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Open Question: ..::..Do you think this is bad?..::..? and more... Open Question: ..::..Do you think this is bad?..::..?Okay I just started my new school about 2-3 weeks ago. It is going really good for me right now. I have started talking to this one guy and he is really cute and I have a major crush on him and he is single and says he likes me too. One problem..I'm going to be 17 on January 3rd and he is only 15 years old he won't turn 16 until August. He is taller then me and looks older but just me knowing that I'm almost like 2 years older then him makes me worry. Should we just date like we want or is it a bad idea? please help me answer this question ... somebody without any smart remarks. thank you so much. -Dawn Brown- (10points whoever answers) Open Question: How do I get past this?My husand and I have been together for almost 4 years, but only married for one. When we first started dating we lived in different states. We had previously dated in highschool almost 15 years before this. This past April, I realized that he was still texting, emailing and talking to an old girlfriend in Colorado. This girl was someone that he had been seeing long distance, at the same time he was seeing me long distance. He lied to me about her, on several occassions. And I only found out the truth because I stole her phone number from his phone while he was sleeping one morning. We had only been married for 3.5 months when I found out he was still talking to her. And not just the hi how are you stuff, but really dirty stuff that you should only be saying to your wife, now that he was married. I had been so happy in this relationship, I had never felt like that before. So when I found out about this, I was completely crushed. I mean truly devastated! He had lied to me.I started to question why he even married me. This was his third marriage, why go through all this, again, if I wasn't the one he wanted to be with. It's been 8 months tomorrow since I found out about his conversations with her. I'm still devasted. It's always on my mind. Like last night, he had a photo of some naked chick on his phone, and it hurt my feelings. It made me feel like I wasn't what he really wanted. I know that sounds so silly. I didn't have a problem with that 8 months ago. But I felt secure that I was who he wanted then, now I'm not sure anymore. So today, I'm feeling tired. And lonely, and like this relationship is hopeless. He says that he's sorry and would take it back. That he only wants me to be happy and that he'll do anything. He says that I am his everything. But I'm not happy. And I don't think there is anything he can do. I told him this happened to me, not to him. But that isn't true. It happened to both of us. I just feel like he took something away from me, from us a couple, that he can never give back. I told him this morning that she wins. She wanted us to have problems, and now we do. It doesn't matter that she doesn't know, I know. And no matter how strong I try to be, how hard I try to put this behind me, she is still always in my mind. I've never been married before, and I said it would only happen once for me. I felt that sure about getting married to my husband. I'm not willing to give up on this relationship until there is nothing left to salvage. So my question is...Is this something I can get past? Will there ever come a time when I feel like I this is history and I can move forward? Anyone who has been through this before and found forgivness and forgetfulness, please tell me how you did it and what worked for you. I'm willing to try everything to make my marriage work. Open Question: My boyfriend is so mean to me.?ok. ive asked a couple questions on here before about my boyfriend and i, but i'll explain again. we've been together for almost three years and we have a son together. lately like the past three or four months he's been overly mean to me and our son. he always yells and screams and cusses when he doesnt get his own way about something . and god forbid i do something he doesnt like, then i get called a whole list of very mean names ..any name you can think of that could hurt a girls feelings. before we broke up for a couple months and i started dating this one dude. he was really cool and all and loved me and my son. he always told me that he didnt want a relationship and i did, so we stopped talking. recently he got ahold of me and told me that he misses me and wants me back but he has a girlfriend!! and i think he wants mee but is like trying to keep me a secret. he says that him and his girl are having problems just like i am with my boyfriend but i dont really think that he's planniing on breaking up with her .. and i'm not no home wrecker.. so what should i do.. should i just leave them both alone? Open Question: Bad situation with my friends...please help!?So to set the scene.... last year I had a big group of friends... there were about 5 people who i'd consider part of the friendship group, who i'm not that close to, but i still like them, however, as i am (well was) more popular than then, i spent more time talking to others and they thought I hated them which I didn't at all, from this group I had a best friend, let's call her A, who had been my best friend for 4 years, but our relationship is very weird, it's more fun and jokey than talking about things which we don't really do... then last year i became very close to 2 other people, B and C. C is a boy who I have known forever and we were really good friends, but got even closer as he started dating B who was really good friends with the 5 others in the group, until she became my best friend along side A, A and B were good friends too, although B and I were better friends and she was always there for me and i was for her..... we had a really strong friendship group which was good, and always did suff on the weekend. Then i came back from holidays this summer gone, and B and C, two of my best friends, still going out were having problems after a long time together where we were all really good friends... B obviously confided in me and I helped her, but being a stupid boy C stopped liking her and caring about her and then broke up with her, because he started fancying this other girl, we'll call her D, so B was left heartbroken and so