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Open Question: My girlfriend wants to be friends with her ex and it bothers me.? and more...

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Open Question: My girlfriend wants to be friends with her ex and it bothers me.? and more...

Open Question: My girlfriend wants to be friends with her ex and it bothers me.?

Well here's what happened. I noticed an old ex-girlfriend of mine who was still my friend on Facebook got a new Camaro in her profile picture. Out of curiosity, I texted her to see if it was really hers or her moms. I don't have a problem with my ex, I've come to accept that we were never going to have worked out anyway. So I have no real hard feelings even though she kind of used me when we did date (long story) So she texted me back while I was with my girlfriend and she got mad. I explained the situation to her but I can tell it bothered her. Thing is, my ex didn't even answer me so it's not like we are "friends." However, I did say that I was still technically friends with her, but that I only talk to her like once a year at best and I never hang out with her. Now my girlfriend says she wants to make contact with her ex and be friends with him. It seems like I would be a hypocrite if I told her I didn't like the idea. But see, I'm not really even friends with my ex, I just was curious how she got such a nice car. I know I could never be friends with her ex myself. I just don't like the idea of her talking to him. I'm trying to be mature about it, but it bothers me. What do I do? I just don't want her to do much more than just saying "Hey what have you been up to" if she HAS to talk to him. Because I just don't really want them to be friends. But I'm trying to do the right thing here.

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Open Question: why is he acting like this, when we arent even a couple?

ive been seeing this gyu for 2 months and i wouldnt say that we are really dating ,we just chill out and have sex with eachother.im not really wanting a relationship right now and i dont think he is either.. altho he is always asking me what ive been doing and just questions a bf would ask..yesterday i was at his place but didnt want to stay long because i could tell he was getting sick so i made other plans. i told him that i was gona leave soon and than when i did he seemed kinda pissed..so i did go out regardless and this morning i was telling him that it was a shitty night for me anyways and i said that my one friend that was there is a mother and |(shes 21) and has a baby and i had to take care of her drunkass while my other friend left me to go get booze.. and when i told him this hes like 'so u were chilling with a mother' and im like 'your an *******' , i mean whats his problem first off shes my friends friend ,but thats not the point its like hes jealous i left him to hang with friends and than has to make fun that she has a baby.. i asked him what his problem was because he made a comment saying about me leaving,which made me think he wasnt happy bout me leaving and i asked him if he was mad i left and hes like no.. but after that (this was all on msn btw) we barely talked..iono what his problem is>? we arent really even dating but it feels like we are? help please.. also even tho we arents technically dating its not like im seeing other men, and i dont think hes seeing other women,but we dont go out on real dates// also lsat week, he told me he had a friend come over after me and i guess i left my hairclip and his friend saw it and asked him whats been going on and if he had a friend here,and this is what he said to me 'i told him whats been going on' ..what is that supposed to mean?

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