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Open Question: what to buy for christmas? and more... Open Question: what to buy for christmas?okay well christmas is coming up and i have to buy quite a few presents. i need something really special for my mum, we have been fighting for a while now and i need something to make it up to her. i also need something for my sister, shes almost 18 and she likes the whole technology thing but she has everything! i can't buy her an ipod or stereo or laptop co she has it all and she has an xbox and playstation so i have no idea what to get her! shes also a metal head/goth. and my mums boyfriend, by then they would have been dating for about 4 months. he's a military leader, really strict. and a strange sense of humour. likes to play pool. and to go fishing. he has two kids so i have to get them something too, one is turning 6 he loves swimming crocodiles and that's about all i know about him and his other son is turning 9 and he likes sports and fishing like his dad. i also need something for my boyfriend, he just had his 16th birthday and i'm not too sure what to get him for christmas. we have been going out for about 5 months money is no problem. Open Question: I had a crush and the only way to get over it was to stop bing human, was this wise?I have a friend to which i'm very similar too. As you can imagine we would like the same type of girls (which we do). But when he broke up with his girlfriend she was showing some interest in me. I didn't take advantage of the situation because i promised my cousin several years back i would never go out with anyone he went out with or dated within 3 months of their break-up. I translated this promise to my friends around me. But concerning this issue, she took interest into me but i was sill holding out. Eventually they got back together but my feelings for her multiplied. The only way (in my mind) to lose my feelings for her in order to preserve the friendship was to deny my human qualities that i believed attracted me to her. I then looked for ways to make me less "human." I denied many things that made my human (many of which were emotions). I got to the point that i removed all emotions and human nature aspects except depression, love for others above myself, and regret. I went to school, played sports with no emotion, didn't talk, didn't laugh much, didn't try to achieve anything i wanted, I only listened to music which my only escape. Those four things were to only things that kept me human, but the love i had for other people included her, proving all my efforts hopeless. I still had the feelings, they were just nullified. In the end my attraction for her was replaced by the attraction of someone else. But we still avoided each other destroying the friendship regardless. (We were all friends. I'm still friends with the guy but my relationship with the girl is shaky sill) Meaning that all i wanted to achieve was pointless. But that new problem is how do i gain my humanity back? How do i gain these human aspects of my life back? My lack of humanity is affecting my relationships now and i don't know how to fix it. To look at it a different way, As you guessed from the story, i live my life mainly for others. What ways can i live my life for me in order to gain back my humanity? Open Question: What should I do in this situation; I think I'm being used for sex?My girlfriend and I have been going through some problems lately. One of these times we became seriously close to breaking up. During this time, her ex boyfriend (they dated for a year, but were on and off a LOT, during that whole time period) messaged me over MySpace, telling me that she was flirting with him, and trying to get him to hang out with her that weekend. He told her "no" because he had work all weekend. He also added that she said that we were "broken up", even though we HADN'T broken up. She told me that he was lying, 100 percent and was jealous and trying to get back with her, because she (my girlfriend) told his ex that he was cheating on her. Since I love her, I decided to believe her. But it seems like every day people tell me that I shouldn't date her, because I'm most likely just being used for sex, even though she claims to have only had sex twice. Today, I texted her and said "I LOVE YOU." and she replied back with "I need sex." And I said back, "Do you even love me?..." and she replied back with, "I do love you, but I need sex." (we've never had sex, btw) So, all-in-all, my question is; Am I being used for sex, or does she really love me, because she tells me she does a lot, but I just don't know anymore. Open Question: Im 17 he is 27, what shall I do?I'm a 17 year old guy (just turned), and I really really love this guy only problem is he is 27!!! Okay here is the story. Basically I'm bisexual and i've never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, Iv had crushes here n there but never dated anyone. So then I was hanging around with my mates one day and I meet this guy at this event he starts talking to me etc quite an interetsing guy but I wasn't really attracted to him. Later on my when we leave my mate tells me that guy liked me and he gave that guy my number. I was like 'oh no' - but didn't really mind. So later on he rings me and talks about general stuff. Next day we meet at the same event again, we keeping meeting at this event for about a week and random phone calls here n there. Then one day I remeber I was thinking about him all day and was looking forward to meeting him, I realised I was really attracted to him now. We meet again at the event and I realise how much I like him, when we left my friend so to me you couldn't stop smiling when u were with him u change so much when ur around him u really light up. Next time we meet at the cinema with this guy and his mates, then we got alone for a couple of mins (I deliberately weny back with him to his car, then i kissed him - he pushed me away) He said that he really liked me and said anyguy who been soooo lucky to be with me but because of the age gap he can't. Then later on in the week he rings me and asks me if i am upset I said I am and he said meet up so we did and then we talked I felt sooo much better so I tried kisiing