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Open Question: Do you want some advice and dont know what to do with your relationship? and more... Open Question: Do you want some advice and dont know what to do with your relationship?Ask me please. im always happy to help someone with a dating problem or just concern that something might happen. Im only going to tell my opinion but i know that what ever i say might just be the words that you want to hear. PLEASE ask if you need an answers Open Question: Hey gals would you date this guy, what about you guys?This guy is a douche. After I had his baby and told him I would be leaving my career to raise the baby, he told me to get a job or get out. We never in 10 years went on a vacation together or hardly did anything together. He took a 13 year old dog that I adopted and threw it in a field when I was at my part-time job. (Yes I did get a great paying part-time job just so he would shut his big mouth) I helped raise his kid and then he told me I never helped him raise the kid (who did the school call, me!!!! all the time not him) when our marrige started to fall apart he started to talk to a sibling he didn't talk to in 6 years and started taking her prescription meds for depression, He would stand over the bed and stare at me at night so that's when I did leave. I went right over the bridge to another state and after 3 months of him calling me for booty he goes and puts in an order to show cause with the court, well since I went to another state they took the child away until parenting plan was in place (btw he was seeing his child the whole time, he LIED to the court and the judge took himself off the case we worked out the divorce ourselves from there after I got the child back) he verbally put me down the whole marriage, he is a pathological liar, he is only nice when he wants something like the time he called me when he got a new girlfriend and he wanted me not to tell her what a jerk he is so he acted like I was the only person in the world he could talk to about girls and sexual problems yadda yadda yadda then turns around and acts like a tool to me, uses his child to hold over my head whenever he wants to get a rise out of me oh the list goes on and on. What do you think???? 5 hours ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details btw the order to show cause was basically stating to the court that the child's life was in danger with me. Big Fat Lie! She was with me since the day she was born I don't do drugs (which he lied to the court about) I don't even drink or smoke. He never called to check on his kid he called to find out if he could get some before we divorced. Oh yeah and he broke into my e-mail and forwarded phony e-mails to my friends, family and pastor. Open Question: Dating my guy is like dating a girl!!?I've been dating my boyfriend for 11 months now. I really do love him, and I don't want to break up with him. It's been bothering me for awhile now, but dating my boyfriend is like dating a girl. He is overly emotional and gets pissy about the dumbest things. I have to be overly careful that I don't upset him. I lost my virginity to him and our sex life is pretty good. The only problem is that I am way more into sex than he is. If it were up to me, we would probably have sex every day. For him, it seems like sex is an afterthought. If we have sex, it's fine, if not, that's fine too. We could go weeks without sex and it would be fine. I've tried different "typical" things to be seductive, but nothing works. He just pushes me aside. We don't have sex unless it's his idea. For the longest time I thought it was me, but I've come to realize that it's just him. He just doesn't care that much about sex. It's starting to drive me crazy. I'm getting bored with our relationship and I don't want it to end it, but I can't keep going on this way. I'm tired of feeling like the man in this relationship. What can I do?? Open Question: HELP! My friend always steals the guys I like! What should I do?I'm in grade 7 so I know I don't need a serious boyfriend, but with that being said, I still have crushes. So here is my problem. I liked a guy since grade 1 and he was/is a close guy friend currently. But last October, after I told my BEST FRIEND I didn't like him anymore, she told me she liked him about 2 months later. I said okay... because since I didn't like him I just kind of forgot about it. THEN, in January, I moved on to another guy who was/is my friend. I really liked him and she seemed to be supportive by saying "Oh, I know he likes you!" and everything. Then, in February she told me she liked him too! I was mad and confronted her about it and she said okay I don't want to lose a friendship over a boy so he's all yours. Anyways, in June, I found out he liked HER. So, then we were at school camp and she told me that she liked him too! I was mad but I kinda pretended I was okay with it. But it seemed like she tried to make me jealous because immediately (still during camp), she and him were always holding hands because they liked each other. Then it really annoyed me and another friend (she didn't like him but she still was annoyed) that besides the hand holding, she always flirted with him and got piggyback rides from him and she always took his hat and wouldn't give it back playfully. One night at camp, she even WORE IT TO BED! He told her he wasn't allowed to date so eventually that died off. Now just in November, I told her I liked another guy because I liked his smile, he was really nice to me, and funny (totally my type). But then just a few days later at school, she started flirting with him like always talking to him (always!) and joking around with him and all of the signs of flirting. I got mad and I confronted her (once again) and she apologized about it. But then she still kinda talked about him and to him a lot so I decided I didn't really like him anymore because he seemed to like her more than me. Then just yesterday we had a school dance. She asked me if I still liked him because then I should ask him to dance if I did. I said umm kinda not really. I guess she took that as a plain no (there was obviously some unsureness in my voice) because the next slow song, she "saw him looking at her" and she was like, do you want to dance? in a flirty voice and she said it loud RIGHT in front of me (I was right beside them) and then I walked away but not like a stomp just a walk and I stood with my other friends, feeling hurt and watching them dance. I felt like such a loser! Basically, she stole him right in front of my eyes. I'm not sure she realized that she did that right in front of me, but she did! What should I do? Should I just keep confronting her about her attitude? Should I ditch her? Or what? The thing is, we've been Best Friends since preschool so it would be sad to lose her because we have sleepovers almost every weekend and we tell each other everything (well ALMOST because I never told her this). She also seems addicted to guys because she has had 4 boyfriends from grades 6-7 (HER PARENTS DIDN'T KNOW!) and a few more crushes along with that. She told me that the reason she dated so many guys is because her "self esteem is kinda down so she did that to make herself feel better". What's you opinion on this situation? Please help!!!! I'm so lost and I'm mad and sad and my emotions and brain are so