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Open Question: Does this mean I am in love? Boys? and more... Open Question: Does this mean I am in love? Boys?Its my ex boyfriend & I KNOW already that I sound like every other damn person on this thing. Read this story though please & tell me what youu think. I know its hella long but whatever. It's really embarrassing because I'm usually not like this about boys. I dated him for a while last year & the whole time, I planned on cheating on him to be honest. I know i'm crazy but its because I just wanted to keep him around still & be single like my girlfriends too. i don't get why. I promise i'm not evil, I just have a lame lame commitment problem. I wanted him to commit but at the same time go out & be single. I think more like boys then girls in a way. I didn't do it to be mean, its just really hard for me. He always told me he loved me so much all the time & all these things and I never said it back once because i didn't think i did. Then he started giving up on everything and thats when i told him I loved him without thinking & i don't know why i said it because i didn't mean it. Then out of nowhere HE broke up with me before our junior year started & its the first & only time a boy has ever broken up with me but it killed me. I felt so alone without him. He's the only boy i said i love you to. & i was DEVESTATED. I don't know if I really love him or not. I still i think about him, he's totally hot & has an attractive personality, & we have the same group of friends so we always talk still. After we broke up he had sex with a friend of mine. Of course I got rid of her & her reputation was ruined. I was mean to him for a while but I also understand him for it. He totally treats her like a **** & ruined her rep. & they don't talk at all. But he's never been like that to me. He's disrespectful to all of his ex's except for me, & he's so sweet still and has never been mean. We get along way well still but there's a weird feeling like something's missing when we're just talking at a party or something. When he starts to talk to me all the time, I feel like I don't really love him. But whenever I don't see him for a while i miss him & its SO crazy. Am i in love? Whats your opinion pleassssse i'm dying to know. Open Question: Girls am I in love? Or not?Its my ex boyfriend & I KNOW already that I sound like every other damn person on this thing. Read this story though please & tell me what youu think. I know its hella long but whatever. It's really embarrassing because I'm usually not like this about boys. I dated him for a while last year & the whole time, I planned on cheating on him to be honest. I know i'm crazy but its because I just wanted to keep him around still & be single like my girlfriends too. i don't get why. I promise i'm not evil, I just have a lame lame commitment problem. I wanted him to commit but at the same time go out & be single. I think more like boys then girls in a way. I didn't do it to be mean, its just really hard for me. He always told me he loved me so much all the time & all these things and I never said it back once because i didn't think i did. Then he started giving up on everything and thats when i told him I loved him without thinking & i don't know why i said it because i didn't mean it. Then out of nowhere HE broke up with me before our junior year started & its the first & only time a boy has ever broken up with me but it killed me. I felt so alone without him. He's the only boy i said i love you to. & i was DEVESTATED. I don't know if I really love him or not. I still i think about him, he's totally hot & has an attractive personality, & we have the same group of friends so we always talk still. After we broke up he had sex with a friend of mine. Of course I got rid of her & her reputation was ruined. I was mean to him for a while but I also understand him for it. He totally treats her like a **** & ruined her rep. & they don't talk at all. But he's never been like that to me. He's disrespectful to all of his ex's except for me, & he's so sweet still and has never been mean. We get along way well still but there's a weird feeling like something's missing when we're just talking at a party or something. When we start talking all the time, I feel like I don't really love him. But whenever I don't see him for a while i miss him & its SO crazy. Am i in love? Whats your opinion pleassssse i'm dying to know. Open Question: I'm engaged and think I'm falling for someone else.?I need serious answers on this please.... Okay, me and my man have been dating for 4 years (I was 15 when we started dating), engaged for 1 year. Yes, we are in love, but it just doesn't seem like we're engaged. We fight all the time. And I'm stressed out all the time because of school, and he pushes my buttons. He has some growing up to do. He does stuff I don't like, and I think he knows I don't like it. We can fight about something he did and a few days later he will do it again. Why can't he listen to me when we talk about serious stuff? I just don't seem happy like I used to be. I love him and hate to leave him because he's close to my family and I'm close to his family. I just don't know what to do. Anyways....... I'm in college and have a class with a guy, I noticed him staring at me from time to time in class. So, he emails me, complimenting me, and asked if I would help him study for the final. We have been talking through email getting to know each other. We joke back and forth in emails. He's very mature and quite nice, and handsome. He seems like someone who could make me happy. He makes me laugh, I'm attracted to him, and