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Open Question: Do you think my best friend is throwing her life away by working too hard? and more... Open Question: Do you think my best friend is throwing her life away by working too hard?Ok so she basically did a 5 year degree when she finished school from the age of 18-23. Then she went and did a really difficult government job for a year. Now she is working at a university doing academic work (she is really smart). Shes 26 and now planning on doing a PHD which is 3 or 4 years. So basically she will have spent about 9 years of her 18 - 20 something years studying and the rest working in super stressful jobs. She has put on heaps of weight during this time, developed pcos (a condition that makes it difficult for you to have kids) and hasnt dated since her ex 3 years ago. She has a binge eating problem and is always stressed. I feel like she does not understand work-life balance and have tried to explain this to her. Im not saying im the model person but i do get out there and date (yes even though many are disasters), i look after myself and i try new things etc. I know everyone is different and she is really smart but i just dont like to see her destroying her health for the sake of work. She will eat a family size block of chocolate for dinner and stuff and then she hates how she looks. She doesnt really try to meet guys at all. Do you think she is throwing her life away by working so hard? Open Question: Redneck-like guy dating hispanic?Hi, my name is Jose, and I'm just 19 years old. For a while now, this older guy (he said he's 31) has been seeing me for some time, say almost 8 months... I'm only 5'7 with light brown skin, can only grow mustache and beard on chin and brown eyes and a slim body... the guy I'm seeing ts 6'2 , light brown hair, full-even well groomed beard, BEAUTIFUL blue eye and is somewhat on the larger side and is very, very hairy... I think he's the sexiest thing this planet. We talk alot, hang out alot and sometimes he'll take me out to dinner. He seems to be so nice and very caring and such a sweet loving guy,he takes very good care of me., he's sooo romantic and holds me, cuddles me in bed, and brushes his bushy beard against my face alot.... like i said i just love him sooo much. But the problem is.... he can be RACIST at times towards black people and even indians, and it hurts me he does this. I tried talking to him one day, but he ignored me the whole time I confronted him... and his truck and house he has like this HUGE CONFEDERATE flag and... I don't know. I'm just afraid if he has some secret grudge or somewhat hate towards hispanics or something but it would be so hurtful... and so painful to me if the person I loved had very negative things about my hispanic being. *Sigh* I really do like him and I'll be very sad if I should loose him. What should I do? Threaten to call it quits? Confront him with more force? Give him a dose of his own medicine? It really bothers me, and I'm so confused on what to do... It's like hugging a person who loves you ALOT and you love that person ALOT, but they are covered in thorns and it hurts a little when you hug. Open Question: Just when is the deadline for the Army ROTC scholarship?The best date I can pin down is January 10, but here's the problem: Is that the Jan. 10 mid way through Senior year of High School, or the one partly though Junior year? Dumb question, probably, but I need to know. Open Question: I need opinions on this one:/?This may be a little long, just bare with me. I need some help. About a year and a half ago me and this guy started dating. I had known him at the beginning of one summer and we talked but never went out. Well when we did go out, i started falling for him veryy fast. Well we fell madly in love with each other. So in love sometimes i'd cry when i had to leave him at the end of the day on weekends. Well he's 18 now and wants to get me a ring for my 18th birthday. But about 2 months ago his dad decided he just didn't want him seeing me anymore because he thinks i'll keep him from going to college because that's what happened to him. (Which i'd never ever do that and tried to talk to his dad but he just won't have it) And i guess i can see where he was coming from. He just wants the best for his son. Well we still talked just as we would if we were still dating. Then his dad told him he couldn't talk to me anymore. But he still did when his dad wasn't around. Well he found out and now he has taken his phone (even though he doesn't pay the bill). He and his wife are divorced and i think of his wife like my own mother at times so we still talk. Well he found that out and cussed her for talking to me and told her that she just needs to treat me like an old dog and push me to the side so i'll "get over it". I have never caused him any problems at all i'm just simply in love with his son. But anyways, his sister and i are best friends. We were best friends before i even knew that he was her brother. But what i'm trying to ask here is tomorrow is her dance recital. She said she wanted me there and to come that it will be alright but i'm scared to. I don't want to cause any kind of drama or problems but she is my best friend and i miss her just as much. I'm almost sure that if i go and their father sees me there something will be said. But like i said i