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Open Question: What should I do? Please help!? and more...

Open Question: What should I do? Please help!?

I've met this guy on match.com last month and then went on several dates together. He's a really nice 24-year-old guy that have his life together (going to school, works for the government, etc). He and I have started to like each other a lot over the past month.... and we have slept together recently. The problem is that he and his ex are still living together. They were together for 6 years until recently, she have cheated on him. He broke it off with her and recently, she kept finding ways to beg him to stay with her (such as crying a lot, threatening to hurt herself if he have left her, etc). They have a 4-year-old child together. Earlier, I talked to him on the phone and he told me that he didn't know what to do... he said that he still loves her a lot as a person even though he is hurt by what she did to him. I asked him if he still wants to move out of that condo (where he is living with her... the ex owns the condo) and move on with his life... and he said that he does want that. He feels that I deserve someone better than him and so on. He can't move out of the condo ASAP because his friend is planning to move out of his parents' house by the end of January and they were planning to be roommates together. I told him not to let his ex manipulate him like that... not to let her walk all over him. And he agrees with me. My problem is that I'm afraid that he might get back together with his ex... based on how things are going over there (even though he and I still like each other a lot). What should I do? Please help... Thanks.

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Open Question: Do you think it's seriously better in life to always stay single, childless and never date or get married?

Hi all! I've been wondering about life and society. Do you think it's seriously better in life to always stay single, childless and never date or get married? Despite all the overall problems men and women have when we're together in a relationship, which do you think is better? I think staying single and childless for me all my life is the way to go in my life but that's me. Where do you stand on this topic yourself? Any answers would be appreciated. Thanks!

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Open Question: Parker Company uses a perpetual inventory system. It entered into the following calendar-year 2005 purchases a?

Parker Company uses a perpetual inventory system. It entered into the following calendar-year 2005 purchases and sales transactions: Problem 6-1A Alternative cost flows—perpetual Date Activities Units Acquired at Cost Units Sold at Retail Jan. 1 Beginning inventory . . . . . . . 600 units @ $44/unit Feb. 10 Purchase . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 200 units @ $40/unit Mar. 13 Purchase . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 100 units @ $20/unit Mar. 15 Sales . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 400 units @ $75/unit Aug. 21 Purchase . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 160 units @ $60/unit Sept. 5 Purchase . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 280 units @ $48/unit Sept. 10 Sales . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 200 units @ $75/unit Totals . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1,340 units 600 units Required 1. Compute cost of goods available for sale and the number of units available for sale. 2. Compute the number of units in ending inventory. 3. Compute the cost assigned to ending inventory using (a) FIFO, (b) LIFO, (c) specific identification (Note: The units sold consist of 500 units from beginning inventory and 100 units from the March 13 purchase), and (d) weighted average. 4. Compute the gross profit earned by the company for each of the four costing methods in part 3. Analysis Component 5. If the company's manager earns a bonus based on a percent of gross profit, which method of inventory costing will the manager likely prefer? Check (3) Ending inventory: FIFO, $33,040; LIFO, $35,440;WA, $34,055; (4) LIFO gross profit, $21,000

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Open Question: Help! What should I do about this problem?

I've met this guy on match.com last month and then went on several dates together. He's a really nice 24-year-old guy that have his life together (going to school, works for the government, etc). He and I have started to like each other a lot over the past month.... and we have slept together recently. The problem is that he and his ex are still living together. They were together for 6 years until recently, she have cheated on him. He broke it off with her and recently, she kept finding ways to beg him to stay with her (such as crying a lot, threatening to hurt herself if he have left her, etc). They have a 4-year-old child together. Earlier, I talked to him on the phone and he told me that he didn't know what to do... he said that he still loves her a lot as a person even though he is hurt by what she did to him. I asked him if he still wants to move out of that condo (where he is living with her... the ex owns the condo) and move on with his life... and he said that he does want that. He feels that I deserve someone better than him and so on. He can't move out of the condo ASAP because his friend is planning to move out of his parents' house by the end of January and they were planning to be roommates together. I told him not to let his ex manipulate him like that... not to let her walk all over him. And he agrees with me. My problem is that I'm afraid that he might get back together with his ex... based on how things are going over there (even though he and I still like each other a lot). What should I do? Please help... Thanks.

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Open Question: Teenage love; How can I get over her?

