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Open Question: I need help with family (gay relationships) and my friends!? and more... Open Question: I need help with family (gay relationships) and my friends!?I have a problem! This is complicated, I am a gay girl and I am in love. I am dating a cross dresser. My dad has a lil problem with the way I am. I am punky/emo/cross. My girl friend is 16, she is Simian/Philipeno and my dad hates cross dressers of any sex, and he is a slight bit racist =S My dad found out I was gay only a few months ago. He doesn't like the way I dress or my personality. I love my dad very much. When I started dating her, my friends also have been disappointed that I havent been hanging out with them so much anymore. I know this is normal. So I am trying my best to be there more often, cuz I miss them aswell. But than they have made excuses to not hang out with me (and its not cuz im gay, most of my friends are gay, pan sexual or bi) What do I do to make my dad accept me the way I am, and to get my friends to forgive me for not being around? Open Question: I can't control myself anymore!!!?Have you ever been so confused about yourself? I'm only a freshman but everything is sooo hard for me. Growing up I never knew who I was or what I wanted. I still don't! Everybody else seems to know their surroundings and they live life with no worries. Why am I so different from them?!?! Here's some examples. Boyfriend - I'm dating this guy, it will be two months in a few days. He's the first real boyfriend i've ever had. My first kiss and the first guy that really even noticed me! The problem is we fight soo much! I know he cares about me but I can't accept it. Like if i'm upset about a little problem he freaks out about it. I don't know what to do. He said me being upset with myself all the time is pushing him away. If I don't control myself i'm gonna lose him! Friends - I don't have a REAL bestfriend. Really, its coming to the point where I don't have friends. Sadly, I push people away. I've yet to figure out why, it must be natural. The people in my town stick to their own friends, thats why its so hard to make new ones. No one ever notices me. I walk through the hallways with a smile just waiting for some random person to come talk to me. I know it doesn't work that way. If only it was that easy. Family - ugh! My parents don't understand me, at all! Lately i've been sad about fighting with my boyfriend but I don't wanna talk to my mom about it because she thinks she is a teenager herself. My brothers run around the house screaming. My dad hasn't had a job in two years! Can we handle anymore?! School - I don't have a problem in school. I make average grades but all of the homework is added stress. Also, I am an athletic trainer for the wrestling team. It just now started so now I have to take time to go to meets. All of my stress is pushing people away. I can't control my emotions anymore! any advice for all of my problems?! Open Question: Im stuck on this accounting problem?The following are shown in the trial balance (unadjusted) dated December 31, 2009: prepaid insurance: $6,600 insurance expense: $6,400 The company pays for its insurance policies 12 months in advance. Its most recent payment was made on November 1, 2009. The cost of this policy was slightly higher than the cost of coverage for the previous 12 months. Prepare the adjusting entry to account for the expiration of the company's insurance policies during December. Open Question: please help me. How do I convience my mom to let me hang out with guys?I'm arabic and my culture is really weird. im not allowed to date until im 21-22. I have guy friends i would like to hang out with.but my parents wont let me. I would like to go to their house or they come to the mall or watch a movie..you know just normal hanging out..they probably think is going to something bad like rape me or something,.idk.. He doesn't even care where we hang out. im in 9th grade now i knew him in 8th grade. i know pretty well and i trust him..what should I do? She told me she trust me but not the guys. but still idk what her problem is Open Question: How do I know if the Guy Im Dating is GAY!!!!! Guys please!!!?ok listen I been talking to this guy for about a month now. He is sooo fine, and his body is crazy sexy!!! It look like he belong in a magazine. for the past month he have been perfect guy!!! it have all the qualities I want in a man. He goes to church, he's romantic, bring spoils me with affection,romance, flowers,poems, gifts, trips and he wants God to be apart of us if it is an us oneday. But I think he's in the closet because on our first day he mention that "if he was dared to put on a dress,heels, and wig he would with no problem because he is comfortable in his own skin." I payed that no mine, then he He always mentioning gay men in our conversation. He plays the role of a gay guy all the time but day he just playing so I wondered is it because he grew up with 5 sisters. He have a yorkey dog with a libred dog bad, he claimed his friend gave it to him. He stripped before. He sd his friend used to be a man and now is a women. He sent me a picture with his blowing me a kiss with a wig on. He say he loves gay people but not in that way. He ask me "if he were gay would I express more with him." He have a strip pole in his living room, he looks at a gay instructer excrise tape. So what do you think, I only told what I can write....Men is this normal or is it just in fun!!!! Open Question: im unsure of his feelings plz help x?this guy thats just started my job two weeks ago and myself have been working together the last week and i cant describe whats happened but i felt myself very drawn to him and we got on so well-even he agreed. im on holiday now but hes rung me a couple of times to ask stuff about work and i get butterflies everytime i talk to him heres the problems-his wife left him after 10 years he has 4 children 2 small 2 teenagers by two different women-hes already casually dating someone he met and who gave him her number-some old family friend-he tells me all about it and i pretend to be happy for him. and hes always on about women even on facebook-interested in women adding women but when we talk he seems shy and sensitive i dont know whats going on and im not stupid but i cannot understand why i feel like this what would you excellent guys suggest please help xx Open Question: Too much of an age difference? And dating problem?Okay so, I want to ask out this guy. I am fifteen and a sophomore in high school. He is seventeen and a junior in high school, though he should be a senior. So we are two years apart, basically. Is that too much of an age difference? And also: I have a bit of a, kind of, complex scenario here. He and I were in elementary school together. We took a bus together and stuff. We both left when we were in sixth grade and went to different schools, he to an all-guys school and I to an all-girls school. I recently friended him on Facebook and we have chat a little bit. But then my friends friended him as well (one of them actually before me, given that I told her about him) and talked to him too. And recently one of my friends, who is a little weird I will honestly say, made a weird comment