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Open Question: Can a gay guy find hope with dating? and more... Open Question: Can a gay guy find hope with dating?I don't know what to do anymore. I finally think I might have accepted that I'm gay, and after a while of being single I want to start looking again. The only problem is that all the gay guys I can find are either feminine,EXTREMELY anal (no pun), or kind of bitchy...pretty much the sterotypes. Im not attracted to that at all. I like MEN, not girly men, I don't mean to be rude but it's just a preference. Is there anyway a young guy can find a totally straight acting attractive and decent guy? Am I out of luck with the whole dating thing? It seems impossible to me, I might just be better off giving up. Open Question: is it bad to date someone younger ?i've been talking to and kind of seeing a guy who is several years younger than me. he treats me well and acts into me and has patience with me but the problem is the age difference and the fact that since he is younger my family wouldnt accept it and would give me a hard time. i have to sneak around so they dont find out since i do still live in their house. we are both over 18 though so it is legal. i like him too and i just go with the flow from day to day and take it like that but i have to at some point think abut how the future possiblility could be if it did go further. would i be leading him on to continue seeing him since he is falling for me ?? should i just not see him because of this ?? i am so confused. i knew on the start that it would be an issue but for some reason i saw something in him.... my friends know bout us and dont see a problem but the people who matter the most do. what should i do ?? continue to see him not knowing what kind of future we could have and chance possibly hurting him long term or just keep going with it and not care ..... the problem and issue is that i am almost 30 and he only 20 : ( that age difference could be a major problem...... Open Question: Do I love him? I need opinions from boys.?Its my ex boyfriend & I KNOW already that I sound like every other damn person on this thing. Read this story though please & tell me what youu think. I know its hella long but whatever. It's really embarrassing because I'm usually not like this about boys. I dated him for a while last year & the whole time, I planned on cheating on him to be honest. I know i'm crazy but its because I just wanted to keep him around still & be single like my girlfriends too. i don't get why. I promise i'm not evil, I just have a lame lame commitment problem. I wanted him to commit but at the same time go out & be single. I think more like boys then girls in a way. I didn't do it to be mean, its just really hard for me. He always told me he loved me so much all the time & all these things and I never said it back once because i didn't think i did. Then he started giving up on everything and thats when i told him I loved him without thinking & i don't know why i said it because i didn't mean it. Then out of nowhere HE broke up with me before our junior year started & its the first & only time a boy has ever broken up with me but it killed me. I felt so alone without him. He's the only boy i said i love you to. & i was DEVESTATED. I don't know if I really love him or not. I still i think about him, he's totally hot & has an attractive personality, & we have the same group of friends so we always talk still. After we broke up he had sex with a friend of mine. Of course I got rid of her & her reputation was ruined. I was mean to him for a while but I also understand him for it. He totally treats her like a slut & ruined her rep. & they don't talk at all. But he's never been like that to me. He's disrespectful to all of his ex's except for me, & he's so sweet still and has never been mean. We get along way well still but there's a weird feeling like something's missing when we're just talking at a party or something. When he starts to talk to me all the time, I feel like I don't really love him. But whenever I don't see him for a while i miss him & its SO crazy. Am i in love? Whats your opinion pleassssse i'm dying to know. Open Question: my girlfriend her hypoglycemia, and BC?Hi people, I'm currently dating a beautiful girl, who has hypoglycemia, and she does have - i will attest - to having irregular cycles. now my problem is that she wants to start taking the pill, and i know of the risks, and the possible cancers that it can cause, my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer a few years ago, and they found it to be caused by BC is there any way of trying to talk to her, my girlfriend, into trying to regulate naturally, instead of using a FAKE source? we don't have sex, we are both still virgins, idc what people say, and i don't want her to have to go thru any kind of cancer related problem... also her hypoglycemia can be severe she has had passed convulsions, and unconsciousness. Currently she is not on the pill or on any other form. I'm sorry for the women out there that are on it, but its retarded as hell, imho to be on BC it screws with your hormones, it messes with your chemical structure of your body, and mind... I'm a Christian and I believe that there are healthier ways. but like i said, is there any way to try and talk her out of it? I'm doing it only out of love, and worry. Thanks for the apathy for my mother, she is fine now, and i know that what she was on, although not stated thru the FDA, was what caused her cancer... Also i have read alot of sources stating the my gfs hypoglycemic symptoms will get worse. and no we know we are going to get engaged, and we are saving ourselves, but like i said, it is pointless, all kinds of BC gives women a fake cycle, its not a real one like what God had planned for females as humans. i'm just extreamily worried about it, and i understand why shes doing it, but there has to be more of a NATURAL way, instead of using man made chemicals animals all have a cycle, and we dont put our pets, or wiild animals on BC, and i know that's irrelevent to my argument, but i'm trying my best. @Princess Anubis: I have already