Surely people are sick of seeing these, but, hey, anonymity on yahoo makes talking easier. I apologize in advance, I know ranting is against the guidelines. Right, so, yeah, I'm 17, so bear with me on the shear stupidity of what I'm about to ask. Hormones and teen angst and all that bull. I guess what I'm looking for qualifies for dating advice. You see, there's this girl, whom we're going to call Alice for the sake of the question, whom I've known for three years now, the entirety of the time I've been in high school. This girl is.. well, man-made languages are too clumsy to possible come close to describing her absolute perfection. I'm not often attracted to a girl because of her body, so I find it so odd that I can't stop staring at her when I'm across a room. The way she moves, the way she stands, every little motion drives me utterly insane, and the way light plays off her pallid skin sends my heart into an absolute frenzy. Even every little common hand motion she makes finds me flabbergasted, and that's just her body.. When she talks, there isn't some stupid bullshit pouring out, like every other person our age I've met. You can't even carry on an intelligent conversation with half of the people at our school, and that doesn't help my issues. I dislike idiots and close-mindedness. Harsh, maybe, but years of being the pariah and a common target of mockery make you that way. Alice, however, has never said anything harsher than a friendly jest to me. Hell, she actually seems to enjoy my company, which is.. well, new to say the least. She's wonderfully intelligent. Neither of us are geniuses, but we're more than a cut above the rabble we normally deal with. I have massive social issues, so I'm VERY uncomfortable around people, and when someone gets within a certain proximity, I snap and freak out. When Alice gets near, however, I'm almost blissful. She's one of the few people I allow to get within arms reach, and one of the few people I feel comfortable around. Too comfortable, really, it's almost like she's some sort of anesthetic, making my social issues dormant and distant. Now that I've adequately explained my helplessness, I think I should get to the problem. I'm obsessed over Alice. Alice is obsessed over another, whom we'll call James. (How many saw that coming?) The two of them, however, broke up. You'd think that would make me absolutely giddy, but she's as delusional as I am; she's always going on about plans to get him back and whatnot. I don't see WHY, he's an utter jerk from what I hear. So of course, hearing this talk isn't exactly pain-free for me. She knows it, too, I've made it completely obvious how I feel about her, I don't exactly do a good job hiding it, but by the time I managed to sum up the minuscule courage I have to actually try for something with her, James had walked into her life. If all this wasn't bad enough, while discussing James one day, I told her flat out she deserved better than him and I didn't see why she kept pursuing him if he obviously wanted nothing to do with her. She turned to me and asked if I thought I was the one she deserved, and all I could do was flush, bow my head and tell her she deserved MUCH better than me. She just shrugged and told me it didn't matter; she didn't see me as anything more than a friend. I don't know exactly why that sentence stuck in my head and heart like a thorn, but it did. I had already known we had no future together, even if I continued to chase after her like a dog after a car, but to hear it.. I don't know, it killed a part of me. What I'm asking for, now that I've completed this essay, is what to do. I'm not very good with dealing with my emotions, and honestly, I'm sick of letting my feelings hurt me like some unattended laceration. I need to do SOMETHING, even if asking her out or just flat-out forgetting her is out of the question. I'm hoping that someone here has been in a similar situation and can give me some piece of advice or knowledge or something to do to get my love-addled mind off of her. Again, I apologize, I know ranting is against the community guidelines, but I felt fully explaining the situation would be necessary for someone to give me appropriate advice.

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Open Question: are 14 year old boys attracted yo BIG girls, or are they repulsed?

okay so I'm 14 and BIG, I don't have problem being friends with guys (I'm actually kinda popular) just not in the dating section. But I REALLLLLY like this one guy and want to ask him out or something but I'm scrared that he'll never think of me as girlfriend material, so I guess my question is do 14 yr old guys find BIG girls attractive?

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Open Question: Whats this girl's problem? Did I do anything wrong?

So I've liked this girl for about a year now. Last year we went out and after we hung out a week later, a female friend of mine suggested that I give her a flower for Valentines day. So I did, she thought it was sweet but after a week I asked her out again she said that she wasn't interested in a date but would really like to be my friend. So we hung out a couple more times and sometimes she'd want me to hang out with her late at night with her friends but I was confused and I just got rejected so I wanted to limit contact with her. This would go on for a while and she got mad when she saw me dancing with other girls at a party. She tried to get my attention more when I had a girlfriend last semester. This semester I didn't really want to talk to her anymore because she said she wanted to hangout with me over the summer but she left me hanging. So I'm at the bookstore and she comes up behind me (I saw her outside the store but walked by) and poked me. She seemed real nervous and couldn't even get her words right and before I could ask her how her summer went she said she had to go. So later I asked her out to coffee and we went out, she was laughing at all my jokes and whatever, she even asked me if I thought she was cute, and now I'm really confused because she rejected me last semester and would always have this approach and ignore attitude with me. Later that night we attended the same party and she kept coming up to me trying to get my attention and she was really flirting with me. All my friends thought she liked me and I thought maybe she changed her mind. So after the party I asked her to go out with me again she said sure. I waited a few days and made the call, she ignored. So I waited an hour and texted her about when she'd like to go out, still she ignored. So like, a long while later I texted her and told her I won't ask anymore. She gave me an attitude and I told her well I was just trying to set things up and she was ignoring me so it seemed a bit rude. She gave me a bit of a harshness and I told her you know what, it seems you just like the attention I give you, and that this isn't really a friendship or anything of that matter, she flipped out and blamed me, and so I deleted her number and deleted her from facebook. She saw me again a few weeks later and looked at me all pissed. I didn't say a word. She's confusing me, what did she want and what did I do wrong?

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Open Question: IS this a good idea relationship wise?

ok if you saw my last question about my bf Sam. I have my results. I told Sam what i was going to do and he back off and i broke with him...end of it...it was scary but i did it. the sweet new guy heard about our breakup i guess and suddenly appears next to me in Biology [he switched his seat]and asked me how i was doing and even asked me if i was glad my relationship was over. i told him i was thrilled and the next day he asks me my phone number then he calls me and asks we on a date!! my life is fantastic right now!!! =D wootwoot for me!!! ok so now he's asking if i want o spend part of Christmas vaca with him. he said his ex will be there and she still has a thing for him. he also told me she was a suducer and he is afraid she might trick him into dating her again. he said she might try to hurt me too. he said he would understand if i didn't want to go. I'm not sure what to do? there's the possibility he can stay with my family for christmas or we can go off to some ski resort or something [my parents would say a flat out NO to that] or we can go ahead and face his ex and spend it with his family in Vermont. might i add a mansion. he said i would be pampered and i'll feel like i'm in paradise. which almost sold me till i remembered his ex problem. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!! if i decide against spending time with his family he'll think i'm a wimp..=[ well maybe. i'm afraid to tell him what some of my ideas are...=[ what should i do???

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