obviously he's attracted to me. We're both engaged. He said he has problems with his girl, but I didn't put my personal life out there like he did. Anyways... this Wed I agreed to help him study for the final on thursday. I don't mind helping anyone study, that's what I'm supposed to do anyway. He calls it a "Study date," but it didn't bother me when he said "date." We've been joking about me giving him a foot massage and him returning the favor. Nothing he says makes me feel wierd (u know the feeling when you're talking to someone and they go too far). I actually look forward to his responses to my messages and he says he looks forward to hearing from me. Is it bad that I'm thinking about other men? Is that a sign that I'm not happy? I like this guy, but I love my fiance. I have mixed feelings. Has anyone went through this before? If so, what did you do? Are you happy now by the decision you made? II'M SORRY IN ADVANCE THIS IS SO LONG!!!! Too tell the truth, he talks to me more in emails than my fiance does... and my fiance lives with me Open Question: Pls. Read I Need Help! Gettin' Kicked Out Of House! Help!?I am an eighteen year old male who is still attending high school to get his education in the state of Virginia. I have a choice to graduate on either Jan. 28 or June 10th. I need to get that diploma so I can maintain a job after high school. My mother's fiance left about two and a half weeks ago with no notice to live with his parents in Illinois. With that being said, there has been a lot of fighting in the house hold for quite some time now and he refuses to come back home due to it. He would much rather leave his problems at rest and avoid them while he's out getting most-likely laid in another state. Before he left to make the trip out to Illinois, he had his son take most of his possessions (matchbox/hot-wheel cars, antique furniture, and autographed cards) to his son's house to keep or sell on eBay thus profiting half of it. My mother is completely devastated right now as we speak. She's blaming me for the cause of the relationship ending despite they had a ton of problems. I know that I haven't been helping it nonetheless but I do know that I don't think that I had that much of an impact. I love my mother very much and I am extremely hurt by her actions. Her fiance and I have never gotten along and probably never will regardless of what the outcome of this will be. I honestly think that he is trash and that my mother deserves a lot better. That's my view on the relationship but I honestly have no say in it because I am not her. She has been taking care of him (paying the mortgage, other various bills, and food) for close to six months now while he's been sitting on his butt at home on the couch watching the news and recordings on our DVR box, acting as though he has retired with nothing to live off of. He won't get up and find a job and when she confronts him on it, he puts it off and makes up excuses while mental abusing her all at once. Our family told my mother that she should make a list of things to do for him to help his mind mentally. He said he was a grown man and refused to follow any rules or guidelines. He will look for a job but his job searching is quite slow. He will go to the library and put out his resume on career builder and other sites like Monster; however, when he gets offered a 50k salary job for management, he winds up turning it down! He says he can't do it and then goes back on his word saying that he didn't take it because he doesn't know if there is any stability in the relationship. He did file for unemployment; however, he refuses to help with the bills. It's on and off when he wants to help and what not. The mortgage as well as other various bills are still in his name. He plans on filing for bankruptcy with a lawyer in Illinois; therefore, he could care less if the house gets an eviction notice or if the electricity gets turned off. My mother has been telling him to come back home and get his things before the house gets foreclosed. He tells her that he'll get his things whenever he wants and that he isn't coming home stubbornly. My mother has poor credit and will never ever be able to qualify for the house's mortgage if we were to put it in her name. Her fiance has offered it several of times; however, he knows that she can't do it. Her fiance is two faced. He'll want to pay off the ring while he down in Illinois then he'll want to file for bankruptcy the next second. I forgot to mention that he suffers from depression and probably has multiple personalities disorder despite that he hasn't been diagnosed with it yet. I coach my mother and tell her that she should move on and start dating but she's just as stubborn as I am. Ultimately it comes down to her decision and I am happy for her what ever she decides to choose. I will inform you that there has been no Internet in the house and that her fiance had a computer that he brought with him. He also brought his cat as well as a ton of clothes. There is a lot of junk in the house but not nearly as valuable as the stuff he took with him or the things he gave to his son. Do you think that he is going to come back and that it's completely over with? The reason that she decided to get the Net out of their lives was because her fiance had a bad reputation in the past by cheating on his ex wife who he was with for twenty-seven years. She felt as though he would get back to his old habits and do it all over again because that's what he is used to. Now that he is Illinois, my mother has no way of knowing if he is cheating on her or not. And out of the blue, she found out yesterday that he prescribed another