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Open Question: Different Sex drives, male and female opinions please? and more... Open Question: Different Sex drives, male and female opinions please?I put this in two categories, I wasn't sure which one, so forgive me if you see my question repeated! Ok so here's the deal.... My fiance and I have way different sex drives. If it were up to me, we would have sex every day. Usually we have sex approx. twice a week. Now, I'm not questioning if he loves me or if he's attracted to me, I know there's no problem there at all. When we do have sex, it's amazing, so there's no problem there either. The part that confuses me about him....is he loves it so much, I turn him on like crazy.... but I'm always the one that has to initiate, it seems like I'm always the one who wants it more, and that's kind of embarrassing in a way. The other part is, he was single for 4 years before me (went through a BAD BAD breakup after an 8 year relationship) and has told me that when he was single he watched alot of porn (which I don't care about, I'll just add that) and masturbated at least once a day. I know all of that because we were friends before we dated, and talked about alot of things. So anyways....why would someones sex drive be different with porn as to with me? Is it just "easier" to get the job done yourself, lol? When we started dating I thought "well, he's got quite the sex drive" but he doesn't. Like I said it's only like twice a week. It blows my mind that if I were to leave the house for 5 days say, well I can pretty much guarantee that he would watch porn and "take care of himself" almost every day, but if I were home in those 5 days, we might have sex once. It's just so confusing...like I said I know he is attracted to me, I know he loves me, that's not an issue at all. And our sex is the toe-curling mind blowing type, so that's not a problem either. Anyone out there with a similar problem? I would love to hear your thoughts....I need someone who has gone through or is going through the same thing. Thanks so much.... Only serious answers please, thanks :) Open Question: I really want to move out!?Ok, I'm 19years old and yes I'm ready to leave the nest. My mom and sister have been driving me crazy since I could remember. Recently my sister moved with my dad and she is 17. She has been causing trouble in our household since forever. Now I'm here wishing I can just run away. I have a job and I have had one since I was 16 years old. I have been paying bills since 16 as well. So far as paying bills I don't think I will have a problem with that. So me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 4 months and we really like each other. He spent a month over my parents house with me and now I'm at his parents house. His mom doesn't really care, she says I'm welcome to stay as long as I want and she would even help me and my boyfriend get a place together. But my mom is not okay with that! She is driving me crazy. I'm in college, have a job, and a car. I feel like my mom has been giving my sister more freedom than me and I'm older than her. My sister might not even graduate from high school on time, and I was top of my class and president of the national honor society. Its like what the hell do you want me to do stay lock up in the house with you a babysit my aunt. I dont even party like a regular 19 year old. I really dont know what to do. She been blowing up my phone and my boyfriends going off! I just dont know what to do, I love my mom and I dont want to upset her but I think its time for me to go, but is it the right think to do? Open Question: How Do I Get Her To Forget Her Painful Past Relationships?I have been falling in love with one of my friend over the past while.I met her 2 months ago and have been helping her through some problems in her life. We are very close and very honest with each other. She has really opened up to me about the problems in her past. A few weeks ago I gave her a hint that I liked her, which she picked up on. She told me that she "wasn't ready for a relationship". She has since told me that she has had her heart broken once, and that she's broken a good friends heart as well (though she has never had an actual relationship). She still blames herself for the hurt she caused him, and although she is still trying to be friends with him, it is very rocky (though time has passed) and he regularly hurts her over it, leaving her feeling guilty. I told her today that I was in love with her, and she turned me down. She kept going on about blaming herself, having issues, not being good with boys, being afraid of hurting someone else etc. How can I convince her that I don't care about her problems, that I want to help to heal her heart, and that I want to be with her? I want to help her have confidence in herself and in us, and let us give it ago. I'm well aware that she may just not like me that way, but I've got to give it a shot. Even if we don't date, I'm still going to be there for her. Thanks Open Question: relationship problems, I need help!!!!?ok so me and my boyfriend just broke up a week ago. i broke up with him because he never texts me or calls me. i always have to text him first, plus he hasnt met my parents yet and we havent physically hung out in like almost 4 weeks. i told him i wanted to hang out and he said ok but he was busy hunting all week, thats all he does, he never makes time for me. i see him in school every morning when we were dating. i'd text him and tell him i was here so he would wait for me and walk me to class. whenever his friends were around they would be like "get it" and he'd smack my ass. whenever i tried to talk to him, it seemed like he didnt care cuz he'd shush me up by kissing me. i really love him still but how do i tell him to change without being mean?? and how do i get him to know with out sounding major desperate. i cant let this one go.... Open Question: which girl to pick? please help?ok, im going to write as much as possible. i have a feeling that im an ass in this situation, but somehow i think this happens with others as well, so i really do wanna get some guidance and advice. to start off with, im 25 and in my first relationship. let's call my girlfriend H, i've been with her just under 1 year (10 months so far) and i also have feelings for a co-worker, let's call her A. background of H: we met around 14 months ago, in a group with some overseas mutual friends who came here to visit. i didnt really think she was all that special at the start, but being 25 and single, i just wanted to find a girlfriend (at the time i was meeting new ppl here n there, joining activity groups, trying free online dating sites). so this girl appeared and i chased her. it was good, she's a nice shy girly girl - wot i like.. but also quite lazy, very short, and she's not a very ambitious person - things that i dont quite like. but i find that being with her is comfortable and we have fun talking. other problems we have is that i dont think she's all that into me. i'd like to see her show more enthusiasm when she's around me - i've told her this but there doesnt seem to be too much change. we've almost broken up on a few occasions, my issue is that she doesnt give much in this relationship, which hurts a bit.. but i found that if i dont focus on that all too much, then it could be fine. i do enjoy the physical side of things. background of A: she joined the company i work at around the same time as when i met H, at the time i was already interested in A, and was thinking i shouldnt go after someone at work cause it could be trouble, also because i was already after H, and i shouldn't be going after two girls at once. so i just kept her at arms length till now still. but i find that we have some things in common, and have a similar personality. she's a little tom-boyish, and she's older than me (2 years which id be ok with). however, she does have some wierd taste in things, like clothes for example. i also find that she keeps to herself a bit, so she may even end up like H, not someone who gives much in a relationship. im afraid if we dont have too much to talk about, coz i think she's a little less fun than H. she is a bit taller than H which would be a better match though. and im not exactly sure how she feels about me, coz she knows im in a relationship with H, and has known me before then when i was single. i know we get along as friends, but i have no idea if she even likes me. H and A have met, so that may not be a good thing. so at this point, im kind of lost. should i be staying in a stable relationship, which is comfortable, and kinda fun on occasions, but which may not be the best for me. i could keep trying to make it better, which i've been doing since the start. but i do find myself a little less interested now (this could just be a phase and it might end up better perhaps) Also, just some things i've noted, H bought me cologne for my bday, but a few months ago, i accidentally knocked it off a shelf and it broke. the necklace that i bought for her birthday was stolen recently too. maybe these are an omen - like in the movies (i know it's kind of sad, but cant quite help to notice) But also with A, i find that whenever workmates try to organise an outing, A and i somehow dont get the chance to go at the same time - either she's got things going on or things get canceled, etc. also i find that i really have feelings for her, for instance, one of my colleagues is trying to introduce a guy friend to her, which really scares me. (nothing's happened yet..) so that's the situation at the moment more or less. what should i be doing or is there any good advice? the idea of going after both at the same time is not an option for me. i dont want to waste anyone's time, and i would like to go into a relationship which sooner or later can lead to more.. thanks in advance! More Recent Articles |
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