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Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Open Question: brother dating insane woman? and more...

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Open Question: brother dating insane woman? and more...

Open Question: brother dating insane woman?

My brother has been dating this complete psycho woman. I know this term is thrown around alot but this woman actually in need of medication or serious psychological therapy. Recently the two have moved out of my family home (to which I couldn't be happier) but unfortunately they moved right back in a few months later. I have tried telling him that this woman is just flat out no good yet he never believes me. The house were in use to be split up into two apartments so they moved into one. Many problems have been coming up since they have been living with us first their arguments have found a way to include the rest of my family much like a fight on a Saturday morning cartoon the cloud of dust and fist manage to pull other family members into its path, debates about who pays what has come up even thou we clearly stated how much each is supposed to pay the two play my parents against one another in a "he said she said" childish excuses so they can get out of the bills. Recently due to the economic downturn and their reluctance to pay some of their bills we now have to rely on one another. I know that last bit seems confusing but basically they couldn't pay one of their bills so we paid it however down the road a bill that came up for us which we do not have the money for because WE PAID THEIR BILL! they turn around and pay which they always remind us of how holier than god they are for paying a small bill that we could have paid had we not bust our banks on their idiotic loans. So how do I stop my brother for destroying what little my family has and not lose our home because of our $ situation? I cant just kick him out since that mix up with the bills we now rely on his small income for that bill and recently due to our car needing to be fixed we dint have the excess amount of money needed to survive without him for a few months. I don't want to view my brother as a paycheck but due to his psychotic gf throwing tantrums and saying he cheats on her. How can I resolve this? Also god bless you if you made it this far in reading this.

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Open Question: i screwed up big time?

ive been dating this girl, ill call her jane, for about 3 months. Its been great, for the most part, and we havent had many problems until two days ago when another girl, ill call her sarah, told me that she loved me. I told my girlfriend (whos friends with sarah) about it, and then sarah found out that i did this, and got mad, as she didnt want me to tell anyone. what to do? now both women are ignoring me

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Open Question: About a girl (different questions for everyone)?

to get to the point a girl and i meet she said she was falling for me we decided to date, her mother doesnt mind the age difference which is im 18 and she is 14 ok her dad has a problem and its totally understandable but he jumped to the conclusion that he doesnt like me and we havent even met yet 1) For the fathers would u jumped to the conclusion that u didnt like the kid if ur daughter has told u she really likes the kid, or would u give it a chance if he is willing to meet u. why and why not??? 2) and girls if u were in this situation and u told ur bf and he wanted ur house number so he could talk to ur parents would u refuse it to him why or why not???? 3) also for the ladies if u were Falling for the guy or even if u really liked him in this position would u jump to the conclusion that u could make it through this and that u would have to break up in the future???? 4) for the guys and girls how do u think i should go about meeting her parents and telling her that she needs to make up her mind weather she is going to think about this negetively about it or try and make it through this??? ok guys i think u and understand were ur coming from but do understand im not like that she has and truthfuly i am, told her mother im a virgin i cant go to college yet im still in highschool and i know its illegal and dont plan on it

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Open Question: Who can help with that JSA problem?

