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Open Question: Is my best friend really my best friend? and more... Open Question: Is my best friend really my best friend?I started dating a guy that she was good friends with because he'd been asking for 8 months. I finally said yes, and everything was great. I thought he was the one, but he started having my best friend talk to me about every problem he had with me, including me being abusive in relationships and being a bitch, which were both reasons i rejected him so much and he always told me that he didnt mind that. Also, when i jokingly hit him or something my best friend jumped all over me, which was totally embarrasing especially in public, telling me i was going to lose him if i kept doing that and things like that. I really didnt think it was any of her business. She ran my relationship and i found that disrespectful. I mentioned to him one night in confidentiality, and i asked him to not tell her that i said that her running my relationship aggravated me. He told her. After months of not having any confidentiality in my relationship i finally ended it, well, with ending my relationship, my best friend also became more distant to me and her boyfriend began to hate me and we used to be a tight group. I finally snapped and told her that i felt she ran every relationship i had and that i thought it was disrespectful. She got mad and it became a fight, which eventually ended. Well, i finally found a new relationship, which i am still currently in and me and him met her for lunch right before my current bf took me to his dad's gravesite. I had to go by my house for something before we rode to the grave, she insisted that she take me, knowing where we were going when we left there and that we were in a rush to get there by dark. She took the long way around, and as my bf stood outside waiting, she came in and the entire time all she talked about was me getting back into the relationship i had ended, i told her i thought that was disrespectful of her and she got mad and left, since then, we have barely spoken or anything of the sort, and its really upsetting. Also, i am bisexual. Which she knew. I got into a relationship with a girl and she became even more distant than before. is she really my best friend? Open Question: Should I be dating this guy? Please if you have experience please help!?There's this guy who's been my best friend for about 3 years now. We know each other inside and out, we've told each other EVERYTHING. We talked about relationship problems, emotional problems, we never hid anything from each other. The thing is he developed a drug problem, but I was the first person he told it to when he came clean about doing heroin. He developed an addiction for the course of about 6 months and has more recently decided to get clean. He's been clean for almost two months now. However we had admitted a while before this to having feelings for each other. Strong ones. I believe we love each other. Everyone is telling me the same old "you shouldn't date him, you're going to be hurt, you should never date an addict" and I've heard it all before and I'm aware of my emotions and I can read him like a book, he's never been able to hide anything from me before, even if he tried. I knew. It's just this situation seems so much different than any of the other ones I've heard of and I feel like I need to do this, but I would like to hear advice from someone else, someone preferably with experience. Please help me! Thank you! Open Question: Do I tell him about her?I signed up on this free-online dating website. I was hoping to find someone special but I haven't after about a month or so. Problem is, I kinda resemble a good friend of mine. I put a picture up and this guy emailed me. Turns out this guy is the guy my friend has been bonkers over for the past year. I think he likes her too b/c he isn't shy to hold and maintain eye contact among other things. I'm tempted to hook them up, should I? I don't want to be obvious but these two seem ideal for each other. Both are single. How do I approach this so that no one is rejected? Open Question: HELP! movies movies movies!?I am dying to watch a movie with my sister- but one problem. What movie? I can get any movie, so dont worry about what i own. I want it to be romantic comedy or comedy, i want to laugh(: PG-13. NO R. never.. and make sure the PG-13 isnt too bad, like... blades of glory is too bad... 50 firsts dates is fine. dont say.. 50 first dates blades of glory guess who? my big fat greek wedding he's just not that into you i think thats it thanks:D thanks!!!! house bunny sounds good :P its funny, because all the others ive seen *giggles* only on the first person. I thought talledega nights was R? Open Question: Should i wait for her?I have had some relationship problems is the past few months. I knew her for one and a half years before i proposed. When i proposed she told me she had a bf, till then there wasn't even a hint that she was committed, everything that she did i felt that she is also in love with me and she was later. But before that, her bf was a basterd, he was playing double game, he was trying to date her friend at the same time, she didn't know about it until her friend told that. It was her first love and she was broken, and it all happened after i proposed to her. He lied to her even after that, telling her that her friend only proposed and all. So about 2 months later, she said that she loved me. I was happy and i just didnt think what might happen. Actually i was in a different city studying, so i wasnt able to meet her much, only when i used to come back home for weekend once a months i used to meet her. Everything was going smooth for about 6 months, we were happy and we even decided to get married after studies. But then, i have never been with girls before, so i made some mistakes like we would meet but i never used to drop her till her house, i never listened to her and a couple more. I dont know if she started feeling insecure with me, She used to say that he did a lot of sweet things and i didnt really do anything much, so i developed some inferiority complex. Then slowly she started saying that i shud forget her, i deserve a better person etc etc.. She was close with him, and she said that she is not able to forget him. i tried to put some sense into her but she is very stubborn and adamant, so she didnt change her decision. She told me not to love her, she even stopped talking to