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Open Question: Not sure what to do or how to react...does this mean what I think it means???!? and more... Open Question: Not sure what to do or how to react...does this mean what I think it means???!?I am having a serious problem with the guy i'm dating, who "claims" he wants to marry me. First things first, we've been together off and on since early 2005. When we met, he lied about being married. When I found out, I ended things but still communicated with him every so often. About a year after that he claimed he'd turned his life around, gotten divorced, and wanted to start a new life with me. I was all for it, and very happy. But then guess what? He had to move out of state for a job, we had to do the long distance thing, and he called me one day and told me he'd met someone else, and he then subsequently ended up marrying her. Fast forward to LAST YEAR. He comes back into my life. He informed me that he's split up with his second wife and is in the process of getting a divorce. He again begs to get in my good graces and start something up with me, and I agree thinking finally, finally, I can be with him, and he is no longer the dog i'd been calling him. Well, Thanksgiving comes and we didn't spend it together because we are still living in different states until I move to where he is. I'd previously asked him where he would be spending his Thanksgiving, and he told me that he had a lot of things on his mind, and just really wanted to be alone, so he wasn't going to his family's or anything. I took that as a cue that I didn't need to travel to see him since he was clearing his mind. I called him Thanksgiving day, and I asked him what he was doing. He said he had some friends over cooking. When I asked him who? He said his wife, and her sister, and other friends. HE said "wife"...not ex wife. Even though the divorce isn't finalized, he's always called her his ex wife since they split, I guess to show me his intent on divorcing her. But now, he spends Thanksgiving with her and calls her his wife? I'm so confused. I got so frustrated and haven't talked to him since because I needed cool off time. What do I do? Does this mean he's leaving AGAIN? We've known each other since I was 22....and I have loved him every since, but every time I think we will finally be together, he walks away again. What do I do? What should I say to him when we finally do communicate again? I know I needed to lay off until he was fully divorced, but I have loved this man for so long.....I just jumped at the chance to be with him. Please help! :-/ Open Question: I really need help.....I do not think I will ever get over her, she was my best friend :(?Well back in April I told my best friend of 2 years I had fallen for her....she was perfect an we had amazing chemistry we where as close as could be. Only problem was I told her while she had a bf of 2 months this jerk who is really well off an stuff. Anyways for a bit it was okay until her bf found out an called me out we had a heated exchange of facebook messages in which she ended up choosing him :( but even after that a month later she was my graduation date I was so happy an it was the best night of my life, I treated her the best I could an we even danced together "her first slow dance ever " so even knowing if her bf found out they would break up....anyways after that night I never saw her again we texted an chatted but she slowlly started cutting contact an we argued almost regularly than she totally cut contact deleted me from msn, facebook an got a new number :( over the summer all this caused me to be reall depressed including almost killing myself twice an being "evaluated" for months I have a psychologist now and just recently quit my meds. She knows none of this Anyways late august for her bday I left her a gift on staircase an old(worn once) jersey of mine with her name on it, she loved it and TEXTED ME :D an a week later was my birthday she didnt call or get me anything but it was okay....all she did was send me a text saying she wished the best for me and prayed I had a great day.... it is now been almost 3 months since my birthday and I have not stopped thinking of her..I tried dating another girl but I couldnt get over not having my best friend....somedays I just really wanna end it cause no one else gets me like her....I really am trying but dunno how much more I can handle....my dumb psycologist keeps filling my head with she must miss u too an yadda yadda but I just wanna talk to her an hold her again.....Please someone help me I just need some sorta I unno support? which I don't really have :( I am 18 she is 21 an her bf I think is like 22 or so If that matters Open Question: I have a IBM Thinkpad T20 and I have to set up the date and time in bios everytime I turn it on and then I am?able to go in to Windows XP. so what is wrong and how can i fix this problem? Please help... thanks Open Question: is he sincere ? confused,? fragile ?help plz?this guy thats just started my job two weeks ago and myself have been working together the last week and i cant describe whats