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Open Question: Worried/Upset/Kinda Hurt?!? and more... Open Question: Worried/Upset/Kinda Hurt?!?Ok well to start off the story. I am dating this kid now, and well I know he has had 2 sexual partners in the past that being last year and this year. (they were just hookups too -_-) the first girl from last year was a virgin, the girl this year. I dont know I kinda didnt want to ask him about it, because I dont want to bother him too much asking about his past. I think she might of been a virgin too. Now what upsets me the most is that he lost it to that girl & it was one of those "it sort of happened" situations. & the other girl according to him was a hookup. which was this year. THIS YEAR ughh >.< Ok so I really like this kid and I was talking to him about how I dont like the fact that I am a virgin and he isnt. He told me he is tired of hooking up, and wants a real relationship. I told him how it bothers me soooooo much. But as we all know you cannot change the past. The thing I am worried about is if in the future we continue to date. Well if we eventually do "have sex" I would kinda feel like shyt the fact being Id be the 3rd virgin he has done it with. Plus recently we have been talking about me giving a bj, I would like to sure give him one and stuff the only problem the fear of getting an STD. & I want him to be tested before we do any of that stuff however how can he get tested without his parents knowing? I dont know who to look to for this situation & I mean I can always ask my mom but I am afraid that she will have a problem knowing that he isnt a virgin and all. IDK. so in my case asking her is not an option. Plus im 16, he will be 17 soon. I really really like him and all that good stuff. I just wish he was a virgin or something. So that I can be sure that I wont ever have to regret my firsttime being with a guy who has already devirginized 3 girls already. Also I fear if I do have sex with him in the future it wont mean anything to him because he has already expeirced it. you know?! Although even tho Ive mentioned this to him (i told him how I felt about it already). He told me to forget about it, and to stop bringin it up. But it bothers me soo much. but i do understand it is a problem that can never be solved. He claims he really likes me, he says he adores me, and says he wont ever do anything to make me cry. But I am very sadden by this anyway. I just dont want to feel like another girl (if that time comes) As a little girl I always wanted, a good boyfriend that I can be with for a long time. & I want my first time to be with someone that I actually love and who loves me back etc. So I wont have to worry about getting hurt. Because they say you always remember your first time no matter what. To me it doesnt seem fair to to lose it to someone who already lost it to someone else because they remember their first time being with that person. However the person that lost it by that someone that already did it will always remember them. I wish I could just stop overthinking it. I dont plan to break up with him but its hard to forget about it. Though & I feel that it is causing so much pain for me because I like this kid alot. Open Question: do you guys think he lost interest or just can't handle a relationship b/c of his problems?so, the guy I was seeing was a good friend of mine for 5 months (before I went out with him)...he admitted to liking me and travelled 3 hrs away to my college to express his feelings...I felt the same. the relationship was going to start off long distance and I knew this guy had experimented with a lot of drugs in the past. anyway, we went on 2 dates a barely saw eachother or talked on the phone/texted/emailed...he just never did it...not even when we were friends (is this normal for a druggie?)...anyway, he relapsed on Speed and then things started going downhill...he ignored me for a week but then apologized when he saw me. 2 weeks later, he calls me and says "I don't think we should continue to see eachother...my life is currently a mess and drugs are one of the many reasons"....so, do you guys think he lost interest or that he just can't handle a relationship b/c of his problems? -I told him that I wanna continue being friends with him. He hesitated but agreed...do you think he meant it? Open Question: How do i get my mom to like him?- Okay well my mom doesn't approve of the boy im in love with. She thinks he has a bad attitude and that he's a player and he will end of breaking my heart meanly.. - He is in love with me and doesn't understand what he did wrong.. - Every time i try to talk to her about him or ask if we could go to the movies she gets mad and says that im too young. - I'm 14 years old. he's 13. nothings gonna happen i dont get why she is acting stupid like this. - he wants me to go to the movies with him on saturday but my mother sed no again and got all mad. - wtf is her problem and please help me figure out how to make her let me date and go out with him. - she won't even let me say im going out with him!!! its retarded!! :( please help me, im like going through depression or something bc of her, shes making this into a big deal when its not. Open Question: When is it considered a relationship?I asked this girl out a month ago, she said yes, and we just hung out at her place. We just basically cuddled and watched movies. Nothing more happened. Anyways over the next few weeks I asked her to do stuff and she always couldn't make it due to family problems. She never asks me to do stuff with her. No big deal. The problem is that I passed up several others girls because I thought we were in a relationship but I'm not so sure anymore. It sucks that we just talk over text and I don't even know if we are even considered a couple so I wanna start dating other girls now. So, is it considered a relationship or can I date other girls? Open Question: Does she have a problem with me?I met my boyfriend's sister on Thanksgiving, and she was very standoffish, having little to say. I've been to his house several times in the past (we've been dating for about six months), and she lives there with him. Yes, she has NEVER said 'hello' or introduced herself. So, yesterday, I was expecting a 'hello', at least. I arrived, and I was the first one to speak to her. Then, during dinner, she went over and sat by herself, away from everyone else. Now, we're both adults, she in her late 20's and I'm 30. I mentioned it to by BF, and he said that his sister usually doesn't like the people he associates with. Seriously??? She doesn't even know me....and she was flat out rude....I was a guest in her home. Should I be bothered by this? More Recent Articles
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