him again, he pushed me off again, i was upset then he said okay one kiss so we kissed for quite long, I really enjoyed it (my first kiss). But he said that this was it and he is going to delete me of his phone and we can' talk because it isn't right. He has dleted me but I still have his number, I feel so depressed without him, shall I ring him? dont know what to do? I know this is wrong, but I like him sooooo much. and I am so sexually attracted to him, feel like losing my viriginity to him he turns me on a lot too. Would this be illegal cause even if we did have sex I wouldn't tell noone. WHAT SHALL I DO? Open Question: I LIKE MY BEST FRIEND, WHAT DO I DO?For starter's I'm a girl, I'm 14 & I'm bisexual. I've known since the beginning of 8th grade. I'm in 9th now. i like my best friend but she likes one of her best friend's who happens to be straight. She has had a crush on her ever since july and she's almost over her. But she isn't aloud to date until she's 15 which she wont be until late may. I don't have a problem with that at all. I just really like her. She asked me before if I liked her & i lied and said no. I don't know what to do. She can't wait until she can date. I don't wanna tell her as soon as she turns 15 & tie her down as soon as she's able to date, ya know? If she even likes me back. We go to different schools. We usually talk through text or phone and hang out together. We flirt a lot but it's nothing serious, just joking around to be honest. She's white & latino, she likes white girls & some mixed girls. I'm mixed. Idk if that matters or not. I don't know what to do anymore. Should i tell her or just keep it to myself and get over her? Open Question: I'm quite sure I screwed up - now what?OK. I'm a step-dad of a (personal opinion) beautiful nearly 19 year old daughter. When she had just turned 11, we truly accidental discovered in a note that she had gone over to a girlfriends party, met a boy from school and had her first kiss. Days later, she went to the movies with her girlfriend and met up with the boy and her friends where they simply held hands. We let her know that this was something that we were uncomfortable with at her age (at least for a couple of years) and she needed to wait. (FYI: later her "girlfriend was pregnant at 15 and had a baby...something our daughter never (on her own) approved of). However, here's the problem; She is now about to turn 19. Has never had a boyfriend. Claims not to be gay, though she knows we have no problem with another gay family member, Has never since been kissed. Thinks all boys that she meets are "below her" and childish, and has found NO suitable dating material. Didn't go to prom. Graduated HS without going to a dance. NOTE: Mom and I have a VERY open relationship with her. If she wants an answer about life...we tell her. She an I (her step-dad) are very close...we relate on many interests and I'm proud to say that I think she has learned a lot from me. But now I'm concerned. Of course I don't want her to be the local ho. But I also don't want her to be so naive that she marries the first moron (sorry...guy) she dates or alone for the rest of her life. She seems TOO particular!? She is so caring, funny and wonderful!! Yet to her NO one is good enough for her. Is that me speaking or her? I've told her she needs to get out there and at least hang out with friends - guys and girls, but she seems FAR more content hanging out with mom and I!? Just wait and see, or be concerned or punish myself for life for telling and 11 year old to wait?! Open Question: Is this guy just manipulating me. If you weren't interested, why string someone along for so long?This guy told me ages ago that he wasn't sure that relationships was right for him, because he's young and has too much energy. He said this while I was at his house, because he'd been inviting me over lots back then. We both enjoyed each others company & eventually he did ask me out, but I was very doubtful about his sincerity because of what he said before. Well my instincts were right, because he sort of backed away and didn't ask me to meet like usual, but would say let's meet up or text me every now and then. We did go on 1 date to the park & held hands. Anyway, if I was out & he was there, he'd flirt with me like before & be over the top nice. complimenting me all the time, & every time a song came on that we had listened to together, he'd say 'that reminds me of when we used to hang out." I was thinking, well why don't you ask me to come over again. Every guy that spoke to me, he'd get extremely jealous. One of these times when we were all out, he kissed me passionately out of the blue, while I was hugging him to say hi. He hugged me & called me his rose & told me to call him. Why mel? He told his close friends he'd kissed me. We used to talk on msn, but we don't use it anymore. I emailed him recently & he wanted to meet. I bumped into him on the street & he said we should meet up. I hadn't seen him in 10 mnths before this. I went to his house and it was like before; physical flirting, sexual tension, watching tv, & he likes to go bike riding, so he asked me if I wanted to come. He walked me home & it started to rain. He reminded me of the time we walked home once in the rain. He remembers small things. My problem is that I text him a week later about a joke and he laughed and asked me what I was doing. Then I text him the next day, about a friend who wanted him to come to her party, and he said "Yeah possibly......what u up to anyways? xx" I told him I was going to uni. SInce then, I haven't text again. The thing is, he never has a girlfriend, (I know this, because I know him and a lot of his friends, he also lives close). When he told me he didn't want a girlfriend, I thought he'd sleep around, but he doesn't even do that. He's slept with 1 girl and he's 24. He's a little bit immature. He has ADHD and smokes weed sometimes . No other girls go to his house & he never texts his girl friends. He once told my friend on msn he cares about me &her & thinks i'm an amazing woman. He also said I had a good heart & deserve a great guy one night after getting jealous of a guy hitting on me when drunk. 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