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Open Question: Trust Issue With GF Help Please? and more... Open Question: Trust Issue With GF Help Please?So i have a gf and we have been dating for a few months now. I really feel like im in love with this girl. But i need some advice/help on a problem of mine. My biggest problem as of now is a little thing called trust. I know that trust is key in any relationship. So anyways, we both go to different schools so i don't know what she is doing all the time and vice versa. Idon'tt know if maybe she hangs out with other boys after school or what. These kinda thoughts slip into my head and it makes me think what she does. Also on some weekends she goes out of town to see her dad. So, when shes out of town i have no idea what she could be up to if anything, That really bugs me as well. How can we build trust as a couple so idon'tt always have to worrry about what she may be doing, The other question i had is that i have heard from people that she has a past of cheating. I have also heard that she might have cheated on me. But then i asked her about it and she got pissed because i talked with other people about it before her. She also said that i shouldbelievee her over other people because she is my gf. When i asked her she said that shehasn'tt and that she would never do that to me. She said that those were all rumors that were going around and that none of it is true. Would people actually say bad stuff like that to ruin ourrelationshipp? She is always saying how much i make her happy and how much she actually loves me. Which makes me think that shewouldn'tt cheat on me because, why go through that much trouble? Anyway i just need to know how to build trust with her. I would greatly appreciate serious answers. Idk the people really well. But she is always saying how she doesnt want to loose me and how she loves me so i feel like i should believe her Thank you for the advice it really helps to hear other people's POV's Open Question: My ex-girlfriend confuses me , can someone help clarify my problem?Having alot of trouble just really understanding girls here. My ex gf, dated for about a year and couple months, broke up because I did and said something that got her upset and angry at me. She ignored me and blocked me from any contact, so i didn't have at all any chance to explain myself, one that I was moving away for a while and I didn't know how to handle myself, and two, the thing I did to her was really something I didn't want happening but it happend because a friend of mine decided it was "smarter" to tell off my gf's Mother by using the "Your daughters bf said that your daughter is a bitch and should go to hell". So quick word of advice, careful who you spill your emotions too and remember there are people out there who will actually do what they say they'll do, even if they sound like their joking. So it's been about 2 1/2 to 3 years since then, and during the first year of that period of time she wrote to me one day to tell me she forgave me and that she still loved me...but it was my fault this time and I said things that I should'nt have said and she's once again resenting and ignoring me. Well after that I haven't talked to her or gotten anything straighten, I finally come back to my old place for college and I'd say I have changed for the better, I got smarter, more mature, and been pretty happy alot. But best of all I had the drive to move on and find someone else, it's been pretty okay in that field. I then find out My ex who lives with her father now in another state has come back to visit her sister that still lives here in my town, her sister has told me that my ex "Has put it all in the past". Personally I find this to be gold~ But then this is the part that happend recently that just makes me so damn confused about her. My ex and I had somehow attended the same school play that our highschool had, she goes because she is very close with the drama teacher and she was an actress there for years, I go because I was already in the area doing buisness for my project in college, after i was done my friend calls me and says I should come see her little brother in the same play because he is acting in it. So I take that invite and the moment i step into that room my ex sees me and apparently she flips. Right when the intermission starts the drama teacher asks me to leave because he "the show sold out and there was no space" I knew right away that was bullshit because I found 5 perfectly empty seats that stayed that way for an hour into the play. I found out later that I was really just kicked out because my ex gf got angry by me just being there and told the drama teacher ( who i now think is an unprofessional biased asshole) that she has a problem with me and she had me removed. Im so lost and just fed up with this crap. Its very clear to me and alot of people that my ex still is resentful about the past and show's it. From the amount of time it's been since we broke up i still have some feelings for her but I am just ready and able to move on very quickly and I wouldn't mind at all for some closure if she wants it. Im just confused that my ex would say she "put it all in the past" and then not even a day or two since she said that she sees me and totally goes against what she say's and acts on old hate. Whats up with this? Open Question: Can write about their thoughts on how information and communications could be improved within this factory?I work for an old established engineering company which has just been sold to new owners. The new owners are concerned that the drawing office has limited CAD facilities and there is no integration with the CAM software being used by the manufacturing engineers to produce programs for the CNC machines which are cutting metal. Scrap rates in the workshop are high because CNC programs are unproven and technicians have to make numerous corrections. Within the business there are limited IT facilities and much communication is still through paper-based systems. The company's main product line is high pressure pipe couplings for use in the aerospace, instrumentation and oil industries. The parts are machined in large quantities in a range of standard sizes using stainless steel bought in as bar stock. As raw material is used, staff manually update stock levels and reorder as