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Open Question: 10 points for best answer:Girls would you be mad if your man didn't return your calls? and more... Open Question: 10 points for best answer:Girls would you be mad if your man didn't return your calls?I've been dating this guy for ~4 months now & when we're together everything seems fine. But he lives an hour away which isn't a problem either...he has no problem driving to come see me a couple times a week. But it's the weeks when I know he's either too busy with work to come & see me or I'm too busy wit school I have an issue with. Say he comes & see me for 2 days I don't call him for a day or 2 after so we have our space, but after that It takes me like another 2 days to get a hold of him...he doesn't return my missed calls, it's up to me to call & hope he answers.One time this happened for 5 days & I questioned him asking if he was second guessing our relationship cause we havn't been together that long & he got mad saying that I think too much & he just had a bad week..so I let it go. I know sometimes we can't talk everyday but sometimes it would be nice to have him call me back or just call me cause he's thinking of me...I'm doing my finals right now in university & he didn't even call to wish me luck & see how it's going. Should I test him & just stop calling him & see how long it takes for him to call me? In a new relationship what is a healthy amount space? Or am I just worrying too much? ***& I test him to see if he will apologize or explain why he hasn't called or return my calls & he doesn't he just acts like everything is normal*** Open Question: Is he worth moving forward with, or will I be left heartbroken?I met my bf in January 2009 and we started dating only each other in March 2009. He lives about an hour away and we see each other pretty much every weekend and about 1 night during the week. I am previously divorced (for about a year now) and my ex was very lazy and very immature and ended up cheating on me after being with him since I was 15. My bf is totally different. Every time we are together he is worried about what I want or what I need, which I am not used to. Even when we are intimate he is all about me, which I am also not used to. He has introduced me to his family and invited me on family trips and to holiday celebrations and various weddings of friends etc. For my birthday he got me tickets to a hockey game (he is from PA and loves hockey). He has been trying to teach me about the sport for a while now and it is something we enjoy doing together, so I thought the surprise was very thoughtful and I loved it. He also got me a few other small gifts that were so personalized it was amazing. Probably the best gifts I've ever been given. He is a very thoughtful person 99% of the time. My problem is...I am confused about his feelings/intentions. When we are together he is always so attentive and we are always touching in some way. However, when we do make plans I am nervous the whole time, waiting on him to cancel. Every now and again, he will call and say some friend called and invited him to some event with the guys and he wants to go. I dont usually cause a fuss, because I think personal time is super important. But, sometimes it really pisses me off because we had already made plans earlier in the week. Recently, I drove the hour to his place and got there before he got off of work, which I knew would happen. He called earlier and told me that a sales rep. was in and that he needed to stay about an hour late and "kiss some ass". Totally cool with me. But, an hour after he said he was gonna leave he texted me and said he was out with the guys from work and the sales man and that he didnt drive,but that he would be home ASAP and he was sorry. About 2 hours later he actually came home. He was very loving and apologetic and said he kept trying to get them to leave, etc. I tried to be understanding and let it go. I was a little angry though that he didnt think to call me and say, hey I'm going out with these people, I will try to be back as soon as I can. He had already been out for an hour before he decided to tell me he had even gone. And, whats wrong with saying, hey guys I can't go I have company in town, or just call me and tell me whats up? Not everyone went that night, and he is in the process of getting a new job! Problem #2, when it comes to sex, he is very much all aobut me. However, his sex drive is less than mine and he has actually told me no! I got dressed up and looked good and came out and he looked like he had fallen asleep, but he still told me no! I was so embarrassed and felt so stupid. In one weekend we will have sex once! We are both 25! Sometimes, it doesnt work all that well either. It will for a while, but then he looses it. He can still get off, but it takes some work on my part, which I never mind! I dont know if he is worried about that and thats why he is hesitant sometimes, but it makes me feel unattractive and like I am doing something wrong. He said this has been a problem for him in the past, but who knows. Problem #3, I dont know if he loves me. I have told him I love him and said, after a few minutes, he loved me too, but then he never said it again. I talked to him about this and he said there isnt different love to him. Its what he will do for someone that determines how he feels. So, I said, I love you, I would do anything for you, I want to make you happy, you make me happy, and I trust you with my heart. Do you feel the same? He said yes, so I was ok with that. This weekend was a "guys weekend" out of town so I went to see him Thursday night. on Friday while he was at work, I stayed at his place and cleaned for him to surpise him. I was there a lil late and texted him and told him I was still there and that I wanted to see him before he left and give him a lil fun. He told me there was a lil pool tournament after work and that he was sorry! Seriously? So, later that night before he left for his weekend out, I called and talked to him about this. I told him that sometimes he makes me feel like I am not #1 to him. I told him that I feel likes his order of priorities are his dog, himself, what he wants to do, and me. He said he doesnt