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Open Question: Girlfriend's father is extremely unstable. Seems even psychotic.? and more... Open Question: Girlfriend's father is extremely unstable. Seems even psychotic.?So to give a little background my girlfriend is 17 and I am 16. We've been dating for a little over a year now. I spend a lot of time over at her house. Now onto what happened: Last night (friday night) I was at her house. Her curfew (the time at which point I need to leave) is 11:30 on a weekend. So the problem was I accidentally fell asleep because I was extremely tired from sleeping so little that week. I woke up after about an hour (at about 12:20) and proceeded to grab everything of mine because I needed to get home. The same time as I and my girlfriend were outside he was getting back here from a business trip. Because of this, our paths naturally crossed. He mentioned that it was late and seemed to make a joke about it. I was tired and he seemed fine enough so that I thought no further explanation was needed. (If needed I planned to tell him later, because I was very tired). Anyway I left. Now I am going to interrupt for a second to explain logically the evidence for why this was an accident. 1. I sent several texts to several friends telling them how I was going to be home at 12. (They wanted to know when I'd be back and available). 2. It's a friday night. Why would I be directly going against her father to get a slightly longer amount of time with her when I would have seen her the next day? (saturday) 3. My curfew is at 12 and therefore I need to be home. So anyway to continue I was with my dad and his girlfriend and my younger sister the next day (divorced parents so I do not see my dad as much on regular days). We decided to ask my girlfriend if she wanted to come so that we could all hang out for once. We went over to her house and my dad and everyone stayed in the driveway so that I could go get her. (Keep in mind that my dad has never met her dad). I knocked on the door and her mother let me in. I stood at the door and made a little smalltalk with her mom while I waited for my girlfriend to come downstairs. After a few minutes I hear her father running down the stairs. He starts screaming at me, telling me that I have "violated the curfew for the last time." He opens the door and kicks the screen door open while still screaming at me. I am in total shock. He proceeds to go outside to my dad's car. He bangs on the window and starts screaming at my dad saying something about curfew (remember they have never met before. my dad's first time meeting him consists of him screaming). My girlfriend is standing in the doorway also in total shock. My girlfriend's mother is freaking out, staring in disbelief. He went back inside and my girlfriend's mother goes to my dad (and me) apoligizing for him and trying to help. I try to tell her the reasons for why "the curfew was violated" but she doesn't even care. She already completely understands. (I'm still in a state of shock). My dad cannot believe that her father talked to a complete stranger (my dad) like that. He told her mother that he was "not impressed" with him. With the situation like this, I leave. My girlfriend calls me in a state of hysteria. I can barely understand her. After about a minute, she had to leave. Now to give a little background on her dad. He is not stable and will sometimes get into fits of rage and destroys things and is extremely verbally abusive. He also has (without telling anyone) randomly driven to the border of our state (a very long drive). Also he has gotten drunk and just wandered away. After a little bit my girlfriend's mom texted me to ask me how I was, etc. I later found out from my girlfriend that he screamed about how he wanted a divorce, at which point she told him to just leave then. He didn't leave. Now her mom had told me that this isn't because of me and that it's something else. Judging by the situation, I am inclined to agree. My girlfriend has been in total dismay all day (unsurprisingly) and I know that her mom isn't too happy about this situation. Well, that's the story. Not sure what I hope to accomplish by telling you all this but I guess just writing it down does help. Any answers are appreciated. Open Question: i really like this guy at work but i dont know if hes sincere?i really need some advice. i dont understand why i feel like this-its silly. a guy i work with who only started a month ago im sure im developing feelings for-why ? well when we work together we get on really really well-it feels like we're flirting rather than working. everytime i work with him i dont want the day to end. i go home and get really excited about working with him again. ive helped him loads being new and stuff. heres the problem. his ex wife left him 6 months ago-he took it really badly but is already casually dating someone he met 3 weeks ago. he has 4 kids 2 from first wife-teenagers-two from second-little toddlers. ive been alone for 8 months-the guy i was with used me and left me in loads of debt-so i dont want any problems. can you please help me here though-what should i do ? i catch him looking at me and then when i turn my head he looks away-he calls me nearly everyday for help and work advice and we have a LOT in common and like i said when we work together we get on amazingly well . im not a troublemaker and sure need a quiet life and dont want to get hurt but is he rebounding with this other girl ? when we talk he seems quite fragile and this is crazy but i always worry about him -whats going to happen i didnt ask for or expect these feelings-will they go away-does he like me-is he dodgy help please