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Open Question: Anxiety from ex moving on? and more... Open Question: Anxiety from ex moving on?I dated a guy all through college. We were/still the only person eachother have ever dated. We had kind of a rough relationship and he broke up with me after 2 1/2 years together. We've been broken up for a year and still remain really good friends. We talk almost everyday and see eachother about 3 times a week. I know I still mean and lot to him but when it came down to it he didn't know if he could commit to me for the long run so we split. Since then we've both dated around...him much more than me. My problem is the minute a new girl comes into the picture I panic. I have this anxiety that this girl is going to replace me and automatically work with him the way I want to work with him. I just can't help the feeling I get that these girls are people he's going to just fall in love with. I know it sounds crazy but we've been through a lot together and I love him to death. THere's no one else I'd rather be with. So I'm in this position of taking anything rather than nothing. Help! Open Question: Girl problem....i need some advice.?I'll try to make this story short. I met this girl that I am attracted to and really like at her job about 4 months back that I seen on a daily basis. After a few times flirting and talking, I asked her out, and she agreed. She had a lot going on in her life at that time with work and starting college and some things came up and she canceled, but apologized and said she wanted to when things slowed down. We texted on and off a few times, and I called her about a month later and asked again, again she declined. I asked her if persistance was a good thing and she said in my case yes and if I should wave the white flag and she said no not at all. I left it at that, she needed to be the one to make the next move. I got busy and our schedules were different so we didn't connect for sometime. One day about a month later she texted me wondering if I was still really busy with work because the weather changed. The next day she tried to call but I missed it because of bad cell reception. I called back and left a message, but no response. We texted that night. I moved on. We changed distrubutors so I don't have the opportunity to run into her at work because we are doing business with a different company, so I haven't seen her. I didn't connect with her again, up until a month again when I texted her to see how she was doing, no response. But here I am 4 months later, still not finding anyone I really like after being out on numerous dates and such. She still crosses my mind. The other day, one of my coworkers had to go to that distrubutin company where she works and charge something there under our business name, and she asked him how I was doing? Whats going on here and what should I do? More Recent Articles
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