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Open Question: Girls, I need your help! pics included, 5 stars best answer, plus I'll love you forever ;)? and more... Open Question: Girls, I need your help! pics included, 5 stars best answer, plus I'll love you forever ;)?I've been friends with this guy for a while, and I think he's sooo cute. I can't tell if he likes me or not. How can I be sure if he's into me, and what should I do to get his attention. He's hard to read because he's really sweet with all of his friends, so I can't tell if he's flirting with me or just being nice. Here's a little about me: I'm 22 and studying psychology. I'm social and outgoing, and I LOOOOOVE music and movies. I think musicians are way hot, but I also need intelligent conversation, so that rules out 99% of them LOL. Also, I'm 5'7, so I like a guy who's at least 6ft (I don't mean to be shallow, but if I'm in heels I still want my guy to have a couple inches over me). I'm usually a straight forward and fearless girl, but for some reason around him I can't help being shy. A little about him: He's 23 and in med school. He also is an amazing singer and guitarist with a deep crooning voice kind of like Ville Valo's. He's such a sweetheart and so much fun. He can be a little weird and quirky sometimes, but it's in that interesting and cute way. He's 6'1, so basically he fits all my criteria hahaha :P The only problems are: Lots of girls flirt with him. He's super busy all the time between school and music and sports, etc. He's really smart and charming so he can be very persuasive (even when we play Monopoly he always seems to get the best trades and win the game LOL), so I'm a little worried about losing my balance in the relationship. I think he secretly enjoys trouble because he has so many stories of shenanigans he and his brothers did while growing up (they almost sound like Malcolm in the Middle episodes LOL). Here are some pictures of him. Let me know what you think. Would you date him, or does he sound like too much trouble? Thanks! :) http://i850.photobucket.com/albums/ab69/nadia22j/Photo156.jpg http://i850.photobucket.com/albums/ab69/nadia22j/Photo175.jpg Open Question: Complicated on my end of the relationship?I've been dating my boyfriend for just two years now. In the beginning of our relationship he sorta cheated on me. Sorta being because it was stuff he said and did through text message with an ex girlfriend. I still consider it cheating, but I was so into him and took him back. I'm glad I did, I love him more than anything now, but he felt really insecure about the situation and didn't wanna talk about it ever again, so I feel like I didn't really get closure. Ever since then, everything has been perfect. However, I've been feeling lately that he's just slacking. He never offers to pay for me for anything even though he has no problems with money, he'd prefer that I drive to his house when I have absolutely no gas instead of being a gentlemen and picking me up every once in a while, he seems so oblivious to so much because that's just the kind of guy he is. He doesn't really pay attention to a lot of detail so he won't be able to tell if I'm mad or sad and he's constantly been playing video games lately, if he's not with me then that's what he's doing, which pretty much means we never talk much outside of when we hang out. While all this is happening, he says he's head over heals for me and thinks that he's being the best boyfriend in the world and treating me like a princess when I feel that the more our relationship goes on, the less he acts like he did in the beginning. I know this stuff happens in relationships, but it makes me not happy or excited to see him anymore. I mean I'm madly in love with him and I don't know what I'd do without him, but he just doesn't treat me like the special person in his life anymore. It's a very confusing situation to me and I don't know what to do. But, lately I've been having a ton of dreams of him breaking up with me or wanting to be with another girl. They feel so real and I wake up from them literally crying and then for the rest of the day I'm actually mad at him for the dream and I can't help myself. I feel that if i go and whine to him about how I wish he'd be more attentive and gentlemanly then I'll just sound like a stuck up, nagging girl friend. What do I do? Open Question: How can I tell if this girl I used to date still likes me? or is serious when she says she wants to be friends?We dated romantically for three months, things between were literally amazing and she has said that to me. We get along great, make each other die laughing, and have so much chemistry you can literally feel it. We've done everything couples would do romantically and all her friends love me. In the months while we dated we spoke how we liked each and how we saw qualities in each other that would eventually lead to a relationship, met her parents, went on small vacations with her, I dont think I can remember one time we didnt have alot of fun together. Little bit after the end of our third month however I noticed her getting distant, being shady, not calling me back or answering text messages. Then she hit me with the bomb, "I need some space and time to myself." Having been in this exact situation before, I knew it was best to