also he said something weird the other night-he owns 3 houses-one hes selling from his current wife but is living with a friend in her house-says he 'rents'the other properties out. i dont want to doubt him but that seemed weird.aswell please give me advice Open Question: When/how should I kiss my co-worker that I like?Ok I've never encountered this problem before. But I like this girl I work with. We've been hanging out quite a bit doing 'date' like things but it's never been classified as a 'date' (movies dinner etc). She never turns me down and I think she's into me too. But the work thing is causing me to be cautious to the point where I now I've made myself very nervous to kiss her cause if it's no I dont want things to be awkward. Open Question: I am searching for a Radio Talk show in Toronto about relationships. I remember it used to air after midnight?It was a guy who used to help people with their love problems. He also used to have his own website. He is a dating coach, as I remember. He used to have some services where he would talk guys on "how to get hookups". I just want to know what is the Radio station and the name of the show. Thank you. Open Question: i have a guy problem can you help me with it ?kay so theres this guy i dated him for two weeks he broke up with me a week ago at first when he broke up with me i didnt care but then i stuff started too happen and started to relize i really like this guy and i want him in my life he broke up with me because he started getting feelings for another girl she has a bf its just i really want him back how do i like get him back slowly im kind of shy too and hes always with his friends so like how do i go up and talk to him sorry this was kin of long idk if you under stood the thing but bassically how do you get an ex back ? thanks in advadce and sorry for my mispellings :] Open Question: What am I going to do about this guy that I love :/?A few days ago, one of my friends hooked up the guy I really like up with another girl. I didn't believe her at first, but when I asked around, I found out it was true. I was devastated. Honestly, I still think I'm in shock, because I haven't seen them together yet. The problem with this is, is that I've liked this guy for 3 years..and I was planning on telling him when I was ready, you know? But this is the first time he's had a girlfriend throughout the time I've liked him. I mean, I knew it would happen some time, I just didn't realize how upset I'd be. I'm sorry if this is going to turn out long because I'm sort of venting. I'm just worried, because this girl he's dating dates everyone in his group of "friends" and dumps them after like 2 weeks. I don't want him to get hurt. How can I deal with this? I have NO idea how I'm going to keep a straight face when I go to school on Monday. And I don't have one of those retarded crushes on him, you have to believe me. I'm in love with him, and seeing him with someone else kills me. What can I do? Open Question: Just got phished by fake Amazon.com website. Anyone get hit yet?It looks very legit. It says that my Amazon Billing Information records are out of date. (first flag went up). It says I must update my record within 24 hours. (2nd flag). "Click to update your account" Nice blue ink. Looks just like Amazon (3rd flag). Click on line to begin updating my account. (No I'm not that stupid, just want to catch them). Low and behold. http://stcman.com/ (blah, blah). What is wrong with this picture Ladies & Gentleman? First of all no one asks for your account info. Not a secure website. No http(s). Who the hell is stcman.com.? The site is very convincing. They had all the logos and typeset. Here is what burns my butt. Tried to alert a human at Amazon of this fraud and to alert their customers. Finally found a toll-free number. You guessed it. Nice woman in the Far East had no idea what I was talking about. All she wanted to know is if I had a problem with my last order. Thank you for calling Amazon. Found another # to call. I explained to the gentleman my same concerns about Amazon's customers getting the same e-mail scam. He too had a hard time getting his head around my call. He wanted to know what my problem was. I explained that the fraud department had to be alerted. He told me to e-mail my problem. What the "F". That is why I am alerting the YA community. Heads up!. The crazy thing is I got 3 e-mails from Amazon thanking me for using them and hope that they were of service. I was not some nut case. I have been a long time customer of Amazon. They do a great job. Why is there not a person in charge who can take care of a blatant breach of customer security? I ask you. Open Question: What did he mean when he said this? What can I do about it?Ok so my friend (mia) and the boy I liked since 6th grade (I'm in 9th now) were chatting in instant message on facebook and he said something like "Taylor (that's me) goes over to my house all the time" (that's because of his little sister who I'm friends with, and he lives 2 houses down). anyways so then my mia said "Do you like taylor?" and he said "As a friend, but if I were to ask her out it would be kinda weird because she's friends with my sister" So does he like me? I like him so much and I don't know what to do! I feel so stuck that the only reason he won't date me is becuase of his little sister. I like so much, I want to date him so bad, and I know this sounds awful, but I don't care if his little sister has a problem with it because I've liked him to much and too long not to do something about this. Also I don't know if he knows I like him. Please help me out! More Recent Articles |
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