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Open Question: Girls does it sound like this girl likes me? and more... Open Question: Girls does it sound like this girl likes me?Do you think she is interested in me as more than a friend? We are both 18. I have known this girl for a month and a half. We have been on "two dates" and have hung out once. Our last date was 15 days ago and at the end of the night I kissed her on the cheek and she said "awww thats sweet" and kissed me back on the cheek. I texted her on sunday after not textin her for 4 days and I said.. Me: how u been...how was ur thanksgiving?? Her: Ooo look who it isss ive been goood. thanksgiving was great. how bout uu Then I texted her on Monday and this is how our convo went..does it sound like she is interested in me from reading this? Me: Hiiiiii :) Her: Heyyyy therre. sup Me: nothinn much jus chillin. hbu how was ur dayy?? Her: Good it was a busyyy day. how was urss Me: Yea watt made it so busyy? Mine was alrite jus had hella hw to catch up on u kno Her: Yea not muchh jus school and projects n all that stuffff Me: I see I see..soo there's this big problem that me n u gotta solvee u wanna take a guess wat it iss? Her: umm no i want u to just tell me lol Me: ur no funn..the big problem is that I havent seen u for a longg time n the last time we spent time together was 2 weekss agoo..thats the big problemm we gotta solve Her: I mussst agreeee. that's a pretty big problemm Me: I kno ritee. so u agree this problem needs to be fixed immediatelyyy? Her: Most defff Me: alrite u think u'll be free anytime between fri-sun?? Gotta start plannin ahead a lil early sometimess haha Her: maybe saturday Me: alrite i can work wit thatt I was thinking about texting her next on friday to confirm plans for saturday does that sound like a good idea? We used to text every other day but I think that is getting played out. I think waiting till Friday is a good idea especially since this is the week before finals. Open Question: i need guy advice PLEASE! (why do guys do this)?:'(?Ok well there's this guy at my school & we meet each other at the mall and he told my friend he thought I was cute and we started txting each other over thanksgiving break and he told me he really likes me & he was like the sweetest guy in the world to me and he put me #1 on his myspace and put my 2 best friends on there to and we were suppose to go to the mall last Tuesday & we kept changing the dates and I told him Saturday and in Saturday me & my 2 bestfriends waaaait & we called & he said he was in the bathroom & meet him there but he wasn't he was at some kinda party his mom was throwing & he made me cryyyyy and I confronted him the next morning in txt and he said you ask me to go to the movies?! And I said noo we are going to hang out and he nvr txted back and today he took me off his top friends and stopes talking to me but at lunch he alwayyyys stares at me....what's his problem?:( Open Question: What is his problem, why won't he commit? What should I do?I have been dating this guy on and off for two years. We have known each other since we were real young and are real good friends. Recently, I have asked him if we could take a step forward into the girlfriend/boyfriend stage, we are both in college. He says he is not ready to commit, and that he needs to grow up before he commits. He says he loves me, but he can't give me what I want right now. Why can't he commit? What should I do? Open Question: i need guy advice (guys why do u do this to girls)?:'(?Ok well there's this guy at my school & we meet each other at the mall and he told my friend he thought I was cute and we started txting each other over thanksgiving break and he told me he really likes me & he was like the sweetest guy in the world to me and he put me #1 on his myspace and put my 2 best friends on there to and we were suppose to go to the mall last Tuesday & we kept changing the dates and I told him Saturday and in Saturday me & my 2 bestfriends waaaait & we called & he said he was in the bathroom & meet him there but he wasn't he was at some kinda party his mom was throwing & he made me cryyyyy and I confronted him the next morning in txt and he said you ask me to go to the movies?! And I said noo we are going to hang out and he nvr txted back and today he took me off his top friends and stopes talking to me but at lunch he alwayyyys stares at me....what's his problem?:( ohh & im asking this in polls and surveys because im trying to get a bunch of answers(: Open Question: he told me he loves me and wants to be with me but thats not the vibe im getting.. whats going on?so my boyfriend, joel, and i have been together for 11 months but before that we were really good friends for 2 years. we would talk about everything. at the time he had a girl that he had been with for almost 2 years and i had just gotten out of a relationship with a guy who cheated on me. after i broke up with that guy i asked joel "why do guys cheat?" and i remember he told me he didn't know, that he wasn't like those other guys. about 4 months passed and him and his girl were starting to have problems and they broke up. he started dating another girl almost 2 months later. she moved away for school and they were going to try to make things work. around that time we started working together, we started hanging out more, talking A LOT more, and we both stared realizing that we liked each other so he broke up with her and we started dating. for the first 8 months things were great. he was sweet and romantic. at 7 months he told me he loved me for the first time. then things just stared going wrong. i don't even remember how it started but we started argueing. the arguements turned into an everyday thing. we had our moments that we would get along but we didnt get along for the most part....like 2 months ago a friend or our started working with us. i would txt and call him and he wouldnt reply right away i would take hours before i heard back. last week we were hanging out and thing were going good again. we were getting along perfectly we were together the wolde day. i went home and i realized that he left his phone in my car and i was curious so i looked through his txt messages and i saw that they had been talkin calling eachother babe and boo, so naturally i confronted him about it. he came clean he told me that they had only been talking for about 3 weeks and that the day before that he decided to stop because he was thinking about it and realized it wasnt worth it. he said that thats why the whole day he just tried to avoid problems and arguements, thats why we had such a good day. he told me that he didnt even like her, that he just did it "for the hell of it". that since everytime we would talk we would just argue and that with her they could just talk. he teared up a little, he tried to hide it. we decided to work things out but of course i still feel paranoid, and i admit i may have been complaining about every thing since i found out... but these last few days he seems distant. i asked him if he still wanted to be with me and he said "baby i love you, i want to be with you". but thats not the vibe im getting from him at all. he only tells me he loves me after i say it... after finding out i cant stop thinking about