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Open Question: Can i do stuff with this girl? Or is it cheating? and more... Open Question: Can i do stuff with this girl? Or is it cheating?I am dating this girl and we have been dating for a month. We are always off and on with liking each other. But i know we are probly about to become boyfriend and girlfriend in the next few weeks. The problem is, on the way home from my basketball game we were telling stories about girls on the bus. Some how my teammates found out about this girl that offered me sex and i turned it down. I really want to do this girl and she texts me all the time telling me she would. Can i do her or would this be cheating cuz im dating another girl? Open Question: can i please have your advice. my ? is really long but id really appreciate the help. thanks?i met this guy when i was 19 and fell in love he was 19 as well. i was very good to him always supported him despite the fact that he was passive agressive and not affectionate at all. he was crushed because this snobby rich girl he was madly in love with led him on and rejected his attempts at dating. its like he took it out on me and i was his doormat and his distraction from her. its as if i got punished for the fact that she broke his heart because he didnt have it in him to get mad at her since he puts her on a pedastal. he blew me off on my birthday telling me that he couldnt get a pass to leave the military academy. the truth was the girl who rejected him was on a school trip in nyc where the military academy is and he snuck out of school without a pass to take her out to eat at a chef ramsey restaurant, bring her ice skating and give her a single red rose. i know this because he posted the pictures on facebook!! and he wrote under her comment kendall id blow post and risk getting kicked out of school in a heartbeat to see you smile and take you out...of course she rejected him after and just used him for the dinner so he came back to me playing the suicide card.........he ended up getting me pregnant when we were 21 he turned of his phone and had his grandma send me a check for an abortion. as he was actively having sex with some blonde sorority girl and making her homemade cards....he was so devastated when she broke up with him that he called me and again pulled the suicide card and sent a picture mail and all that he claimed he was devastated that we lost a child i had only had the abortion 4 month before he called so i was very weak and vulnerable at the time.....he convinced me with a lot of work that i should come to NC where he was living from boston where i live to talk about the abortion and vent my feelings...he called me on the plane and i told him id booked myself a hotel with 2 beds and he could stay in the other and he said no thats stupid and that he wasnt going to pick me up at the airport....i spent the weekend in a hotel room alone with no food since id used 720 for the flight and hotel he was supposed to bring food or provide food....turns out the reason he blew me off is because he wanted me to stay in his dorm reason being is so he could have sex with me and flaunt me in front of the blond sorority girls face who lived in the same dorm building....i was just his pawn...his grandma ended up driving to the hotel i was at and i cried for hours about the abortion she called him and he said grandma you should have left that ***** with no food... id done everything for this person and then some. i supported him through thick and thin. finally this summer we started getting along like when we had first met and falling in love again it was like hed done a 180. iand then in september i got an email from a 30 yr old woman hed met from california who was emailing me from his email address ...she forwarded me emails that hed sent her promising her marriage and children...pictures and a record of all the yahoo messenger chats they'd had about starting a family....i confronted him and he said whatever i do dont respond to her....less than a week later i was getting emails and calls at my house phone from craigslist sex people because she had posted an AD with my information on the erotic section of craigslist...as payback for having been on his email account list...i confronted him and told him to tell her to take the posts down since i didnt know where the post originated...he said it wasnt his problem so i called the police...they told him to knock it off...we are almost 23 now and this was in september of 09......he hasnt said a word to me since....not an apology for all the hell he's put me through.....nothing.......ive emailed him 3x because im an absolute wreck over this its like my life turned upside down....and he ignores me as if im the bad guy and hes the victim...when in reality he should be happy that im a decent person who tries to make peace even after hes abused me because i am really torn up....he just completely blows off an attempt at contacting him after 3 years of all this he cant even write me an email and say sorry........i dont understand why im the one getting ignored and avoided as if i did something wrong and hes the one hiding out from me and blowing me off it should be the other way around and it makes my blood boil i am so angry Open Question: