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Open Question: can you help me with my problem? and more...

Open Question: can you help me with my problem?

The girl I love is dating a guy and I don't know what I should do?

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Open Question: I can't choose between my boyfriend and my best friend?

have a problem, I like my best friend and my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months and my best friend told me he liked me a while back. He didn't know we were dating at that time, so it wasn't like he was trying to ruin our relationship. We had another talk and we both confessed we really like each other. But he needs his space and he can't be my best friend because he says it hurts too much to always think about me with another guy. He's doing it because he doesn't want to interfere with my relationship. I don't know which guy to choose they're both really different? My boyfriend I only knew a little bit before we started dating. He comes off as a bit of a jerk to others but in a way I find that attractive. He is the jealous type and a bit clingy but I know he cares so much for me. He buys me a lot of things but sometimes he verbally abuses me and calls me names but then he makes up for it. I know he's a sweet person inside. We've been through a lot of **** together but we always manage to pull through. My girl friends love him because he can be a charmer. All my guy friends hate him though because he can be a big jerk, but he makes me feel special because he's sweet to me. My best friend I have known for two years and he understands me better than anyone else possibly could. He's been there for me in every situation and spontaneously does things to brighten my day. I have always had a huge crush on him. He's the sweet and quirky kind. He's a nerd at heart but everyone loves him because he's cool at the same time. He genuinely cares about people and I can talk to him about everything. He's always been there even when I'm a complete ***** to him. I think I just feel that my best friend deserves better than me, and my boyfriend and I have been through a lot of stuff together.

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Open Question: 39 weeks pregnant and being induced monday?

I had my doctors appointment yesturday and I am almost 3 cm dilated. My due date is next next wednesday (the 16th) and my doctor went ahead and brought up about me being induced and decided to have it scheduled for monday. He said he didn't want the baby to go past his due date and he didn't want to do it this week because im only 39 weeks. Why would a doctor go ahead and suggest being induced and i'm not even up to my due date? He said I have no medical problems and everything is good, otherwise he wouldnt suggest it.

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Open Question: computer shuts off when in SLI mode?