talked to her about it, she knows how i feel, and she said that shes only doing it regulate the cycle... i don't want to come off as an ass to her, but i would liek to get some kind of documentation to help my side out... Open Question: Sex Struggles with my girlfriend in bed?I need some advice. The girl im with right now I recently started dating I have had a problem with I never had before during sex. I'm only 19 and been with about 5 different girls before but never encountered a problem til now. When I have sex with this girl I feel like I don't satisfy her enough and I don't want it to lead to problems between us. I really like her, and is one of the first girls I sat down to have a serious relationship with. The problem is in bed I get real excited then lose my excitement. She recognizes it and wonders why and asks me. I never had a issue hooking up with girls and giving them what they want, but I feel like I cant do it with this girl. I get more nervous about myself and shes always willing to try new things which is great and why I love her so much more than other girls I've met. But at the same time, its making things worst for me because I've had trouble in the bed with her. I'm convinced in some ways I should see a doctor for Viagra or something, but at the same time Im 19 and I don't think that is the real problem here. She almost feels like its her, not me. I don't even know how to give her a real reason to why its like this with her. No one has ever told me I don't satisfy them, but I feel that way about her. Maybe shes the first girl to come out and say whats wrong to me? or I'm pretty clear she is more experienced than me which makes me more nervous and feel like she expects more and I'm not living up to it. I hate the feeling of losing and right now I feel like I just can't win. Any advice or motivation would help so much. I'm look at it from my perspective so I'd like to know how others feel from a outside perspective and how I can solve my problem? I want to show her that its not her, and I can defiantly give her more i just am struggling. Thanks to anyone in advance. Open Question: I'm losing it!! Can a therapist help me get a real personality and fix my problems?What kind of therapist do I ned to talk to? I am a 17 year old boy in the 11th grade, from a typical family, and I need to change how I live, or rather don't live life. I've got a lot of issues which make me seem really weird. What kind of person am I? Well, I'm really smart but shy. I seem mature, but really I don't know how to have fun and enjoy myself. I act antisocial and avoid talking to and seeing friends because I worry they don't like me for irrational reasons. I really like them, but it's so hard to talk to others. Why? Well, I struggle to talk to them because I have such low self confidence. If somebody challenges me, I back down. I am a pushover and I agree with others and want to follow. I can't handle responsibility either because I can barely take care of myself and I have so much on my mind all the time. I would actually say I'm immature- I cry when I'm uncomfortable, I do so many little-kid things like ask my parents to go with me to places, and I seem undeveloped. I show no emotion to people either. Like at a sports game, I don't cheer because I'm not pumped up. I have no "laugh out loud"- I hold it back and smile or giggle to myself. I also don't speak up in class or to others when I should. I never offer my own opinion because I'm scared I'll upset someone, so I always agree with others. At a party, I am the guy who wants to stand on the wall or at the food table and chat to a close friend while looking at how everybody else is having more fun than I am. There are a lot of issues behind all of this. I think I have an anxiety disorder or ADD. I have real depression; I take medicine for it but that doesn't fix the causes. My parents never taught me how to develop social relationships either. I was really fat from 6th to 9th grade too, so I am used to being picked on being self-critical. I also missed a key time to grow and make a group of friends. I just did school and shut out a social life. I am not fat anymore but I act the same way. I feel sad for myself. I haven't dated any of the many girls who have liked me because I don't think I can handle a relationship or that they'll like me on the inside. So, I'm worried and can't care about school. At the same time, I'll always be scared if I never start dating, so I'm stuck. I stress over my appearance (which isn't too bad but I think it is) so I avoid girls and social situations. I always find the negative and reasons to be unhappy. The only feeling which I truly understand is sadness. Open Question: is this really creepy or am i reading to much into it?so me (bi) and my friend (gay), have been friends for a while. we are really close and share a shit ton of things. hes a year younger then me, so i've kind of seen him as a little brother. so here my problem, recently we have started to kind of hit it off. and i'm kind of going back and forth think of dating him and then hitting that whole "it would be like dating my brother" kind of thing. am i just reading to much into this? or should i really put some deep thought into this before i make a choice? i know that hes really loyal to the people he dates, but has also said that if find it to weird that there's a guy hes been eyeballing for a little while. Open Question: DATING PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP ME!?ok, so ive never had a boyfriend.. Its weird, but when i guy starts getting close, and starts liking me, and just shy away. Ive liked one guy for a YEAR! ANd he knew, but when he strted showing intrest in me, I just shut him out.. it suck to., BUT ANYWAY! BACK TO THE QUESTION. this guy told my sister tonight he likes me, and I like him too.. But Im not shying away from him. I feel comfortable around him actually, and wednesday hes gonna ask me out, and i THINK im going to say yes.. not sure yet. But when you firststarted dating was it ever akward?? and GUYS, how do u like girls to act?? More Recent Articles |
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