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Open Question: Falling in love with a Jehovah's Witness? and more...

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Open Question: Falling in love with a Jehovah's Witness? and more...

Open Question: Falling in love with a Jehovah's Witness?

I know a boy at my school who is extremely charming in all ways, he's bright, handsome, athletic, kind, always smiles and is a perfect gentleman with great manners. Although I am an asian female and he is caucasian, I've come to accept that since what I really love is his personality as a whole. We are currently both 17. For the past 5 years, I never really paid much attention to him, though I've had a small crush on him at times. He's too kind to me and always greets me. Recently after we met at the library (he also opened the door for me to the library, total gentleman), he sat next to me and while we were conversing, he would look straight in my eyes closely and never looks elsewhere. His gaze at that time made me blush and slowly I realized I fell in love. The bad part is that, recently I also found out he practices a religion called Jehovah's witnesses. I'm personally agnostic, though I believe in God and my sister is Christian, she also suggests that I should go to church with her. As a JW (Jehovah's witness), he cannot date anyone until he is at an age that is ready for marriage. That isn't even the worst part, but the fact that he can only date other JWs. I can't simply convert to be in the same religion just because of love, since this is a choice of belief. Right now I'm sinking to the point I want to see him every single day, even though he never told me about this, I believe what his family friend told me was correct. Ever since I knew him, he has never dated anyone. This problem is approaching to affect my school life but I don't know what to do. He is still a friend but talking to him everyday without letting him know my love for him hurts me.

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Open Question: Girl problem?!?! Please Help!!?

Okay, so me and my girlfriend started dating, like last Saturday when we met up with each other near a popular place in Philly. Before that we just talked on the phone and texted like crazy! After we left each other Saturday she texted me and said she wants to give this relationship a try. So I am like "Yeah!!!" Ha ha. But then Monday when we talked she was rather short and blunt with me, none of her usual banter or wit. So I deduced something was wrong. Today I texted her like 3 times, first good morning and then 2 more times throughout the day asking her whats wrong. I am nervous because she did this last time when she was mad at me. So before I jumped to conclusion, what should I do about this?? Just let it blow over and wait for her to call/text me or should I continue to attempt to contact her?? Ha ha I really do need help!! Also, I am 16 and she is 17. She is about to go to college and was thinking about waiting until I go to college to decide which to attend. That is how much we like each other!! So I don't know what is up.

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Open Question: Can i date my ex-girlfriend's friend?

Me and my ex were only together for about a month, and it didn't work out at all so we broke up. It was mutual. Its been about 2 months, but recently she told me she still had feelings for me. The problem is that im really into her friend, and i know she feels the same. I want to date her but i dont want their friendship to get messed up, because my ex is really jealous of every girl i meet. What do i do? Oh, and my ex is actually dating one of my good friends as we speak, so shes being very hypocritical. ughh

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Open Question: how long does a period have to be gone before your menstruation system shuts down?

i have been having problems with an eating disorder and salvation. my periods have been missing there due date quite a bit lately and i was wondering how long they have to be away before your menstruation system shuts down ?

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Open Question: How I prevent Adobe Photoshop from moving my files from their original locations each time I work with them?

I don't find Lightroom useful except its photomanipulation options but I use it when I want to play around with my pictures. Let's say I drag a couple of files from a folder called "Birthday" from my hard disk to Lightroom. After I work with it, the files *disappear* from their original "Birthday" folder and I find them in a NEW folder named after the date the photo was taken on. This drives me crazy because I don't want/need new folders, I just want to edit them and save them and make them stay in their original locations. How can I prevent this? Anybody know? Also, I almost always send my photos to Photoshop CS3 after I've worked with them. Does this have an effect on my problem?

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Open Question: Girls, I need your help?