back when he told me that he wasnt the kind of guy that cheats. so i juat want to know what other people think about the situation. it would be A LOT of help. thanks. oh and also thanks for taking the time to read i know its long =) Open Question: did i see in my dream that he was in pain in real life?ok so dreamed about my ex like 3 times in one dream i was helping him and his sister that i know is older than me but in my dream she was little for some reason, i was helping them by offering them a ride because it was raining but i ended up not helping thenm cuz mom came and i had to go. then i dream that he was sick or in pain and that i didnt care but i still wanted to know like i was being a jerk to him while everyone was like oh are you ok. and another dream i dreamed that i was dating him but that i was dating him to be nice and that i really didnt want to be with him and that i receted him for it, i guess he was going thru stuff in my dream and thats why i was with him to be nice. so in reall life like a week of having dreams of him (for no reason like i had not thinked of him in quite some time) i turned on the tv and i saw him on the news giving an interview, something bad had happened to his sister and he was having hugge problems in his familly. so is it odd that i had this dreams? what could they mean? no no no no the last part where i say that i saw him giving an interview and the thing about his familly and sister happened in real life and i am wondering if i dreamed about him because i could some how tell he was in pain in real life Open Question: My boyfriend, a married woman from his work..what would you do?I have been dating this guy for about a month now. So anyways we've had our problems. Just a couple nothing major. With the exception of now. He gave me the password to his facebook. (You already know where this is leading) So a couple of days ago I decided to get on it. I haven't logged on before. But he had been acting really weird as of late. So when I get on it I go to his inbox. At first glance I didn't see anything suspicious. I started feeling like the jealous girlfriend and was about to log out when something caught my eye. At the very top of the page was a woman he was writing that looked very familiar. So I clicked on her link and found that she works at the same place where myself and my now ex boyfriend met. (I don't work there anymore) So I got curious and decided to read it. Man..do I wish I hadn't. This woman is 26 years old. She is married and has 2-3 children. Herself,my boyfriend and her husband all work at the same place. Well the message consisted of the both of them flirting badly and then it excelled into them talking about having sex. She asked him if he could keep a secret. And he said condom or no condom. He was telling her he wanted her when he was sitting next to me at thanksgiving. She was saying how her husband just doesn't satisfy her anymore. The worst part was that I found out he got head in the parking lot from another girl that was the company slut. He said "So I enjoyed that kiss." I copied all of the messages and saved them. I wrote him a text saying "So are you going to tell (blank) that you plan on f-ing his wife?" He works 3rd so he didn't write me back till before he had to go to work. But he said "why just because we're friends means I want to fuck her?" I told him that friends of mine that work there told me that they had kissed and were planning on doing the deed. He said whatever belive what you want. But I also told him that the woman forwarded me all of the emails. lol. I wrote the skank too. I said to her that if I was a vindictive person I would fk up her whole world. But he's not worth doing that to someones life. All my friends told me that I should forward the emails between my boyfriend and her to her husband. I haven't and I won't. That would be lower than low. (It is fun to think about though) So I got back on his facebook late last night and saw that they were still writing eachother. She said so does that mean that we're forgetting yesterday? He said Idk yet I don't want to cause any problems with your husband. lol. But the part that's most making me step back and go wtf is that, she asked him if we were gong to "work it out" and he said no she broke up with me. She responded awwe poor baby then he wrote back "tell me about it" Did he expect me to stay with him after that shit? wow... Also he had been lying to her too. He told her he didn't have a girlfriend. So basically I've got into his head and have made him think that she sent me the emails. I've also got in her head and let her know that he's a liar. What should I do from here? I want to get revenge so bad. But not in a sinister way...I don't want to ruin lives I just want to make him sweat a little bit for hurting me. Open Question: should I break up with my boyfriend?I have been dating with my current boyfriend for almost 3 years, but there is a problem, he is not very romantic, the last time we watch movies in the theater was 2 years ago (spider man 3). we hang out about 3-4 times a years, I think, and most of those times we go to his friends' house, I had fun but not with my boyfriend but his friends instead. another problem that he always criticized me that I'm fat. I admit that I gained weight over the summer, but i still feel hurt. on Thanksgiving's Day, we both went to his friends' house for dinner, and his friends told me that I was fat,, (right now I'm 120 lbs with the height of 5 ft), later on, my boyfriend told me to get diet, and I told him, "I rather die than diet." I know it's funny. I just don't understand that why the appearance is so important to guys, doesn't he love me for who I am, not my figure? if I get fatter, then he won't love me no more? I told him that I don't criticize his figure ( he is so skinny) then why he does, he said nothing. I told him that "then I should date some guy who is fatter than me, so he won't criticize me" and my boyfriend said "go ahead." do you think my boyfriend truly loves me? because I don't feel like he understands me at all. when I am around him, I don't know he feels happy or not, I'm the only one visit him every week, every Saturday. He doesn't even care to give me a call in the week. I don't know whether I'm important to him or not. Please help me out, what should I do about this relationship? Open Question: How do I tell my boyfriend to get a job and stop playing his video games?I've been dating the love of my life for a year and a half. We have tons of fun together, we're in love, and we've gone through a lot. He understands me and comforts me..pretty much he's the love of my life. There's only one problem: he's 22 and doesn't have a job. He went to a very good high school but ran into some financial trouble so he went to community college. He then got a job and said he wouldn't have time for this school semester. A month ago he was laid off due to cut-backs. I'm about to go to college and feel like he isn't taking his education seriously. I'm afraid he's slipping back to his old bad habits. How do I confront him about how I feel and ask him to be a little more proactive without coming off as a snooty bitch? Any help would be most appreciated. Thanks. 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