became so annoying and angry at school, and i was quite a bad friend and wasn't good at helping her out, i found it so hard to pick sides cause i love them both, and B hated D, because C and D were suddenly in love, which made B jealous. I then started becoming really close to D cause B was being weird and different and D is so funny and nice, I guess I didn't realise but B started getting really upset and went back to the five friends i described in the beginning, throughout this all A felt i was leaving her out too which i really wasn't. So B kinda ran away from our group, which had now split off from the other five, who are actually really nice people... I don't want to be in this group as everyone hates us as they think C and D are idiots cause of what they did to B, and now B hates me for not supporting her and 'going off' a bit with D. She then went and got the support from all other groups in the year, and kind of got loads of people to hate me and D, so i was stuck. Now i realise my huge mistake as B had been such a good friend to me and i should have payed more attention to her, and i've said im so sorry it was so stupid i really want to be your friend again, but she has 'moved on' and now wants to be friends with the other five again. C and D are just too interested in eachother that it's annoying and i realized i do really love B and need her help, but she was so hurt by losing her boyfriend and her best friend before that she doesn't want to be my friend again, and A is more interested in other popular groups than me. The popular groups also dislike me because D used to be part of them, and then she left their group to be friends with me, which i didn't even want, but they all blame me for it, and are on B's side. I have tried to hard to be nice to B and show her i want her back, but thigns are just different and awkward between us, shes not horrible to me, she just has no interest in me anymore cause she's happy, and her five friends have been made to think i'm a really bad person which i'm not, i really want her back as a friend, but i dont know how to do this and keep my friends from the other group, C and D? I like them all But if im friends with them, B doesn't want anythign to do with me cause she hates them so much, i'm just so insecure at school as i have no good friends anymore and i don't know what to do, btw sorry this is sooooo hard to understand, but please try, i really need to figure out a way to gain my friends back cause i really do love and miss them, it's as if for one second i turned around and became friends with D and when i turned back, everyone disliked me and had run away? I don't get it cause i'm trying so hard now.... help please????? Open Question: My girlfriend's ex-girlfriend won't go away!?Long story - I highly appreciate anyone who takes the time to read and comment! My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 months... every day. We practically live with each other at this point. We are in love, and everything is good. The only problem is her ex girlfriend. I don't even know if I can call it an 'ex-girlfriend' because her ex wanted them to have a secret relationship the whole two years they were together. The ex played a lot of games... and did not want anyone to know she was with a girl so she only saw my girl when it was convenient for her. My girlfriend eventually couldn't take the pain of being a secret anymore so she left. As soon as the ex found out we were dating she went to my girlfriends work crying saying, "I love you and I see everything I did wrong. I am going to come out as a lesbian, hold your hand in public, be everything you ever wanted, etc etc". Well, my girlfriend told her that she likes me now and wants to be in a relationship with me. That was 3 months ago. The ex is still trying to get her back! It's very annoying. Every day she changes her myspace status to things like: "I will wait for you, come back home" and "How am I suppose to live without you? You were my world" - every day it's something new. I wish my girlfriend would just take her off of her myspace friends list, and make it clear to her that they will not ever be getting back together. My problem now is I'm starting to feel insecure about the ex. I have talked to my girlfriend about it once and she assured me that I have nothing to worry about, that she loves me, etc. I don't bring it up to my girlfriend now because I don't want her to be pushed away by my insecurities. I also don't tell her that I'm looking at her ex's myspace status. But maybe I should just lay it all out on the table? I need to trust my girlfriend 100%. It's just hard to do when her ex, who was also her first love, would do anything to be with her. I mean, the ex still believes that they are going to get back together. The ex had my girlfriends heart only a few short months ago, my girlfriend even told me that they had a really deep connection. How do I trust that this connection is broken? How do I trust that my girlfriend is honestly over her? How do I forget about the ex? Open Question: Emptiness and inability to form close relationships?Ever since leaving a 4 year abusive relationship last year, I've been feeling very lonely and isolated. The problem is, I've had chances to make friends but I don't put effort into friendships because I feel a little depressed and I just can't form any stable connections with people. I can't even develop a close relationship with MYSELF, as I procrastinate writing in my diary a lot. The only way I can stop from drowning in isolation is keeping myself busy, but that doesn't seem to solve the problem, it just distracts me from it temporarily. I also don't have any interest in guys, and I have plenty wanting to date me but I turn every one down. Do you think I might have some sort of mental illness? Getting out is only a distraction. My feelings remain. I also change my mind about things a lot due to mood swings. Also, I don't know if this could be a relevant factor, but I have iron deficiency anemia so 'm always tired and bored. Open Question: help please! I have no idea what to name my mix cd?I made a mix cd from the 90s for the guy i'm dating who is super nostalgic. the only problem is, I don't know what to name it! help please :) More Recent Articles |
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