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Open Question: Best Friend VS Boyfriend= Problem! Help!? and more... Open Question: Best Friend VS Boyfriend= Problem! Help!?Okay here's the deal. We'll call my best friend Q. I've been knowing him since 6th grade, though half of the time I knew him, I couldnt stand him. But in the 9th grade, we just got really close for some reason and now he's my best friend! I love him and I trust him! We'll call my boyfriend D. I've been knowing D since the 6th grade also, but we've ALWAYS liked eachother. Problem was, in 6th grade he had a girlfriend and I was too immature to want a boyfriend. But we talked at school and ate lunch together and stuff. This continued to go one for 6th, 8th, and 9th grade (7th grade he moved away for a while). So now we're in the 10th grade, and we just started dating. Happy ending? No! My best friend doesnt like the idea of us dating, even though I told my best friend that me and D love eachother! We have sooo much in common and we can talk to days on end and its been like that for 4 years! We never run out of things to say. Alot of people dont like the fact that we're going out because alot of girls like D, but we dont care. And now my best friend is overreacting about the situation. It's stressing me and D out because its like everyone, except for a few people, have an issue with us dating! What should I do? Who should I listen to? Open Question: Best Friend VS. Boyfriend Troubles!? Help!?Okay here's the deal. We'll call my best friend Q. I've been knowing him since 6th grade, though half of the time I knew him, I couldnt stand him. But in the 9th grade, we just got really close for some reason and now he's my best friend! I love him and I trust him! We'll call my boyfriend D. I've been knowing D since the 6th grade also, but we've ALWAYS liked eachother. Problem was, in 6th grade he had a girlfriend and I was too immature to want a boyfriend. But we talked at school and ate lunch together and stuff. This continued to go one for 6th, 8th, and 9th grade (7th grade he moved away for a while). So now we're in the 10th grade, and we just started dating. Happy ending? No! My best friend doesnt like the idea of us dating, even though I told my best friend that me and D love eachother! We have sooo much in common and we can talk to days on end and its been like that for 4 years! We never run out of things to say. Alot of people dont like the fact that we're going out because alot of girls like D, but we dont care. And now my best friend is overreacting about the situation. It's stressing me and D out because its like everyone, except for a few people, have an issue with us dating! What should I do? Who should I listen to? Open Question: Why is my daughter not supportive of me improving my love life by dating young hot men?I'm a 52yr old female but look much younger. I'm slim, i dress young, eg i fit into my 25yr old daughers size 10 dresses and can party with the best of them! After my divorce last year my girlfriend and i treated ourselves to lip inplants, breast englargements and other nips n tucks! I went from 34B to 34E and im loving buying trashy undies. My friend (54 and also divorced) hang out together and we are just back from Morocco where we got so much attention from gorgous waiters.I find that i'm getting hit on alot by younger men! I'm just back from Morocco where i had a fling with a gorgous 24 yr old waiter! And he wasnt the only one i got lucky with on my one weeks holiday! I was a real hit with moroccan men! My waiter lover is actually coming to the uk at xmas and wants to 'get to know me better', he said he would even consider moving here if things worked out between us! I'm wealthy after my divorce, i'm lucky so i've been sending him little bits of money. He works for practially nothing in a restaurant and hes so thankful! Now, i've got hit on by another foreign waiter who is only 25 here at home and gorgous! I'm going on adate with him tonight! My daughters got real funny about all this. Perhaps coz she dont have a boyfriend right now! Oh and i notice one of her male friends is flirting too! Whats her problem? Only last night my mate and i went to an opening of a real hip bar in town. I ran into my two young daughters there and they were real cool to us, like they didnt want us to be there! I suppose it didnt help that we had a flurry of young men chatting us up, and some were seriously hot! Open Question: Problem with mom and my gay friend?Okay here goes.. about a month ago,I came out to my Mom as a lesbian and she said she was fine with it and now I'm having doubts.. I came out to my friends first as I wasn't sure how she'd react and my friend matt has been an angel in all this as he is gay and has been there before... Well, I mentioned to my mom that he was dating someone and she didn't want to hear it or the fact that I thought he was playing Cupid between me and a friend of his who also likes girls and my mom flipped and said she didn't want to hear it and it was my buisness and then she tells me stuff about matt she doesn't like such as comments he makes and she says he is arrogant and I'll admit there are times he drives me crazy, but I ignore it and