confused right now!!! Open Question: Im 17 he is 27, what shall I do?I'm a 17 year old guy (just turned), and I really really love this guy only problem is he is 27!!! Okay here is the story. Basically I'm bisexual and i've never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, Iv had crushes here n there but never dated anyone. So then I was hanging around with my mates one day and I meet this guy at this event he starts talking to me etc quite an interetsing guy but I wasn't really attracted to him. Later on my when we leave my mate tells me that guy liked me and he gave that guy my number. I was like 'oh no' - but didn't really mind. So later on he rings me and talks about general stuff. Next day we meet at the same event again, we keeping meeting at this event for about a week and random phone calls here n there. Then one day I remeber I was thinking about him all day and was looking forward to meeting him, I realised I was really attracted to him now. We meet again at the event and I realise how much I like him, when we left my friend so to me you couldn't stop smiling when u were with him u change so much when ur around him u really light up. Next time we meet at the cinema with this guy and his mates, then we got alone for a couple of mins (I deliberately weny back with him to his car, then i kissed him - he pushed me away) He said that he really liked me and said anyguy who been soooo lucky to be with me but because of the age gap he can't. Then later on in the week he rings me and asks me if i am upset I said I am and he said meet up so we did and then we talked I felt sooo much better so I tried kisiing him again, he pushed me off again, i was upset then he said okay one kiss so we kissed for quite long, I really enjoyed it (my first kiss). But he said that this was it and he is going to delete me of his phone and we can' talk because it isn't right. He has dleted me but I still have his number, I feel so depressed without him, shall I ring him? dont know what to do? I know this is wrong, but I like him sooooo much. and I am so sexually attracted to him, feel like losing my viriginity to him he turns me on a lot too. Would this be illegal cause even if we did have sex I wouldn't tell noone. WHAT SHALL I DO? Open Question: my girlfriends controlling what do i do?well it just started as simply having the password to my voice mail then my password to my myspace not that i minded then it caused problems such as a girl calls me she askeds me why they call me i decided it wasn my best choice and i changed them she got mad so i gave her the new ones then she tured to my drug addiction pot she decided she dosen want me doing them around her she smokes pot two and has no intetion of stoping her reasing for it was i act stupid then i turned when i broke up with her and started dating another chick but within the week i broke up with the chick and went back to her now breaking up with her is not an option how do i stop her from being so contrlling also she looked up the chick and i have posted a q bout that 2 im a wits end ive made it clear im not the type who likes to be controlled and i have had enough of it she just keeps it up now she also made a deal that she wont throw a fit when i get high if i give up smoking AND U GUESSED IT SHE SMOKES. theres a bunch of other stuff but i dont feel like giving it all up u think of it i probbaly have ttried it but i need help again i say breaking up with her is not an option the whole thing is driving us apart what the hell do i do Open Question: Experiencing teenage depression [+suicidal thoughts]?If you plan on answering, please read the entire field. For the past few years, I have been long distance friends with a great girl that I truly do love, although I haven't ever met her in real life. I know it sounds strange, but we have always been very close and have been through a lot. We met through an online environment called oz [its a social game, not online dating or anything]. Now she has become my closest friend until recently I recently had a 'girlfriend', although we were not close at all, it was more like just being good friends because she said she liked me. blah blah. But I still left her because it made Tiff [the girl i <3] upset. I also quit my job because it caused me to go days in a row without being able to talk to Tiff. About a week ago on the anniversary of when we met, she called and told me she was dating another guy as opposed to saying anything about the day we met. This put me into depression, and I should be talking to a therapist according to my school counselor [yes, I am a minor but I disprove the fact that you can't fall in love as a chld]. I have been coping it, until a couple of days later she asked me for my opinion on whether I thought it was a bad idea for her to let her new bf John study with his ex. I told her: "Well you know most of guys just want one thing". She replied "yeah but he can just get that from me". She had always told me how important she felt it was to stay a virgin until marriage, which we had always agreed on. I have asked her not to mention John anymore. She said she was just kidding and that I shouldn't worry about it. Yesterday, she confessed that she had a pregnancy scare. I was shattered. She then tried to cover it [as if she regretted saying it] by saying she wasn't having actual sex with him, rather she just had a skirt on and they were fooling around. I hope that's true, although I highly doubt it. Now I can't eat, sleep, or function correctly in school. eg Today I sat in a corner of a stairway hall without sleeping for at least 2 class periods. I know I don't have the right to stop her from living her live the way she pleases, and I know she has done nothing immoral to me by living her life. Therefor I have tried to act like I'm fine although she has to know its bs since Im not a good liar when im trying not to break everything in sight. She was also supposed to come see me for the first time[over the years we have failed many times to meet in person, and the closest we have come is constant webcam use and sending eachother things through the mail] I don't think I can talk to anyone about this for multiple reasons. At school I'm seen as this macho dude that no one f***s with, so they would just laugh at me because I'm not close enough to anyone. I can't see a therapist because a.) I don't want my parents to know I'm going through depression and b.) therapists cost a lot of money. I see therapy as a last resort. If I talk to my parents about it, it will just be awkward. But I have always had her to talk to about everything I have trouble with, and in the past month I haven't been able to function socially nor academically due to my depression. Any advice would be good. I know I'll get immature comments and people saying im just a kid and don't know love, etc. And I've never been in a situation like this, nor have i ever even witnessed 'drama' or anything at school. I also always have thoughts about suicide, and when I snap out of it I get scared ill finally do it. Please, someone help me. This isn't so much one question but a need for some good advice on how to get to the route of the problem, or anything else. I do know the difference between love and lust. I have experienced both and yes they are different. More Recent Articles
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