the problem...Do i cut my losses? When i got to London next weekend give him a friendly tx? I know he was the one making the effort coming to see me, so maybe he got fed up. I do like him but just want to the chance to have fun and be myself with him...I hate dates really. Any advice would b great! Open Question: help boy problems! Read all! Who should I choose of 3?Hi I'm in high school and I have a crush on 3 boys? Boy 1) Is 2 grades older than me, popular, in only 1 of my classes, talked to him once about something really stupid lol. I heard he is a drunk, and not that smart fro what I can tell from class. I catch him staring at me a lot in this class, and sometimes outside of class too. He also flirts with other girls, not as much as boy number 2 but still a lot. He has a hot body, is tall, is a varsity football star, sweet blue eyes, and caramel colored hair. Boy 2) Is in my grade, a strict Mormon (well he doesn't swear at all! and is really polite to everyone) he is new and he has a hot body, blonde hair, blue eyes, a little bit shorter in height than me I think, and always gives me compliments, and high fives. He complimented me on playing my sport, and gave up his seat for me (we were both going to sit at the same spot, but he's like oh you can have it, but I'm like no it's fine haha) the thing is he flirts with a ton of girls, and does the same things to other girls so it's not like he's treating me special. I'm also pretty sure he likes this one ****... he is a hugeee player! Boy 3) Only 1 grade older than me, hot body, a little taller than me (that's good because I am tall!) dirty blonde hair, blue eyes. I never talked to him before, but we do play the same sport, so I run into him once in a while (like he watches our practice for like 5 minutes) Season is going to start soon, so I don't know if I am going to see him more or less. We both LOVE the same sport we play. I once passed him the ball haha, and walk by him a lot in school. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HIM THE NEXT TIME I WALK BY AND WE ARE ALONE? (noting I have NEVER talked to him in my life and we are a grade apart, and I dont wanna be a creeper/awkward/known as the weird girl... so what should i say when I am walking by him and we are both alone aka with no friends??!!) BE SPECIFIC Which boy do I have the best chance with, as in dating/flirting/liking me back. If you dated any guys similar to these please tell me the stories in your answers! PLEASE BE SPECIFIC IN YOUR ANSWERS! I know it's a lot thanks for reading Open Question: What is the right thing to do...........?I met my best friend of today around 8 months back. He helped me financially inspite of the fact that we met just a week before. That is how I began to like him. We started business together and we are working together today. 4 months back I met the man of my dreams. We love each other and may even get married in future. When we were dating, I noticed that my friend became very upset because of my diverted attention and he even got into a fight with my lover. Now, my lover is busy and he does not visit me very often. Therefore, my friend is better than before and is cheerful. My friend never talked about his love for me. Yes... we have kissed but we never had sex. I refused once, he never tried again. When I told him that I love someone, he never even tried kissing. Recently, when i questioned my friend so as to whether he would attend my wedding. He cried and said no. That day somehow made me realize his feelings for me. He is very caring and good husband material. THE PROBLEM IS................. If I get married to my lover, he may not be a very good husband. But my marriage will surely kill my friend who is deeply in love with me. I cannot marry my friend because he is short in height than me. This is not acceptable as per the Indian culture. We talked about about it and he thought the same. What should I do? Open Question: curious about girlfriends facebook profile?i have been dating this girl for 2 months now... she deleted or deactivated her facebook account about 2 weeks ago because she said that people were giving her problems on it... so i logged into my facebook account and it showed that her account was on there... so i asked her about it and she said that it said that someone got into her account and deactivated it again... then at the end of our conversation she says whats bothering you... i told her nothing im fine... also about a month ago when she still had her account up on facebook it said that her relationship status said single... i asked her about it and she said that something happened with her account and she cannot change it back... i really dont know what to think anymore... i do not know what to do... can someone tell me what i should do please??? Open Question: Need help with this a girl situation bad!?Okay so basically i dated this girl...and we broke up about a year ago but i still have feelings for her. i mean she changed my life. however since were not dating anymore and ive dated other girls (plus her and i dont talk anymore) i have the right to date other girls. which i have..its been a year. but anyways heres to problem. she has a friend (who ive never met but seen in some pictures) who looks very cute. Im still friends with my EX friends because there my friends too...but there like her bffs. anyways i want to start talking to this girl but i cant! if i do it would just be weird and when she mentions me my x would most likely talk shit....however i do have a friend thats a girl that kinda knows her. SORRY ITS SO LONG BUT WHAT DO I DO?! to recap...never met her. shes cute. she knows my x. how do i meet her? Open Question: How do you tell a close friend you want to start dating?I've known this girl for 3 years, and we're very close friends. We literally have spent days at a time hanging out, gone to movies, long walks, spent hours playing halo 3 together, jogging together, you name it. We've gotten comfortable enough that she will change down to bra/undies around me and just laugh when I jokingly pull out my camera when she does so. The problem is, it's not just hanging out for me anymore. At some point I realized I truly do like her. And I have no idea how to tell her this, I don't want to freak her out or anything... but I also think I might kill anyone