happened but i felt myself very drawn to him and we got on so well-even he agreed. im on holiday now but hes rung me a couple of times to ask stuff about work and i get butterflies everytime i talk to him heres the problems-his wife left him after 10 years he has 4 children 2 small 2 teenagers by two different women-hes already casually dating someone he met and who gave him her number-some old family friend-he tells me all about it and i pretend to be happy for him. and hes always on about women even on facebook-interested in women adding women but when we talk he seems shy and sensitive i dont know whats going on and im not stupid but i cannot understand why i feel like this what would you excellent guys suggest please help xx Open Question: What was your worst transit you have ever lived through?WHOO! One of the worst transits I have ever lived through is over! PLUTO SQUARE MY VENUS Funny enough, I've just gotten engaged. Romance was a big problem for me over the course of the last four months or so. God, how much it sucked! I did learn to deepen my relations with other people though and to not base decisions for relationships on sex alone. Bad idea! What was your worst transit you've lived through to date, and what did you experience? And more importantly, what did you learn from it? Open Question: Help me with relationship problems?i know a guy who says that he likes me but hes always hanging out with 2 other girls, who he has dated before. i dont want to date him until im sure he doesnt like them anymore but im not sure because he is with them all the time, and when i see him and he's with them he doesnt even notice me, but then when im just talking to him hes really sweet. i dont know whats to do! help! please Open Question: How can I keep my anxiety from wrecking my relationship with my boyfriend?Maybe I should give some background to my issue. My boyfriend and I had been "hanging out" long before we started dating. Before we were dating, I had problems with him lying to me. He told me we couldn't see each other anymore and that he wouldn't see anyone else. Then he ended up seeing someone else and kind of broke my trust a little bit because we still continued to hang out. Since we've been dating, I've noticed that he has looked at stuff on my phone a bit when he thinks I'm not looking. Recently, I looked at stuff on his phone. It just feels like such a big mess. HELP! I'm not just going to break up with him, we've been dating for almost 6 months. Things have been better since we started dating, it's mainly my anxiety issues that causes me to doubt him. I've had troubles with anxiety since 8th grade. Open Question: why did he just go silent on me?!?i think ive been rejected but i'm not totally sure lol - the guy ive liked for a few months invited me out for dinner with some mutual friends last night, but anyway it turned out that almost everyone else wasn't coming and so he said to me on the phone that he didn't think it was gunna be happening anymore, and i suggested that me and him could still meet up as i hadn't seen him in ages, but there was just a silence from his end lol! i wasn't asking him on a date or anything! we're friends and i wanted to catch up with him. but he obviously wasn't that keen to see me again, even though he invited me to this dinner :/ ive realised that he's always been inviting me to hang out when there's at least one other person there - ive hardly ever been on my own with him, yet he has other female friends who he has no problem hanging out with one-to-one. what do you think his deal is? Open Question: My girlfriend doesn't love me (generic eh?)?I have been dating a wonderful girl who will be referred to as True, well I and true met off of a dating site, after talking to her on the phone I assumed she was fat, because she sounded fat. It didn't matter I was very attracted to her personality. We met near her house which is roughly 60 miles away, I spent the night the first night, we made love the night that followed and jumped into the relationship as what I would deem as ridiculously quickly. It felt right, everyone has said that before, but it really did we were really close very quickly and a couple times when we made love we were on such a similar wavelength we could read each others thoughts. I then proceed a few weeks later to give her a promise ring.(I am so in love with her)(AWWAWWWW MUSHYMUSHY) Anyways, we have alternated fairly well between her coming over here and I over there, makes it easier to alternate. Her Mom: Dating a guy we will call Pushover, while she dates Pushover regularly (who believes he is the only guy in her life) she also dates a guy name corvette guy, and snake man at least once each and bangs snake guy(the noises will haunt me until I die from carbon monoxide poisoning in my garage) Also fucks a married guy named Big-armed-Mexican :O, fucks him whenever she is horny. She has been buying pot and cigarettes for her daughter at least since she was 16 and smokes it with her. This woman wont even tell her parents she smokes because they are very judgmental , I hear they are great grandparents though and really