Hi. I'm not sure if I can get help from you regarding my problem with Jobcebtre services but I thought it will be a good idea to contact you and try. I'm Polish and I live in UK for permanent since 05/03/2005. I was always working,paying taxes etc. This year, on 17/07/2009 I'v lost my employment, I was sucked in other words. I've made my claim for JSA on 20/07/2009 due to weekend so Jobcentre was closed. Since that time, I've never been paid JSA and I'm still struggling to get it till today. Jobcentre made terrible mistakes while dealing with my claim. They haven't informed me when they needed more information and paperwork from me at the first stage. The only reason I've found out was because I was calling Jobcentre very often (i can proove it on my mobile bills). Even though I have provided all possible proof regarding my work history in the United Kingdom, my claim was taking long time to process it. During that time I have called Jobcentre many times (I had high mobile bills after because I couldn't go to Jobcentre every single time I had to call) I was misinformed, mislead or nobody called me when I was requesting callback (most of the time). Finally they have made a decision and on 16/09/2009 to disallow my JSA claim because I haven't passed residency test in a meaning I haven't worked for at least one employer for a year without breaks. I have called Jobcentre and I was told that this letter is wrong and it was sent to me by mistake. I have also received original P45 and Worker Registration Certificate of somebody else with a same surname as mine. I have asked for a breakdown of that JSA decision. I have waited for a week and called Jobcentre again requesting a callback. When I was called , I was told that the letter was actually right and I'm not eligible for JSA. When I have received a breakdown of the decision and reason for it. There were mistakes done because start date of one employment was wrong (date is clearly visible on each P45, impossible to get it wrong), half of my employment details were mixed with that other person with same surname and the biggest mistake which a decision was based on was my employment duration. I have worked for employer for more than enough time,almost 2 years and Jobcentre even put that dates on a breakdown ,and also writing that I haven't worked for at least a year,this is ridiculous. I was told over the phone that I haven't registered on time with Home Office which is wrong and mistake again made by Jobcentre. Home Office and law says that people should sent paperwork to them within 30 days from start date but if it will be anytime after 30 days, date that Home Office will register details and send Working Registration Certificate, will be treated as a first date of employment. Jobcentre interpreted that wrong and based decision on wrong facts of employment of other person, and not knowing the English Law which I know better. I have asked for Legal Advice and my advisor had conference call with me and Jobcentre. They have admitted to mistake but I was told that I need to send formal appeal anyway because that's the way system works. I've sent appeal straight away, my legal advisor closed the case,it looked as it's sorted. Well,it's still not. My appeal was sent from Handsworth BDC to Wolverhampton appeals team for some reason, although my home address belongs to Handsworth area. Wolverhampton sent appeal to Belfast. Finally I have received a letter from Belfast sent to me on 03/11/2009 stating that they have changed the decision (so I'm eligible) and they have sent paperwork back to Handsworth BDC so they can inform me about my JSA entitlement and pay the money. For some reason it was sent again from Handsworth BDC to Wolverhampton. Since that time I've made plenty of calls to find out how long it's gonna take or are there any problems with it. I was given so many wrong informations over and over that I have doubts that my appeal wasn't lost or something. I have some voicemail messages for Jobcentre to prove how badly they are doing their job. I was told just recently that they don't know anything about letter from Belfast so I was told to fax it to Handsworth BDC which I did (I have a ceipt from Jobcentre office in Smethwick - I have moved there a month ago) I've sent it two weeks ago on 26/11/2009. Still nothing have happened, I'm calling them requesting callback with some explanations,I don't receive them or they are calling at some other time than agreed (I'm back to work now so I can't answer the phone anytime I want). For the last three days I'm calling them,informing that again and again I'm not receiving callback,today they have ignored me again. Me and my family, we are living in a lot of stress because of that. We have overdue bills, my partner she's got sick because of that nerves she is going through, I have massive bills due to calls to Jobcentre, our family is suffering. Why Jobcentre is ingnoring all of that, why their employees can't d

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Open Question: Why so long to open an Office document?

This is not happening on my computer, but I have been asked to diagnose the problem. When Word or Excel documents are double-clicked in Windows Explorer or from an email attachment, nothing happens for a minute or two and then it finally opens. The CPU is sitting idle and nothing appears to be happening (no hourglass, etc.). If Word or Excel is launched from the Start Menu (without opening a file), the application opens almost immediately. Rebooting fixes the problem, but then later in the day it will start doing it again. I have witnessed the problem on the person's PC. Everything seems to be up-to-date and the CPU is literally idle while he waits for a minute or so for the document to open. The same thing happens with local files, files from network drives, and files from email attachments. Intel Core 2 Quad, 3 GB RAM, Win XP Pro, Office 2003 Pro, AVG Network Edition Thanks

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Open Question: Thermal expansion problems. Need to know how to do!?

So my physics final is Wednesday and we never went over the section on heat...but we still have an assignment due on the exam date with a few questions on heat. Lucky for me too, the notation used in the book is different than the equations he supplied us. So here they are. If you can SHOW how you solved it, that would be really preferred. 1)How much heat is required to raise the temperature of 200. g of mercury from 20 to 100 degrees C? A)900J b)1000J C)2200J D)80J 2) A handful of copper shot is heated to 98.0 degrees C and then dropped into 160. g of water at 20.0 degrees C. The final temperature of the mixture is 25.0 degrees C. What was the mass of the shot? A)118 g B)97.2 g C)129 g D)165 g 3) What quantity of heat is required to change 20.0 g of ice at -25.0 degrees C to steam at 120. degrees C? A) 48.0 kJ B)104 kJ C)93.9 kJ D)62.1 kJ 4)Twelve grams of crushed ice at -10.0 degrees C are dropped into a 50.0 g aluminum calorimeter cup containing 100. g of water at 50.0 degrees C. The system is quickly sealed and allowed to reach thermal equilibrium. What is the resulting temperature? A) 42.3 degrees B) 38.7 degrees C) 26.2 degrees D) 12.8 degrees 5)A foundry has an electric furnace that can completely melt 540. kg of copper. It the temperature of the copper was initially 20.0 degrees C, what total heat is needed to melt the copper? A) 2.44 * 10^9 J B) 5.07 * 10^7 J C)1.49 * 10^6 J D)2.96 * 10^8 J Again, I really need to know HOW to solve these. If anyone can help me it would be greatly appreciated.

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