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Open Question: Priority date current but out of status? and more...

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Open Question: Priority date current but out of status? and more...

Open Question: Priority date current but out of status?

My friend came to the US on a visitors visa and overstay and married a greencard holder. he filed i130 for her and its approved. now the priority date is current . her husband is still a greencard holder can she adjust even though she is still out of status? her husband have problem getting his citienship. yak rider .. i dont think u understood the question

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Open Question: Am i asking too much?

I really like this girl. we have been dating for 3 weeks. Her last 2 boyfriends played her and now she has a hard time trusting guys. She has told me she really really likes me. The first problem is that she always thinks im going for other girls and she is afraid that im going to leave her. But i wont. im not that kind of guy. She is constantly accusing me of flirting with other girls. But im not. Problem number 2 is that she has guys hanging all over her because she flirts with them. I would be severely concerned with this if she wasnt going on dates with me every friday night and hanging with me on saturdays. But, her friend told me that she likes all the guys she has dated this year but she likes me way way more. I would feel good about this, but when she listed them all. it ended up being 11 other guys... Problem three. Ive asked her to be my girlfriend 2 times and the first time she thought some other girl liked me so she wanted to make sure she was the only one. and the second one, some other girl came over and started talking to me after ward and she said she wasnt sure if i was ready to commit to her. But i am. I'm willing to wait for her but im not willing to get played. There are other girls who do like me and i could go after and get but i want her. I just want a girl who is nice, pretty and trustworthy and i know isnt going to freak if i talk to my girls who are friends and is also willing to give me some friend space too... am i asking too much?

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Open Question: is this depression or am i insane?

lets see... im 19, i am a guy, and i hate my life. basically, im not really sure whats wrong with me, or if there even is anything wrong. iv always had depression problems, but just brushed it aside, because i never really thought it was a big deal. mainly because other people i know who have depression problems, always seemed to have a legit reason. as for me, mine always seemed to be pointless and stupid. up untill january of this year, iv never had a best friend that i could rely on. i had friends, but it seemed like i was much closer to them than they were to me. iv known one guy for a couple years, and about a year ago we started hanging out more and became better friends. in january i hung out with him and his friends, and eventually became a regular in their group. but it all went down hill from there. see, iv never really thought of myself as gay, or even straight. iv never been interested in anyone. i dont want a relationship, and honestly, i just dont think i would ever be able to last 2 months in one. it could be because noones ever shown much attention to me in that way. but in january, when i met my best friend Justin, it changed everything. hes the kind of guy that is playful, and jokes about being in a relationship with other guys. im pretty sure he isnt gay, because he dates my female cousin now... but im the kind of person that gives hugs and says things like "i love you" to my friends, wethere theyre male of female, and hes like that too. iv never met anyone else like that. the longer i knew him, the better of friends we became. i guess it was the end of the summer before i really thought about it... i think im in love with him. i know im in love with him. iv never felt about anybody the way i do him. it scares the shit out of me, because i dont know what to do. i know if i tell him hes gonna hate me, and think im insane, but everyday is another day i die inside because i have to watch him hold hands with my cousin, and know that he loves her and not me. this on top of all the other depression im going through, is just a bad mixture. its emotionally killing me, and i just dont know how much i can take. it seems like the only things that calm me down are the things that are physically killing me. im trying to quit drugs, alcohol and smoking, but it seems theres nothing else to turn to. normally i would try to talk to him about it, but this isnt something that you can chat about at the dinner table. there is seriously something wrong here. and if he ever found out, i would probably kill myself because i couldnt live with the embarassment. im normally a strong believer in god, but the last year has been really tough, and in times like this you begin to question religion and lose faith. and i wonder, why am i like this, why do i have feelings for this person. and i gay? are people born gay? is there something wrong or am i just insane and should be on some serious medication... i dont know. basically, i just needed to get all this out.

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Open Question: Teenage sex advice...?

I am 16 years old, and so is my girlfriend. We have been dating for 5 months, and we would like to start having sex. We really love each other and know it's the right thing to do as long as we stay protected... We only got 1 problem: our parents. We have absolutely NO idea where we could go to privately have sex. Neither of us can drive yet so that is out of the question. Please give feedback and tips on places to go. All help is greatly appreciated. Thank you all.

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Open Question: Question about Talking. I became boring!?

Okay. So when I first start talking to(mainly texting) girls, conversation goes great. I get compliments all the time that I'm really fun to talk to. And this continues for around 2 weeks or a little longer. Then all of the sudden(we have usually started actually dating or "talking" or decided we liked each other by this point), conversation becomes slow. I can no longer think of things to talk about anymore. It becomes sort of boring. Does anyone know what my problem is? And can you offer any solutions?

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Open Question: Do You Always Have To Support A Friend?

My best friend and I have known each other for 10 years. We're both 25 years old. As long as I've known Annie, she's had a problem with her weight. In high school, I'd say she was 175 pounds and she's 5'3. So, she was overweight and she was always struggling to lose. When we went to college, we both gained weight. I put on about 30 pounds and she put on about 50 pounds. After college, Annie gained more weight and is now about 250 pounds, if not more. Last year, we both made New Year's Resolutions to lose weight. I've lost about 15 pounds and 2.5 pants size sin the last year. In the beginning, Annie was attending Weight Watchers with me and going to the gym with me regularly. At one point, she was losing more weight than me. But, around June, she stopped participating with me. I support her and tried to encourage her back, but she wasn't interested. Annie lives alone and rarely cooks. She orders out most nights and has a lot of junk food in her cabinets. When we go out to eat, I order salads and she orders meals that aren't healthy. Annie has never dated and admitted to me it was because of her weight, that she never tried meeting men. She admitted she's terrified of the dating scene. Recently, Annie's mom has been getting on her case about losing weight. I know her mom can be very critical. Annie often calls me crying, because her mom made her go to the gym with her or went to her house and cleaned out the junk in her kitchen. As much as I understand how she feels her mom is picking on her, I also agree with her mom. Annie's weight is getting out of control and I see her making poor health choices all the time. It's not a matter of weight, as much as health. Annie has very little energy and we often can't go places that require a lot of walking or standing, because Annie gets tired easily. I'm not sure what to do when Annie calls and says her mother is being unreasonable about her weight. I agree with her mom, but Annie is so sensitive about the subject, that I'm afraid she's want to end the friendship over my comment. So, do you always have to support a friend, even when you know they're making poor decisions?

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Open Question: Can someone please help me with these boy problems:(?

welll, im dating this boy and it has been almost 2 months. It's been great! The best relationship by far but one of his friends told me he has feeling for me and i don't know what to do!:S i feel super bad..

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Open Question: I'm a guy who needs some dating help?

im told im a good looking, nice, smart, thoughtful, just all around guy. the problem is that its coming from my girl FRIENDS. none of them see me as anything more. i also don't always believe in myself (i dont always think im good enough to get someone) but im told im almost over qualified. i just need some help and advice... i forgot to add that i am not into playing girls. and yes i am stuck in the friend zone

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Open Question: Why do people consistently ask questions about their Christmas list?!?

I mean, seriously! Do they think we are made of gift ideas?! Just go to Walmart, walk around, and put a bunch of random things in your cart! There! Problem solved ;) lol Anyways, Bonus question.. How many BF/GF have you had, and how old are you? I am 14, and never had one :) I am waiting for someone I actually to come along.. No point in dating all the stupid guys at my school! Whoa! Check it out! I am a top contributor! lol I change my name and picture and Yahoo gives me a new title! lol

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