prescription of Viagra. She asked him about it and said that he wasn't cheating on her. Please keep in mind that he has a bad reputation for lying. She is quite controlling if you ask me. She won't even let him have a cell phone because his past was that bad; however, I do not blame her one bit. She's been lied to and played on so many times. Do you think that she is being played on right now? Do Open Question: Is this dog breeder good?I have recently put a deposit down on a puppy but the only problem is the seller he keeps on pushing the date backwards so that we have to wait for ages (the puppy is already about 11 weeks) and now he is claiming that he needs more money on top of the price for injections etc.. what should I do? Open Question: Cannot access anything on my pc without a warning popping up saying that it is infected!!!?My pc seems to have been infected by a virus but it says that everything has been infected and i cannot access them unless i download this type of anti virus. I already have AVG anti virus and although i have updated it numerous times a pop up appears saying it is out of date and to diagnose the problem i have to download another anti virus! I am wondering whether it is this anti virus site that is causing all the problems but i cant check because i of this virus! Any suggestions??? Open Question: Serious boyfriend problems... am I wasting my time? Please answer!?He is 30 and I am 25. We have been dating about 10 months total, and I kinda have a gut feeling he is losing interest for one reason or another. Normally I'm the one to text him first - or make plans to see each other. I decided I'm not going to text or call him at all this week and let him come to me. I think this will say a lot as to if he is still interested... and if he is not, it will give him an "easy out" so-to-speak. How long do you think I should wait before deciding he is not interested? Today is Monday... so until Friday? Remember, he is probably expecting me to text him like normal - so it may take him some time to realize "Wait... I haven't heard from her for a few days... maybe I should text her and see whats up" What do you all think? Open Question: Is he playing games with me?I've known this guy for about 3-4 years through Middle school, HS and common friends. He used to date this girl who lives down the street and is way younger than either one of us. The guy and I have been kind of seeing each other, but heres my problem. He still gets way too upset by her actions, they see each other all the time at parties with mutual friends and of course because she lives down the street. I dont think hes completely over her. He says he hates her and would prefer to not see her again, as do all his friends and his mother because apparently she acts like an immature bitch. Everything was going somewht fine until 2 nights ago. First he said he thinks we should stop. Then he said he likes me but hes scared... and then he said if its supposed to happen it will happen... What the hell??? Everything takes work. Nothing just falls in your lap. So then I go over there the next day because he said he wanted to talk. Half the day went by and we didnt get a chance to talk in private, but he kissed me when I got there, huggd and touched me a lot and then before I left kissed me again. And not like a peck, but like slow, grab the face, get in real close, give a goofy grin and kiss me some more kinda kiss. I really like this guy, but Ive gotten burned so much in the past year Im scared that it will happen again. Is he playing games with me?? Not to mention hes the hottest guy since Beckham. Which is not making it any easier. Open Question: How can I get him???????????????????????Ok, I am not really popular but i have met this guy who is really popular and he has started talking to me on skype. The first thing he wrote was Him:will you tell me who you like? Me: I like no one Him: I know who you like Me: ???????????????????? Him: Come one I know you like me Me: Ok you are right it had to come out sometimes He id not reply for 30 m but from that day on we talk everyday. He knows some of my old friend s from my old school who told me he thinks I am nice and pretty. The problem is he is like in love with this girl(who he is not dating) but the girl hurt him a lot and hates him and is like really mean. What can I write to him to start a nice and kinda flirtyconversation? How can I get him? Open Question: Is he interested or not? What is his problem?So we hang out as friends before, and we have a fun time. He says he is interested in me, and would like to go out on a date. We go out on a double date, and then a few days later just me and him. It went really well. We had fun, and had so much in common. He texted me after that. But then about a week passed by, he didn't text or call. Then I texted him, and no reply. I called him once and no reply either. So I assumed he wasn't interested anymore but had a stupid way of telling me. And so I didn't contact him anymore obviously. And now it's been about a month and a half, and I get an email from him. It was very casual. And in the message, he wrote asking how I was and stuff like that and to let him know when we can hang out again. He did not mention the date at all. I was expecting at least an apology; even if it was something as lame as "sorry, I was busy." Anyway, that's the message I got from him and I don't know if I should reply, and if I do reply what should I tell him? What do u think is going on? Any advice? I would like other perspectives on this. Thank you! (he is 24 and I am 23, if that matters) More Recent Articles
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