really do want to watch her dance. Now my question, do i go? Or no? If you read all that thank you! Lol you're a better person than i am:p Open Question: Complicated situation I am in for Christmas?Ok there was this girl I dated 5 years ago (just a 1 year relationship)...Well things didnt work out there, but we are BEST friends now She has had the same boyfriend for 5 years now....and i am very happy for her...And over the past five years...I would always get her a Christmas present, and i would get her boyfriend a Christmas present.....and they would each get me one Now since I have a gf, my gf was so excited for it...We went Christmas shopping together and decided together on presents for both of them. The problem: They now broke up (but they do this FREQUENTLY) And my gf wont let me give her a christmas present (that we chose together)..And i keep telling my gf that I will feel like a complete idiot when my BEST friend gets me a present and i dont get her one, and then she gets back together w her bf (because it always happens) I dont know how many times i have stressed to her that she is my BEST friend and nothing happened with us in 5 years...I dont know how many times i have to tell my gf that she doesnt have to worry about anything I have told my gf she comes first, and my friend, second What can i possibly tell my gf that since my BEST friend is single, nothing will still happen?? I mean i think i should be able to get her a present, single, or not....I mean her and her bf got me presents over the last 5 years (and i was single that whole time) I doubt age means anything but Im 23 and my gf is 20 my friend is 23 and her bf (on break) is 29 any help would be appreciated Open Question: I have a problem. Advice, anyone?Background information: I'm the youngest of 11 siblings and my family is very overprotective. They won't let me date and I'm 16 years old. Problem: I decided to pull a prank on my brother. He's very overprotective so I had several of his friends tell him I'm dating this really bad ass kid. He confroted me and started to cuss me out in front of everyone. (Of course he looked like a fool since everyone knew it was a prank). And the irony is that he has a girlfriend and everyone always sees them together, hugging and touching. So I'm confused. Why is he mad that I have a "boyfriend" when he has a girlfriend? I want to confront him but he overreacts to everything and he has a really quick and bad temper and he tends to be very unreasonable, presumptous jerk. Any advice. Open Question: My fiance and i broke up.....?My fiance and i have been going out for 2 1/2 years. She is 24, im 20. I have an anger problem and jealously issue. I get mad very easily and same with the jealously. She broke up with me today morning, and we talked it out and she doesn't want to go back out with me until she can see that i have changed completely and a man of my word. I promise myself that i will be a better person, not being mad at everything and if i do, to avoid her so i start a fight. And with the jealously issue, i was jealous before because i didn't want her to take hang out any guys. But she wants to hang out with her ex and just her guy friends and im totally okay with that but i have to prove that i totally changed, and not just for a while but for good. I'm letting her have her space, I am not calling her until she calls me etc, but we are seeing each other on Christmas and New Years. She gave me affectionate kiss today as she left, and she also told me she isnt going anywhere nor leaving me ever. But my question is since we are broken up until i can prove to myself and her that i completely changed, and when we see eachother on Christmas which will probably a date, then is it a bad thing to hold her hand, or kiss her on the cheek? I don't want to rush things, and i don't want to do anything stupid. She kissed me today which was a surprise, since she broke up with me today. I know i can win her back. And she is also buying me a Christmas present. So what's the smart thing to do? Open Question: Why do some men have a problem with dating a vegetarian? or Do men have a problem with it?Like in two occassions two different men told me that basically the only problem i had was being a vegetarian. I wasnt interested in them anyways but then it made me think that if i didnt even like them imagine if I did they wouldnt like me because i dont eat animals. Who cares what i put it my mouth. they arent tasting it for me. Its not like I preach about it or beat ya with the book, i dont like animal cruelity i will talk about that when questioned or if someone has a careless opion i will opinate myself. I didnt even give them an explanation but simply like sorry I dont eat chicken I am a vegetarian" and one responded "Oh that wont be a problem with me sense no man likes to date a vegetarian" and the other said "Oh well thats your only flaw the fact that you are a vegetarian." is this true. I dont mind dating a meat eater sounds hypercritical but if they are aware of the abuse and make fun of it than i want no part of that. I was a meat eater been there done that. I am the only vegetarian in my family and in my friend circle. I dont know anyone thats a vegetarian other than myself and online ppl so its hard to find a date thats a vegetarian. More Recent Articles
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