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Open Question: Confused about a boy!!!!? and more... Open Question: Confused about a boy!!!!?I liked this guy for almost a year. The problem was we hardly ever saw eachother, and when we did, it was always in a big group. I've known his family sice we were in 3rd grade, and we all get along very well. I though he liked me too, becasue of the way he acted around me. I told him that i like him, and he said he thought that it was awesome, and he liked me too. Then, he called back, and said only as a friend. he didnt want a girlfriend right now because it was "something he was doing for himself". THen he said something like he could see us as a couple in the future. The next day he called me and invited me to hang out with his fam and friend. i went to a church party with him later in the week, and he just invited me to another thing I think a problem is that he's a very devoted mormon, and im an atheist. Mormons are allowed to date when theyre 16, which we both are. My religous choices have never been a problem before. What i am asking is: should i start to think of him as just a friend like he thinks of me, or should i be very patient and wait for a relationship to develop? Open Question: She said she just wanted to be friends, need help plz?Well ive known this girl for about 2 years............we are both in college we dated for 2 1/2 months she said I could call her my gf, .........we where cuddling in a bed at a friends house and the words I love you slipped out of my mouth, and she said it back........later that day she texted me back saying that she doesn't really know me and she cant say that she really loves me....I was like I understand, if it makes you that uncomfortable I wont say it till you are ready, and that im sorry that I pressured you into saying it if I did. She said that she still liked me and still wanted to keep seeing me.....she started acting really weird...not being flirty anymore and kinda ignoring me. She texted me about a week later saying that she just wanted to be friends and that she could only see us having a friendship..........I was like why.........where did this come from?, ruined my day, ignored her for the rest of the day, called her later and said that ya we should just be friends....and that i didn't mean to hurt you if I did, But the problem is I really do love her and I could never just be her friend, is there ever a change that I could be with her again? if so like how should I go about it? im 19 Open Question: She said she just wanted to be friends?Well ive known this girl for about 2 years............we are both in college we dated for 2 1/2 months she said I could call her my gf, .........we where cuddling in a bed at a friends house and the words I love you slipped out of my mouth, and she said it back........later that day she texted me back saying that she doesn't really know me and she cant say that she really loves me....I was like I understand, if it makes you that uncomfortable I wont say it till you are ready, and that im sorry that I pressured you into saying it if I did. She said that she still liked me and still wanted to keep seeing me.....she started acting really weird...not being flirty anymore and kinda ignoring me. She texted me about a week later saying that she just wanted to be friends and that she could only see us having a friendship..........I was like why.........where did this come from?, ruined my day, ignored her for the rest of the day, called her later and said that ya we should just be friends....and that i didn't mean to hurt you if I did, But the problem is I really do love her and I could never just be her friend, is there ever a change that I could be with her again? if so like how should I go about it? im 19 Open Question: What am i supposed to do? We're not gay, but......?I'm a girl and I've been friends with this girl for a couple of years now. We met in high school and now go to the same college. We're like the best of friends, but lately the friendship we've had is more like a relationship. We do everything together, hang out, shop, go to dinner, movies, etc, even sometimes sleep in the same bed. We're always together and when we're not, we're texting each other constantly. We argue like a couple, get really mad and then get over it a little while. We're really comfortable laying on each other's lap and playing in each other's hair. We talk to each other about everything, problems, joys, life, boys, etc. We've even said if one of us was the opposite sex we would date. The problem is I love guys and she does too, but lately I find myself jealous if she's with a guy or talks about one too much. When we're apart I think about her like I do guys. I feel like I'm in serous like with her, but I'm not gay! To make matters worse when she's drunk she'll try to kiss me but I never do it. What in the hell is going on???????! Should I say something, keep it to myself? I have no one to talk because my friends and family would never accept this. HELP!!!!!!!! Open Question: In need of help! Can i be preg??????so i have been misbehaving. Ive been having unprotected sex for a year now and using the pull out method. recently the bf has been "finishing" without pulling out. well i took Plan B (there were a couple of incidents before that and didnt take Plan B) and now i got my period almost two weeks before my due date. problem is the day before i got this period (week after i took pill) again he finished and i didnt take the after pill ! yes i know! i know! get on birth control. i actually am ready to start but wanna make sure im not prego first. so i guess my question is... why is my period 2 weeks early with no signs? Can i be preg? How long does Plan B protect you? Open Question: I've loved this girl for two years. She just told me that she loves me too.?But the thing is, she's been dating my best friend for most of the time. Well, he WAS my best friend. Now he isn't. But they're having problems and I feel like she's just using me as a fallback plan, because she hates to be alone. And because she knows I won't reject her. :( So, should I believe her feelings are real? And what should I do? Open Question: Girl problems- please I need advice!?Bear with me it's kind of long but this girl means a lot to me. It started when I was a freshman in high school and I met this girl in on of my classes and right away I knew I wanted to go out with her so within 2 week we were. I didn't know that the relationship was going to be how amazingly perfect it truely was but it was on our nine month anniversery when it all went wrong. It was a couple or weeks before that when I made my biggest mistake of the relationship when I told her that I might of not loved her anymore and that might sound pathetic but to this dy 3 years later I swear it was love. Anywaysshe had started to hang out with some new friends that were more of the promiscuis type and I think that she felt pressured to dothe same kind of stuff so she broke up with me. And no more than a week later she hooked up with a guy while I was on a once in a life time trip to my homeland in Greece. So when I came back I asked her if she did anything with anyone and she said no. I ame to find out theough someone else that she did and than the same thing again a couple weeks later while I was at a family reunion. And this was all happening while she was lureing me in too. Now it the day before sophmore year and she gives me that look that I know she likes me again but it was the next day she was totally ignoring me and 3 days before she was dating another which she had only been talking to for 3 days. So at this point I gave up on her and started to like a senior girl and we dates until my first girlfriend got in the middle it and ruined it while she was still with that guy but soon that ended too. So about a month went by and she did the same thing and lured me in again but this time she left me hanging for my best friend since 7 th grade. So while she has been with this next guy i have gone to a couple of concerts and she happened to be there too and at these concerts she always finds a way to hold my hand or get real close but then she will back away and totally ignore me. Finally I had had enough but it was this past summer when she was on "break" this the same guy and I invited her over to my house cuz she was having a rough week and she ends up cuddling with me and we end up hooking up. It was a couple weeks later when she was avian official with that guy again and we were at another concert and I was a little mad at her be cause she had recently gotten mad at me for not texting her when she wasn't even texting me. So for this concert I didn't stand by her and she got a little mad so I told her the truth which was that I still liked her and I couldn't get over her and I gave her a choice between me or him cuz I couldn't deal with it anymore and she couldn't have both. So I stopped talking to her for 6 months now and she has occasionally tried to text me but I ignore it but it wasn't until today when I responded and we talked and she wants us to be friends but I know if I do that I'll just fall for her again. What should I do? I still like this girl for some reason and I think she still likes me a little or else she wouldn't still be trying to talk to me. I could use some help real bad. I've been trying to figure this one out for awhile now but I can't. 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