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Open Question: Can Someone Give Me Advice on How To Approach This Girl? and more... Open Question: Can Someone Give Me Advice on How To Approach This Girl?I know this girl, J, from swimming for our high school. She's really funny and attractive, and I want to get to know her a little better so that I can see if there's a spark. At the beginning of the year she looked at me a lot, but I never really got around to talking to her because she hangs out with other girls on the swim team and I sort of liked someone else at the time. Well I dated the one girl I liked and we broke up so now I want to see if I can figure out whether those little glances meant something awhile back. Maybe it was just a little crush, but it never hurts to try. Only problem: We have no classes together, I don't her phone number, and I'd have to talk to her like its the first time since I never really did during swim season. How am I to do this??? I have her as a friend on Facebook and I commented on her status and joked around and commented pretty enthusiatically. As well as that, when I see her in the hall (and when I saw her at the swim team banquet last Tuesday) she looked at me like she has done before. Well here's what I'm thinking: I message her on facebook saying something along the lines of "Hey, I noticed that we never really talked during swim season... (fill in what you think I should say)" and maybe get her number? I'm really not sure if it'll ever work but it never hurts to try, so any advice or suggestions??? Open Question: your thoughts please?? guy problems as usual :(?okay so honestly I'm seventeen and i've never had anything really serious with a boy all I mean i've hooked up with guys before but it never ended up leading to anything. about a year ago i met this guy who i totally fell for from the start he is everything i have ever wanted in a guy and at first i thought that he liked me to but I know he doesn't now that i know him better. When we're at school he flirts with me alot always sits next to me and gets jealous when i talk to other boys and i'm really close with his family. but he hasn't ever even made a move like tried kissing me or anything. i mean the most he's ever done is hold my had for a little bit. The thing is i know he doesn't like me because he likes another girl. He's liked her for a year and i know this because he talks about it with his friends and i've met her before and know that they like eachother. This girl is really special she's georgous and makes me feel so ugly. anyways she feels like he's not mature yet and doesn't want to go out with him for another two years because she doesn't want to date until she's ready to get married. ( i know really wierd but its a christian thing) . Sorry this is so long but how do i get over this guy that i see every day flirts with me every day but is in love with another girl? Open Question: My boyfriend always wants to be with his friend...?I meet my boyfriend 8mths ago, the first months was a fairy tale i mean he is everything i ever wanted in a man, But theirs one big! problem... he always wants to be around his friends i dont remenber any date that we had that his friends havent tag alone, I mean as soon as he wakes up in the morning his texting and calling his friends asking them what they are gonna do today... i have talked to him about it, i told him that i would like to spend more time with him (alone) and i would like to go on dates, go to the movies, dinner whatever just not to his friends house. but i guess it went thru one ear and out the other... idk what to do.. should i just break up with him and move along... ? Open Question: Why does it always have to be about the bride?Me and my fiance have been arguing over the details of our wedding. She's 39 and this will be her second marriage and I'm 40 and this will be my first. We have been dating about 6 years now and have set a date for early April 2010. This date has changed several times due to issues and problems within our relationship. I'm in favor of postponing it until a better time as when we're actually getting along and are on the same page but my fiance is tired of putting it off. She doesn't want to change the date anymore. (And you wonder why the divorce rate is so high. People want to rush into things before problems are ironed out.) Anyway, what started out as her planning the ceremony and me planning the reception has changed to everything going her way. My idea for the reception was to have it at a park that has large "covered" pavilions that you can rent and then we just do like a family style cookout. Ask our friends and families to help us out by instead of buying us gifts just to help bring food. Ok, she doesn't like that idea because she is afraid it may rain on that day and she now wants us to do it indoors. Ok, no, you can't predict the weather that far in advance but if that was the case no one would ever think to have an outdoor wedding or reception. Alright, I caved and changed it to an indoor venue. I told her that since she wants to do it indoors she needs to call around and get prices of now renting an indoor facility. We are getting married at our church so that's gonna be free for us but the reception is gonna be just family and a few close friends. We could have it at the church but it's gonna be hard to tell people who are there at the wedding that they aren't invited to the reception. Ok, The date of the wedding is the day before Easter next year and now she wants to buy her sons new suits now and then get them another new suit next year. She's a little pissed at me that I'm not buying a new suit. I have several black suits that I can wear. I told her I would get a new shirt and tie to match what ever color she picks but she's still a little upset that I'm not either gonna rent a tux or just buy a new suit. She even got into it with her sister because her sister didn't want to spend the extra money and buy the dress that she picked out. I feel she wants to spend a bunch of money, that we don't have, just to make this the wedding of her dreams. Again, she's been married before and she had the fairy tale wedding the first time. Oh, and