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Open Question: Dating A Guy With Baby Mama Problems? and more... Open Question: Dating A Guy With Baby Mama Problems?Ive Been Dating This Guy For A While, But We've Been Friends For A Couple Months. He's A Really Sweet Guy, But He's Baby Moms Is A Bitch Straight Outta Hell. She Wont Let Him See He's Kid Or Nothing. My Boyfriend Gets Really Mad Bout It, I Don't Know What To Say Or To Do About It. I Could Really Use Some Help With Him. I Mean I Don't Want Him Getting Really Mad At Me. If You Have Any Ideas Please Let Me Know. Thank You Open Question: How do i forget her? I cant take it anymore!!?This girl and i have been dating on and off for almost a year now. our last "break" happened a little over a month ago. and shes still all i think about i dont think we are going to get back together this time and its killing me. ive never had this problem with any of my other ex's usually i could get a new gf and move on like it was nothing but shes different i tried to move on but couldnt and had to dump my new gf just days after we started dating because i found out that i really wasnt ready for that. i either want her back or out of my head so i can get on with my life but i dont know how to do it!!!! i see her everywhere!!! like i said this feeling has never lasted this long with anybody else that i have been with so i have no idea what to do about it!!! please help me!!! its killing me!!! Open Question: I need help with a christmas gift!?My bf is alot older then me, and i have no idea what to get him. We have only been dating for a couple weeks, but im still stuck. I want to get him something that will put a nice big grin on his face without over doing it. The problem is, he has pretty much everything he wants, and if he doesn't have it, he goes out and gets it. what can i do that will be simple and sweet, while being creative and special? Open Question: Is she being dramatic or does she really need help?My best friend and I have been having a kind of rocky relationship lately. It began when she started dating my ex boyfriend five days after we broke up, and he started telling her all this crap about me and ignoring me completely. She can't see his lies, either, and is emotional... Even before, she told me my ex could 'help her out' with her depression problems, since he has a psychologist too. I said okay, but knew they would end up dating, which has stressed her and me out even more, because you just don't date your best friend's ex, no matter how much they can 'help' you.But the ex story isn't the one I need help with. Lately, she's been depressed:even though she still has me as a friend and none of our other friends think she is a whore for dating my ex, AND she has a boyfriend, she's still down all the time, with mood swings, becoming deliriously happy one moment and pissed off the next. For no reason. She's been getting increasingly dramatic, doing things that call HUGE attention to herself but she claims she doesn't want the attention from her boyfriend, who I know from experience HATES girls who complain constantly. And that's all she ever does. She's affecting my grades and her own with her indecisiveness and seemingly bipolar behaviour. Yesterday we were working, and she was down and pissed off. She'd been acting weird all day, and I know her and her mood swings. She kind of half-fainted-ish, and her boyfriend comes running over all worried, like he's done for the past eight times. She proceeds to take three hours off. And I know sometimes you need that, but she's been doing things like that ALOT. I find myself caught in between trying to be sensitive and caring and a good friend, which I've been trying to do because I thought that she truly was sorry. But she's doing stupid things and I just can't tell if she's trying to call attention to herself of if she really does need help. I'm tired of her drama but can't bear losing her, because she was a good friend, once. I don't know how to be a good friend anymore. Please help? :) Open Question: How do I get alone time with a popular guy without asking him out on a date?The guy I like is pretty popular. Whenever we're alone and trying to get to know each other better, random people will walk up to him and say hi or strike conversation. I'm kind of shy, so whenever people come up, I shell up and then he and I have to try harder to start conversation again. I know I can just ask him out and then we can have alone time for sure, but when we're just hanging out at school, people will still come up, so the problem won't be solved and the point of getting alone time is to see if I'd like him enough to form a relationship. Open Question: No Contact - LD-Relationship-Friendship work?I dated this girl for 3 1/2 yrs but i had to move away because of money problems through the LDR-Friendship years we tried the no contact a couple times but i eventually caved in after a while. I think the longest we have gone is 2 months. One time we did not talk for a while then i get into a car accident and she calls me right when I get to the ER, "So you finally ready to talk to me" as I was in the ER getting checked. Now she has gotten back with the guy she was with before me and I think having me on the side is confusing her. She might marry him ( deep down she doesn't want to be with him, i know she is just deseperate) If I enforce No Contact would that straighten her feelings out for me or will she cave into this guy's manitulations while in No Contact. How long is the best no contact period? Open Question: i need your peoples opionions?ok so there are a lot of people that like me, but i only like 2 of them. so here are the problems with the guys: guy #1: he cares a lot about me and we are best friends but there are 2 problems with him hes my best friends ex and he is known as a cheater. Guy #2: is also a cheater. I like guy # 1 better but i like them both. so i need your help but the 1st guy doesnt wanna date Open Question: I'm just confused about why he did this to me?This is really bugging me. I'm not really that upset, more disappointed in him....and it actually made me laugh for quite a bit. I've known him for the last 5 months...We almost dated once, but he wanted to jump straight into a relationship....when i really would rather get to know somebody before that (and he was 'needy' at the time, which was annoying). Anyway, about 2 weeks ago we began to talk to each other more than normal again...Last friday he told me that he liked me again...and i'm like i like you to, but i'd like to still at least take it slow.. Well he wanted me to hang out with his friends and him, and i couldn't then. Then sunday we talked again...he had told me that he wanted to hang out and that we should plan to hang out some day this week. Well this week was completely weird. Tuesday everything was going good..Wednesday was sorta weird, he really wouldn't talk to me at school, he just ignored me...but when I got on facebook...it was completely different. He just kept talking to me...for hours. We had actually settled alot of stuff out,,, Thursday....he ignored me at school yet again (i see him a few times a day, but we usually would talk whenever we could in person...). He gave me a horrible looking glare to though, it kinda was like an angry hating glare... I knew something was up then... When I got home that day, and got on fb...his status was lie 'talking to her, she's amazing'....and i'm just thinking what?.....and yesterday I found out they're a couple... So really i'm just sitting here thinking what the hell. I know that that I had made a good decision of being cautious of him (kind of why i wanted to take things slow...plus i had a bad vibe about him for along time), but this just amazes me... I really don't understand it that much, just how he could flip-flop like this when we had actually really started to connect more. I have a problem actually having this kind of connection with a guy, amd it hurts to know he did this... I don;t want to say anything because it just kind of makes me feeling weird...at the same time I want to say a whole lot...it's confusing. I mean, i'm over it in some sense, but at the same time it hurt me cause i really did like him...and it kind of lowers my opinion of him too (disappointing..). I wasn't playing hard to get, i just didn't want to rush things....Why would he do this though? Shouldn't I be happy that at least i didn't have to actually be with him like together...I don't even know. I might had dodged a bullet, but i still liked him... Believe me, i know fb is not the way....but it just seemed like the only way he would communicate with me for awhile. Like we'd talk at school and even on the phone/text, but then sometimes he's just completely socially awkward and it's like um.. More Recent Articles
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