What to do about my girlfriend's numerous male "friends"?This started out as an annoyance, but has now grown into a deal-breaking problem. So I'd love some advice. I have been dating this girl for a year and a half but the past 6mos have been a nightmare. My girlfriend has 1 female friend and about 10 male friends. I know that the ones that have been friends for years have either had or still have crushes on her (know from her telling me or the fact that they used to date). On top of these guys, she has a part time job bartending and an internship with a professional sports team. So she facebooks a few people she met through the bar who are all flirting with her (she made the mistake of giving one her number who turned out to be a stalker). And now I find out that one of the athletes from this sports team got her number (I didn't bother to ask how that came to happen). He is now texting her. She never goes out with any of these guys. Not even her old friends. The problem is that every day she has endless text chats with them or stays up on facebook till 4am. We have gotten into too many fights to count over this. She thinks that I'm trying to control her and keep her from having friends. That isn't the case. I trust her but not a single one of her friends. I have suggested that she or we go out with her old friends. She says that she is too busy or her friends don't want to come by because of me. One has said that he would feel like a 3rd wheel and suggested that she move out. Who the F** is this guy?! She at least told him off for that comment. I am a nice guy. I think the problem is that she is 22 and her friends are the same age and very immature. I'm 29 and my friends are mostly married with kids. She likes this attention and doesn't want it to stop, but I completely feel like it isn't fair to me. She doesn't like to go out and doesn't party, but she texts constantly. It drives me crazy. How can I explain this to her? She hasn't listened so far. Thank you for any response. Open Question: really long question. im absolutely torn apart and devastated my heart is broken 1 pieces can i have ur advice?i met this guy when i was 19 and fell in love he was 19 as well. i was very good to him always supported him despite the fact that he was passive agressive and not affectionate at all. he was crushed because this snobby rich girl he was madly in love with led him on and rejected his attempts at dating. its like he took it out on me and i was his doormat and his distraction from her. its as if i got punished for the fact that she broke his heart because he didnt have it in him to get mad at her since he puts her on a pedastal. he blew me off on my birthday telling me that he couldnt get a pass to leave the military academy. the truth was the girl who rejected him was on a school trip in nyc where the military academy is and he snuck out of school without a pass to take her out to eat at a chef ramsey restaurant, bring her ice skating and give her a single red rose. i know this because he posted the pictures on facebook!! and he wrote under her comment kendall id blow post and risk getting kicked out of school in a heartbeat to see you smile and take you out...of course she rejected him after and just used him for the dinner so he came back to me playing the suicide card.........he ended up getting me pregnant when we were 21 he turned of his phone and had his grandma send me a check for an abortion. as he was actively having sex with some blonde sorority girl and making her homemade cards....he was so devastated when she broke up with him that he called me and again pulled the suicide card and sent a picture mail and all that he claimed he was devastated that we lost a child i had only had the abortion 4 month before he called so i was very weak and vulnerable at the time.....he convinced me with a lot of work that i should come to NC where he was living from boston where i live to talk about the abortion and vent my feelings...he called me on the plane and i told him id booked myself a hotel with 2 beds and he could stay in the other and he said no thats stupid and that he wasnt going to pick me up at the airport....i spent the weekend in a hotel room alone with no food since id used 720 for the flight and hotel he was supposed to bring food or provide food....turns out the reason he blew me off is because he wanted me to stay in his dorm reason being is so he could have sex with me and flaunt me in front of the blond sorority girls face who lived in the same dorm building....i was just his pawn...his grandma ended up driving to the hotel i was at and i cried for hours about the abortion she called him and he said grandma you should have left that ***** with no food... id done everything for this person and then some. i supported him through thick and thin. finally this summer we started getting along like when we had first met and falling in love again it was like hed done a 180. iand then in september i got an email from a 30 yr old woman hed met from california who was emailing me from his email address ...she forwarded me emails that hed sent her promising her marriage and children...pictures and a record of all the yahoo messenger chats they'd had about starting a family....i confronted him and he said