oh hai. so i have a apevia 750w PS its supposed to be SLI ready... i plug up my 2 9800gtx+'s and start almost any game and it shuts off. it runs fine with 1 9800gtx+ but shuts down all the time with two, i sent a email to a some guy at apevia and im waiting for a reponse but in the mean time maybe yahoo can help me:) heres the email i sent it stated: I called the apevia support office today but you were not there so a lady took my name and phone number for you to call me back at, that is 615-587-8467 and my name is Eric Young. My problem today is that i have 2 9800gtx+'s in SLI mode, but it seems that the power supply cant handle it. The last time i checked it seems to say its SLI ready. i have no problem running a single 9800gtx+ but when i put the second one in it randomly shuts off when playing games or running big programs. I also noticed you can change the voltage with the screw driver that came with it, but i dont have the screw driver that came with it and im not sure how to read the led display. "With adjustable output voltages, users can use the included screw driver to adjust the output of +3.3V or +5V or +12V within a safe range to suit their special needs."-http://www.pricescan.com/Apevia-750W-ATX-Quartz-Power-Power-Supply/co/219560.html#LongDesc im guessing i would have to set the voltage to +12V but i dont know... anyway, contact me through this email preferably. or if more to your convenience call me at 615-587-8467 some time after 3central would be best because thats when i can be at my computer. other than that you can email me any time of the day and i check it almost hourly. system specs: x2 9800gtx+ http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16814130339&cm_re=9800gtx%2b-_-14-130-339-_-Product Apevia 750W ATX Quartz Power Power Supply http://www.pricescan.com/Apevia-750W-ATX-Quartz-Power-Power-Supply/co/219560.html#LongDesc MSI K9N2 SLI Platinum AMD Socket AM2+/AM3 Motherboard http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&Item=350261195078&Category=1244&_trkparms=algo%3DLVI%26its%3DI%26otn%3D1 4g ram AMD athlon 64 x2 Dual core processor 5000+ 2.6ghz 64bit windows 7 ultimate im also attaching a dxdiag txt document Inline Attachment Follows: DxDiag.txt ------------------ System Information ------------------ Time of this report: 12/10/2009, 07:08:28 Machine name: OHAIDER-PC Operating System: Windows 7 Ultimate 64-bit (6.1, Build 7600) (7600.win7_rtm.090713-1255) Language: English (Regional Setting: English) System Manufacturer: MSI System Model: MS-7374 BIOS: Default System BIOS Processor: AMD Athlon(tm) 64 X2 Dual Core Processor 5000+ (2 CPUs), ~2.6GHz Memory: 4096MB RAM Available OS Memory: 4096MB RAM Page File: 1602MB used, 6585MB available Windows Dir: C:\Windows DirectX Version: DirectX 11 DX Setup Parameters: Not found User DPI Setting: Using System DPI System DPI Setting: 96 DPI (100 percent) DWM DPI Scaling: Disabled DxDiag Version: 6.01.7600.16385 32bit Unicode ------------ DxDiag Notes ------------ Display Tab 1: No problems found. Sound Tab 1: No problems found. Sound Tab 2: No problems found. Input Tab: No problems found. -------------------- DirectX Debug Levels -------------------- Direct3D: 0/4 (retail) DirectDraw: 0/4 (retail) DirectInput: 0/5 (retail) DirectMusic: 0/5 (retail) DirectPlay: 0/9 (retail) DirectSound: 0/5 (retail) DirectShow: 0/6 (retail) --------------- Display Devices --------------- Card name: NVIDIA GeForce 9800 GTX+ Manufacturer: NVIDIA Chip type: NVxx DAC type: Integrated RAMDAC Device Key: Enum\PCI\VEN_10DE&DEV_0613&SUBSYS_C8793842&REV_A2 Display Memory: 2287 MB Dedicated Memory: 495 MB Shared Memory: 1791 MB Current Mode: 1440 x 900 (32 bit) (60Hz) Monitor Name: Generic PnP Monitor Monitor Model: HF199H Monitor Id: HSD1843 Native Mode: 1440 x 900(p) (59.887Hz) Output Type: HD15 Driver Name: nvd3dumx.dll,nvwgf2umx.dll,nvwgf2umx.dll,nvd3dum,nvwgf2um,nvwgf2um Driver File Version: 8.17.0011.9562 (English) Driver Version: 8.17.11.9562 DDI Version: 10 Driver Model: WDDM 1.1 Driver Attributes: Final Retail Driver Date/Size: 11/20/2009 20:34:54, 11775080 bytes WHQL Logo'd: n/a WHQL Date Stamp: n/a Device Identifier: {D7B71E3E-4553-11CF-A87E-72E81CC2C535} Vendor ID: 0x10DE Device ID: 0x0613 SubSys ID: 0xC8793842 Revision ID: 0x00A2 Driver Strong Name: oem8.inf:NVIDIA_SetA_Devices.NTamd64.6.1:Section003:8.17.11.9562:pci\ven_10de&dev_0613 Rank Of Driver: 00E62001 Video Accel: ModeMPEG2_A ModeMPEG2_C ModeVC1_C ModeWMV9_C Deinterlace Caps: {6CB69578-7617-4637-91E5-1C02DB810285}: Format(In/Out)=(YUY2,YUY2) Frames(Prev/Fwd/B

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Open Question: Well I have this problem? Please help!?

