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Open Question: I need some advice. I have no idea what to do. Boy problems.? and more... Open Question: I need some advice. I have no idea what to do. Boy problems.?Okay, so, I need some advice. The guy that I like doesn't have time for me, because he's always so busy with school and sports and all that stuff. And we don't go to the same school. And we're not dating because of that. It's annoying. He says that he's sorry, but I don't know what to do anymore. I'm hanging on a limb here. I don't know whether I should just let him go, or let the situation go. What do you think I should do? Open Question: knowing he's the one after one meeting.?A few months ago I met this guy and we started to talk about a month or so ago. The first time that I talked to him I thought wow he is it. (I knew a little bit about him before this meeting.) Ever since then I cannot stop thinking of a future with him. I haven't done this before with any guy. The problem is we are not dating. It's strange to me and I think very nonsensical. At times I think yea it could happen then yea but it's irrational. Is this sensible or ridiculous thinking and feeling? Open Question: Now if your boyfriend said this to some other girl what would you do?Okay so here is the deal. First off my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2yrs. on and off and 6yrs. ago he had to got overseas for the military keep in mind back then we didn't know each other. Well he had ended up sleeping with a girl that was married back then and she said it wasn't his kid and now 5yrs. later she found him on facebook and said it maybe his kid but she doesn't want him to have anything to do with it and wont let him get a dna test. Do you think it's wrong of me to not want him to talk to her. Not to mention I had on of my friends add her on facebook because I couldn't see her page and she had wrote on her wall "I should have married a white boy." (She's Mexican) anyways the point is he responded back and said "Ya you should have...like me." And she said "U know u'r my dream man I'd do anything to be Mrs. ****** Anything." (Didn't want to say his last name.) My problem is we leave together and I'm not sure what I should do at first I just didn't like the fact that they were talking but I dealt with it do to the fact that even though I don't think it's his kid he isn't sure and wanted to know even if she wont tell him but now after reading that I'm not sure what to do? Please help Open Question: web cam problem!!!! i have a compaq presario C700 with in built webcam but when i start a video call in msn it?wont load the cam or knocks off my msn altogether. My drivers are up to date so any ideas on why this is happening??? Open Question: What should I do about my situation?I'm 23 yrs old, I've just finished my master's degree and landed a job which I love doing. My family is amazing and supportive so I realise that I've got a lot to be thankful for. Yet, for some reason, I'm very unhappy with my social life. At work, I've got great colleagues and I spend the breaks with them and we sometimes go out after work but during the weekends they're all busy with their own families (most are married). Around a year ago, I had a best friend (she was single) and I used to hang out with her on some weekends but she was very immature and we disagreed on a lot of things so I just didn't bother with the friendship anymore. I've been keeping myself busy and enrolled in some courses but still haven't made any friends. As far as relationships go, I've never been involved in a serious one...I've been on dates and had a couple of flings but nothing materialised into a relationship. Friends at work tell me that I'm very attractive and intelligent and that I should have no problems finding a boyfriend...yet I'm still single. Lately, my social life has been worrying me a lot....I'm a confident and find it easy to converse to people so I don't understand why I have to spend most weekends on my own. I've been thinking about moving to another country, starting a new life, and hopefully I'd be a happier person. However, I'm worried that I wouldn't be able to live in another country without knowing anyone and would eventually have to come back and look for another job. Should I take the plunge and start thinking about moving somewhere? Open Question: I am white girl dating an Indian guy, should I stay with him despite differences?I'm 19 and I have been dating my Indian (from India) boyfriend, 24, for about 5 months and care about him a lot. We have a great relationship and always have fun together. He's not religious, so there is no problem there, as that seems most likely. It's just that because of arranged marriages in his family and stuff, he really despises marriage and always says he never wants to get married or have kids. And I know that I really do one day. I have also read in many magazines, advice columns, etc, about guys who never wanted marriage until they were older, so I'm not sure if maybe he'll change his mind as time passes? We also are planning to move away together after he finishes his masters, but we don't know where. It may end up being another country. Is it worth it for me to go or am I just wasting my time? I know we're young, but I just want some advice on the whole situation. Open Question: Last date for me to send my EA SAT scores to MIT?Hello, I sent SAT scores to MIT already but the problem is that I originally signed up to have only my November SAT 2 scores sent since I studied for the tests and felt really confident that I was going to score much higher on them than the tests i took prevously. Turns out that I scored 10 points lower on one of my subject tests, which I think is like missing one question more than my previous test. I would like to send another score report to MIT so that they can still see the higher test score. Do you think it is too late for me to send this score report in, or do I still have time? Thanks Open Question: My Wife is a Food Addict. It's getting