whatever i do dont respond to her....less than a week later i was getting emails and calls at my house phone from craigslist sex people because she had posted an AD with my information on the erotic section of craigslist...as payback for having been on his email account list...i confronted him and told him to tell her to take the posts down since i didnt know where the post originated...he said it wasnt his problem so i called the police...they told him to knock it off...we are almost 23 now and this was in september of 09......he hasnt said a word to me since....not an apology for all the hell he's put me through.....nothing.......ive emailed him 3x because im an absolute wreck over this its like my life turned upside down....and he ignores me as if im the bad guy and hes the victim...when in reality he should be happy that im a decent person who tries to make peace even after hes abused me because i am really torn up....he just completely blows off an attempt at contacting him after 3 years of all this he cant even write me an email and say sorry........i dont understand why im the one getting ignored and avoided as if i did something wrong and hes the one hiding out from me and blowing me off it should be the other way around and it makes my blood boil i am so angry Open Question: im really devastated and at absolute rock bottom my heart is so broken...long ? but can i have ur advice?i met this guy when i was 19 and fell in love he was 19 as well. i was very good to him always supported him despite the fact that he was passive agressive and not affectionate at all. he was crushed because this snobby rich girl he was madly in love with led him on and rejected his attempts at dating. its like he took it out on me and i was his doormat and his distraction from her. its as if i got punished for the fact that she broke his heart because he didnt have it in him to get mad at her since he puts her on a pedastal. he blew me off on my birthday telling me that he couldnt get a pass to leave the military academy. the truth was the girl who rejected him was on a school trip in nyc where the military academy is and he snuck out of school without a pass to take her out to eat at a chef ramsey restaurant, bring her ice skating and give her a single red rose. i know this because he posted the pictures on facebook!! and he wrote under her comment kendall id blow post and risk getting kicked out of school in a heartbeat to see you smile and take you out...of course she rejected him after and just used him for the dinner so he came back to me playing the suicide card.........he ended up getting me pregnant when we were 21 he turned of his phone and had his grandma send me a check for an abortion. as he was actively having sex with some blonde sorority girl and making her homemade cards....he was so devastated when she broke up with him that he called me and again pulled the suicide card and sent a picture mail and all that he claimed he was devastated that we lost a child i had only had the abortion 4 month before he called so i was very weak and vulnerable at the time.....he convinced me with a lot of work that i should come to NC where he was living from boston where i live to talk about the abortion and vent my feelings...he called me on the plane and i told him id booked myself a hotel with 2 beds and he could stay in the other and he said no thats stupid and that he wasnt going to pick me up at the airport....i spent the weekend in a hotel room alone with no food since id used 720 for the flight and hotel he was supposed to bring food or provide food....turns out the reason he blew me off is because he wanted me to stay in his dorm reason being is so he could have sex with me and flaunt me in front of the blond sorority girls face who lived in the same dorm building....i was just his pawn...his grandma ended up driving to the hotel i was at and i cried for hours about the abortion she called him and he said grandma you should have left that ***** with no food... id done everything for this person and then some. i supported him through thick and thin. finally this summer we started getting along like when we had first met and falling in love again it was like hed done a 180. iand then in september i got an email from a 30 yr old woman hed met from california who was emailing me from his email address ...she forwarded me emails that hed sent her promising her marriage and children...pictures and a record of all the yahoo messenger chats they'd had about starting a family....i confronted him and he said whatever i do dont respond to her....less than a week later i was getting emails and calls at my house phone from craigslist sex people because she had posted an AD with my information on the erotic section of craigslist...as payback for having been on his email account list...i confronted him and told him to tell her to take the posts down since i didnt know where the post originated...he said it wasnt his problem so i called the police...they told him to knock it off...we are almost 23 now and this was in september of 09......he hasnt said a word to me since....not an apology for all the hell he's put me through.....nothing.......ive emailed him 3x because im an absolute wreck over this its like my life turned upside