Okay well so just to get past everything I'm eleven years of age. And well my mom has passed away in 2006. I know everything how a new "mom" in my life won't replace my mom been there done that with that talk. Everyone says I'm very smart, I am responsible. I'm in student council and get straight A's on my report card. To get past details about myself when my mom died I was about 8, so my dad moved down from New York after she passed. I have 2 older sisters (now 22, and 24) , a brother (now 26), and a half brother which wasn't involved at all he was my dad's son (he is now 29). So my brother,2 sisters,dad, brother in law,and I moved into one house.It was great,but kind of weird without my mom. Then my dad started dating this new lady which was my sis Heather's friend's mom,it was even their idea them to start dating! They were like best friends at the time so they wanted to be "sisters". Okay I went with it because I noticed my dad grew happier as him and Lisa (his girlfriend at the time) grew closer. Then next thing I know I start meeting her family and find my dad purposed to her into a year of them being together! She said she would have to think and said yes a few days later! Okay at the time I just wanted to make everyone happy so I was a 9 year old who just didn't care well now I do. So my dad continued to date Lisa and he started spending the night at her house,then it started trying to have me and her daughter get closer and I honestly state when we first met she was a nice and sweet little girl! But that changed! Well Lisa and my dad's relationship grew and grew...which my siblings were like me at the time we weren't too close with Lisa and since my dad hadn't been there when my mom was around we honestly didn't want to ruin his relationship plus it was his business. The next step took place they decided they would live together so we moved into her 3 bedroom it being me,her daughter,my dad,and herself. My siblings and at this point my sis heather had had her baby Aidon so she had 2 kids. Heather and her husband started not being as close in their marriage as they were she had stated at that point. Okay so once again I didn't mind they had tricked me into living with Lisa and Amber wouldn't be sooo bad. Which it really wasn't then my dad and Lisa started to notice that Amber began to really be a brat to everyone she was age 7 at this point in time. So then Heather and her husband,My brother,My other sister had been living with eachother so they after awhile had some financial problems and I thought it would be nice to live with my siblings again but I knew it would be horrible at the same time because honestly at this point I noticed Amber was acting different from her age. After awhile I got tired of Amber because I knew something was wrong with her and I was so stressed out. But then one day Lisa and my dad decide we're moving back in to the house we lived in but now it would be Dad,Lisa,Me,Ashley (my sister), Heather,her 2 boys,My brother and Amber. Heather had broken up with her husband of 5 years,she was very depressed and she was more depressed when Lisa expected 9 people to fit in a 5 bedroom.Okay now at this point I realised I didn't like Lisa at the same time I loved her! I don't even know... well my brother started dating a girl named Anjali and he got very annoyed of Amber being her annoying self. So after awhile of Lisa obviously trying to push out my sis Heather and my brother so the rest of us was a "big,happy family". My brother met his love Anjali and yes I agree she was his match. They decided since she lived in Tuscon (we live in Arizona in Phoenix so its 2 hours away) and they began to drift apart they were thinking about moving to Tucson in her apartment so she can finish law school and then they would move back. At the same time, Heather was having trouble raising her 2 boys and going through boy problems and the fact that Lisa doesn't like her.Everyone got tense living with eachother although I actually liked it other then having to deal with Amber which it doesn't matter now because I deal her now anyways. Okay so in the summer I leave for about a month to my Aunts house. I went there in June came back in July. While in Sierra Vista (3 hours from Phoenix where my Aunt lives) I found out my brother moved to his girlfriends house in Tucson in which what there plan was,and Lisa moved out from her and my dad arguing so much which they were doing a lot,and Lisa drove out my sister before she moved out.Now truthfully, I was kind of worried about it being me, my dad . and sister Ashley living together in a 5 bedroom. After living together like that seeing my brother often and calling my sister Heather ( I couldn't see her at the time because my dad and her weren't talking) I felt pretty confident my life was fixing itself I was happy again after being away from Lisa's daughter. While living with her she was diagnosed with ADHD. She took pills but really it di

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Open Question: ADVICE!!!Girlfriend problems!!!!!!ADVICE NEEDED!?

So im a guy in highschool and Ive been dating this girl sara for 6th months. things have been going good i think i love her, but then theres this other girl kenzie ive been hanging wit who makes me rethink what me and my girlfriend have. my girlfriend is great, but this kenzie is amazing, and she can make me laugh like like no other. and shes beautiful and shes so different then any girl ive dated im just confused, because i always text and hang out with the kenzie more then sara because sara is in a grade lower then me. i told kenzie i liked her and she told me she liked me too, and so now were really close, but shes been freaking out on me lately because im still with sara. but she never asked me to break up with sara and me and sara have been dating for half a year, and shes great too, im confused because i know me and kenzie would be a good couple but me and sara are already good. i just cant stop thinking about how good kenzie makes me feel, and how much i like her, and how i feel like i like her more everyday so i feel guilty and try to make up for it by doing nice things for sara and i love sara. i just like kenzie and that will go away wont it what would you do I need serious help advice please.