tough. Do I have the right to leave her?A little background. Sorry for the length, I want to ensure I get the whole picture across. When I met my wife, she was 200 lbs. For my wife's height and age, she should be 160 tops. Normally I would not have dated someone who was at least 40 lbs overweight, but she's a beautiful woman and has a phenomenal personality. Also, she had been working very hard to lose the weight (over 80 lbs lost at the time we met) and she HAD a unique passion to lose the rest. I found this passion amazing and it was one of the reasons I fell in love with her. Over the past 4 years, I have watched her go from one weight loss plan to another. We've spent THOUSANDS of dollars (and considered surgical options). Today, she is about 210 lbs. She has fluctuated between 180 and 255 over the time we have been together. To note, I battle with weight as well, but have managed for almost 2 years to stay at about 200 lbs or less (lowest was 180, people said I did not look healthy). As an example of what I go through, last night we were visiting family. Her cousin took out a bag of Doritos and passed them around. Normally, I would not eat this stuff, but since I had been good most of the week and they were my favorite Doritos flavor, I figured I would have a bit. I went over and asked for some (my wife had them at this point) & she motioned the bag towards me. I was chatting with someone at this point and only half paying attention. I tried to grab the bag, figured I could walk away with it as she had been eating them for a few minutes. She held the bag tight. When I looked over at her, she was glaring at me like I had done something horrible. I grabbed a few out of the bag instead and walked away. When I looked back a couple minutes later, she still had the bag. I whispered so nobody would hear, "Pass the bag". She just glared at me some more. This sort of thing happens VERY often. She asks me for my support, she asks me to tell her when she is doing someone bad or going too far. But when I do, it is met with cold stares, arguments and a bad attitude. She talks about getting help all the time, how hard it is or a new weight loss plan. Yet, in the end, she sabotages herself and/or quits and says it's too hard. My wife, overall, is very healthy. She's much more fit than I am. Kick-boxing twice a week, gym & running in the summer. Yet, she has not lost the weight. She eats more than I do, probably about %50 more calories every day, and uses the excuse that its because she works out more than I do. Even when she stops working out for a couple weeks, she still eats a lot. She also makes bad choices. This week, she ate an entire box of kraft dinner, half a medium pizza, a bunch of christmas sweets, Chinese food, half a bag of Doritos and who knows what else. I was at a company function with deep fried everything and a veggie platter. I ate 1 wing, a couple small spring rolls, a couple grilled chicken skewers and filled up on veggies. I know it's all about the choices we make, she tends to make the wrong choices most of the time. I've been working very hard to keep my weight down, she likes it when I am in the 190s. She cannot seem to do the same for me. This is not the only area in which she shows no concern for my feelings. At times, I feel that she simply does not respect any of my needs. These other things are minor in the grand scheme of things, they just compound this one major problem. It's getting hard to be supportive, I am fed up. She's impossible to deal with at times. As sweet and wonderful as she is most of the time (seriously, she's amazing, everyone loves her to death), she can get vicious in an argument (most people have no idea). She tends to attack & she knows it, but it has not gotten any better. Over 4 years of this, coming close to 5 years. I'm not sure I can handle it any more. She's tried a lot of pills. Acai is one of them. I've recommended counseling. Once, she even admitted she might need it. She just gets upset if I bring it up so nothing has happened in that area. Sorry, one more VERY important thing. I love this woman more than I've ever loved anyone else. Relationships, commitment & love are some of the hardest things for me to deal with, I've never been very good at any of them (childhood thing). I am and have always been utterly & deeply faithful to her in any way I can be. As I said, overall, she's uniquely wonderful and she makes me want to be a better person. It's amazing she has this dark side very few understand, see or know about. She says her childhood was a happy one & she has amazingly loving parents. Mine was a bit of the opposite. What would you do? Mountain Man, that is not constructive at all and simply rude. Seriously, do you think that was a beneficial answer in any way?! Forsaken & Angelbunny17: Thank you for your responses. I am not thinking of leaving due to her illness, I know it is hard for her. I am thinking of leaving due to the way she treats me. I know, "sickness & health", but what if your spouse's condition is damaging to you and there does not seem to be a light at the end of a tunnel. Food addiction is nearly as serious as drug or alcohol. I've lived through drug addiction (not myself, my parents), it nearly destroyed me and my sister is still battling with what it did to her. My wife is killing herself with the drastic weight fluctuations and she is hurting me when she lashes out. Open Question: What should i do about my guy friend??? HELP!?Okay, so I have this really good guy friend. And he has had a couple girlfriend in the past, in my opinion who had low self esteems,were selfish, or just plain out slutty. This last girl that he liked i was for sure they were going to stay together! But it turned out that she had problems and she wanted them to all go to him. My guy friend has given up on dating now and I think he is trying to hit on me.( im a girl) What should i do? he's one of my best friends!should i like him back? HELP!Thank you! More Recent Articles
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