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Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....? and more... Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....?I have been dating my current boyfriend for 7 months now. At the beginning of the relationship we had a long conversation on jealousy, and he expressed to me that he's never felt that emotion towards any of his previous girlfriends because he feels that it leads to irrational behaviour and can consequently harm the relationship. I completely agreed with him on that part but he continued to say that he wouldn't even care if his exes slept with other people as long as it made them happy. When he first told me this I thought that it must have just been a way of protecting himself from his previously slutty girlfriends and unhealthy relationships by convincing himself "he didn't care". I thought that as time went by and our realtionship grew stronger, that he might feel differently towards me and maybe show some emotion when it came to feelings of jelousy. But he's repeatedly expressed to me that he doesn't care if i were to see other guys or even if I were to have sexual relations with them because love has nothing to do with lust. I told him that his way of thinking concerend me because I'd certainly have a problem if he were to cheat on me and he assured me that he only wants my happiness and that he'd never do anything to hurt me. I just don't know what to think...I don't find it normal for a person not to care at all about their partner's relations with the opposite sex. I'm not saying for him to be a jealous nutjob but I just feel like his not caring about this kind of stuff is another way of saying that what's between us is not serious. I see it as human nature to be just a bit jealous because of the natural fear of losing someone you really care about...I don't know, is it just me?? What do you think? Open Question: Can someone help me please?So I had my daughter in March 2007, then suffered two miscarriages 10 weeks apart. In February 2008 I had a surgery that diagnosed stage 3 endometriosis and was given a less than 1% chance of conceiving and carrying on my own. 6 weeks later, I conceived my son, who will be 1 year old on Tuesday. So, when my son was 5 weeks old, my husband decided he did not want anymore kids and had a vasectomy. I still wanted one more, and to add insult to injury, he had his vasectomy on the 1 year anniversary of my second miscarriage. This caused many problems between us, almost to the point of divorce. Things have worked out and are much better now. So, I guess you could say, I'm not really trying, because I know the chances are slim, but... I came to this forum because I'm sure many of you know of or have used Cheri22, Brooke and/or Jennyrenny. When I used them about my son, Cheri was correct about my conception month, but predicted a girl. Both Jenny and Brooke predicted a girl, but a month of August. I contacted them again and Cheri told me she sees me connected to 3 children, two girls and a boy, and given that my boy came in before my second girl, she predicts a month connection of November. SHe has since updated to December. Both Jenny and Brooke predicted, with my son, August. I have not yet received my predictions for this time around from Jenny or Brooke. Now, here's my real question: My period is due tomorrow, a 26 day cycle with ovulation having occured on November 15. I felt the pain. I had intercourse with my husband the day before and the day after. Since Monday, I've been having slight cramps, been nauseous, no vomitting, slight bloating, heightened sense of smell (everything smells REALLY badly to me, even if it's fresh), and not to mention the fatigue..OMG!!! I just feel so tired all the time, no matter how much I sleep. I've been checking my cervical position every morning all week, and it's gone from high and soft, to medium and firm, but neither hard nor soft, and this morning it's back to high, soft, closed and wet. I have also been having a stringy, clear/white discharge. So, I need some insight. So with one day before my expected period, what does the high, soft, closed and wet mean in regards to cervical position, and is there a possibility that, despite my husband's vasectomy, Cheri could be right, and I could be pregnant again? I almost forgot, if I did somehow manage to get pregnant this month, my due date would be in August, making Jenny and Brooke's original predictions correct. I almost forgot again. I've been moody to the point of b**chy and not wanting to be touched at all. I also feel like I have a shorter temper with my kids, and I've lost all my patience. I feel like I scream at them a lot and have NEVER been like that right before or during a period, but have been when I was pregnant with my son. One more detail, his sample came back with dead swimmers. None were alive, but there were some there. It is unknown if they were alive or not when he turned the sample in. Open Question: need Christian advice?I am a Christian 30 year old single mother was not very directed when I was younger, thanks to God I found the truth of Jesus when I was pregnant. When I found out I was expecting my son, I was so thankful to find the truth of Jesus and I wanted to dedicate myself to raising him the right way with love and Christian values. The thing is I am a single mother as his father I was with once and not by choice so he is no longer in our lives. I lived with my mother for about five years my son was growing. I didn't date, I tried to make money by working jobs I could do while caring for him, and I went to school trying to get my Elementary Education degree. my mother and we have lots of differences of opinion, like our belief in Jesus, and for the first time in five years I started to date this one man I had been friends with this led to my mother and I agreeing I should move out this past August, three months ago. My son had just turned five and I was having a very hard time trying to put him in public school, I am worried and scared that he will not recieve the love and have a hard tiem being away from me and feel lost. When I moved out instead of putting him in school full time and working, I rented a room from another Christian mother and continued a job as a nanny so I could bring my son with me and homeschool him. This was okay, the problem is that the nanny position the family has not paid me for a months' of work, and that was rent money. Now I am left with no rent and on top of that I didn't pay for a ticket I got ( I know I was speeding sadly, I know it is wrong, sorry) and they gave me fees I have to pay. I would be okay and could afford all of that if the people I was watching the children for paid me the money for the four weeks they didn't pay me for. It is a long story but it would go two weeks and they would pay me a little and then three they would pay me a little but all in all they do owe me about four weeks of work. So I confronted them finally, and because they are believers too I thought they would be honest but we know that Christian doesn't mean perfect (I know I am not!) so basically even thought I thought they would pay me, they will not. So now in days all this is due, I feel like maybe I made a mistake in not putting my son in public school ( I just wanted to home school him until next year when I could affort putting him in a relgious school). I just feel really anxious. How am I going to pay for all this stuff and was I wrong to watch their children in good faith? I don't plan on going back to work for them, as now that they didn't pay me and I didn't pay my tickets yet I am not going to be able to drive legally by Tuesday anyway. I am feeling really unfit as a mother. How could I let this happen? I really was trying to make sure my son and their children were cared for with someone who belives in Jesus and God, but maybe I am failing? I don't know where to go from here Thank you for your kindness and Christian direction, it is appreciated by me so much. Thank you, I send you love as brothers and sisters who also believe in Christ and God Open Question: I need some help??Do you think i could get induced early?According to my first scan, my EDD is December 23rd but when i calculated my LMP, my due date should be December 12th because the last time i had unprotected sex was the last week in march. This is my first child and i heard that they have a tendency to come at least a week after their due date which means that i would not have my baby until around New years if i dont go into labour myself as my hospital has a policy of leaving women go over by 10 extra days to see if they go naturally before they will consider induction. My problem is, im due to start back in college on January 13th. I have to take a month off college as it is for my pregnancy so i cannot ask for any more time off which means that i wont even have 2 weeks to bond with my baby before i have to return. Do you think that if i asked my doctors to induce me between 39 and 40 weeks that they would, considering my position?? More Recent Articles
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