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Open Question: Come on someone answer need advice? and more...

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Open Question: Come on someone answer need advice? and more...

Open Question: Come on someone answer need advice?

So my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 yrs now and we have had our problems but everything ot all better and i was super happy but now i just Don't get it he is barelycallingg and texting me and he keeps telling me i have to get involved in something because i have so much free time i just feel like he has noTimee for me and when i say that to him he just says i'm just stressed i have allott of school work to detcct. but i am really hurting and i dont know what to say or becauseue i love him he is my best friend and it just sux because feel like he doesnt need me and the only time he has time for me is when there is nothing better to do . I keep asking him if hes mad and if hes ok but he says i do it just to piss him off i just need that reasurance now i feel like crap and i dont know what to do i cry myself to sleep almost every night telling myself maybe ill wake up to a text of voicemail but its really rare now dont answer this and say dump him and stuff like that im really looking for advice hes the a awesome guy and its just been weird lately just someone help im really hurting. Thankyou

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Open Question: what is my problem with women?

So im not really sure what im doing wrong. I play guitar, and basketball, I have a high paying job for my age (20), people tend to think im good looking, witty, funny, as well as a cool laid back person. But for some reason I just havn't dated much at all in my life. I've been shy for a long time, but ive come out of my shell in the recent years. The few long relationships i've had have been disastrous, painful and far in between. I'm just kind of tired of being unsuccessful with women and I need some tips. I feel like I could be dating a lot but everyone seems to have a lot more luck than me. I don't get what i'm missing!? Any advice would help, thanks :)

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Open Question: Why Am I SO LONELY THIS IS A SERIOUS Problem?

why don't i talk to girls at school then when i get home i have the courage to talk to them and sh1t .This happens everyday and think of what could be.Then play Love songs.Then Go on yahoo answers SINGLE DATING CATEGORY? and sometimes i drink some alcohol when going to school to hopefully by the end of the day get her number.Im a freshman in community college.

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Open Question: What was he implying?

"Him: hopefully, otherwise dating may be a slight problem XD Me: hah, just find someone a little shy. problem solved. Him: hmm think that might work then lol Me: did you have someone in mind? Him: yeah...but i dont think you want to know lol... Me: i'd like to know, but if you don't feel comfortable telling me that's perfectly understandable (: Him: its not that, i think you know her so it would make stuff akward >.< Me: maybe, idk. Him: lol funny how when i think im obvious im not really Me: i'm just simple. (: Him: perhapes lol, i am as well. i guess im harder to read then i think. sometimes that works to my disadvantage... that and i dont want to be the one to ask a girl out >.< id rather she ask me out...a continuation of the whole coward thing lol Me: i don't think that's cowardly. (: i guess from what little i know about it, a lot of girls think most guys will want to be the, er, dominant one and make the first move.' Him: id rather its more of a joint opperation" He had a crush on my best friend last year, and I think he still might, but I THINK he's been flirting with me lately. It's hard to tell with him. What do you think he meant by that? I don't want to assume this but to me it seems like he's implying that "you might know her" is me. :| One of his ex-friends asked me out Sunday and he (the guy in the above convo) texted me and said that my new boyfriend has "used" girls in the past and I should be careful of him, (actually I've heard a few ridiculous rumors...) but I've talked to one of his old girlfriends and she said that he was nice enough, but they just broke up like a week ago (I didn't even know they were dating) so she thought he should have waited longer to find a new gf. Um naw he's uber-Christian and I'm pretty sure he's abstinent.

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Open Question: What do i do I'm going insane?

So my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 yrs now and we have had our problems but everything ot all better and i was super happy but now i just Don't get it he is barelycallingg and texting me and he keeps telling me i have to get involved in something because i have so much free time i just feel like he has noTimee for me and when i say that to him he just says i'm just stressed i have allott of school work to detcct. but i am really hurting and i dont know what to say or becauseue i love him he is my best friend and it just sux because feel like he doesnt need me and the only time he has time for me is when there is nothing better to do . I keep asking him if hes mad and if hes ok but he says i do it just to piss him off i just need that reasurance now i feel like crap and i dont know what to do i cry myself to sleep almost every night telling myself maybe ill wake up to a text of voicemail but its really rare now dont answer this and say dump him and stuff like that im really looking for advice hes the a awesome guy and its just been weird lately just someone help im really hurting. Thankyou

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Open Question: How would you set up a Business Tracking Model for students?