Okay, here's the dilemma, I want to ask this girl out to a date on Monday because there is an ice skating performance downtown and is the perfect event for a first date. Only problem is that I don't have my driver's license yet and my mom won't let me get it in time for this date. Plus, like all mom's would say, i need a lot more experience out in the snow and ice and at night. I do have a good amount of driving experience though. Here's my plan and I'm not sure what she would think. First off all I would have to convince my mom into letting my date drive me down to our date spot. My mom would have to drive me to her house, I meet my date there and she drives to our date spot. We would be back by 9:00pm and leave at 5:00pm from her house. so, 5-9pm. My mom would pick me up then. Would you as a girl be okay going on a date with a guy if you are driving? This is assuming that you really like the guy and have wanted for him to ask you out for a long time. We are seniors in high school by the way. My mom has not met her yet, so I know I would have to introduce her to her first. What are your opinions on this. Thank you in advance

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Open Question: please help me! im so confused?

okayy.where do i begin? last year this guy (hes 17) started 2 talking 2 me on myspace..we became friends and then i met him in person @ school. well we kept getting closer and i began to fall 4 him...i already knew he really really liked me so that wasnt a problem. it took us more than a year to finally get permission from my 'rents 2 date. seeing as how i was only 13 at the time. so now we have been dating 4 a little more than 2 months.He's great and hes really really good to me...and i love him and he knows it and we talk about being together forever and he says he'll never break up with me..and i tell him the same. its all real in the moment but then i start thinking we r moving 2 fast..now its 2 where i love him @ home and its all good but if we are @ school i dont as much. its almost like he embarresses me. maybe my expectations are 2 high? idk...he kinda whines when hes hurt and he says all kinds of things that just make me wanna push him away. and when i get home i feel like "well i would never break up with him, hes to great to me and i love him" ..and i dont want to break up w/ him. i couldnt anyway cuz i couldnt break his heart after telling him i never would....i dont know what to do. hes only ever like that when we r @ school ..any other time,everything is all good....i need help! sry it was long. do you think hes just nervous? or is what i am wanting to high? i practically feel like im the "cool" one in this relationship....

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Open Question: My boyfriend only wants oral?

So, we've both gotten tested, and we started out having oral sex. Not too long ago, in the heat of the moment, he said "We should do it soon" (meaning have intercourse). I brought it up to him about a week later saying that I was ready, and he said that he didn't have any condoms. Then about another week later, after I had bought condoms, I brought it up again and he hesitated. I told him to tell me a simple yes or no, and he said no. He has absolutely no problem with oral sex; hell, he'd readily go down on me in a heartbeat! And I would do the same. We are extremely close; we are very open in our conversations, we talk every day without fail, we are respectful of each other, we take care of each other. I love him, and I know he loves me. Having said that, ever since we started dating, I've felt that he's had reservations. At first, he wasn't very open with me out of fear that I would get mad and leave him. I let him know that he didn't have to be afraid of that; all he had to do was tell me the truth. I know that he's had some crappy relationships in the past, so maybe that's affecting our sex life? One of my theories is that he has concerns about getting me pregnant. Another is that he's not sure if I'm "the one", so he's eliminating the possibility of me getting pregnant to protect himself. I don't know... What do you guys think?

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Open Question: Johnson Peters - does the name ring a bell? Online dating?

Hi - I'm trying to work out if this guy is genuine or not. He says he's a construction engineer, a couple of weeks of online chats after our first contact on a dating website, he has to go off to Nigeria on a 3 week contract! And low and behold, he has problems with customs that require payments he hasn't budgeted for...he can't access his bank in the UK from West Africa so which bank do I use? With an idea of getting money to me, then I can get it to him....... I wasn't born yesterday, would never agree to this no matter how genuine he seems (and boy has he seemed genuine!) but I am wondering if any other females have come across his name, or profile on Dating Direct? I am curious....plus now at least if another woman searches his name they will hopefully come across this! Anyone heard of him? He professes to live in Cheetham Hill, Manchester. Thanks! You know they say these scammers steal models pictures, he doesn't look like a model, just a slightly better looking than average guy, not someone out of the ordinary! Funny how I haven't heard from him tonight....... I will add of course that if it's someone trying to scam me, I know that they will have made up this name! It's just the name he gave me after a couple of emails on the dating website! Funny how he was so keen to chat on hotmail, I hadn't realised at the time that scammers prefer that because chat on dating sites is recorded I think!

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Open Question: My c905 wont turn on?

I missed a call on my c905 then all the language on my phone has changed, it looks like a couple of different languages. I tried turning the phone on and off but it said insert sim, I took out and replaced the sim, this time the phone has turned on but everything has reset (the date ect) and I cant find a signal at all. When I try charging it I get a message that it cant charge and I must use a Sony battery. Anyone know whats wrong with it? Could a bad battery be causing all the above problems?

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