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Open Question: Why Wont My Program Compile?

Here's my coding #include #include int main( int nNumberofArgs, char* pszArgs[]) { int celsius; cout << "Enter the temperature in Celsius:"; cin >> celsius; int factor; factor = 212 - 32; int fahrenheit; fahrenheit = factor * celsius/100 + 32; cout << "Farenheit value is:"; cout << fahrenheit; return 0; } I'm using Visual C++ 2008 Express Edition and no matter what i try it wont compile, I'm a absolute beginner when it comes to programming, could someone please explain what they think the problem is? The error that appears is this: Unable to start program 'C:\...........................\something.exe' the system cannot find the file specified. also, for some reason the commands cout and cin arent being recognised =[ 1>------ Build started: Project: something, Configuration: Debug Win32 ------ 1>Compiling... 1>something.cpp 1>c:\......................................\something.cpp(18) : error C2065: 'cout' : undeclared identifier 1>c:\......................................\something.cpp(19) : error C2065: 'cout' : undeclared identifier 1>Build log was saved at "......................." 1>something - 5 error(s), 0 warning(s) ========== Build: 0 succeeded, 1 failed, 0 up-to-date, 0 skipped ========== Comeone PLEASE Help me!!! No one on the internet seems to have an answer =[

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Open Question: My best friend is in love with me and I might be feeling the same way about him?(cont)?

Ok so I'm going to keep on going with my story and I'M SORRY ITS SO LONG!!!! Ok so one day he tried to kiss me and he almost did but I pushed him back and I started to leave because i was angry at what he tried to do and I told him that this was getting to be too much and maybe we shouldn't be friends anymore(I didn't really mean it) and he chased after me and screamed out "No, please I love you!!!!" he screamed it out with such love I turned around to see his eyes watering and the love in his eyes and I told him I didn't really mean it and I hugged him tightly and he said that he didn't want to lose my friendship, It breaks my heart to see him this way, I'm probably gonna write about feelings and emotions now so yeah, I feel so bad that hes in love with me, me and my friends see how much he loves me and they said I would have it great if I was with him, like I said we are like brothers and we are together alot hanging out, we go to eachother's houses like almost everday, and that probably won't change, we get along so well, he had a girlfriend before( I think he broke up with her because he was in love with me) and me, my girlfriend and him and his girlfriend would always go double dating( my girlfriend and his girlfriend are best friends just like me and him are best friends) the four of us are always together, we are like this little group, our other friends tell us that we should be in a soap opera, the 4 of us have had alot of dramatic moments, me and my best friend don't always get along, like we have had a lot of problems, like at one time me and his girlfriend were apparently hanging out too much, and he actually got jealous of me, and we almost got into a fight for some other situation, our girlfriends have also had their share of fights, and me and my friend also have fights with our girlfriends once in a while, we actually kinda traded girlfriends at one point, me and him fell in love with eachother's girlfriend and we broke up with our girlfriends cause we were already having problems with them, we have both kissed eachother's girlfriends, we have all had problems and arguements with eachother, I guess we make it all dramatic, but we always stay together in the end, we get along super great most of the time and we all love eachother to death and at least its never boring, it is like soap opera with us, oh BTW I think our girlfriends are more like friends with benefits, Im rabbling off topic here, but yeah I'm the first and only guy he has ever fell in love with, I guess hes only gay for me.... But now what is happening is that I'm falling in love with him too. And I'm falling in love with him for the same reasons that hes in love with me, he is a great friend and has always been there for me and because I just do, when I was sick he would go to my house everday and take care of me and help me feel better, now when he touches me and hugs me for no reason(just to wrap his arms around me) I kind of let him(or let it last a little longer then push him away) in fact when he touches me I get a warm feeling all over me, I sometimes even find myself smiling at him, there was another time he tried to kiss me and he succeeded, I wasn't fast enough to move my head away, the thing is it felt great, I didn't let him know that though and I got a little angry and asked him why he did that and he said he was sorry and just smiled at me with that cute face of his, oh btw this what he told me when he said he fell in love with me, he told me we needed to talk and he said "George.........ur a great friend and you have always been there for me and your my best friend ever.....and I cherish the time we spend together and I always think about you during the day and at night, you are pretty much my whole life...........and, Im in love with you...............this is really sad for me, I am going through the same depression he went through, I have never fallen in love with another guy before either, and I love the time we spend together(which is almost everyday now) and Im starting to think about him during the day like he thinks of me, but I feel scared to tell him and everyone else, I still love my girlfriend but....I think I love him more and I don't know what to do, I'm so confused, the more time I spend with him the more I love him, I sometimes feel this great urge to rip my shirt off and rip his shirt off and make love to him, I don't know why I feel this way...please I need some help and advice... Ok so my questions are 1.Can you be gay for one person? 2.I'm pretty sure my mom is kinda homophobic so can anyone tell me how I can tell her that I'm in love with my best friend? 3.How exactly should I tell my best friend? 4.How do i tell everyone else and should I? Oh and if you have any other advice please tell me and thanks oh and thank you if you read everything, it was super long but I just needed to vent I know that neither of us are straight, I guess we are bi but a little more on the straight side The first part to this question is on --->http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgeV0ZvWstb7g3HoMfD_lhDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091209182416AAfCczT