and he hasn't answered me since Friday. I mean the last comment I made to him was an answer to his question, and I don't know if he hasn't responded because I didn't ask a follow-up question or because of my friend...? So now my friends want me to ask him out, and I really want to as well. But I have never been in a relationship before, never kissed a guy, nothing. So I have no idea what to do. I really want to, though I am not the most gutsy person out there. I am sure once I get my nerve up I'll ask him, but I am not sure how to word it. I was thinking maybe just taking a walk around our neighborhood? (He lives at the end of my street.) Any help? Thanks in advance. :] Open Question: What on God's green earth does age have to do with relationships?Ok first of all when i was only 15, i was talking to this guy named ''James'' but he was 20. But nothing at all happend between us we just talked on the phone and that was it. My brother was 17 at the time and the other one was 20 so both of them and my mother had a problem and was saying he was too old for me but i think it's because of his age. Because i'm a virgin and very inexperienced with guys and they were being so mean saying things like '' He's too d*** old for you, and he knows what he's doing he just trying to get in your jeans''. But age has nothing to do with who you should or should not be dating but only the personality that matters and the way he carries his self. Open Question: why won't my ex give me closure?!?another way I could phrase this would be: "what the HELL is his problem?!" haha kay so I was with him for two years, we were happy together and were planning on moving in together after we got out of high school. we were each other's first in just about everything... first kiss, first serious significant other, first love.. etc. I helped him through rough times when his parents got divorced and his dad moved across the country, and he helped me with my troubles with depression. I supported him in soccer and went to all his games, and helped out in volunteering, and worked on my physical appearance so that all his friends envied his "hot" girlfriend. I basically always felt giddy around him and he shared a lot of the weird quirks that I have. oh my god, I think you can obviously tell I'm not over him. -.- well things went wrong when his mom decided she no longer wanted to be friends with my mom, and by extension didn't want him to be with me. she forbid him from seeing me, on threat of sending him away from me to live with his dad. we continued seeing each other in secret, but when she found out we went to prom together she called the police, got a temporary restraining order, (yeah apparently it's not hard to get them). when we went to court for the hearing on the TRO it got thrown out. two days later, back at school, my boyfriend wouldn't speak to me. he has never been mad at me, ever! he didn't want to tell me why, so I just let him be thinking he needed some time. the next day at school I got called into a peer mediation session (you know, where the school tries to resolve arguments between people). to my surprise, my boyfriend walked in, sat down, and told me he didn't want to be with me anymore. his reasoning was that "it would be better for the both of us." personally I think that was BS, a week earlier he had told me how much he loved me and wanted to eventually get married, and now he basically was telling me he didn't want anything to do with me. I tried to ask him what had changed so that his feelings for me had disappeared, and he basically avoided answering the question. he wasn't telling me the truth, I know it. he looked like he was on the verge of crying the whole time. the peer mediators commented on how upset he looked. I was just so embarrassed and shell-shocked I agreed to end the session just so I could go cry in private. later I tried approaching him when my head was clear. he kept telling me he didn't want to talk to me, and didn't care what I had to say or how I felt. basically, he did everything he told me he never would. I gave him time, it's now been 6 months. neither of us have dated anyone else. I tried seeing a few guys, but I'm so obviously still hung up on my ex that it wasn't fair to them to lead them on, so it never went anywhere. we always promised each other that if we broke up we would remain friends. I miss him as a person. I really would like to be friends with him, I am scared to death that I'm going to graduate and never see or speak to him again when I care so much about him. he's on my mind pretty much 24/7. whenever something good happens to me, I automatically want to run and tell him about it, but I can't and it makes me really sad. basically I want some closure. I want to understand what I did wrong so that I can move on and not make the same mistakes. I would like to know when his feelings for me evaporated and why. I want to know why he doesn't want to be friends anymore. however, he's ignoring me. his mom broke his cell phone so he couldn't talk to me, so I don't know his number. I try to send him messages on myspace asking for either an explanation or to be friends. he owes me one of those things. he just ignores me. in person, he'll smile and say hello if we pass in the hallway, and sometimes have some small talk with me. basically about how our classes are going, stuff going on in our lives, etc. he'll be very friendly, but online completely ignore me! I would bring up the deeper stuff in person, but there's never an opportunity/I get too nervous. whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy is he doing this? any insight into his behavior would be nice. I am a really good student, i.e. very high SATs and academic awards, but since we broke up my performance has absolutely tanked. I feel myself sinking back into my depression, despite the meds I'm on. nothing helps. I've tried moving on, I've tried distracting myself. nothing works for long. I'm tired of being hung up on him and not being able to move forward. so many people have told me I deserve better, he's a jerk, etc. but I still love him and care about him. man that was a whole lot. I feel like a complete basketcase. please give me some advice:) besides to forget about him, work on myself, etc. I tried that, hasn't worked well. should I try getting back with him? set up a peer mediation of my own to get answers? ask his friends? Open Question: Should i still try? (prefer a girls point of view)?So there is this girl im thinking of asking out on a date. I have not really talked to her that much so i would say we are acquaintances but I think she interested, she laughs at my jokes and gives me a smile when i walk past. I know your thinking that this sounds great and whats the problem.....So i tried asking her friend out someplace about a month and a half ago . And on top of that she was there when I did it...she shot me down and wasn't really a big deal. So girls how would u feel if a guy did that. Im not trying to come off as a player because im not. So im I completely screwed or is there something i can say that will help p.s--Im not really sure how good of friends these two girls are but i dont think there that close More Recent Articles
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