she tries to date other than me now. Is there an eloquent way to tell her I want us to be BF/GF? Open Question: Strange Problem - Excel VBA Web Query - Yahoo Finance doesn't work for tables on right hand side?Hi, I've been using Excel Web Query (via "Get External Data") for some time to get financial data from Yahoo Finance, and everything was fine. But, then I discovered that when I selected to download tables on the right hand side of a web page, it doesn't work. For example, when I go to the page: http://au.finance.yahoo.com/q/aks?s=RIO.AX I am able to download the tables on the left hand side of the page (i.e. "Value", "Income", "Risk", "Growth Rates").... i.e. all of these tables can be downloaded into Excel using WebQuery. But, when I tried downloading the tables on the right-hand side of the page (i.e. "Range", "Other Information", "Key Dates", "Total Shareholder Return"), then it doesn't work! I have no idea why this is occurring, I've tried rerunning the web query but always the same issue - tables on left hand side of a page can be downloaded, but tables on right-hand side can't... I'd really appreciate it if anyone has any suggestions regarding why I am not able to download tables on the right hand side of the page http://au.finance.yahoo.com/q/aks?s=RIO.AX Thanks! Open Question: When writing a date in roman numerals, do you put the month or the day first?I am getting a tattoo in honor of my mom who beat breast cancer. She had a double mastectomy(sp?) on 9-29-2009. I want to get that date an the breast cancer ribbon as a tattoo. Then only problem is I'm not quite sure how to arrange the numbers. I've had some people tell me when you write a date in roman numerals the month comes first(month-day-year). But I have seen alot of tattoos that have it written day-month-year. So I'm just wondering which way is right or if it really matters which way it's written. Thanks! And if you are going to comment saying "don't get a tattoo" or "tattoo's are stupid" please don't comment at all. I'm not trying to be rude, I'd just want to know about the date's thing not views on tattoos =] thanks. Open Question: Writing to a file in Java?I have a program where the information is saying that it is saved to a file, but when I go and find the file it has zero bytes in the file. The code for my program is: private void saveToFile() { //Get the current date and open the file String LastName = txtLastName.getText(); String FirstName = txtFirstName.getText(); Date today = new Date(); SimpleDateFormat myFormat = new SimpleDateFormat("MMddyyyy"); try { String filename = "Hudson Hill Customer Data File" + myFormat.format(today); FileOutputStream fStream = null; DataOutputStream output; fStream = new FileOutputStream(filename, true); //open file for append output = new DataOutputStream(fStream); try { for (int i=0; i <= LastNameArray.length-1; i++) { output.writeUTF(LastName); output.writeUTF(FirstName); output.writeFloat(ItemNumberArray[i]); output.writeUTF(ItemName); output.writeFloat(QuantityArray[i]); output.writeFloat(PriceArray[i]); output.writeFloat(TaxRateArray[i]); } JOptionPane.showMessageDialog(null, LastName + " " + FirstName + " information saved","Submission Successful",JOptionPane.INFORMATION_MESSAGE); } //end try catch(IOException c) { JOptionPane.showMessageDialog(null, "Unexpected error - closing","Halt", JOptionPane.ERROR_MESSAGE); System.exit(1); //exit with error } //end catch catch(Exception eErr) //catch for parseFloat and any other error { JOptionPane.showMessageDialog(this,"data format error","Error in Save",JOptionPane.INFORMATION_MESSAGE); }//end catch try { fStream.close(); // close output stream output.close(); } //end try catch (IOException eIO) { System.out.print("Exception is :- " + eIO); //if problem, print to console } //end catch } //end try catch(IOException io) { JOptionPane.showMessageDialog(null,"The program could not create a storage location. Please check the disk drive and then run the program again.","Error",JOptionPane.INFORMATION_MESSAGE); System.exit(1); } } //end save to file When I compile the program it runs and works, when I choose to finalize the transaction, I get the dialog that says that it was successful. The console window comes up and I notice that it does not say press any key to continue. So something isn't completly working there. Can someone help me with this. Obviously there is something that I am doing wrong and don't know what it is. Open Question: I can't decide between my boyfriend and my best friend?have a problem, I like my best friend and my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months and my best friend told me he liked me a while back. He didn't know we were dating at that time, so it wasn't like he was trying to ruin our relationship. We had another talk and we both confessed we really like each other. But he needs his space and he can't be my best friend because he says it hurts too much to always think about me with another guy. I don't know which guy to choose they're both really different? My boyfriend I only knew a little bit before we started dating. He comes off as a bit of a jerk to others but in a way I find that attractive. He is the jealous type and a bit clingy but I know he cares so much for me. He buys me a lot of things but sometimes he verbally abuses me and calls me names but then he makes up for it. I know he's a sweet person inside. We've been through a lot of **** together but we always manage to pull through. My girl friends love him because he can be a charmer. All my guy friends hate him though because he can be a big jerk, but he makes me feel special because he's sweet to me. My best friend I have known for two years and he understands me better than anyone else possibly could. He's been there for me in every situation and spontaneously does things to brighten my day. I have always had a huge crush on him. He's the sweet and quirky kind. He's a nerd at heart but everyone loves him because he's cool at the same time. He genuinely cares about people and I can talk to him about everything. He's always been there even when I'm a complete ***** to him. I think I just feel that my best friend deserves better than me, and my boyfriend and I have been through a lot of stuff together. More Recent Articles |
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