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Open Question: How can I escape from my family's impossible expectations?

I don't know where to start but if I word this the wrong way I will get a moral lesson. Basically ever since I was 8 years old I had been waiting to turn 18 and move out. I was never a problem child I just did not agree with my parent's belief (religious or cultural). They force their opinions on me and expect me to be super cultural (have arranged marriages never date etc.) and I'm an atheist so I really don't believe in their forced religion. I don't want this. I have been locked up and been pretending to be someone who I am not. I can never be open to them about anything! Well I admit that I went a little crazy today. I made a stupid decision to skip school and hang out with a friend. I only did it because it was my 18th birthday and it was the first and last time (whether you believe me or not) I would do it. It was stupid because I could have done that after school. I made a HUGE mistake and I can't take it back. Now I have lost my parents trust but the thing is I just don't care anymore. I have been forced to live in a way that I hate and I just don't get along with them emotionally. The constantly treat me like a child and I guess I did not make things better. They are always putting me down because I am not like my other siblings so my self esteem is extremely low. I DO care about my grades and I want to get somewhere in life but I just don't want to be around my parents anymore. Is there any way to escape this. I know they only want the best for me but it's really hard to lie to them about all of my opinions. I was thinking of waiting until I graduated from college but that is in a really long time and I cant take this anymore! I know I don't seem responsible but I really am. I guess it contradicts that I care about my grades and skipped but I only did it for one day. I am not trying to find an excuse. I take full responsibility for my actions. I am sick of living. I can never do anything right. I skipped school and they think I was with a boy which isn't even a big deal. I am not allowed to even talk to boys. I think they are ridiculous. I have a curfew of 7 on weekends I can't spend the night. I can't hang out on weekends. They have destroyed my life and they want me to live at home until I am married. I can't go anywhere. I don't have a job and I need a car to apply. I share a car with my mom and she won't let me use it anymore.