did I mention that I'm only working part time and she's not working at all? I'm trying to think of cost here and she's just thinking about herself. During the course of an argument today she even suggested we just get married in the pastor's office and let that be it. Yeah, I'll never hear the end of that. Her wedding dress has been hanging in the closet for months now. We get married in his office and only about 10 or 12 people actually see the dress. Yeah, right! Again, this is my first wedding and I was hoping to do it in our church but I'm also thinking about cost too. She's not once taken any of my ideas. And if she did she's changed them by now. Do I have a right to be angry and voice my opinion or should I just shut up and get 2 or 3 jobs to pay for her second dream wedding? I'm the groom so all I need to do is show up, say I do when prompted and be ready to pay for everything. In regards to our money situation, we are living off he unemployment, her tuition reimbursement and my measly part time job. I just can't see spending all this money when things can be scaled back a little. So we don't have white doves released after the ceremony. So we can't afford to go on a honeymoon right away. So we can't afford to do EVERYTHING she wants to do. What's more important. The marriage or the ceremony? Open Question: what does it mean when guys do this?(guys please answer)?this is kinda long sorry guys but i really need someone to interpret this for me so i have this guy friend who i dated in 6th grade but we ended up breaking up and idr y so w.e anyways we've still been friends in fact we're like best friends we tell each other EVERYTHING and we know how the other is feeling w/o even saying anything lately my feelings for him have been growing like i actually think i love this kid but the problem is he has a gf however lately he's been telling me that he loves me a lot lately and its not even like we're talking about love he'll just randomly say that he loves me and i say it back hes also been calling me baby a lot and everytime i see him i vant help but to smile he also says that he really wants to be with me when we get older and when he's more mature because he doesnt want to hurt me now by these stupid little games hat he plays(he's kind of a hoe) about 3 weeks ago he picked me up from school and we went to his house and watched a movie and we kissed (and yes i know that this is wrong because he has a gf) but it was the most passionate kiss that i have ever shared w/ someone and last week he picked me up from my house and he took me to the movies while we were there he rubbed my thighs and when he would tease me with kisses(kinda like act like he was going to then say sike and start laughing) but when he did kiss me for real he would grab my chin(gently) and then kiss mewhile we were in the car i said something and he just looked at me and smiled and said that he really thinks he's going to marry me every once in a while he'll say that im a distraction to him but he just cant ignore me. one day when i was really upset about something he came and sat down next to me and gave me a gentle kiss and told me that itll be alright. and one day when he was upset i sat down and listened to him and he just stopped in the middle of his sentence and smiled and grabbed me and gave me a hug. now when he sees me he hugs me and kisses me on my forehead and when i leave for 5 seconds he asks me if im coming back to him. he asks me a lot why do i even like him and he says he's such a jerk and says it doesnt make sense for me to love him and he calls me a loser for loving him. he teases me a lot and he likes to play fight but never gets to aggressive. lately i asked him how do i know if he really loves me and he answered i quote " DO U THINK I TELL U FOR MY HEALTH" then i said how do i know you dnt tell all the other girls u talk to the same things you tell me and he said " IVE NEVER TALKED TO A GIRL AS LONG AS I TALKED TO YOU" he says that he'll cut all the girls off for me that they're not important to him, he wants me to go to the same college as him so that we'll always be together (we're both juniors in high school) i asked him if he would get mad if i had sex w/ someone else even though we're not 2gether he said yea but its really not for him to say what i can and cant do. he gets really excited when i tell him he's the only person i've kissed since we shared that kiss at his house.... i really love him but im not sure if he feels the same way like this could be just another part of his game and everything he says could be just sweet talk but the other day i told him i didnt trust him and he said he doesnt even wanna have sex wit me if i dnt trust him it wouldnt feel right and ever since then things have been kinda weird like he wont talk to me like he used to idk if hes hurt or wat hes just acting weird last night he finally said that he loves me again after he didnt say it for the past 3 days (when i said i didnt trust him) so i need help what does all of this mean coming from him? and what should i do about this? how do i get him to act normal again? what should i say or do? help me please im desperate:-( Open Question: will my husband's credit status affect mine?i never have credit history in the US. i just got married and intend to build a good credit so my husband and i could buy a house and start new. i just joined in my husband's checking account and he added me to his credit cards too. so, all of statement of accounts have both our names on them. the problem is he had bad credit before due to delinquent school loans and other debts made into his name which he never incurred. he has been up to date though with his school loan payments and has paid those debts and has maintained the minimum payments for our credit cards and other bills. we never checked his credit report but we think its going up and getting better since his credit line increased in one of our credit cards. my question is will my credit be affected now that we have joint bank accounts and credit cards? if he still has a low credit score, will that also reflect on mine? please help shed light on this matter. thanks! 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