me, but i never stopped, i tried to talk and eventually she got irritated and she started talking to me just like a normal person without any love. She even said that she doesnt have any love for me anymore. Now i m in a different country for higher studies and i miss her like hell but she will never talk, never attend my calls, even if she attends she tells "y r u calling me?", "y shud i talk to u?" etc etc. But i do know that she still has love for me, she is really a nice girl, but she feels she will spoil my life and that i deserve a better person. But i dont want another girl, i know she is the one for me, i dont know what i should be doing. I wont be able to meet her for a year. She said that if her parents want her to marry someone she will marry and i wont even know about it. Should i just wait and give her time? she is very stubborn, i dont know if she will change. Its really killing me. I havent really described it fully, i just need to know others opinion on this. Open Question: My Ex is still trying to control me and he is out of town. Help !?My ex just went away to Aruba. A trip that had to be planned in advance because you have to take a plane and he had to make sure his time share was available. He did not tell me about this trip or when he was going. We have joint visitation and per our court order he had it listed that "each parent is allowed one vacation a year without our child," which I'm fine with. (not to mention he has already taken his 1 vacation this year and I choose not take mine without my child) When I emailed him to get it in writing about the dates of his trip, I remined him I was 9mths pregnant and I just need to put arrangements in place for our 8 year old in case I go into labor. Example: so she can be picked up from school. The day after Thanksgiving I sent this email with know response from him. I found out from my 8 year old when she said "Daddy is coming over to say goodbye." That he was going away that night and that she was going to go to his mothers to cover his visitation days. He never told me. His mother then tried to get out of watching her, which was know surprise, knowing her history. My 8 year old got extremly nervous and was afraid daddy was going to get mad. I was scared to keep her home because of how aggressive he is to me, but wanted to since I would rather have her with me all the and was relived when his mother declined to watch her. I figured that her father can't get mad at me now. My 8 year old knowing how her dad yells at me all the time, tried to avoid the future conflict and hid to call her Nana- then pleded to go over her house. In the end, I felt bad for my 8 year old and allowed her to sleepover her Nana's house, with the agreement it would be for one night. I just got a text message from her father demanding that our daughter stay at his mothers, that I am not to pick her up and that he already told me where she would be. - the problem started because he never told me He is in Aruba, out of state and I want to pick my child up and feel there is know reason for her to be at his mothers when I am perfectly capable of watching her and want to. If he had called me to tell me of his anticipated vacation I would have told him that I want to have her. He choose not to tell me. It seems like he was planning on leaving for his vacation without telling me and then remembered I was due to go into labor and he got nervous, probably figuring this would look good for me in court, if he left on his visitation days. Now I want to go pick her up tomorrow, but since I am afraid of him I am nervous for when he comes home that I am going to get yelled at or that I am going to get abusive text messages until he returns home. I am pushing 30 and am trying to work on sticking up for myself when it deals with him, but it is so tough when my 8 year old unintenionally gets put in the middle. What would you do ? Open Question: Cousin && ex's problem?At the beqinninq of the year i was dating this boy but some things had happened and we ended up not going to trip over that. So I moved on and I went with this other boy . We went out for 3 almost 4 months but we had alot of problems in our relationship so we broke up. Then 2 weeks later my cousin started dating him ! I was like WTF. I was real pissed off. I don't know if she doing this on purpose. Should I confront her about that ? Open Question: I really like this girl a lot. What am I supposed to do in this situation?Ok I'm a junior in high school and she is a senior. I have had a crush on her for the past three years after I met her and really like her a lot. And I finally got up the nerve to ask her out a few weeks ago and she said yes. Everything is going well and I get her to go out on a couple more dates. Then all of a sudden she starts distancing herself from me. I ask her what is wrong and finally a couple of days later I drag the problem out of her. She says that since she is about to go to college and I'm not going yet then she doesn't want to get too attached to me or me to her so we would have to be friends. She says I did nothing wrong whatsoever. What should I do? Oh and the college I want to go to is an hour and a half away from her's Open Question: Girls-What would your expression be like if your boyfriend gave you this?Okay I have this computer I'm not going to use anymore because my parents are going to buy me a real nice computer for Christmas. I want to give my old laptop to my girlfriend but I'm going to fix it up and give it good software along with virus protection. Two keys are missing from it but it won't be a problem because I'm going to Ebay to purchase the same color keys then clip them back on. The thing is I've been dating her for two months now but I figure that her parents are okay with it I thought about just giving it to her at the Christmas party anyways. My dad mention about our computer that we might give to her and she said it would be okay if we did. They only have one desktop and her mom broke the laptop...don't really know why. But it's going to be my girl's computer and nobody is allow on it without her permission. How would she react to it? I have a feeling she won't really care about my gift...idk...I'm putting a lot of thought into it and I really want to make her happy. It's not really romantic but I'm going to put a beach sunset as the desktop back round. Her family is poor and can't afford another computer. More Recent Articles |
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