I need to design a tracking model to determine (1) students who stopped their program at a certain point and came back to resume studies; (2) students who switch from one program to another program; (3) students who discontinued their program without formally informing the college; and (4) students who completed some college credits and moved to university SITUATION: The Institutional Research Office maintains an archive of a series of .txt and .csv files that are created from internal data sources such as admission and placement test results or survey results. Each record in a file contains one or more keys that permit joining records from a number of files by matching keys. A key could be a student ID, a course code, or another identifier. Aside from these .txt and .csv files, student records are also available from the student information system database. The main file of interest is the STUDENT DEMOGRAPHIC file. It contains data about individual students that are normally provided by the Testing Center, Admissions and Registration offices. Individual student records contain variables such as a student identification number (ID), name, date of birth, gender, ethnic background, pre-college or high school background information, placement test scores, etc. Another file is the STUDENT DIPLOMA file. This file contains information about a student's enrollment such as semester enrolled, course mnemonic (e.g. ACC for Accounting, VTE for Veterinary Technician), course code, section code, credits, semester and cumulative GPA. Other available files that will add value to the design of the tracking model include information from third-party databases on financial aid/bursary, tutor center contacts and activity, program advisor contacts and class attendance. What would be your proposed action to the following? (1) A database schema; (2) UI (user interfaces); (3) Any additional software components which you think are needed to solve the problem of identifying the students with discontinuous or abortive enrollment record; (4) Action plan ; and (5) Time line.

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Open Question: NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND 19?

SO i'm turnin 19 now, and i can't help but wonder if theirs somethin wrong with me, i admitt , i'm the most insecure guy and for some reason i have high expectations when it comes to girls. I look bakck at my life and theirs been at least 10 girls wanted to gout with me but most of them i didn't find attractive. Me personally i'm not that difficult wit girls its just that i feel i will be judged if i have a girl thats not attractive . I 'm not tryin to be conceited but this is really becoming a problem for me and it gets me really depressed... I go out to clubs a lot and for some reason I'm able to hookup wit girls that i'm interested in their. Am i right to be so picky or should i just date the next girl that comes around.

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Open Question: Should I let my mother into delivery?

I'm Aribella:) Im due to have my baby on February 11th. I think his name will be Micah David. Well anyway. My mother threw me out. Last year, after I told her I didn't want to go to her college and be a flower shop owner. haha. We had problems before that. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 years. Really like 4 Years and 9 months. I moved in with him and his mother when mine threw me out. I look at his mother like my own. My mother knows I'm pregnant but has not really done much about it. She calls but wedon'tt talk about the baby or anything. Should I let her be there when I deliver the baby? Kyle thinks I should but she really hasn't been involved until now. also do you like the name we've chosen?

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Open Question: was he just using me?

me and this guy have had an on and off again relationship/hookup for almost a year now, but it never turned into anything serious.. would hang out from time to time but no strings attached we just had fun. I am a virgin so we never went very far. We hung out one night and hadn't hung out in a while. He tried to go farther than we usually go. I told him no , because i am not going farther with anyone who is just a fling and who i'm not dating and rarely see. He told me that he came to that party that night because he knew i would be there and he really wanted to see me. He also told me that he had missed me and wanted us to hang out more often instead of just having the odd night once in a while. I agreed but still didn't let him go any further...guys lie alot to get what they want. After that night we had hung out quite a bit, once or twice a week! We were getting pretty close. My friends and his would hang out quite a bit, and we would always all spend the night at his house. We would hook up, but still nothing major. Eventually i started to hang out with him without my friends there. One night we were at one of his friends house drinking and he asked me if i wanted to come to his house and sleep over. I had never gone there for the night without one of my friends with me, but i agreed. Not only did we go further than i have with any guy before but we tried to have sex. We were unsuccessful because he has large penis and i was too tight. We tried for a while but the pain was unbearable. So we stopped and we went to bed. The next morning his friends were teasing me asking me if we were official yet and how i was stealing there friend away from them. It was all a joke as I am pretty close friends with his friends now as well. He asked if i wanted to hang out with him & his friends for the day but i had to go to work. After that we still were talking, but he was being weird and very distant! i was very confused. It was my birthday two weekends later and his best friend had a party for me. He was there but was ignoring me and being a jerk, we hadent hung out since the night i slept over alone. He even started flirting with one of my best friends ! i finally had enough and tried to talk to him. i was pretty drunk but i asked him what his problem was and what he was doing.( this was done in private not in front of everyone) He told me he was not interested in a relationship, and he just wanted to have fun! i was clearly furious. i started yelling at him telling him he should have said something before the other weekend. He agreed and apoligized and asked if we could still be friends. Now my question is, what happend? Was he just in it for the sex and when he didn't get it decided to move on? Because to me, to my friends, and his firends he was giving us the impression he wanted a relationship. Was it when the sex didn't work out that changed his mind?

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