down....and he ignores me as if im the bad guy and hes the victim...when in reality he should be happy that im a decent person who tries to make peace even after hes abused me because i am really torn up....he just completely blows off an attempt at contacting him after 3 years of all this he cant even write me an email and say sorry........i dont understand why im the one getting ignored and avoided as if i did something wrong and hes the one hiding out from me and blowing me off it should be the other way around and it makes my blood boil i am so angry Open Question: Torn between two guys! Please help me anyone who can understand!?The guy im currently with I have been with for 3 years. We met during college and have dated since. Everything started amazing. If I wrote down my perfect guy- he was it. At the time we met, I was just coming out of an on again off again 4 year relationship that started in high school and went on into college. Needless to say, it wasnt a clean break and so there were problems when I started dating the new guy and he hates my ex bc of it. Well despite the fact that our relationship has been mostly good despite a few problems, i cant get my ex off of my mind. we had not seen each other in 3 years and i finally saw him a few weeks ago and it was crazy. we talked all night and started talking again when i left town (i now live 2 hrs away from my hometown). this went on for 4 days and in the meantime my current boyfriend and i broke up b/c we had been having problems anyway. he wanted to talk and work things out and suddenly suspected something and confronted me and I admitted to talking to my ex. this blew him away and crushed him and i wanted to fix things b/c he was suddenly so understanding and like his old self but now that we are moving past it he cant let it go and move on and i STILL cant get my ex out of my head. I just dont know if I am hanging on to my memories from the past or if I truly cant get over my ex as a person. The guy I am with now seems like the perfect man but inside our relationship there are problems with his temper, harsh words and jealousy. I just dont know what to do. with my ex, I always know I can be myself, never be judged and always loved. with my current guy, i find myself trying to become what he wants. but at the same time, i know the person i am with him is a more ambitous and driven person so its not all negative. i know there is no way to ever explain all of this here.. im sorry this is so long but i will really appreciate any help i can get. Thank you in advance to anyone who can offer me their opinion! Open Question: Should I continue to see her?Ok. I am seeing this girl now for a little over 4 months. I have two kids who are with me most of the time. I see her about once a week and at least one night during the weekend and sometimes two nights on the weekends. We don't get together when I have my kids because my ex wife and I made an agreement to not take anyone we are dating around our 6 year old son. We think it would be best to make sure there is a future with that person before we involve the kids. The girl I am seeing has a real problem with this. She thinks we should see each other more but my time is limited because of my responsibilities. She also thinks she I should bring my kids around. My question is, do you think I am wrong for keeping my 6 year old out of this relationship until I am certain we have a future together? Thanks for your advice. Open Question: Air Force DEP, Open General Questions. Help please.?So I'm in the air force dep, and i leave here pretty quick. The problem is im in open general. Is there any way to push my shipout date further to give me more time to think and convey my options. Like saying im sick or should i just ask him. I just hate not knowing what im going to be doing or how long/frequent my deployments are going to be, because college is my main goal. I'd rather not get a job i'd hate. Open Question: I'm only attracted to Hispanic girls.....?Why is this a problem to some of you white women (I'm a white guy) that I find a certain group of women more attractive and choose to like them more in a romantic way? I'm not saying white girls are unattractive or don't have personalities, just that I always find myself more physically and mentally attracted to Latin women? I've met countless white women who say they exclusively date black/hispanic/asian and other non-white men, and are more attracted to them because of their culture and features. I not only love this, but encourage more white women to do so. Why is it, however, a double standard, when white guys do it, they criticize us for being freaks or having a fetish? Why can't we be attracted to the women because of her different looks, but also like her personality. This happened to me with a Latina named Maria. Was I attracted to her physically(YES) but also mentally. I can still here here voice in my head, along with every word she said. Would this above(Maria) be considered a fetish, and if so, why? When white girls can do it with know problems or question asked about fetishes... Was my crush on Maria be considered a fetish or just a genuine attraction to a great female? If so, why? . More Recent Articles
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