take care of there family, and her mom also takes care of her household and daughter very well. She is very judgmental of me and thinks I'm trash, I think. She walks around in her panties alot. -_- My vision is now darkening from the sheer mental problems that are developing from seeing this. What her mother does is her business , but just giving you background info. And a note of what kind of upbringing I've had, before I give you my dilema. Raised by my mom and grandmother, loving household, didnt know the "F-Word" until I was 17, waited till I was 18 to have sex, joined the army. My mom only had sex with one person her entire life, she is a very devout christian. I met my dad when I was 19 or 20. The worst thing she ever called me was a booger. In anger, I'm serious. Isn't that a sheltered existence? WELKELELELLLLL MY problem is; True made a point to tell me that she felt I was really special (^.~) and proceeded to show me that she deleted her dating account( I deleted mine a week before) I then a few days later told her i deleted mine, to let her believe she was leading the trend so to speak. We had each others passwords for each others emails, not a big deal, well I noticed she had logged into a dating site, and had known she went to a singles meeting near where she lived a week ago, I wasn't too worried but, the previous weekend she had been distant, i attributed it to stress.(shit happens then you die, sometimes we get moody) Well the next weekend she was incredibly distant also and she just wasn't interested in sex (on a sidenote our sex was amazzzazzzing)((like KABOOM))(((Like oh my F9436754 mc squared)) ~<(It was pleasurable)>~ So i asked her about it , because I just figured she wasn't interested anymore, I told her that I was interested in the relationship we agreed on and if things moved to quickly or she wasn't ready to be a one man guy we could have an open-relationship, I also told her that I didn't have eyes for anyone else either and that if it was my choice, or whatever. Thhhhaaat I would want to just stay with her, she agreed, I was really stressed out because...This woman...She is like a wife to me in my mind, that's my mindset, to take care of her and complete her, and make her happy anyway I could(I was raised by two women, don't make fun of me >.<) I was still really hurt though, she could tell.-_- Well she promised me...she would never hurt me again..I really believed her because....She's my baby >.<, next week she did it again made two more profiles, one was an obvious fake meant to bait me, so I asked her about it, and she reemed me out and called me sketchy.. I asked her why she was playing games, and tried the best I could to let her know I'm a mature 22 year old I don't play games, it isn't fair. She then said I was reading all her emails, to be honest, yeah I was logging into her email because she said she didn't care, when I was bored I was going down the list and unsubscribing her from various emails that were obviously spam. I asked her before if it bother her if I had her email stuffz and she said "No I don't have anything to hide" Somewhere in the conversation I said well you have my passwords and she said "Well there is never anything there, your probably deleting it all"...Which makes me assume, well your logging into my email too? If we had a mutual understanding that we didn't care, and told each other our passwords I'm kinda thinking uhhhhh? Well I..... I was jus Open Question: in love with a girl whos in love with another guy do i move on?im madley in love with this girl and she tells me dailey that she loves me edont sound like a problem well then comes the other guy shes been in love with for awhile me and her will date but then he comes around and messes everything up she wont move on from him n right now shes prego by neaither one of us and says she dont know who she wants but the other guy has done so much for her but then leaves her all the time and ive done everything in my pwoer for her never left her always by her side but shes says hes better should i keep fighting for her or move on Open Question: i have a huge problem with relationships.?I have this problem that i cant seem to explain. I have my share of guys who are interested in me, but i dont like any of them. some of them are pretty cute too. At first i just thought that its normal, and i just need to find that special guy, but this has been going on since 9th grade, and im a senior getting ready to graduate. ive only ever had 2 bfs and neither of them lasted more than a month. if i like a guy, i lose interest once i find out they like me too. sometimes i try to force myself to like a guy who it would make sense to be with, but i just cant. i feel like there is really something wrong with me, i just cant like anyone! i went on a date last night and it was perfect, i just dont like the guy, this happens with every guy i talk to! can someone explain whats wrong with me?? my best friend is the same exact way, we are the only 2 ppl in the world i know about who is like this. please help! More Recent Articles
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