we get along really well... He is very musically talented and knows his stuff and while I can see how it seems like he knows it all, I never feel stupid around him... So I keep myself between them and my mom likes him it's just that I have a list of stuff in my head that she doesn't like and it drives me kinda crazy and I eventually want to start dating someone and hate to see how that is going to go over with my mom and I know she needs time to accept it and work it out on her own, but I am not used to not talking to her about someone I like and I am just kinda confused here. I am 25 and have been in the closet for the last 3 years and it is taking me some getting used to and some days it's easier than others and matt has been there for me, in fact, he was the first one I came out to and he has been an angel in all this and is there if I need to talk and we have gotten close over this so I don't know... Any advice would be great!!! Open Question: Is my girlfriend too muscular?I started dating this girl recently and its been great, but lately my friends have been bothering me. This girl is loves to work out a lot, especially with weights, so shes got a strong build. Shes actually stronger and bigger than I am but that hasnt mattered to me because I like strong girls. My friends, however, keep telling me that it looks weird in public to be with a girl who looks like she can beat me up. What is everyones problem? I honestly dont care about their opinions but i ask you all, do you think my girlfriend is too muscular? heres a pic: http://fitfemworld.com/displayimage.php?pid=3230&fullsize=1 Open Question: Do you think this scorpio guy wants to take revenge?This is going to be a long and maybe a little bit confusing story but I still would like to know your opinion! I was seeing this scorpio guy for about two months whom I later started to perceive as a player. Until now I don't really know if he was just testing me or playing though. He would blow hot and cold on me all the time and pretending to be jealous or really being jealous???, asking me about other guys and if I cheated on him even though we weren't in a relationship. He would only come late in the evening so we could have sex and mainly only when he wanted and so I thought that sex was the only thing he was into. On the third date when we talked about relationship I told him that I want a relationship but if he wasn't looking for something serious it would be ok for me too, I just wanted to know. He replied he will try to do his best and that he wouldn't want to lose me and doesn't want me to meet other men. The last evening we saw each other his friend said that I was his girlfriend. Then I started to feel really down and confused about his behavior! I was so shocked about the statement of his friend so I decided just to ask him what he really wants. His reaction was: What do you want to hear from me? he was just teasing me, laughing and then said I should be serious, that he is not a guy with whom a girl would like to have a relationship, said he liked me and then the next day he would just grab the first girl he met and would not contact me for 4 months. When this girl left the country, because she was an exchange student, he would contact me 3 times, wanted to see me again! And so I thought let's give it another try, we were supposed to meet in 2 hours. So I am waiting and waiting and then he called again and said he was sorry he couldn't come because blablabla... Two weeks later I just found out that this girl was back in the country and on the way to me he bumped into her and that is why he called off. I was so pissed!!! Never ever did someone f… with me like this! How mean or immature a person must be to do something like that! The only thing that came into my mind was that he probably fell in love with her. Later two people told me that she was actually in relationship with another guy (from her country) and that this would only be a short affair (these were her words). So then I decided to call the scorpio guy, told him how badly he hurt me and that I don't agree with his behavior at all (in a normal tone of course) and also that the girl he is seeing would be in a relationship! He was very shocked and interested in what I was saying and said she told him she didn't have a boyfriend for a year. Then he said he doesn't understand why I would think he doesn't want to see me and that his problem is that he doesn't know what he wants. After this phone call he would confront the girl 3 weeks later, I know this because she deleted me from her facebook friends. Now he is still seeing her and even trying harder to impress her! So I don't really get it!!! Do you think he is maybe trying to take revenge? He was very vindictive when we were seeing each other, even with little things, anything I would do wrong he would just pay it back twice and then he would say this is a lesson for you so you don't do it again! He definitely didn't know she was in a relationship because he was really trying hard to get as much information as possible from me and the girl told to one guy not to tell anybody that she was in a relationship. More Recent Articles
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