required. Each week the company processes about 500 metres each of 30 mm, 40 mm, 50 mm and 60 mm hexagonal diameter bar to make approximately 35,000 couplings. The company also offers the facility to produce 'specials' if requested by a customer. These are manufactured in the fast response cell, and can be turned around within 36 hours of the first contact from the customer. Fast response orders are taken over the phone and confirmed by email. A drawing of the part is sent by the customer as an attachment to the email. Once the order is completed, the couplings are packaged, bar coded and despatched using a special delivery service. One problem that has been identified by the management is that when customers phone in to check on the progress of their orders — whether they be standard or fast response — there is no up-to-date information available. thanks for any help Open Question: Im in love but Does he love me?okay heres my problem- me and this boy known each other for alonggg time and we use to be bestfriends and then he told me i was hot then he just stopped talking to me, hes dating someone rite now and i want to tell him how i feel but i dont want to mess up his relationship what do i do! Open Question: Best Friends, in love and yet not together?So ok, I dated this guy ( brandon) for the last 2 years and sadly, we broke up. But even through it all we have been able to stay best friends, he even told me himself that he might be ok losing petty girlfriends ( after me, he means) but he litterally doesnt know what he would do if me and him were to stop being so close. He even cried cause it means that much to him. Problem now is, is that hes seeing this girl. Me and him have talked and I have asked him if he has moved on from me and he states no, but that he's with her to make her happy. Thing is with that is that me and him still go out on dates and spend "quality time " together during the week ( like watching a movie at my house or walking his dogs for 2 hours at his). During one of our walks, we got on the subject of him and his new girlfriend. Turns out that even he doesnt think it will last, cause he was suspecting her of cheating on him. I honestly dont think they will work together, but what do I know at this point. So my question is about best friends and whether or not they end up together. I see him everyday, we talk honestly with eachother, and he still says I love you even " blue moon" ( but still) I am still in love with him, and I too couldnt live without him in my life. But I am hoping that me and him will get back together, but I wish for another persons opinion. THANK YOU! Open Question: Do I text this girl back?I've tried to ask this already but I wasn't exactly satisfied with all of my answers so if anyone one could give me the answer I'm looking for, it would mean so much to me. My weekend has been shitty so far and I miss this girl a lot and her gaze into my eyes is stuck in my head and I just don't know what to do anymore. So here is the novel I wrote asking earlier. Thanks everone. Okay so. I like this girl a lot and she knows it. I told her when it was a bad time because she had just broken up with her boyfriend that she was with for 3 YEARS. Not months. She probably still liked him. She said she liked me but she was not ready to date and I was unsure if that was just to make me feel better. We haven't talked about it since. We are good friends and I don't know if I am in that friend zone and won't be able to date her. It has been awhile since I told her I like her and we have gone to the movies a couple of times together but the only thing in our way is her 12 year old sister! Lol, anyways on wednesday we went to her Youth Group she asked me to go to on wednesdays and we have gone to 3 together. (We don't have self-esteem problems.) I texted her to say good night as we always really do, and she asked if I was "okay". I said I was fine, am I supposed to be sad? And she just said no I was just checking. So then on thursday, I was quiet, not sad, just quiet. And she was asking me what was wrong and I said nothing and blah blah blah.. And I started to feel sad... like I haven't been having a good relationship with my dad so I started to feel that come onto me. But away from that. Then we were at our lockers and she asked again, "whats wrong?" I said nothing, really! And then she hugged me while I was leaned against the lockers. And I think I am just like.. missing her or something that is why I feel this way. Also, she showed me a text that her ex just broke up with his new girlfriend and that he "wants it all back" and I don't know what the heck that means but anyways, I was walking home on thursday and she texted me asking where I was cause I usually get a ride from her from school. And I didn't reply, then she called 5 times and I didn't pick up. Then I saw her van and I got a ride with her. She asked where is you phone? And I just pretended like I didn't know what I did with it. So her mom dropped me off and I said bye to everyone. Then this: Heyy what wrong u seem so sad :( :'( Half an hour later.. Kalem :( 30 mins later.. I miss you 1 hour 30 mins later :( r u okay? Did i do somthing? 5 hours later Heyy kalem are you okay im worried about you :( I don't know what to say. I didn't reply to anything and I am not self pitying (spelling?) But yeah this weekend has been boring and sh*tty so far. Then on friday (this all happened this week btw) Heyy where u at? This was at our lunch (we have 3rd period music so I guess she wanted to know if I was coming and I was at home cause I slept in.) 5 hours later Heyy how are you? 3 hours later :( where u at i miss u! And I haven't replied to anything. The only people I have talked to this weekend is my mom, my day, my stepmom and my siblings who don't know what 2 + 2 is.. So my question is... Do I text her or wait to see what she does at school on monday? I don't want to know if she likes me.. well i do but I just want to know if I should text her. Okay another thing. Like, my mom is good with relationships and people I have talked to say not to answer texts and phone calls all the time because girls can be "attention whores". But I think I might have pushed it. She said she misses me so I text her back?? Thanks, all help is appreciated. More Recent Articles
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