just give it to her to sort her life out. She eventually decided she wanted us to be great friends and she told me I was amazing and she wanted me in her life. I was hurt at first but cool with it and moved on with my life because I knew we had something and even if she was denying it at the moment shed come around. Well month and half later of minimal contact I ran into her out, and she literally jumped on me. She had been drinkin but said things to me like "dont leave here, dont go" called me " lover" and "baby." I thought nothing of it and went on with my night because she had been drinking. The very next day (thanksgiving) she sent me a message wishing me happy holidays and how good it was to see me and she was sorry for not getting a good chance to talk to me. Then she went on to say she was going to be around this weekend if I wanted to hang out with her. Me still harboring some feelings for her, agreed. We went to a concert in the city and things once again were AMAZING. We kissed, laughed, held hands, walked the city and she even said it felt like we never stopped talking. We laughed about past times, made references to future plans together and just had fun. When i dropped her off we kissed good night, and she asked me to text her when i got home. she messaged me the next day telling me how much fun she had blah blah blah. My problem here is, she fell off the radar again, i barely spoke to her the following week, asked her what she was doing the past weekend and she knew i was going ask her to hang out again so she immediately said she had plans. I guess you can say she's shy by nature but when she's with me she's herself and outgoing, which is why I don't understand why she would be shady to me all over again. When we stopped talking the first time she made it very clear that where she was at mentally had NOTHING to do with me, which I believe because of the amazing time we have together. .... With all that having been said, heres where I think it all stems.....this girl also has been in back to back long term bad relationships, abusive ones... she has very little trust in guys and in people in general. She was cheated on and lied to for 2 years previous to me dating her....She told me that night of the concert, she has a "phobia of getting close to someone." And I've noticed whenever i start showing interest in her again or when she catches feelings again she falls off the map. It hurts because I thought after all this time I would have gained some of her trust, which Im sure I have, but not enough to keep her from getting scared off. Were her actions and things that transpired that night in the city enough to assume that she likes me more than a friend still and whatever she said when we stopped talking was a defense mechanism? She knows im a great guy, but isn't trustworthy enough in guys or people yet to let her guard down. Is there any hope in gaining someones trust who was hurt REAL bad? Should I move on? I know there is something between us, Im soo happy when i'm with her but hurt when she flakes out on me, should i stick it out and risk being hurt again.I dont want to pressure her at all, i want her trust me naturally. I also dont want to be her fall back plan which is why we stopped talking, but i feel like we have something but are taking 2 steps forward and 3 back...Can anyone shed some light on what she might be thinking or what I should do? Open Question: Christmas/birthday present for my boyfriend?Okay, so I'm dreadful at deciding for presents for men...especially important men. Never knew what to get my dad when he was alive, and now I have no idea what to get my boyfriend. Same problem last year. -We've been dating for a year and a half -He likes video games and sports, but I'd rather not go the video game route and I wouldn't know what to get him, sports-wise -He's turning 21 in less than a week; I'm under 21 -Present's got to be fairly inexpensive (less than $50, if possible) because I went maybe a little too pricey on the anniversary present -I want it to be special...maybe something I can make? -He's a classics major and spent last semester abroad in various Mediterranean countries -He's in a fraternity, but he's not really the "fraternity type" -He's got already got a nice wallet, belt, buckle, and neck-ties...rather not go the clothes route anyway Any ideas? Open Question: a problem about dating ?! Help?im 20 years old and there seems to be something wrong with me...i mean i never had a girlfriend ..not even a date....there are lots of chicks whom i like to date but i fail each time...i dunno...i need some1 to tell me how to make a girl into you...im really not good at that all !! i mean i talk with girls online but they seem to be not interested in me !! , is it because i dunno how to talk to them or what ?....like what do i need to tell them to make them think about me differently ??? is it because of how i look or maybe they think im a loser or what ?! hehe im really pissed ! so the QUESTION is : How to have a girlfriend or make a girl love you ? i will really appreciate the answers ! thanks for your help ! Open Question: Love triangle problem here!?so i have a boyfriend, he's my first love, we're in love and that's that. i'm 13. (please don't tell me i'm too young, i know what i'm doing and i know my feelings.) we've