think of it that way and that he isnt intentionally doing this. He said that he loves being with me, but he enjoys being with his friends too. He said that maybe he just isnt used to having to worry about anything but what he wants. We have been together for almost a year! He said that we hadn't been dating all that long and that he was just slipping back into his old ways and that he would try and work on that and work on telling me Open Question: Can someone please interpret this dream?I do not want to date or anything like that. And last night I was thinking about a boy, that was not even in my dream, that I have a big crush on though it's not a healthy crush solely because I couldn't bring myself to actually date him(sounded superficial, but I promise it's for legit reasons. Not because I'm "higher" then him or whatever). I have never had any sort of physical relations before(which, I'm young. I have time, and I don't want a relationship right now.) so explaining this dream is very awkward for me. - Alright, I guess I was dating this guy in one of my classes. When I first met him I instantly began to like him(in real life) though he was a good four years older then me. I got over the crush, because it was pathetic and pointless. In the dream I suppose we were dating. He kept talking about if I was ready for something that started with an 'i'. For some reason I said sure; in the dream I was being rather stupid and going "gaga" over my boyfriend. He brought me to a room-and we somehow got around without my parents knowing. In RL, I seriously fear my parents finding out about any romance in my life.) - that was a bedroom. He jumped into the right side of the bed, and lifted the sheets. He said "come on, we can't do this without a bed." I climbed under the covers and he lifted the sheets again, and I relized he wanted me to give him a handjob(I'm not sure why in the bed.) and I jumped out of the bed and said no. He wasn't being a jerk either; he seemed a little sad because of other reason then him not getting a handjob. I left him in the room. When I left the room the living room outside of it was full with people that in real life I know. They were all watching a very tiny TV, and a good number were on the lounging on the floor because the two couches were full. They had a slight idea what just happened, but didn't know entirely. I moved around one boy, who in real life I sort of know. He is my mom's friend's son; he is around 20. We didn't really talk; he was sort of drunk then hungover when he was over. But when we did talk, he was nice. He smiled at me and moved a bag of marshmellos so I could sit by him on the floor. I did; and the other boy was still in the bedroom feeling a bit hurt. This whole scene was in black and white. Then, I was back in my room(fully color) when the boy that let me sit by him, a friend, and his ex step brother(who is my age) came by. The boy my age fist bumped me and asked if I remember him. I said yeah, then the boy who let me sit by him came from behind him. I said "Oh...I thought you were him." and we all laughed. And then I woke up. At first I didn't remember the dream, then it suddenly came to me. I felt very queasy once I realized what I had just dreamed; I have a big anxiety problem. Can someone please tell me what they think it may mean? Open Question: How to avoid awkward conversations while getting t know people better?Here's my problem. There is this guy I've been talking to for a year. I really like him and last week he told me he liked me. The problem is though that for some reason we seem to have this issue with talking. We either talk about random things or end up in some form of an argument and I don't want that to happen anymore. The arguments are always over stupid things like one of us will be kidding and the other one will be like "wtf?". I don't like it at all! He and I both agreed that in order for us to have a real relationship we need to talk more. Actual talking. I'm really shy and kinda stupid around guys I like so I neeed help! What are strategies to keeping conversations not awkward? Are there things I should and shouldn't say? We made a promise we wouldn't reply with one word replies for today at least, but I don't know how well that'll work. I just need help because I feel like im drifting away from him and don't know him as well as I should especially since we've kissed and gone on dates. So please! How do I keep it from being weird? and How do I start conversations with him so that they'll last? Thanks! =] p.s. this is basically my last chance with him. i neeed help. Open Question: How to avoid awkward pauses in conversations and get to know people better?Here's my problem. There is this guy I've been talking to for a year. I really like him and last week he told me he liked me. The problem is though that for some reason we seem to have this issue with talking. We either talk about random things or end up in some form of an argument and I don't want that to happen anymore. The arguments are always over stupid things like one of us will be kidding and the other one will be like "wtf?". I don't like it at all! He and I both agreed that in order for us to have a real relationship we need to talk more. Actual talking. I'm really shy and kinda stupid around guys I like so I neeed help! What are strategies to keeping conversations not awkward? Are there things I should and shouldn't say? We made a promise we wouldn't reply with one word replies for today at least, but I don't know how well that'll work. I just need help because I feel like im drifting away from him and don't know him as well as I should especially since we've kissed and gone on dates. So please! How do I keep it from being weird? and How do I start conversations with him so that they'll last? Thanks! =] Open Question: complicated promise ring problem! help!?!?!?!?Ok, so im a girl. Im 16, and im gay. Me and my girlfriend have been talking/dating for about 5 months. I think she has gotten me a promise ring for christmas. Do any of you guys have any clue about what i can get her!? I want to get something like a promise ring but....not a ring. lol Please help me!!!!!!! More Recent Articles
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