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Open Question: What do do about the head person of this dance group I'm in!!!!!? and more... Open Question: What do do about the head person of this dance group I'm in!!!!!?Okay so me and my friend was in this group that we had audition for about a year ago. The head person of the group was really excited about it at first cause she's gotten a lot of girls that had audition. The problem is, all the girls that she wanted in the group that had good enough experience disappear and so me and my friend were the only two left in her group. So we were still practicing and we notice that the head person started canceling practice. To make a long story short, she had disappear herself and when we tried to contact her, she had sent us a message by telling us that she can't do it anymore. So we thought she had given up on us and the group. So we were nice enough to like take over. We had sent her an email to let her know that we will take over to give her a helping hand since we never offer. Only cause at the time, we felt that since she is the head person of the group, that maybe she didn't need our help cause she was stuck on choreographing along with failing to keep other dancers in the group. So we had also told her that we will hold auditions to add more girls to the group. She was all down for it. So me and my friend right away started looking for a studio to practice at, which we did!!! We also started choreographing to another song that she wanted for us to dance to. And through out the whole time, we would either call, texted or email her what we've been doing. When we finally decided to go ahead and have auditions, we wanted to schedule a time to like meet with her and talk to her about if she's interested in the group at all or if she doesn't want to do it period. We notice she never return our calls, texts, or emails until the day we had auditions. Once we had posted an ad and got a whole lot of responds, she finally decided to respond. At first, we thought she was ready to join the group again and that she's not under pressure. So we were very excited cause we even got someone whose interested in hooking us up with shows. So when we had the auditions, she was very excited! We even had the person to talk to us about how he would want and where we can perform at. Which is a great idea!!!! He even performed for us and gave us advice to our routine when we did have practice. So here is where everything went down!!!! First thing that went wrong was me and my friend talked about having everybody in the group to sign a contract so that way, they know we mean business. As well as rules and how we are not responsible for damages to the studio, dancers stealing our dance, other other stuff that we had to cover. We had sent the head person a copy so that way, she can read it, approve it and sign it. That way, we can make copies and have the girls to sign it, date it and the head person's signature will already be on there. She didn't want to have us to have the girls to sign an agreement cause she felt it wasn't necessary. All we were trying to do is cover her back. The second thing that went wrong, was right after our first practice as a group, she right away had sent out a message to me and my friend that she was proud of us and she wanted to thank us for putting everything together for her. Than all of the sudden, she wanted to schedule practice out of no where the day before Thanksgiving!!! We thought she just wanted to meet with us to work on an old dance that she never completed so that way, we can teach the new girls. But what we didn't think that was cool was she had email the new girls to try to get them to come at the last minute, she even told us that she has a friend that is going to join the group. So me and my friend ended up showing to practice but at a whole another studio and we were so surprised to see that she had changed our dance that we took sooo much time into choreographing to. And to make things worst, the girl that she was friends with, we never met her until that day and she was helping the head person to change everything. All the ideas that everybody else that had put into certain parts of the dance, she changed it. It was like a slap in the face. We were soo upset and now we're putting the pieces together. We think she was intimidated by how we achieve on getting this group together. We have strong feeling that she is up to something cause she wanted for us to teach her the whole routine. We never got a chance to work on the dance that she had choreographed, we also think, she is either already in another group and she wanted to teach them our dance, or she wanted to learn the dance that we choreograph to so that way, she can get some kind of credit and change everything around since she disappear for so long. We also think the reason why she wanted some of the girl's contact info cause we think she will try to get them into another group that she's in or something. The girl that she had at practice a couple of days ago was not friendly!!!! Some of the girls that we have in the group, she was not too much liking them cause she doesn't see potential Open Question: Don't watter to shatter her heart?So I've been dating girlfriend who lives next door in my apartment complex for 2 months now. When we first met, it was obvious she liked me a lot. Although I knew she liked more than I liked her, I thought she was interesting so I gave her chance and we started dating. it wasn't before long that she started to say things that really started freaking me out. Such as: "I've never been with a guy as great as you." (When we've been apart for 2 days) "God, I miss you so much, you have no idea." "You're the greatest thing that ever happened to me. I was so depressed until I met you." The other day she woke up bawling, and she said it was because she dreamed I broke up with her. I feel like she's way too attached to me now, and I didn't want this to happen. I don't want anything serious and she loves me way more than I love her. She's a nice girl and everything and I still find her intriguing (which has kept along so far), I just don't want anything really serious right now. My biggest problem is, if I break up with her, I don't know what she'll do. She was so sad when I met her, and she's been so happy lately. She's had bouts of depression in her life, and I don't want to completely break her heart. If she did something like commit suicide, I would be so devastated. Please help me, I feel like I'm in a hole I can't get out of right now. More Recent Articles
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