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Open Question: Should I give my ex-boyfriend, who was with me for more than three years, a third chance again? and more... Open Question: Should I give my ex-boyfriend, who was with me for more than three years, a third chance again?I was his first love and he never liked/loved anybody so deeply before in his entire life. For me, he was not my first, but I never loved anybody so deeply in my life as well, except for him. My ex-boyfriend dumped me twice in two different times. First, he dumped me after a year ish later, since we had been together. Second, he dumped me after two years later. All of his break ups with me were filled with regrets for him, and he always tried so hard to get back with me again. I think I was so stupid to even give him that second chance, even though I must admit that our love got much deeper and stronger the second round. Unfortunately, I am not experienced with dating even till this day, after being dumped twice. After ignoring him for a month or more, he started talking to me again via emails and text messages. The first few times I ignored him, but later on I gave in and became soft-hearted with his "sweet, loving, and caring words." He wanted to see me "change" and be with me again, but this time I have to chase him back, unlike the past two times where he was the "chaser." I could be traditional in the sense that I am very passive in asking a guy out, because I like to see the guy taking actions and initiatives to flirt with and approach me first, before I do anything. Of course, I wouldn't let the guy do everything first all the time. I know that the third time will be like the previous two times: history will repeat itself again and similar pain and problems will come back to haunt us both, if we both or either of us do not change. The wound would become bigger for the both of us. My family hates my ex, after what he did to me twice already. There are so many other factors that I considered, which will hinder us being together again (gossips, bad reputation, etc.). I became so paranoid with him at times and always thought he would hurt and dump me over and over again. Part of me wanted to move on and part of me wanted to stay with him, because I thought I loved him so much to think he was "the one." What can I do? Thanks a lot!!! Open Question: GUYS, would you date a girl with tons of scars?Does it matter? Like THOUSANDS of self injury scars on her arms and legs from cutting? I have this problem. (no I do not dress in all black and smear tons of eyeliner on in fact Hollister is my favorite store) Well maybe at the most a thousand. I'm not like this "emo" person I've just had my problems. Like I said, Hollister is my favorite store and I keep my makeup very natural. I'm not all sad either and I don't label myself. I'm NOT crazy. I hide my scars all the time but when I tell a guy and show him (when I trust them and like them a lot) they want nothing to do with me. "alot of us have Desperation moments but Not Hurting Our Selves" Uhm, drug abuse, alcohol abuse, eating disorders? Yeah, a lot of people hurt themselves. Open Question: Why do people believe it is impossible for Middle school relationships to "count"?Many people around yahoo answers say that ALL middle school relationships are silly and don't mean anything. I believe that this just another stereotype because, although there are always the kids who don't understand the concept of dating and relationships and show it by jumping into things, getting a new boyfriend/girlfriend every week, never seeing each other outside of school or 1 on 1, this is not everyone in middle school. Me and my girlfriend of over 5 months are both in 8th grade. We almost always see each other one on one and are very close emotionally and physically we have both had previous relationships which we have learned from. We ,like every couple, have our problems but we work them out together in mature ways, we both talk to each other about our feelings often and can be very open with each other about almost anything. so why is it that it's so impossible for middle schoolers to have a serious relationship? Why can't it be realized that at least some of us know what love means? Is it really so different than other stereotypes and generalizations More Recent Articles
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