been dating for about 9 months. and then, another guy has to come into the situation. he's 16, REALLY hot, really nice, and really funny. he's been texting me and saying that he likes me and that i'm beautiful and that he loves me and all these promises he's keeping with me and stuff. he has a girlfriend. he knows that i know he has a girlfriend, and he knows i have a boyfriend. i'm not breaking up with my boyfriend, because i love him. and please don't say "stop talking to the other guy" because we have to see each other because we're doing this thing together with other people. (hard to explain.) what do i do? Open Question: What should I do....?I went to a club with a group of my crush's friends because he wanted me to go have fun, when I get back everything is cool, like I passed the test. Later when he takes me home and I invite him in andhe says he's too tired but I think its something else so I ask questions and he gets a bit annoyed. I do it on purpose to get answers and it doesn't work, so I stay in the car and he gets upset that I'm still in the car(whole plan to agitate and get answers) but it doesn't work. We have been dating for a month and I really liked him but feel as though from doing that it has scared him away and makes him think less of me when I wwas questioning to clarify if he really liked me he finally said that he does care but after what was happening he doesn't. U think I messed it up for myself? Should I apoligize? What should I do, talk to his friends to help mend the problem? Honest answers please Open Question: I Need A Pop Up Blocker?!!??!?!?!?My computer has pop ups that open in new windows. It blocks some of them (It tells me in a yellow bar at the top of the screen that a pop up has been blocked from a site). I need a pop up blocker I can download for free off the internet. I have Windows Vista. Also My mom goes to a lot of dating sites which I think is a big problem. I have a lot of pop ups for dating sites and one of them was porno which i don't like on my computer. From Facebook I have all kinds of pop ups for IQ tests. My mom has opened a couple of them. I also have pop ups from Befiddle search engine that pop ups no matter what site I go to. Can someone please help me. I really need a pop up blocker. I can't afford my computer to crash. Its not Befiddle its Bediddle Open Question: i broke up with my girlfriend but it we got back togeather... My girlfriend broke up with me what should i do?So in a nut shell..I dated a girl for 10 months...at the end of August I broke up with confused and not knowing what i want.... But i still loved her very much... She tryed everything to talk to me text messages,facebook,myfriends,my mom.calling me..making me jealious . Then in the middle of september it was my birthday she brought me over a birthday card...saying she misses me and that she still cares.... after that i thought she really did love me..we started to talk more in october we started dating again..We seemed really good and strong togeather..and told eachother everything...Then in Novemeber i had surgery i had to take all of Nov off of work to heal she was here from the day i got home helping me with everything teddy bear.. get well card.. nothing out of the usual the odd bickering and little arguments. we would text eachother when she wasnt here i love you what are you how are you feeling.....then about a week ago we are out anabout we get her car fixed we go out for dinner come home watch a movie... where romantic togeather then the next day umm i am having my aunt and grandma comming over before work so i wont be able to see you... no problem i said! the next day.... she texted me saying she was out with her mom. ... no worries then later text normal what are you doing.. i cant come over i got clean the appt is mess my room. next day she textes me sayng her and her mom and grandma are at the hospital for her grandmas knee... then its starts... so i call her and i am like whats up did i do something wrong shes like i am getting lots of hours at work iam having family issues i am stressed out i am like okay well i am here for you what ever you need were in relationship lets get through this... she gives me the cold shoulder i need to be alone iam really busy with work..so we get in a big argument and then now she wont really talk to me and when she does she says she busy or shes at work.. i ask her to meet for coffie she say ya okay the next day i ask when she is free to meet up and shes like i dont really know iam working...So when i question her iam like whats the deal here whats the truth i thought you love me and cared about me telling her how i feel i miss her etc etc ...she doesnt respond back at all Open Question: Should I break up with my girlfriend?We've been dating for almost a year but had frequent problems. Guys would always come up to her and they'd start flirting.I checked her phone today and she gets texts with guys that always ask her out. She says she only likes me but I can't tell if she's lying or not. Also I always get her in trouble so I feel bad and I think she'd be better without me. It's kinda hard for me to trust her because she held a guys hand before for no reason and she just left me to go hang out with some1 else More Recent Articles
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