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Open Question: i kind of like 2 guys, what should i do? and more... Open Question: i kind of like 2 guys, what should i do?okay so there are 2 guys in my class n the 1st one is really nice and always helps me with stuff and has a good sense of humor, but he's black. the second one is really cute n we like the same music and stuff but sometimes he can be kind of rude to me. the problem is i would totally date the 1st guy if he wasnt black but im having a really hard time getting past it. what should i do? i just think black people are uglier than asians, whites, and hispanics. but he has a REALLY good personality. Open Question: How can I stop feeling so guilty and messed up?I have very strict parents. When I was younger, my father never let me go to parties and told me never to trust people or have friends. Well, being so strict, I secretly rebelled, dated and ended up losing my virginty at a very early age (16), which I regret because I know my parents would be crushed if they found out, and porbably kill me. I 'm 21 now, in college. I'm depressed, having a nervous breakdown (my doctor said), and stressed out. I'm not doing so well in school this semester, and feel really guilty because my parents work day and night to put me in school. I don't trust anyone (I used to give people the benefit of the doubt, but now don't because I was in a very mentally abusive relationship). My parents don't know about any of this. I cannot talk to them about it, they would not understand. I cant seem to let go past hurts from friends, family, or boyfriends. I can't face problems and just run away from them. I don't have many friends either. I just need some advice on what to do. I feel very depressed. I wouldn't commit suicide. But I'm afraid I'll slowly lose my sanity. Open Question: What should i do about my ex?Okay well me and my boyfriend were having big problems in our relationship,so i told him a couple of weeks ago that we should take a break.It was hard for me to do but i think it has helped me a lot.Me and him decided that we were going to get back together and he set the date for new years(I dont even think he wants to get back together).Since then we havent talked much and he has been a jerk,he has been saying that he has been talking to this girl and stuff like that just to make me mad.To this day he has been ignoring me and stuff.... I am getting the idea that he just wants me too get over him,is that the right thing to do now just get over him.? Open Question: Follow my heart or my mind? Advice?Ok so.. I have "boy trouble" and I can't ask my friends for advice because they would be totally biased. Anyways, as of now I have a boyfriend. He is a great guy and he is really good and he likes me a lot but the problem is that I don't feel the same way about him anymore. I got bored with our conversations and everything is predictable and more like a routine than a relationship. He is waaay too shy with me even if we've been a long time together and its getting a little annoying at times.It is kind of difficult to hold a good conversation with him. When I kiss him I don't feel anything its like if I was making out with a pillow. I do love him I just don't feel like I like him or even if I'm in love with him. At first it was great but now I realized why my relationships haven't been working out. Its because I'm still not even close to be over someone. I'm constantly thinking about another guy I used to date. I'm pretty much have realized lately that I'm in love with him and it sucks because no matter how many other guys I date I can't seem to get over him. To me it seems like no other relationship I'm in would ever work unless either I get over him or if I'm in a relationship with him. It hurts that I can't seem to get over him, even if about 7 months have gone by since we dated. My mind is telling me to give my boyfriend some more time because he is a really good guy and I'd hate to hurt him. But my heart is telling me that I'm on love with someone else and that I should breakup with my boyfriend because he is not the one for me and I'm basically emotionally cheating on him. Any advice on what I should do? (Sorry if its long btw) Open Question: What to do about daddy problem?My boys are 4 and 5. They have different birth fathers. My boyfriend and I dated and broke up for a time. We got back together when my oldest was one month old. He is the father to my 4 year old and my 5 year old doesn't see his birth father often.. he may come around 3 times a year, if that. My son has called his little brother's daddy daddy since he started to talk. He has been there since he was one month and was there when he was in the hospital. Essentially he IS daddy. He has chosen to call his birth father by his name. Something he started to do since he was 3 (that's when he actually started to see him a little). He calls my boyfriends mom and dad grandma and papa and his birth fathers mother granny. She has been involved and see's him once or twice a week at school for a little while. For some reason my boyfriend and his mother told my youngest (their biological child/grandchild) that they are not his brothers daddy and grandma any more. My son asked daddy why he plays with his brother if he isn't his daddy (four year old mind set lol) and he said, not "because I love him too", but "because I don't want him to feel left out. I was really upset when my son told me this and I am going to talk to them about this when I get a chance. This happened last night and haven't been able to yet. I just wanted some opinions on what to do. My children are both upset and do not understand. Neither do I. Please make sure that you read what I have written. My children do not have sibling rivalry. That is not what I am saying. What was said by grandma and daddy has them both upset and confused. Not one upset and the other not, or any rivalry because of it. Open Question: GIRLS(ONLY) or anyone who face the same thing?im19,and i dont think i have experience being teenager..during high school,all my friends,go to the movie,party and stuff and i have to work to support my family(my dad has no job for 4 years,im the youngest and the only boy in the family)(i work as an extra in television shows)..now im in college,i feel like i miss a chapter of my life,like i dont get to enjoy all that... ( i over work and i end up lose alot of friends)(my routine BACK THAN is work,study..and no social life,till now,i just feel awkward around bunch of friends,im not shy,but feel strange) WHAT SHOULD I DO,IM IN COLLEGE AND I FEEL MY LIFE IS STILL THE SAME(like in high school)?AND IM AFFRAID TO DATE ANYONE,BECAUSE THE GIRL MIGHT THINK IM A BORRING PERSON? the problem thing is im a guy,and is embarrassing for guy who has no experince in high school,like i have no story to tell.. the reason i post this question is because,that day a bunch of my college friends,talked about their high school stuff,and it hit me! Open Question: How can I get my ex to stop?So about a month ago I broke up with my ex girlfriend because we had too many problems. A week later I started dating another girl ever since that day my ex won't leave me alone. At night she would always text me asking what she can change to get me back and that she loves me and that when I left her that there is something missing. She also said when I left her she was almost gonna turn bi. When we were going out wanna I showed her affection she would always make me get away from her. Now she apologies and wants to start fresh. I mean I hate how this has ended but she won't stop coming back to me like this. Most of the time I just ignore it but I'm starting to just get annoyed by it. She said she's striving so hard to get me back to fill that empty void. What can I do to get her to stop but so that she's at least my friend? More Recent Articles
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