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Open Question: I cant decide between my boyfriend and my best friend?

have a problem, I like my best friend and my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months and my best friend told me he liked me a while back. He didn't know we were dating at that time, so it wasn't like he was trying to ruin our relationship. We had another talk and we both confessed we really like each other. But he needs his space and he can't be my best friend because he says it hurts too much to always think about me with another guy. I don't know which guy to choose they're both really different? My boyfriend I only knew a little bit before we started dating. He comes off as a bit of a jerk to others but in a way I find that attractive. He is the jealous type and a bit clingy but I know he cares so much for me. He buys me a lot of things but sometimes he verbally abuses me and calls me names but then he makes up for it. I know he's a sweet person inside. We've been through a lot of **** together but we always manage to pull through. My girl friends love him because he can be a charmer. All my guy friends hate him though because he can be a big jerk, but he makes me feel special because he's sweet to me. My best friend I have known for two years and he understands me better than anyone else possibly could. He's been there for me in every situation and spontaneously does things to brighten my day. I have always had a huge crush on him. He's the sweet and quirky kind. He's a nerd at heart but everyone loves him because he's cool at the same time. He genuinely cares about people and I can talk to him about everything. He's always been there even when I'm a complete ***** to him. I think I just feel that my best friend deserves better than me, and my boyfriend and I have been through a lot of stuff together.

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Open Question: BOY PROBLEM!!TEEN GIRL HELP?

first of all im a girl and im fourteen So I just started highschool a few months ago, and i really like my best friend, who is a guy my age as well. hes really popular, the class clown, hes funny and super sweet and really attractive and he always wants to be with me. the only problem is he has a girlfriend(different school)and I feel like its wrong the thing i have with him. we dont cheat or anything, but the emotional ties we have are too relationship like. he tells me im pretty everyday,he flirts, we have like every class together(and hang out in each class), weve confessed our feelings for each other. that i like him and he likes me, but its too complicated, because he was dating her before he met me, so he doesnt want to leave her. and i told him i didnt want to be a boyfriend stealer. and hes not gonna break up with her. so we hang out all the time, and we tell each other everything and everyone thinks were dating anyway, so when people ask it hurts because i have to say no. and ive tried to end our friendship because it hurts to much, he never really talks about his girlfriend since weve confessed our feelings, but sometimes people bring her up and it makes me really depressed. but were too close now, and it seriously hurts me to not be with him like when i try not to hang out with him, i just think about how much more fun i could be having with him. and hes told me that he doesnt want us to stop being friends because he likes me too much. and im being really overdramatic i know, and its just highschool i know that too. but in the moment and all the feelings i have right now im really confused and he feels like my whole world. and i know that im probably not his whole world, because he has a girlfriend. so of course im being ridiculous. i just cant think straight. thus asking for advice. and today i found out he bought his girlfriend a really wonderful christmas gift, so i feel llike a stupid skank, whose messing with someones boyfriend. and his girlfriend is really pretty and i think he wont break up wiht her because shes curvier then me or prettier or better. i dont know. what should i do? advice tips anything? i really want to stay friends, but i need to stop liking him so much.

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Open Question: Chemistry please help!! 15 points!?

1. Polonium decays to Astatine. In this decay, what kind of radiation does Polonium emit? a.alpha particle b. beta particle c.gamma ray d. none of the above 2.Which of the following statements is true? a.The half life is the time it take for half of the material is a radioactive sample to decay b.Half-lives are affected by external conditions like temperature c.All lives are extremely long d. The longer the half life, the more radioactivity per minute is produced 3. Which of the following is true of Einstein's equation of E=mc (2)? a.In the equation c stands for charge b.It states that in a nuclear reaction, mass is conserved c.It shows that a small amount of energy can be converted into huge amounts of mass d.It shows that a small amount of energy can be converted into huge amounts of energy 4. Which of the following is a problem with fission reators? a.They emit massive amounts of greenhouse gases b.they often explode like atomic bombs c.they produce radioactive waste which is difficult to expose of d.they require extremely high temps, and are impractical 5. Which of the following is a problem with fusion reactors? a. they emit massive amounts of green house gases b, they explode like atomic bombs c.they produce radioactive wastes that are hard to dispose of d. they require extremely high temps and are impractical True or False: 6. The cloud of electrons outside the nucleus is very small compared to the nucleus 7.Beta particles are electrons detached from the nucleus 8.The sun gets energy from the nuclear fission reactions 9.Carbon-14 is useful in dating old objects b/c of its radioactive properties 10. One kilogram of uranium fuel yields as much energy as one kilogram of coal THANKS!

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